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Richard James "Rich" Palmisano

1945 - 2021

Richard James "Rich" Palmisano obituary, 1945-2021, Fenton, MO

BORN

1945

DIED

2021

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Jay B. Smith Funeral Homes, LLC. - Fenton

777 Oakwood Drive (at Hwy 141)

Fenton, Missouri

Richard Palmisano Obituary

Palmisano, Richard "Rich" James

75, of Fenton, MO, born on June 1, 1945, in St. Louis, MO, died surrounded by his children on Wednesday, February 17, 2021.

Rich was a proud Vietnam veteran, serving 2 tours during the Vietnam War as a member of the 1st Cavalry Division of the Army. During this time in the Army, he served in the infantry, delivering arms and munitions to American soldiers for battle. He earned several awards for his service, including The National Defense Service Medal, Army Commendation Medal, and the Bronze Star Medal. He was a marksman shooter, earning a rank of Expert M14 in this skill. After his honorable discharge in the Army, where he achieved the rank of SP5 Sergeant, he went on to begin a 31-year career with the Terminal Railroad Police in East St. Louis, IL. During his careers in the Army and with the Terminal Railroad, Rich saved the lives of at least 2 individuals, and he was honorably recognized for his bravery. He retired from the Terminal Railroad in 2005.

Rich was a generous and outgoing person, and could easily make friends wherever he went. Everyone knew who he was at the places he frequented, and he would never hesitate to help a friend in need. He loved hanging out with friends and family, and would always tend to cook enough food to "feed an Army" whenever he was in the kitchen. His home was always open to all, and he loved having fun at a good get together. He volunteered countless hours with the American Legion Post 400 in Fenton, and could always be counted to assist with their Lenten fish fry Fridays every year, or to serve up a cold beer.

His greatest accomplishment was his family, having raised two children (Anthony and Lisa) with his loving wife and partner, Pietrina. Together, they lived and traveled around the world, and were blessed with 50 years of marriage. He loved talking about his grandchildren, and they would light up when their beloved "Paw Paw" came into the room. His generous spirit, belly laughs, and warm hugs will be missed dearly by all.

He was preceded in death by his parents, Edward and Antionette (nee DiMaggio) Palmisano; and brother Michael Palmisano.

Rich is survived by his wife, Pietrina Palmisano (nee Caltagirone); his children Anthony (Rachel) Palmisano of Fenton, MO, Lisa (Jeremy) Greathouse of Fenton, MO; his grandchildren Noah and Grace Greathouse, and Jack, Mark, and Andrew Palmisano; his brother Edward (Dotty) Palmisano of Collinsville, IL; his sister Aggie (Kevin) Doe of West Alton, MO; and his brother Terry (Liz) Palmisano of St. Peters, MO; Goddaughter Kerrie Lynn (Jay) Garrett of Foristell, MO and Godson Steven Jesuit of Elgin, IL, as well as many cousins, nieces, and nephews.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the American Legion Fenton Post 400, or to Shriners Hospitals for Children.

Services: Visitation will be held on Thursday, February 25, 2021from 4 to 8 pm at JB Smith Funeral Home, Fenton, MO. Rich will be laid to rest at Jefferson Barracks Cemetery, with private burial services for the immediate family.



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Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Feb. 21, 2021.

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Robyn & Pete Brockmeier

February 25, 2021

Rich and his wife, Pat, have been our neighbors for 33 years. We will miss Rich and his lawn mowing. He was always friendly and happy to see you.

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Jack Metcalf

February 24, 2021

Ed, Ag, & Terry, I'm sorry to hear of Rich's passing. My prayers are with you and your family members.

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Stan Nelms (VVA Chapter 1028)

February 21, 2021

Richard was a veteran. He wore the uniform. He did his duty. He sacrificed his youth and endured the separation from loved ones. He served his country with selfless devotion. Now his battles are over. He is gone but not forgotten; for he will always have the undying gratitude of those he served and the respect of those who served with him. May he rest in eternal peace.

Wally and Pat Sieges

February 21, 2021

Our thoughts and prayers are with you. Never knew our neighbor and friend was such a hero. Thanks to God he brought us such friends in Rich and Pat, friend and mentor to our son Tim, and son Tony as best friend to our son Mike (and godfather) to our grandson Luke.

Charles and Jennifer Hinde

February 21, 2021

God speed to Rich and our thoughts and prayers to his family. We will miss our late morning/lunch talks and visits. As stated, Rich was a friend to all and would always help whenever and with whatever was needed. He will be missed. Love you Rich. Until Valhalla.

Carmelina Ternullo Grimi

February 21, 2021

Pat so sorry for your family´s loss.

Jim & Pauline Dickof

February 21, 2021

Pat, Rich was a great friend and we will truly miss him.

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777 Oakwood Drive (at Hwy 141), Fenton, MO 63026

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