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Terence Baer Obituary

Baer, Terence Michael Terry (born February 19, 1955) passed away Monday, March 14, 2016 at the age of 61. Terry was preceded in death by his parents, Cubby and Pat. He is survived by his loving wife of 23 years, Mimi, who was his best and greatest friend; his adoring son, Jonathan; and his elder siblings, Teddy and Patti. Terry was a steadfast friend and a staunch colleague; he will be sorely missed by those who knew him. A lifetime St. Louisan, Terry graduated from Whitfield School, and attained his master's degree from Washington University in St. Louis. Terry was a man of principle-he lived his life according to the values of respect and service. He was a former president of the Rotary Club of Clayton and Ladue, longtime board member of Mathews-Dickey Boys' and Girls' club of St. Louis and the Campbell House St. Louis. He was President of Blacktie Missouri, where he found his niche in a business he loved that allowed him to give back to the community he loved. Terry's family extends their gratitude to the doctors and nurses in the CVR at Missouri Baptist Medical Center for their remarkable service and care. Services: Visitation at The Lupton Chapel, Friday March 18, from 5-7PM. Service at Ladue Chapel PC, Saturday March 19, beginning at noon. In lieu of flowers, the family would appreciate memorials to the Rotary Club, Mathews-Dickey, and the Campbell House.
Published by St. Louis Post-Dispatch from Mar. 17 to Mar. 18, 2016.

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Sheryl (Bicknell) Kovalik

August 16, 2016

Mimi, Jonathan & Family,

My heartfelt sympathies! Terry "T-Bear", was the most kind and good person! We were at Middlebury together and always spent some time at reunions sharing. Another entry here called him "gentlemanly", which I will echo and add that was really rare in college! He will be missed!

Duane Wilcox

August 3, 2016

My deepest sympathies to Mimi and the family. I graduated from Middlebury with Terry and worked with him at WRMC. I always enjoyed catching up at reunions. Please take comfort in knowing that God is doing more for Terry than any can desire or pray for.

Cheryl Holman

March 27, 2016

My deepest sympathies to you, Mimi and Jonathan. May your memories comfort you as well as the knowledge that Terry was deeply loved and will be missed by many. Sincerely, Cheryl Holman

Lori 'Salamone' Brown

March 22, 2016

Mimi and Jonathan, as I look at Terry's photo here, it doesn't seem he changed at all from the young man I knew back in the 80's. We were friends and colleagues in the Ad Club 'Lamplighters'. Our diverse group of youth were a happy and fun loving group, and 'T-Baer' is fondly remembered as one of the most gracious and caring and gentlemanly of all of us. We were finding our way into the big world of Advertising and Marketing and we all went our separate ways, but of all the people in our little group, I have always remembered his smile and kind soul. May God give you love and strength at this time.

March 21, 2016

All of us here at the Nine Network are saddened by this news. Our thoughts are with the Baer family. Terry was a kind and generous man. He will be remembered with great fondness for his wonderful way. He will be missed by all of us.
Jack Galmiche
President and CEO
Nine Network of Public Media

Terri Gates

March 20, 2016

I am so sorry for your loss. I had the privilege of working with Terry through Blacktie. He was extremely generous in covering events at Channel 9, an organization the Baer family was instrumental in launching. He was a genuinely good and kind person. His passing is a true loss to the community.

Carol Pollnow

March 20, 2016

Words cannot express how sad we are for your loss. We only hope memories of Terry can comfort you as you grieve. He was one of the kindest people we knew - always a happy, joyous, smile on his face no matter how long it had been since he had seen you! He will truly be missed by many. Much love to you and your son. Peter and Carol

March 19, 2016

Mimi, I was looking up someone else and saw Terry's name, much to my shock! I can't tell you how sad and sorry I feel...I adored all of you when we met at your new house and continue to think the same to this moment. Ohhhhh, how my heart goes out to you. Am so sorry I wasn't there today but I had no idea.
Please know you're in my thoughts and prayers and if there's anything I can do for you I'd be happy to help. This is truly a tragedy.
Peace and be well, Jinny Panton

Maryann Manion

March 19, 2016

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family. Terry was an old friend - one of my first in St. Louis. We are so sorry to hear this. He will be missed by all. Maryann and Lang Manion

Patti Holthaus

March 19, 2016

I am sad to hear this news of Terry. My heart goes out to you Mimi and Jonathon. He was a wonderful friend of mine. He was the sweetest, most kind person. I will always remember him as one of the nicest people I've ever met. Always a smile on his face. He will be missed by many. Prayers going out to you. --Patti Reis Holthaus

March 19, 2016

I am just hearing this sad news. Terry and I kept in touch after I left St. Louis. He was one of the kindest, caring people I have ever known. Sending my thoughts and prayers to his family. The world will greatly miss him. Shelley Lister, Sarasota, FL

Martha Wolfner

March 19, 2016

Many prayers for you Mimi!

Katrina Jackman

March 19, 2016

Our prayers are with you. So sorry for your incredible loss. May the friends and family gathered around you give you strength.

The Jackman Family

Sally Key

March 18, 2016

To my very best friend, you have been a part of my life for so many years. I will always love you and will never forget. All the years we spent together meant a lot to me. Sorry I cannot be there to say goodbye. I will miss you.
Love, Sally

Andy Hahn

March 18, 2016

Terry was such a generous and hard working volunteer who is already missed by all in his "museum" family. There should be a photo here, but it was hard to find one because he was so often on the other side of the camera. Prayers for Mimi and Jonathan.

mitch Waks

March 18, 2016

We are shocked and saddened by this news. May his memory be a blessing for his family and friends.
The Waks Family

K Moore

March 18, 2016

May the peace of God that surpasses all understanding be with you.

Houghtaling Family

March 18, 2016

We are shocked and saddened to hear of your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

March 18, 2016

Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Mimi, Jonathan and all of the Baer family. It was always a pleasure to talk to Terry at games and events. We are so very sorry for your loss.

Emily Huber

March 17, 2016

What an incredible loss for everyone. You all are in my thoughts. Much love to you.

Lizz Chamberlain

March 17, 2016

I am both saddened and shocked to hear about the loss of another old friend. My heart goes out to you both, Jonathan and Mimi...hold on tightly to the memories. xo

Barbara Langsam Shuman

March 17, 2016

Terry was a wonderful person and a true St. Louisan. He was always kind, compassionate and.engaging. His face lit up whenever he spoke of his beloved Mimi and Joanthan. He was so proud of both of you. I will miss him terribly.

Mary Ann Wagner

March 17, 2016

Terry was my favorite Old Newsboys. I always looked forward to seeing him on the corner of Clayton and Brentwood. My prayers are with you and Jonathan.

Marie Casey

March 17, 2016

What a loss this is for us all! Terry was a gracious community advocate who believed in the power of sharing good news and efforts to build up St. Louis. I am so sorry for your family!

March 17, 2016

Dear Mimi and Jonathan, We are so very sorry to learn of Terry's passing. We remain grateful to him for all of the work he did for area non-profits, mostly especially AAFA. We have wonderful memories of all of you from that time. Please know you are in our thoughts and prayers and we are here for you if you need anything. Love, Jack and Pat Williams

Laura Kurzu

March 17, 2016

This makes me so sad - for Mimi, Jonathan and for all of St. Louis. Terry was a bright spot at every event. He made everyone he met feel special, important and valued. He always remembers to the little details of a last conversation, even if a great deal of time had passed between. Prayers for the Baer family.

Molly Murphy-Suden

March 17, 2016

I'm so sorry to learn of Terry's passing. He was an incredible person and will be very missed. My deepest condolences to Mimi and Jonathan, you are in my thoughts and prayers.

JL Serkes

March 17, 2016

Friend from Whitfield. I am so sorry to see this gentleman has gone.

March 17, 2016

Mimi & Jonathan, Terry was such a witty man of great character & joie de vivre. I know you both will miss him, but miss his fun-loving style. My heartfelt condolences from the boondocks.
Deni O'Rourke Eureka Springs, Ar.

March 17, 2016

Terry was always seen out and about everywhere. Such an awesome and friendly person to all. He will be missed covering events around STL.
Patti Bubash
Clayton, MO

Lisa McLaughlin

March 17, 2016

Terry was such a wonderful person - he will be greatly missed by all of us who had the privilege of knowing and working with him.

March 17, 2016

We will miss this kind man.

Michaela Purcell

Bill Webster

March 17, 2016

Terry will be missed! We were friends before I offered my help with his new venture into Blacktie-MO and I enjoyed working alongside him with his photography events. A man of upstanding decency, honor and courage unlike any I know. My prayers to his family.

Alexander Furla

March 17, 2016

T. Baer will be missed...a kind and compassionate soul...May he Rest in Peace.

Karen Kalish

March 17, 2016

What a great guy. He will be sorely missed, especially at fun functions where he always had his camera, pad of paper and pen, and a smile on his face.

Andy Johnstone

March 17, 2016

My sincerest condolences to Terry's family. Although we didn't keep in touch in later years, I remember with fondness our years together at Middlebury (and the drives to/from STL), and at WU. We enjoyed some good times and the occasional baseball game. I've never forgotten the time we went to a Cards game one summer between college years and afterwards went to his house and played pingpong in the basement. The time slipped by, my parents began to worry when I didn't come home, and called Cubby and Pat, who then began to worry when they thought Terry wasn't home and our parents started calling the police. Eventually it was discovered we were safe in his basement....needless to say we were more communicative and considerate after that!
Terry was a man of principle, loyal friend, caring, and a gentleman in every sense of the word...he will be remembered by many.

Jim & Susan Horne

March 17, 2016

Great gentleman

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