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Martha Hicks
November 19, 2007
Dear Jay:
You are my beloved first grandson. I was so proud of you when you came into the world. We don't often understand why things happen as they do, and why you were taken from us at such a vital point in your life. But, we are just thankful that we did have you for those thirty wonderful years. I don't know any young man who was more caring or sensitive to his family than you were. Even though we were separated by circumstances and by miles, I always felt that you were still my beloved grandson and if I needed you, you would be there for me. I remember the last time we were together, you told me,
"Grandmother, I will take care of you when you get old and can't take care of yourself". What a wonderful thought for a grandmother to have from her grandson. On this day, a year from losing you, I fondly recally all the good and wonderful experiences that we had and then the sadness that I feel that they have come to an end with your passing. You will always be in our hearts. Death cannot part you from us spiritually, only physically. We still have your smile, your walk, and your image in our hearts and it will always be so. I love you dearly.
Grandmother
Mom & Herschell Winfrey
November 17, 2007
When we have done all the work we were sent to Earth to do, we are allowed to shed our body, which imprisons our soul like a cocoon encloses the future butterfly.
And when the time is right, we can let go of it and we will be free of pain, free of fears and worries-free as a very beautiful butterfly, returning home to God...
Jay, you are forever in our hearts. I am so thankful for the your 30 years with us, it is not for me to question, you are so deeply missed, but soon we will shed our cocoons and fly to you, until then you are alway deeply tucked in our
hearts. Know you are loved!
Aunt Linda Lewis & family
November 12, 2007
Dear Jay, It has almost been a year since we lost you and it has been filled with many emotions. Each day you are thought of by me and so many people who love and miss you very much. It has taken me this long to write because I just could not find the words. It has been a difficult year for all but it has also been filled with many wonderful memories of you. I thank God for having you in our lives and pray that you will continue to watch over your family as we struggle through life's experiences without you. We miss you.
Sasha
March 23, 2007
Jay, what to say after all?? ...that you were dear to me and that I miss you??
Every single image of my past in America starts or ends with you. Even through the tears I break a smile when I picture us. Where those days went? :) Yes my brother, we were a team.
Now I guess some other kids are getting excided about the March madness and going to the Final four... or drive down to Florida for spring break... somebody else is struggling on a basketball court... or sneaking into U of M frat parties, chasing girls... You know what, those feelings and those best years of my life were enabled by your fascinating personality, natural goodness and unselfishness. No one can take those emotive feelings away from me.
And now what am I suppose to say ... I miss you? What an understatement! Well it just won't do it. I made up my mind. I'll never get over you. I said before, at least from this perspective you see how much you mean to me.
This is a big year for me. Last month I got a son, Roberto. Its funny about those kids, you look at them and wonder...what is he going to look like someday, what's he going to be, what kind of life is he going to have. Today, while I was holding him my only thought was „I wish someday he gets a best friend like the one his father had!“
Thank you for every smile, but also for every tear, on my face when I think of you! Until we meet again... Your eternally best friend,
Sasha, Croatia.
Robert Inclan
January 28, 2007
Fist of all my thougts and prayers go out to the whole Bowen family. I really don't know how life is going to be without my best friend Jay, The person that I've knowen for 21 years, the person that I talked to almost everyday, the person that I looked up to as a true friend and most important as a brother. The most memories I have are the great times we had together growing up in Michigan. Jay loved it when I went to visit him in Flordia because, if he had a rugh week of work I was always the one to make him laugh. I was the joker in the crew what can I say, I loved making him laugh. Thats one of the things I'm going to miss is his laugh, and wounderful smile. Jay I love you til we meet again my friend.
Richard Pineo
December 13, 2006
Karen and I would like to offer our deepest condolences during this tough time.
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Katherine Bartnik
December 9, 2006
Jay was an amazing man who was able to show me the best in life. I knew him for three years now since I came to college at FAU and in these important years he was a great influence on my life. He had that special influence on people that made him different. I am so sad that he was taken too early and I havn't been able to get over it. Going to your funeral was one of the hardest things I ever had to do. I am praying for you Jay. I am so sorry for your family's loss. Jay, I'll always remember you and I'll always miss you.
Carly Pippin
December 8, 2006
I remember talking to Jay over the phone this summer, while we were at the family reunion in Texas. He was so friendly and relaxed and fun to talk to. Even if it had been months since we'd talked, it always felt like we'd seen each other last week when we were on the phone. It was that natural. I could see why he was such a success in his job and loved by his friends. Jay will be missed. Cindy, Herschel, and Kyle- you are in my prayers and thoughts. Know that we are here if you ever need anything.
Jason Diamond
December 5, 2006
I was extremely sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow. There are some situations where words so completely fail to express any real meaning.
Roland Lamoca
December 4, 2006
Dear Cindy and Herschell,
Please accept my condolence for your significant loss. I only wish there were words that we could offer to provide you peace. There are many things that we are not able to, and in many cases meant to understand.
The only words I found helped me during similar circumstances are the words expressed at a Eulogy I attended when the Priest spoke to "Understanding Why". He mentioned that many look to God and are confused when trying to understand "why" our loved one was taken away when they meant so much to so many, and they harmed no one, and loved everyone. Why would God allow a person to be taken away that was so good to so many? He continued and mentioned that the "Why" is not for us to understand but he is a merciful God. I struggled with the comments until the Priest continued and explained that we can feel comforted still in that he is a merciful God since the person was taken from us without pain. It is terrible to loose someone so close to us, but I think we all feel comforted to know that if they must go, then they go without pain.
Sometimes we can find peace in knowing the "How" when we are struggling to understand the "Why".
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Jeff, Nancy, Kelly and Carly Pippin and Hazel Clark
November 26, 2006
To all the Bowen/Winfrey family...there are no words to ease the grief at the loss of this vibrant young man! Our hearts reach out to you as we pray for God's strength in the days ahead that you find comfort and peace. We love you.
Mike Jackson
November 26, 2006
Despite the logistics, Jay and I were extremely close. I talked to him 4-5 times a week and he came out to visit me back as recently as late July...it is difficult for me to put into words the impact that Jay has had on my life. He was so generous and loyal. He taught me self confidence, outside of the box thinking and an appreciation for life. I feel that his greatest contribution to me was an open mind. I could talk to Jay and he would provide great insight and advice on any given topic or situation. I will miss our chats. I am deeply saddened by this loss. My thoughts and prayers go out to his close family and friends.
David Cooper
November 26, 2006
Dear Cindy & Herschel,
We wish to express our heartfelt condolences to you on the untimely death of Jay. We fondly remember him car pooling to school with Rachel.
The loss of a loved one is always sad,but in the case of such a young person it is even harder to bear.
With deepest sympathy,
Pat & David Cooper
Dana Olejniczak
November 25, 2006
Our prayers are with the entire family - that God would lift you up during this time of great loss. Jay was such a powerful person that he left great impressions on everyone he met. My children were only around him at Thanksgiving a few times in Dallas, but were so drawn to him. They always talk about those cool cousins, Jay and Kyle- the big ones as they call them. He drew people to him like a magnet. He touched many lives and will not be forgotten. It was a joy to know him. We will keep you in our thoughts and prayers always.
The Olejniczak Family
Lina Contreras
November 25, 2006
Goodbyes are not forever
And nor is it the end
When angels come to call away
A loved one or a friend.
The empty place that’s left behind
Within this world we know
Reminds us just how brief a stay
We have before we go.
So when it’s time to bid farewell
To one we’ll dearly miss
Let’s just say we’ll meet again
And promise them with this…
The true gift is that love remains
Although we now must part..
Until forever and beyond
I’ll keep you in my heart.
Jay, you'll be missed and I'm sure we'll meet again someday.
Christy Stina
November 25, 2006
I had the privledge of meeting Jay a year ago when he and Kyle came to work at Newbridge. The three of us had some fun times doing seminars to help build their business, and hanging out outside of work. Jay was a kind person with so much going for him. He is greatly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with his family. To Jay’s parents, you should be very proud of what a great son you raised. People like him are rare. Kyle, I am here for you 100% to help you through this difficult time. Love Always.
Adam Davis
November 25, 2006
Outside of my own family, Jay was one of my most beloved people on the planet. His positive contribition to my life can not be underestimated. Jay was one of the most generous people I have ever known and his zeal for life was inspiring. May those virtues that Jay made so contagious live on in all who knew and loved him.
Juan Izquierdo
November 24, 2006
Jay…your passing is a true loss. The world no longer seems the same without your giant presence. I have never met anyone with such a magnetic personality and intense zest for life. You will be missed immensely. My prayers go out to you and your family. May God bless you and take in his arms forever.
Hector Izquierdo
November 23, 2006
Jay,
I still cannot believe that I wont get another opportunity to either hang out with you or sit next to you at a Heats game. Your ambition and genuine courage in trying new things was truly inspiring. You were a genuine example to many to never be scared to take a chance and live life to its fullest every day, which I truly believe you did. I am gonna miss hearing about a new business idea or some funny story about something you did. You were definitely one of a kind. May God Bless You.
Becky Ditto
November 23, 2006
Jay...I have never met someone with such dedication and talent. Your charisma and beautiful smile will be missed everyday cutie. I miss you tons...I'll take great care of your brother. I love you!!!
Austin Lewis
November 23, 2006
Jay... I can't comprehend the reason of your passing. All I know is sadness. Even though I know you are in a better more beautiful place, I can't help but miss you so much. I always look forward to seeing you every Thanksgiving, much like a tradition now that won't be the same without you. May God be with you, your family, and all of the many friends you've been blessed with. To keep you in their hearts and to remember your lovable personality. Until next time, I love you man, and pray for the best for everyone. Goodbye... we'll all miss you!!
Linnie
November 23, 2006
To my true love and best friend, I will miss you always and be with you one day
tyler lewis
November 23, 2006
hey man, i wish i'd of been there last thanksgiving. i know it would have been a blast. i am glad that i at least got to see you during ryans wedding. i wish more than anything that we could have had at least another week, but it's not our descision. i know everything happens for a reason, i just wish i knew what that reason was. i hope you know we will be thinking about you. love you man. goodbye.
Ryan Lewis
November 23, 2006
Jay, if only you knew how much Ashley and me looked foward to going down to Dallas every year. It never felt like we were seperated so much of our lives and I know Ashley felt as much a cousin as I did. We love you and miss you and will always remember the times we had searching for a cool place to go in the Big D. Love you cousin.
Richard Lofgren
November 23, 2006
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Beth Pippin
November 23, 2006
Cindy, Herschell, David, Martha, Ray, Linda and Jeff,
I wish I could be there with you in your time of grief. There are no words to tell you how sorry I am for your loss. Jay was such a special man with such a zest for life. Just stick together as only the Pippin's can and rely on each other. I love you all.
Beth Pippin
Luis Guibert
November 23, 2006
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
I'll always remember you, I have so many great memories. in deed you are in a better place now,kyle if you ever need anything don't douth to contact me..
Michelle Moore
November 23, 2006
Cindy, Herschell, and Kyle-
My mom called me last night to tell me that Jay's obituary was in the newspaper. After walking by your old house last week, I thought about Jay and how much I missed talking with him. I never made that phone call. I had thought of him as my mischievous little brother. I truly cannot tell you how saddened I am. My love goes out to all of you.
Melissa Amendola
November 22, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of grief. I just want you to know I will never forget Jay. Anybody who knew Jay will always remember his sweet smile, quiet disposition, his jokes, and his free spirit. Although I had not seen Jay in awhile, I always remembered all the good times we had and laughed from time to time thinking of those memories and jokes we had shared. Kyle remember all those wonderful memories to help you get through this. I understand what you are going through and my heart is with you. I just want you to be ok. Take care of yourself.. God will get you through this.
Mary Carter
November 22, 2006
My thoughts and prayers go out to the Bowen Family. I worked with Jay at Newbridge Securities. He was truly a wonderful young man. I am so sorry for your loss. My love goes to out Kyle, if there's anything you need just ask. Take care.
Linda Thomas
November 22, 2006
Mack, Cindy, Ray and Martha
Although I haven't seen Jay for many years, I remember what a cute and happy little boy he was.
All of you are in my thoughts and prayers and share in the sadness of this day.
Mark Phelps
November 22, 2006
Jay, I knew you through your grandparents, John and Nell. They were so proud of you. You meant so much to them and they made you special for all of us. I pray that your family will be comforted in their loss by the love of their extended family and friends.
Eleni Skiba
November 22, 2006
I was truly sorry to hear of Jay's passing Monday. I am one of his co-workers at Newbridge Securities at Boca and worked next to their office when they first started. I just experienced the sudden loss of my father last month so I can relate to the sadness that you all must feel. Jay was very sweet and had a kind smile. I looked forward to seeing the "Bowen Brothers" at work everyday. Their enthusiasm during the Heat playoff games was contagious and their zest for life was passionate. They worked hard and played hard. Kyle, we are all here for you buddy and we love you.
Fondly,
Eleni Skiba
Chandler Morelli
November 22, 2006
JAY... I'll always admire your drive... in truth, you taught me much about both the brokerage game and life. I pray that everlasting peace now finds you. So, until we see each other again... SAVE ME A SEAT!!!!
xx
Dave Goddard
November 22, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with you all. We too lost our oldest son suddenly a year ago. Take comfort in the knowledge that he is in a beautiful place now and at peace. It will not be easy, but you will find strength in family and friends. Hold them close.
Art Hughes
November 22, 2006
My sympathies to you (Cindy, Martha, Ray, Jeff, David, Linda, the Bowens, and all the families and friends that have been so touched by this loss. I did not know Jay that well, but the few times I have met Jay, he seemed like a quality young man. My hope is that God will bring blessing at this time of suffering and it will be a hope that continues to grow and bless the all your families. Goad is the source of all that is good, and He can bring blessing out of tragedy for those who love Him.
Shea Meadow
November 22, 2006
I had the privilege of knowing Jay for many years. He had a magnetic soul, and his charisma was larger then life. He was a compassionate and loyal friend and he will be missed dearly.
Suzanne Aukland
November 22, 2006
Please accept my deepest sympathies for your family.Jay will be truly missed.
Vicki Hughes
November 22, 2006
All of you have been continually in our thoughts and prayers since Monday morning. I know we can not know the depth of your pain if we have not had such a tragic loss. Our prayer is that you will be held and comforted. It is our great desire to be there with you.
All of our love and tenderest feelings,
Vick & Art Hughes and family
Bobby Graf
November 22, 2006
I am truly sorry that the last words we spoke to one another were not kind ones.
I hope this message can serve as a wake up call.
If you have a friend....a real friend, fix the hurt! I will never get the chance to tell Jay ...I WAS SORRY!!
GODSPEED
Boca B
Cindy Ricketts
November 22, 2006
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
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