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Robert Ryland Irvin

1943 - 2022

Robert Ryland Irvin obituary, 1943-2022, Hartsville, MO

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Robert Irvin Obituary

Irvin, Robert Ryland

Following three courageous battles against cancer, Robert Ryland Irvin, Jr. passed away on November 20, 2022 surrounded by family. He is survived by his loving wife Helen Wyvone Roberts; his daughter Elizabeth Loree Roosz (Wayne); his sons Matthew Ryland Irvin (Leah) and Robert Drew Irvin (Jill); grandchildren (Savanah Elizabeth Roosz, Ryland Jefferson Irvin, Wilson Davis Irvin, Samantha Jane Irvin, and Anita Josephine Irvin); and, his brothers (Patrick,

Hamilton "Hank" and Sean).

Born in Hartsville, South Carolina in 1943, Robert quickly demonstrated to his parents that their first born was destined to become a builder of cities. Sadly, his father passed away when young "Doodle" was only 13 years old; Hartsville Policemen stepped up to provide guidance and support (he was a licensed dispatcher by the age of 14); those experiences, coupled with his years as a Boy Scout, undoubtedly enamored him to a life of public service which began immediately following his graduation from Clemson University in 1966 as a Second Lieutenant in the US Army (ROTC). After final preparations were made at Ft. Carson in Colorado Springs, Robert, his infantry unit, and their mascot (a Coca-Cola glugging black bear) deployed to Vietnam where he honorably and bravely served as a logistics officer, returning home a Captain (without the bear). After teaching Military Science at Clemson and momentarily considering life as a career soldier, Robert decided to return to his principal passion - City Management - by taking on progressively more responsible positions in various South Carolina cities throughout the 1970s including Assistant Chief of Police (Hartsville), Director of Public Works (Florence), Administrative Assistant to the City Manager (Greenville) before becoming the first City Administrator in Union when he also earned a Master's Degree from the University of South Carolina. In 1978 Robert moved his family to St. Peters, Missouri where he and his team of local government professionals proudly guided the City from a population less than 1,000 residents to over 50,000 in his almost 20-year tenure - overseeing the installation of miles upon miles of new streets, sidewalks, sewers, water system infrastructure, along with a new municipal government complex and the award-winning $20M St. Peters Rec-Plex. His final 6 years of public service were spent managing the Village of Barrington, Illinois, but this was not his last; in retirement Robert went on to volunteer for his local US Selective Service Board and procure, repair, and gift emergency back-up power generators to public safety agencies in underserved areas in the greater St. Louis area.

His passion for utility was only eclipsed by his love of family. Robert loved watching his grandchildren perform on athletic fields and on stage, and flourish in their chosen fields; he cherished his wife, Helen, for her intelligence, wisdom and endless ability to nurture. Robert, renowned for his ability to repair most anything, enjoyed all genres of film and was our hero - not because he once leapt over a church pew to provide life-saving CPR to the organist who collapsed while playing or was a bronze-star awarded combat veteran, but because he taught us to embrace hard work, be curious and grateful, measured in the things we do and say, and to be able to laugh at ourselves.

Services: Visitation will be held on Sunday, December 4, 2022 from 3 p.m. to 5 p.m. at Bopp Chapel in Kirkwood, MO with a private interment at Jefferson Barracks National Cemetery. In lieu of giving flowers, the family asks that those who are able instead donate to the Siteman Cancer Center, MSC 1247-414-2100, 7425 Forsyth Blvd., St. Louis, MO 63105 or online at siteman.wustl.edu/tribute. Please indicate the gift is in memory of Robert R. Irvin by writing a memo in your check.

Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch on Nov. 27, 2022.

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Andie Bowen Boschert

November 30, 2022

I have so many fond memories of Robert. He was a lot of great things. Most of all, he was a role model to kids that turned out to become amazing people...a teacher, a coach, an administrator, a business owner, a hero...and for that he has left a legacy.

Adrienne Bowen McGuire

November 30, 2022

For twenty years, you loved, you guided, and you challenged me. You took 5 year old me and showed her that there was hope, there was promise and that men can be kind.

Marrying my mom allowed me to become who I am today, grow my family and look forward to a future that without you would most likely would have been so so different.

Although in recent years we have not connected, I find solace in knowing that the lessons you taught me in my most formative years, live on through the words I share with my own children.

My heart goes out to your family (that was once mine too) for the pain and sadness they feel but last night in the midst of chaos, I smelt it...The scent of granny Irvin´s house in the fall, the paper mill with faint scent of burning leaves and knew that you had found peace. I will forever love you.

Kirk Hutchison

November 29, 2022

Prayers of Peace to your family at this time of loss. I always enjoyed chatting with him when he came into the bank. He is missed by all.

John Becher

November 28, 2022

I cherish the time I spent Robert and Helen at the City of St Peters. Robert was a visionary who stoked creativity and inspired me and others to accomplish the unthinkable on a daily basis. He definitely was a builder not only of cities - but communities. Helen, I am who I am today because of our friendship over the years. It made my day to see you both at my retirement. My heart is saddened by the news and know that I think of you often with a memory of a project, conversation, or his goofy holiday skeleton tie. To his family - hold onto the good stuff. His big heart, wisdom, and sense of humor was one of a kind. My thoughts are with you all during this difficult time.

Earl Hansford Grubbs

November 28, 2022

Another distinguished American Patriot and Clemson Alumnus now rests in honored glory as God's newest angel. I knew Robert from our CU days as we were in ROTC and the military flight program. Robert was a standup military officer who honorably served his country during the Vietnam conflict and thereafter made significant contributions to the betterment of his community. Robert was the consummate Clemson gentleman "who needed no introduction" and performed his military duties with honor and distinction and lived by the creed "Duty-Honor-Country!" May God's loving hand guide each family member as they long remember the sterling and everlasting legacy of this true American hero. Earl Grubbs, CU 67 and retired Army Officer

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