Ruth Schmidt
April 13, 2009
Paul, It's been a while since I wrote in the guestbook. I think of you often not just at work but other times as well. You are such a strong person. Your wife sees you from heaven and thinks what a wonderful choice she made when she chose you as her husband. She has entrusted you with her greatest accomplishments, her children.
May God bless all of you and make your life a little easier every day.
Always
erica landholt
April 9, 2009
paul, I got an e-mail about the trivia night due to my daughter playing for Norco and knowing who you are from school I looked further and tumbled onto this website. It is such a beautiful thing you have done. your words express the love that you two had together. I am sorry for your loss of a best friend and lover. stay strong your children need you!
dylan drew
January 24, 2009
mom i know we fought alot but i still love you and always will and i miss you alot
DeLora King
January 21, 2009
Paul,
I know this is hard because I lost my daughter the same way..And she left 3 children behind and the youngest named Aiden its been 2 years since she left us and each day I think of her and so does her kids but the picture and the storys you tell them help alot..
Ruth Schmidt
January 21, 2009
Paul,
I didn't get to know your wife, yet after reading all this, I know she must have been a wonderful person. Your children are now "your reason" to keep going. May God bless you and watch over you and yours!
Colleen Michals
January 10, 2009
Paul and kids,
I am so proud of you and how generous you are being with sharing this time with all of us. This is an amazing tribute to Tabitha and I hope it uplifts you a bit as you read these entries. And to think, I didn't know how you two had met! I just remember you bringing her to my house during a party and I could tell you were serious :) Gods blessings (and big hugs), Colleen
Tracy Heer
January 10, 2009
Paul,
It was very touching to read your story and to feel your love for Tabitha through your words. Your family will remain in my prayers!
Tracy
Lisa Phillips
January 9, 2009
Hello Paul and Family,
I have read many obituaries and I must say, although I am always saddened and touched by the stories I read your story touched me the most. Stay strong and know that Tabitha is well now and you must continue on and stay strong for your children because that is what she would want and from reading your story she was an awesome Mother and the love of your life. As time go by each moment will get better. Celebrate her life and keep those beautiful memories you and your family shared. May the Lord bless and keep you through this difficult time. Just remember where your strength comes from and he will see you through.
A new long distance friend,
Lisa Phillips,
Simsbury, CT.
Rebecca Ruvalcaba
January 6, 2009
Dear Paul,
There is no words I can tell you to try to change anything. If there was trust me I would tell you a million words just to make you feel better. However, I give you props for hanging through such a hard time and just from what I read tells me alot about you. It sounds like Tabitha was such a wonderful women inside and outside. You, both seemed so happy together. Destiny has its reasons of why things happen. "But someday all of us will meet once again"....My Prayers go out to you and your family....Keep those beautiful kids strong because I as a mother that I am, Tab only wants whats best for her babies and that is happiness. And only you as a great father that you are can do so. May the Lord Bless you & hang in there for those beautiful kids that Mrs. TabItha blessed you with.
Your New friend,
Becky Ruvalcaba,
El Paso, Tx.
Juli Capo
January 5, 2009
Dear Paul, Tab "gave" what she was supposed to "give" and "did" what she was supposed to "do" and "learned" what she was supposed to "learn" and "taught" what she was supposed to "teach" during her life's journey. Your journey goes on here on earth and the two of you will meet again someday and continue another journey together. Until then, Her light and energy and love go on in your heart and the hearts of your children. Life will go on and it will be good, GOD hears ALL the prayers that are being said for you and your family. Keep your chin up. God Bless
Juliann, Pottsville, PA
your unknown friend
January 5, 2009
Dear Paul,
I don't know you and I didn't know Tabitha but I read your Story and I am deeply touched. I will prayer for you and your children. You sound like a beautiful person and I know you will survive this. Tabitha is looking down upon you with pride. Please remember the little things and the and all the small words that didn't seem to mean much at the time. I wish you a lifetime of good from this day forward and an understanding that only you can feel some day soon! When ever you feel that hand on your shoulder know that it is "Tab" telling you she is with you!
Jodie Mack
December 26, 2008
Paul,
I am so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Stay strong.
Tracy (Baker) Heer
December 17, 2008
Paul & Family,
You are all in my thoughts and prayers. I pray for strength and peace through this difficult time.
Eric Urban
December 13, 2008
Paul,
Sorry to hear of your loss and know that if you need anything, Ann and I are willing to help. Stay strong.
Eric and Ann Urban
Jensine Bourman
December 12, 2008
Paul, You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers. Not only during this time of grieving, but always.
G Damico
December 12, 2008
Paul, You are in my thoughts and prayers. Give the kids a big hug. You are strong! One day at a time.
marcia stevenson
December 11, 2008
my thoughts and prayers are with the family
parent from lawson school that Aidan attends
Della Blecha
December 11, 2008
Paul, children and Sheryl,
I am so sorry for your loss and will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
paul drew
December 10, 2008
To everyone--thank you so much for the kind words, thoughts, and prayers. People ask, "How are you holding up so well?" It's because of all of you. Thank you from the bottom of my heart and Tabitha's also.
Kristy Drew
December 10, 2008
Paul, Dylan, Kyle, Aidan and Lexi
I am deeply saddened by your loss and my heart goes out to you. Please know that we are always here for you and we love you all very much.
John Atwood
December 10, 2008
Paul and children, David and Sheryl,
The loss of Tabitha in our presence will be something that remains forever as a void. The moments shared with her are now very prescious memories. These memories will never be lost. Cherish them on a daily basis. My prayers are with you.
James & Lorraine Drew
December 10, 2008
Dylan, Kyle, Aidan, & Alexis ( Lexi ) you know mama & papa are always here for you! Be good & always remember the good times you had with mom. We love you & your dad so much. Love,MawMaw & Pawpaw
Stacey Jenkins
December 10, 2008
Paul and Kids,
I am sorry for your loss. Just know that you guys will always have that wonderful guardian angel now looking over all of you. Tab was the sweetest person and I know she will be missed greatly. She will always have a special place in my heart!
Love you guys,
Stac and kids
Steve Drew
December 10, 2008
Paul just letting you know i am here for you and the kids. I am really sorry for what has happened and feel deeply sadened for the loss. I love you and the kids very much.
Steve Drew
December 10, 2008
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.
Matt and Michelle Ford
December 10, 2008
We are so sad to hear about Tabitha. Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.
Stephanie Gerlette
December 10, 2008
Paul,
I know it's been hard but you'll make it through this. I am here for you and the kids always! I love you guys and I'll miss Tab so much.
Steph
Jon & Lori Chiodini
December 10, 2008
Paul and family,
We were deeply saddened to hear the news. Our hearts go out to you and your entire family. Please accept our condolences in this time of loss, and let us know if we can help with anything.
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