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for Andrew Martin
Julio Hernandez
January 10, 2006
No matter how prepared one can be, the loss of someone special is hard to face. We have lost a beloved person, ANDREW J. MARTIN. Not only was he a friend to my family and I, but also a brother. Everyone that met Andy, could never say nothing wrong. He was a real friend. He touched many people's hearts. He was a hardworking, funny, outgoing person. But most of all, a family man.(Husband,Father,Son,Brother). Everything that Andy set his mind to do, he would accomplish. He was so full of energy. I met Andy when I lived in Waterbury,CT in 1990. We became very close friends. Andy was always there for my family and I during the good and bad times. We stuck together as if we were one. We had our good times together, that could never be forgotten. I thank God everyday for giving the chance of meeting such a beautiful person, as well as his family. I felt so honored when Andy and Michelle asked me to be one of their daughters godfather. I was blessed with that. I'm so proud to have met Andy before God Took Him Home. He is resting now. He will be missed darely by all of us. He was a good friend, brother, and uncle to my kids. Wishing the family as much peace as possible during their difficult times. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Bless you:Julio Hernandez, Elisa, Jaqueline, Julian, Jaime, Julio, Jonathan.
Jason Jackson
January 9, 2006
I knew Andy through Scott, and they were a magical team. You could see his vision in the product. While he was the support to Scott's genius comedy, Andy was as passionate as any one on the team. It takes a lot to lift another person. It takes a leader to spot talent and a visionary to elevate a dream into reality. Andy did both, and I am glad I knew him.
Scott Paparcuri
January 6, 2006
"Think Big"
If you're reading this, there's a good chance you knew Andrew J. Martin.
Many times when people die, people tend to glorify the deceased. No one has ever deserved to be glorified more than Andy. He was a loving father, a devoted husband and a friend to the end.
His death was tragic. His life was glorious. NO ONE AND I MEAN NO ONE I have ever known lived like Andy. For Andy, the sky was the limit. For many others, the limit is the sky.
Andy ALWAYS thought big. His loving mother spoke to me at length recently about him. She told me that when Andy was a child, he could not go to McDonald's without putting a shirt and tie on. Andy always though big.
I met Andy in 1997 when I was working on a morning radio show in Hartford CT. He found me doing a live remote, introduced himself and we began to get to know each other. Our connection was immeadiate. His presence was undeniable. A friendship was struck that day. Andy became my first TRUE friend in CT.
He inquired about the acting classes I was taking. He asked me about my stand-up career. We exchanged numbers and stayed in touch.
One weekend I opened up for Pauly Shore at the Hu-Ke-Lau in MA. The performance was promoted on the radio show and I was truly surprised to see how many of our listeners came to the event.
After that Andy thought it was time for me to do my own comedy show. He set up a meetinng with the owner of teh Sting in New Britin. I didn't have a car at the time so Andy picked me up in Hartford and we drove to the meeting together. On the way we went over our pitch. Andy was confident. We negotiated a show for Apirl and it was promoted heavily on the air. We had no idea what to expect. We set up about 200 chairs and anxiously waited.
Andy somehow made a beautiful "It's All About Me" banner to serve as a backdrop for the show. Again, he was "thinking BIG."
To our surprise, over a thousand people paid to see the show. Thing's couldn't have gone better. Everything had changed. All due to Andy's vision. I cried tears of joy that night. I had finally arrived. Andy was the driving force behind all of it.
Andy and I were constantly brianstorming. Andrew J. Martin was a man who knew how to get things. And he was a man that knew how to get things done. Why? Because he thought big.
Andy fascinated me. He seemed to be involved in so many differant things. Looking back, I realze he was trying to find his niche.
Andy was "Mr. Waterbury." We'd drive by a gas station and he'd say "I used to own that." We'd have luch at a bar and he'd tell me that the gumball machines were his. Andy was a machine. A non-stop locomotive that ran off positive energy and big ideas.
His next idea was for he and I to form a limited liability corporation and S&M Entertainment was born. We booked one big comedy show each month and things just exploded. Most every show sold out and Andy began to think of more and more projects for us. He ordered t-shirts, hats even cigars that said my catch phrase "It's All About Me." He worked it out so that we could sell the products through our web-site that he brilliantly designed. He hired his friends Drew and Teddy as our security guards. Andy produced "It's All About Me" the cd. That became our biggest seller. The world was my oyster, but in some time I started to self destruct due to old demons that came back to haunt me. My ego took over.
In 2000, due to those demons, I lost my job at the radio station and everything went down hill. I lost everything and everybody. Looking back, Andy was the only person, other than Karla, who stuck by me.
Andy never gave up on me. He moved to New jersey but we talked constantly. He was always positive. I would do small shows here and there and he would always drive a long distance just to support me. He never gave up on me.
I was crushed when I found out Andy died. I found it so unfair that a great man like Andy was dead.
I talk to Andy all the time. I chanel him EVERY morning when I pray and every day I think of him.
Andrew J. Martin was a great man. The best I have ever had the pleasure of knowing.
Andy lives on. Through his lovely wife and beautiful daughters. Through his mother and father, through his brothers, his friends and through anyone he came across.
Today I have been given a second chance. I am currently studying acting agian in Manhattan and I am doing stand-up comedy full time. I plan on working in radio agian when the right oppotunity surfaces. God willing, I will be back on top again in my profession soon. In the meantime, I am grateful to be alive. I am happy that I get a chance to pursue my dream again. Andy truly lived the dream. He was at the top of his game in every way when he died. Andy had made it.
I honor Andy every day when I live life to the fullest.
I know how to make it big in my business and personal life simply because Andy taught me how. Because Andy Martin thought big.
Honor Andy Today: "Think Big!"
Karla Creely
October 3, 2005
I am lucky. Andy Martin was my friend. The first thing that comes to mind is that he helped me alot. When times were good and espescially when times were bad. Most people ran from me when my life went sour in CT. Andy ran towards me. I remember when Sheli was first pregnant with Riquel. He was so thrilled and nervous. He wanted, so much, to be the BEST husband and father. I remember him BEAMING wiht pride when they brought Riquel over for the first time. Andy was so busy with so many plans for building a great future for his family, but he always took time to make me feel important. He was never afraid to share his insecurities with me and somehow make me laugh about my own. He had SO much energy! He helped my boyfriend tirelessly with his career. He amazed me with how many people he knew from every walk of life. He made tough times bearable for me. Even though I didn't see Andy for the past couple of years, I never thought of life without him. We were planning a visit to see him in Fla. Even thinking about moving near him. With Andy nearby, I somehow felt like everything would be OK. Sheli, you're never far fom my thoughts. You made Andy SO happy and content. I knew HE was OK as long as you were near him. I miss Andy SO much! I talk to him alot. I am a lucky person. Anyd Martin was my friend!
Grace Englund
October 2, 2005
Andy jumped eagerly from his truck,a man with an infectious smile,beaming with the pride of purposeful generousity to his family and life.He had a confidence in what was ....his love did not look for confirmation or acknowledgement from outside...
now a part of eternity that life is good....his smile prevails...missed but not forgotten - a good guy -a husband, son and father devoted.
Lisa Valko
September 29, 2005
To Andy,Michelle,Raquel,Paige,and Sophia
The joyful laughter of your families happiness would fill our house with warmth as you all would walk in together.
The sounds of your laughter will always be remembered as the sweetest thing a home or person could ever hear.
You are all in our hearts and prayers.
Love Always,
Lisa and Joseph Valko
Anna Riley
September 22, 2005
I'm so sorry for your loss. I worked with Andy a couple of years ago. He was always so happy and full of life. He couldn't wait to have his family here in Florida. I'm sure that even today, Andy is smiling and watching over all that he loved. God Bless.
Erin DeSantis
September 22, 2005
Andy,
I'm a much better person for having known you. I don't even know how to find the words. You were so special to me and everyone that you met. I see you every time I look at Michelle, Raquel, Paige and Sophia. You were a devoted, loving husband and father. I pray that your love give's your family the strength to heal.
You're in my thoughts and prayers.
Russell Law
September 22, 2005
Andy was that once in a lifetime type of person. I only knew him for a few years, but I felt like I knew him for a lifetime. People come and go in our lives, but Andy was special. He just brightened everyone around him. Seeing him with his girls was a special moment. I will always remember Andy and his happy go lucky ways. Andy, you will always be missed and remembered.
BARBARA MACKS
September 22, 2005
MY NAME IS BARBARA, AND I AM THE STATE FARM AGENT THAT ANDY DEALT WITH--I HAD ONLY DEALT WITH ANDY FOR A SHORT TIME.BUT IN THAT TIME I FOUND ANDY TO BE FULL OF JOY FOR HIS LIFE AND FAMILY--EVERYTIME WE SPOKE HE BROUGHT UP HIS GIRLS, AND MICHELLE,I COULD FEEL HIS JOY AND LOVE FOR HIS FAMILY--HE WAS A PLEASURE TO DEAL WITH-IN THIS BUSINESS YOU SOMETIME CRINGE WHEN YOU HEAR THE NAME OF THE INSURED ON HOLD FOR YOU, BUT NOT IN ANDY'S CASE, WHENEVER I KNEW HE WAS ON THE OTHER END OF THE PHONE A SMILE CAME TO MY FACE, AS I KNEW I WOULD HEAR A PLEASENT BOUNCING VOICE FULL OF LOVE AND JOY-I FEEL BLESSED TO HAVE KNOWN ANDY- IF ONLY FOR A LITTLE WHILE--AND I PRAY THAT OUR LORD CONTINUE TO BLESS, COMFORT AND HEAL HIS FAMILY AND FRIENDS--GOD BLESS, BARBARA
Lisa & Greg Porter
September 21, 2005
We had only known Michelle and Andy for a few months when we heard the tragic news. We were extremely saddened and began to remember Andy and the few times we were around him. One phrase comes to mind, "Loving, Caring Father/Husband". You could tell by how he was with his girls that he was very dedicated and loved them all dearly. I wish Greg and I could have gotten to know him better. I'm always there for you, Michelle.
December 23, 2004
My First Christmas In Heaven:
I see the countless Christmas trees around the world below,
With tiny lights like heaven's stars reflecting on the snow,
The sight is so spectacular, please wipe away that tear,
For I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.
I hear the many songs that people hold so dear,
But the sound of music can't compare with the Christmas choir up here.
I have no words to tell you, the joy their voices bring,
For it is beyond description, to hear the angels sing.
I know how much you miss me. I see the pain inside your heart,
But I am not so far way, we really aren't apart.
So be happy for me dear ones, you know I hold you dear,
So have a Merry Christmas and wipe away that tear,
Remember I'm spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year,
December 16, 2004
Scott and Karla Paparcuri
December 13, 2004
We are devastated. We just found out today. We are in too much shock to list the many ways Andy has touched our lives. Andy was the first and only true friend we had in Connecticut. We will always love him. We will always keep him alive with the many stories and pictures we have. This terrible loss will be felt forever. We regret that we were not aware of services held for the family. Our love and prayers to Michelle, the girls and family.
ANDY, WE LOVE YOU!
Cassandra Nolan
December 2, 2004
Our thoughts and prayers are with you .
Cassandra Nolan and family
Stephanie Stiehm
December 2, 2004
I am so sorry to learn of your loss. I have heard only good things about Andy as a family man and father. My prayers are with you.
Mike & Jenny Maiolo
December 1, 2004
Our prayers go out to Michelle, the children, Judy and Bob.Knowing Andy; his spirit is alive and well.We are sincerly sorry for your loss.
Amanda Northrop
November 30, 2004
All my love to Michelle and the kids. It's so hard to lose someone so special. Andrew was always a cousin I looked up to and couldn't wait to see at reunions. We'll all miss him. We're all still family, and he's always with us.
John and Bette Miller
November 29, 2004
Andy was a client and I enjoyed knowing him. He seemed to be full of life. He will be missed. Our prayers and thoughts are with your families during this extremely difficult time.
Ken &Kathy Edwards
November 29, 2004
We were with Lori when she received the tragic news about her good friend, Andy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, your children and your families.
Nichole John
November 29, 2004
My best regards go out to the family and friends of Andy, I pray that God comforts your hearts and minds. I had the priviledge to work together with Andy; a very talented, caring and warm individual who also had a great eye for talent. I know he is in a better and happier place with no worries God bless and keep him forever.
Milton Northrop
November 28, 2004
How sad we all are here in Buffalo that such a bright star has gone out. We will always remember Andrew for his loyalty to his family, his eager enthusiasm his confidence and energy. Our thoughts and prayers are with Michele and the girls, Judy and Bob, Rob and Paul.
From Milt, Michele, Kerri and Randy, Brendan and Darlene, Heather and Terry, Mack, Casey, Erin, Kevin, Kyle and Justin.
Jason Green
November 28, 2004
Andy, and I worked together for a short period of time. In the short time that I knew him, I found him to be a great co-worker, and a very good friend. From my family to your family we are sorry to hear of your loss. Our prayers go out to you.
Reguards, Jason & Nicole Green
Debra Ouellette
November 28, 2004
My sympathy goes out to Andy's Family and Friends. He was such an awesome person with a cheerful spirit. I am glad I had a chance to know him, he will be missed but not forgotten.
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