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Matthew Fine Obituary

Fine, Matthew, 42, unexpectedly passed away Tuesday, March 2, 2004 at his Boca Raton home. Growing up in Rochester, NY, Matthew graduated in 1987 from the University of South Florida in Tampa with a degree in sociology. A Miami Herald employee since 1989, Matthew's career included working as the Broward Sales Manager, Key Accounts Manager and National Advertising Director. For 15 years, Matthew impressed his coworkers with his hard work and dedication. He delighted colleagues with stories about his devotion and affection for his wife and children. Matthew was active in the South Florida Community including as Board Member for the Metro Zoo and Florida Grand Opera. His daughters adored him as did his wife. A loving husband and father, Matthew is survived by his wife, Dany Schaper-Fine of Boca Raton, FL; daughters, Cecily, 5 and Isabella, 3; mother, Sybil Young of Rochester, NY; brother, Alan Fine of Jacksonville and sister, Susan Boudreaux of Rochester. He will be sorely missed by family and friends. Services will be held 2:00 p.m. Friday, March 5, 2004 at The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, 1530 West Camino Real, Boca Raton. A Memorial Fund has been set up for Matthew's children. Contributions may be made in person or mailed to: Matthew Fine Fund c/o KRMH Credit Union, Miami location: 1 Herald Plaza, Miami, FL 33132 or Broward location: 2010 NW 150 Avenue, Pembroke Pines, FL 33028.

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Published by Sun-Sentinel on Mar. 5, 2004.

Memories and Condolences
for Matthew Fine

46 Entries

Isabella Fine

March 2, 2024

Isabella Fine

March 2, 2024

Isabella Fine

March 2, 2024

Hello everyone!

Today marks 20 years. Mama and Cecily flew from opposite sides of the country to meet me in San Diego, CA so we can be together today. We´re honoring Papa with tuna casserole for dinner and M&Ms for dessert while Mama shares her memories. We love reading all of these memories and stories about Papa on this page.

Thank you all for your love over the years.

-Isabella

(photos from 2022 and 2001)

Shelley Cresov

February 28, 2024

We adored Matt. He worked Gil through his growing up years. Spent a lot of time in the back room at our shop on Monroe Ave. He and Alan were an important part of Gil´s and our lives. We love him and remember him always

Rochelle Cresov

March 3, 2020

Mathew was a beautiful child and man. His smile, eyes sparkling always expressed his love of live and ability to easily laugh, enjoy others and create a warm feeling for all in his circle- -family, friends and colleagues. He was such a loved and loving person. His memory is a blessing
Shelley Cresov (Rochelle)

GIL CRESOV

September 27, 2006

I AM LOOKING SOME OLD PICTURES AND NOTES I COLLECTED WHEN IWAS IN THE TUXEDO RENTAL BUSINESS. MATT FINE WAS A LARGE PART OFTHISCOLLECTION OF NOTES. I LOOKED AT HIS NAME AND RIGHT AWAY HIS IMAGE CAME INTO MY HEAD. A GOOD GUY. HE WAS LIKE A SON TO ME. WE LAUGHED AND HE LISTENED FOR A MOMENT, THEN WENT HIS OWN WAY. HIS WAY TOOK TO HIM TO FLORIDA. HE HAS A WIFE AND FAMILY. HE IS MISSED. BLESS HIS MEMORY GIL CRESOV, 9-27-2006

Julia Fligman

April 6, 2004

Dear Dani,

Al just told me the devastating news about Matt. My heart is breaking for you and your beautiful girls.

Although I did not know Matt well, I always enjoyed seeing him and chatting with him in the neighborhood. It was obvious what an amazing Dad he was and how much the girls loved him.

I am truly sorry for your loss and hope that the memories you have will be of comfort to you.

With deepest sympathy, Julia Fligman

Ken Ross

April 5, 2004

Schaper,

I just came from the Easter egg hunt at Timbercreek & it made me realize how much I truly am going to miss Matthew more & more as time goes on. I now know how much I took our friendship for granted. At the Easter egg hunt I found myself with no one to talk to. Matthew was truly the only other father in the neighborhood I could relate to! My memories of Matthew mostly center around our time with our families. Me, Tyler, Cecily, Isabella & Matthew walking to the park with the kids going crazy & Matthew & I sharing stories about EVERYTHING. We would talk about fatherhood, being husbands to two wonderful women who know exactly what they want, work, commutes, sports, restaurants, the neighborhood, cars, music, you name it. I have lost track of how many halloweens "the gang" went around together only to have it end up on our street with Matthew promising "one more house. . . I think Mama has some great treats for us!" I only knew Matthew for a few years but we shared some very personal thoughts. For some reason I always found him to be someone who was very easy to talk to. From the begining I felt I could trust him. It's that very trust and closeness that will always bind our families. It's obvious between our children, between you & Evelyn and is a bond that Matthew & I will always share. Matthew's generosity was amazing. How many times did he take me down to the American Airlines Arena for an event for either me or the kids? I never really had a chance to give back to our friendship in that way. I hope he knows how much I valued his freindship. There's a lot to be said for people in your life that you can count on when you really need them. You and Matthew were those people for us even at times when we weren't hanging out all the time. You found a great guy and have two beautiful children and a ton of amazing memories to show for it. Hopefully as time goes on, you will also realize that the friends the two of you made together will be a great way to keep Matthew's legacy alive.

Jane Marris

March 25, 2004

My dearest friend Dany

It was heart breaking to hear of Matthew's passing - life takes some very unexpected turns as you and I well know.

It is now 14 years since you and I met as nurses at Strong Memorial Hospital in Rochester on unit 6-1600. Me, a newly arrived girl from New Zealand and you, a traveling nurse, on the move.

I instantly adored you as a person and you became an incredibly special friend.

It was a while before I met Matthew, but knowing what an amazing person you were, Dany, I just knew that Matthew had to be a wonderful person. And so Matthew was! He was so in love with you Dany. Matthew granted you permission to travel to the other side of the world to Blenheim, New Zealand where you froze in the cold as our bridesmaid while Andrew and I exchanged our vows. We will always feel indebted to you and Matthew for this.

I will always be eternally grateful to you and Matthew for your genuine concern, support and optimism during my major health crisis whilst living in New York.

Although I have since been based in Australia and New Zealand, Dany, our friendship has always continued and has been cherished by me.

Dany, Cecily and Isabella, what wonderful memories of Matthew you have to reflect on. We may be physically far apart right now, but you are so very close in our thoughts. Love always, Jane and Andrew, Juliet and Conor XX00

Shawn Basore

March 17, 2004

Matt was the first person I met in Timbercreek when I moved there. He was so proud of his little girl and I of my boy. When we would meet at the park it was always family talk and Matt, as genuine as they come. When he became a father for the second time he became even more fulfilled. As we all know Matt will be missed by many and the world was a better place with him in it. Our sympathy and well wishes to Dany and the girls.

Karen Basore

March 17, 2004

Dany,

I don't know where to begin. My heart goes out to you, Cecily and Isabella.

I heard someone mention that a man in our development had passed from a sudden heart attack and thought, what are the chances of me or Shawn knowing the guy. Then, at baseball practice for my son, Cole, last Friday evening, someone mentioned the name Matt. I thought, no way, not Cecily & Isabella's dad, it couldn't be. I then went online to check the papers and there it was. I was so upset.

Shawn, my husband says Matt is the first guy he met when we moved to our development and he thought he was such a nice guy. He really enjoyed coversations they had together. Me, on the other hand, didn't see Matt much, except at the park, and I enjoyed talking to him as well. He was such a funny guy and so laidback. I always thought, wow, what a great dad and those girls seem to adore him.

I wish I had known sooner so I could pay my last respects to Matt and show you some support. Please know I would have been there had I known sooner. I can't get Matt, you and the girls out of my head. I am so very sorry.

Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. I can't even imagine what you must be going through at this difficult time.

Sincerely,

Karen Basore

cathie hauritz

March 17, 2004

Dear Dany

I unfortunately never got to meet Matthew. But I was lucky enough to have been friends with Dany while she lived in Salt Lake. I always knew that the person she married would have to be a very special person, because Dany is such a unique and gifted individual. I was so thankful for your friendship at a time when most girls our age were getting married and having kids. In the winter we would ski and in the summer we would go to the pool to sun worship. I especially enjoyed being roomates with you and carpooling to work at LDS Hospital together. Other memories include driving to California (I'm so sorry I couldn't stay awake in the car) and visiting you in Florida when you were traveling nursing. Dany, you taught me so many things. Not just little things, (like how you clued me in that rice cooked in the rice cooker is sooo much better that minute rice), but what it means to be a good friend. I have thought of you and your girls constantly this week. I know how you cared about Matthew as I recall the letters I received from you telling me about him. I know he had to be a great person because I know you and what you are like Dany. Please know that I am thinking of you, Cecily and Isabella.

Cathie

michael silber

March 16, 2004

Dear Dany,I hope you remember me as I visited you and Matt while I was in medical school a long time ago. Although Matt and I did not keep in touch that much his passing has really brought back the memories of what a great guy he was. I knew him growing up in Rochester and had endless wonderful times with him. We played ball, partied and loved each other. We worked together at Gils Tux Shop and spent many nights at his siters house just shooting the breeze. He always made me laugh and had a nice thing to say at the right time. I saw him last at his 20 year brighton reunion and he spoke of his love for you to me. I can only tell you I loved him and am deeply saddened for your loss. I know he was an unbelievable father and husband and if there is ever anything I can do for you or your girls please call me anytime. sincerely Michael Silber

Deanna and Forrest Nunley

March 16, 2004

Dearest Dany,

I just have to share with you something that you already know, but need to be reminded of in terms of how Matthew thought so much of you.

While in Orlando with you and your family, I took a stroll with Matthew, we discussed his job, his life in Florida, etc. He told me how "you" were the one who raised those girls, and that he credits you for everything; that his job took him away early in the morning and not home till late at night. He said that you carried this load, and if it weren't for you the girls wouldn't be what they are. I believe that this is true, but on the other hand, I knew he would not profess the truth of his great role in these girls lives.

As I observed him with those girls, who were so stuck on him like glue that day, I knew how much those girls loved him because they could not get enough. It is this happy memory that I will always have of your family.

Everything I read tells me that he was so good at his work, and gave 150% at all he did. But the irony here is that while visiting with you and your family, Matthew could be so layed back and relaxed and just able to have fun. I think this is an amazing trait that I observed.

Forrest kept telling me that after spending an entire day with you and your family how "cool" he thought Matthew was. I think it was their fondness for the same foods that really won him an instant friend out of Matthew.

We feel fortunate to have spent that time together; short, sweet, but oh so memorable.

Our thoughts, love and prayers will always be with you and your girls.

Love Deanna and Forrest

Ed Kelin

March 12, 2004

As a former Advertising Manager at the Sun-Sentinel I had several opportunities to interact with Matthew Fine. He was always the professional and a fine representative for MHPC. My deepest sympathy to his family on their loss.

Liz Turner

March 11, 2004

To Dany and the "girls":

He loved each of you so much. It is incredibly difficult to put into words his affection for his family. In 25 years I have never met anyone quite like Matthew. He was one of a kind. He put 150% into absolutely everything he did; even his treacherous commute. I appreciate what Matthew brought to both my career and my life. The minute I found out about his passing my mind immediately went to how he always talked about wanting to spend more time with his family.

I remember sitting in the NY airport during a sales trip with Matthew just talking about life, expectations, dissapointments, priorties and so forth. It was one of the most meaningful conversations I have ever had with someone. Matthew was always good at that. He could listen and listen and listen. His compassion for others was evident even in the most difficult situations.

It takes a charismatic person to accomplish what Matthew did and I feel honored to have known him. Thank you Matthew for everything you did for me and for so many others.

Dany, you and your family are forever in my thoughts and prayers.

gil cresov

March 10, 2004

I WANT TO SAY MANY MORE THOUGHTS ABOUTMY ADOPTED SON, FINE MATT FINE. I WAS LOOKING AT SOME OLD PHOTOS OF MATT WHEN HE WORKED FOR ME. I WAS IN THE TUXEDO RENTAL BUSINESS. MATT WAS THE SON I NEVER HAD. MY FAMILY, SHELLEY, JENNIFER, AND ALISON ALL LOVED HIM. HE WAS VERY CAREFUL TO DO THE RIGHT JOB FROM VACCUMMING THE FLOOR,TO MAKING SURE THE WEDDING PARTY OR THE PROM KID LOOKED GREAT AT TIME OF PICKUP. WE HAD A LOT OFLAUGHS ABOUT THE OUTFITS THESE GUYS PICKED. THE RIGHT TIE AND VEST COLOR HAD TO MATCH THE DRESS. AFTER CLOSING, MATT WOULD SAY "GILLIS, YOU MADE ANOTHERMESS." HE CALLED ME GILLIS. MY NAME IS GIL. GOD ONLY KNOWS WHAT HE AND HIS FRIENDS DID IN THE BACK ROOM OF THE STORE WHEN I WAS NOT THERE. MICHAEL, STEVE C. IAN, ANDY RUBIN AND THE REST OF THE GANG. THESE WERE SOME OF THE MEMORIES I ALWAYS REMEMBER. THEN THERE WAS MR. SAM. HE MADE MATT LAUGH WITH HIS STORIES AND EXPLOITS AS A YOUNG MAN. IT SEEMED THAT MY SHOP WAS THE MEETING PLACE. SEE YOU AT THE TUX SHOP WAS A COMMON COMMENT FOR MEETING PLACE. JOHN MAHER, ALAN, JIMMY,AND OF COURSE PATTY. WE WILL MISS YOU FINE MATT FINE. WHERE EVER YOUR SOUL GOES IT WILL BE WELCOMED. LOVE GILLIS.

Jane Florea

March 10, 2004

Dany and family -

I remember Matthew from the day of his first interview at The Herald- standing in the lobby in Tamarac, a big smile on his face - clean and polished. We told our boss that he had to hire him - he was just too cute and eager looking to pass up. Fortunately, the boss did and we were friends ever since. He brought new life to the place...always a funny joke to tell and had a natural repour with his customers and coworkers... he made everyone feel special....

I can remember when Dany came into his life...he wouldn't divulge much but we watched as Dany reeled him in! We were happy for him -we loved him and knew he was a great catch! Our careers went in different directions - he became the superstar of the financial advertisng world...and I took delight in telling everyone that I taught him everything he knew (hardly the case!). Before I knew it Matthew was my boss!!!

He was tough but alway for the better of me! I used to bring in my boxing gloves to duke it out with him - he loved that!

He used to call me "DOO-DOO" after a song I learned and shared with him when traveling in St Lucia...he thought it was funny that DOO-DOO meant, my love!

Matthew would walk by mine and Derik's desk everyday on the way to his... Every morning he would say

"Good Morning Ladies"! Derik used to love that!

I know I could go on...there are lot's of memories..

But most of all - Matthew lived for Dany and his "delicious" girls...

He loved to share their pictures and

proudly displayed them on his screensaver.

I will miss him.

Maria Jose Araya

March 10, 2004

Although I didn't get to work with Matthew very long, he made a lasting impression on me. I was a sales assistant at the North Miami Beach advertising office and I still remember when Matthew came to work with us. Everyday, he would make me smile or laugh by making fun of the silly wallpapers on my computer or of the music I listened to on the radio. All I ever remember about Matthew was him making everyone smile. He was an incredible human being and will be incredibly missed. My blessings go out to Dany and his beautiful daughters; I know he adored them all. Thank you, Matthew, just for who you were. We will always remember you.

Michael Correia

March 10, 2004

Dany,

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I believe we only met once, but I clearly remember the way Matthew spoke of you - he couldn't believe how lucky he was. I worked with Matthew in the early 90's at the Herald. I remember him as quick witted, and a guy who didn't sweat the small stuff. I was thrilled for him when I heard of his promotions, and not surprised at all. I too have two little girls and my heart breaks for you all - embrace Matthew in your girls...

Annalisa Damley

March 10, 2004

Dear Dany,

My first meeting with Matthew was in late September 2001. He interviewed me for a position in the National Advertising department, where he had recently assumed the Ad Director title.

With his easygoing, affable nature, the interview was a breeze (relief!). At the end, he mentioned that he had two little girls. I asked their ages. He pointed to a photo beside his computer of you, Cecily and Isabella. He smiled and said, delicious.

You always remember people for their passions in life. Matthew's passion was his role as a husband and father, his love for you and your little girls. He has left a wonderful legacy.

Be well and stay strong. You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Annalisa

The Miami Herald

Joyce Sheehan

March 9, 2004

Dearest Dany,

You already know what Matthew meant to me....he was my pal...for a long time ...and i will never forget him...

But he has left an incredible legacy: of humor, dedication and loyalty to friends, family and to his profession. He gave a 100% to everybody and everything that he was so totally committed to. His nickname for me was "Poo" ( as in Joyceie Poo...)don't ask me why...i could never figure it out, but it was endearing all the same and I can still hear him say it as he passed by my desk...Dany,

I admire your strength so much; Matthew would be so proud of you and his little girls for the grace you have exhibited at such a difficult time. Please know that we care about you alot and that we (your Herald family) are here for you and the girls. With Love and

Deepest Condolences that I can't even begin to express...

Joyce

judy neubauer

March 9, 2004

Matthew Fine. He was just that. Fine. I knew Matthew for most of his Herald career, and worked for him a short while in Key Accounts. But, I felt he was more of a friend than my manager. I think his best qualities were his love for his family; his grasp of reality that "family" was truly first and of course his great sense of humor. "Winners" and "Losers" - that was our common joke. Well, you know what? Matthew was a winner. I didn't always agree with him, but that didn't matter; we had a connection and I cared about him. He is gone tooooo soon. I will keep him, Dany and their children in my thoughts and prayers always.

Sonia Correa

March 9, 2004

Dany,

Matthew would sing my name every morning..."Sonia Correeeeeea". I tried to get him to sing someone else's name but he said it didn't sound as nice....so he kept doing it. I can still hear him singing it as he walked down in front of my cubicle.

Matthew talked to everyone. I heard at the eulogy how he always had to have a personal contact with people. That is so true. My kids were so sad when they heard because even the few times they came to the Herald with me, Matthew spent time talking to them and getting to know them.

I also remember little things like how when you asked him about the girls he responded "delicious, aren't they delicious?". And how, if you told him he was skinny, he'd say he was skinny fat. In Key Accounts, he always made us present the Herald's "tree" of products because he wanted us to know them all.

He made us laugh and I am so very sad he's gone but I also know we will never forget Matthew.

May God Bless you and your family.

Love,Sonia Correa

Noreen Dobrinsky

March 8, 2004

Matthew greeted me with a joke at my first managers meeting, I think that was his way of making me feel at home. He made me feel like my opinion mattered and I enjoyed talking to him about work and family. I will miss him walking around the second floor with a smile on his face and hovering over someone's cube.

When things happen that seem unfair I say the following prayer to myself and it helps a little. I hope it will do the same for you.

May God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference.

gilbert cresov

March 8, 2004

FINE MATT FINE. THAT IS WHAT I CALLED HIM FROM THE MOMENT ALAN BROUGHT TO MYHOUSE. AND TO WORK. MAT IS AND WILL ALWAYS BE LIKE MY SON. HE WAS 13 OR 14 YEARS OLD. HE GREW UP WITH MY WIFE AND I SCOLDING AND ENCOURAGING HIM TO GO TO COLLEGE. HE LOST HIS FATHER EARLY IN LIFE. I TOOK TO HIM IMMEDIATELY. HE BECAME PART OF MY FAMILY. I WILL MISS HIM DEARLY. WE STAYED IN TOUCH THROUGH HIS GROWING UP AND FINALLY HIS MARRIAGE TO DANY WHOM HE NEVER STOPPED TELLING ME SHE WAS THE BEST THING TO HAPPEN TO HIM. HE LOVED HIS CHILDREN. LAST SUMMER HE VISITED ME WITH HIS FAMILY BRIEFLY. IT WAS A PLEASURE TO SEE THAT. I WILL ALWAYS LOVE FINE MATT FINE. HE WAS TRULY FINE.

Judi Kurland ( DeFerdinando)

March 8, 2004

Ever the jokester, always a kind word! But the serious side came through and you knew when he meant business. We all will miss him dearly and if there is anythng I can do please call. As you well know he will have a place in our hearts forever.

Doran Jackson

March 7, 2004

I first met Matt when I went to work for the Miami Herald in 1993 I found him to be a friendly fun loving person that we all will miss. I offer my condolences to his family and friends.

Kate Keegan

March 7, 2004

Matt was about 10 when he hooked up with my brother Ian and before long like a pack of wild dogs he and my brother as well as Scott Gordon, Steve Cohen, Cris Krilick,Jeff Bleeker, and a few others my old brain can't recall were causing trouble and driving many a teacher..(Mr. Apostoloe & Miss. Googins) into years of therapy. They were best buds and they stayed close for a very long time. I got to know Matt through Ian, and that he dated my younger sister Trish. I remember that he was kind and had a great sense of humor. I am sorry he's not with us any longer. I offer sympathy to his wife and children. I remember how his mother Sylvia adored him so. He and my brother Ian spoke at least twice a week and although Ian is struggling with alcoholism, Matt was always so supportive I know that Matts encouragement meant alot to Ian. He was a true friend. All who knew him will surely miss him. God bless you Matt.

Kate Keegan

Steve Cohen

March 6, 2004

I can't even type this without crying.I met Matt at Twelve Corners Middle School in 5th Grade.Then came Hebrew School,Hanging at Ian Keegans on Westland Ave.then Elmwood Terr.It was like yesterday.I had the best times with Matt when we worked at Twelve Corners Mobile Gas Station in Rochester, NY.We were Tow Truck Operators, or at least we thought we were.Matt had a 1976 Buick Century S/R and I had a 1977 Z28 Camaro and we washed and waxed our Autos sometimes every day. Between 1980 - 1985 Matt,Ian Keegan,Rob Julianno and myself ruled Elmwood Terrace Apts., or at least we thought we did. Matt went on to College and made a good life for himself and his Family and I went to Jail,Rehab,then finally to College.Matt always encouraged me even at my Rock Bottom, Cocaine addicted worst.I had dinner with Matt in January 2004 in Los Angeles and we talked once a week.Wednesday after teaching a class at the Rehabilitation center I work at I received a call from Mr.Singer telling me what had happened. I have been Shot,Stabbed and Overdosed more times than anyone could possibly imagine and wonder how God could take such a wonderful,loving,good person away from his family and friends. To the family I am so sorry for your loss, Matt was my Brother and my friend. Steve Cohen

manny hernandez

March 5, 2004

I was deeply saddened by the news of Matthew's departure. I will always remember him as a true friend. May God bless and comfort his family now and forever.

Hersch Goodwin

March 5, 2004

I never met Matthew face to face but while at the Sun-Sentinel for 41 years we both handled financial institutions and major accounts. We probably talked at least once a quarter for years. Usually about some agency jerk or bank marketing director we didn't like - or liked. He was suppose to be the "competition" but to me he was a friend and gentleman. He would scratch my back and visa versa. I was shocked to hear of his passing. No more pressure or stress. My sympathy to his family.

Hersch Goodwin

(Retired)

Jeanie Enyart

March 5, 2004

Dear Dany,

Matthew was dear to a great many people. I remember when Matthew was an advertising sales representative and interested in joining management. He was very reluctant to accept the promotion to Broward Sales Manager but was very successful at doing the job once he accepted the promotion. He always wanted to be National Advertising Director and I'm so glad that he was promoted into that job.

Matthew was upbeat, funny, engaging and delightful. I know how much he loved you and his daughters. He always spoke highly of his family and let others know how very important your happiness was to him.

I will miss Matthew. We had kept in touch over the years. I was shocked and saddened to hear of his death. My deepest sympathy goes out to you and your family at this difficult time.

Jeanie Enyart

Gabrielle Austin

March 5, 2004

Dear Dany

I do not know what in the world I can possibly say to ease your pain. I will keep Matthew, you and the girls in my prayers.

You have to know how much you and the girls were adored by Matthew. You are the shining star that made his world ablaze with light, laughter and true happiness. He loves you so very much.

Matthew and I worked closely together at the Miami Herald. I left the Herald in 1997 and would see Matthew at the various newspaper conferences including the one held a couple of months ago in San Diego. Matthew would eagerly draw from his wallett the latest pictures of you and his adorable daughters and share them with me. His whole face would light up with the biggest smile as he shared the girls latest antics.

Jesus must have wanted a good man like Matthew in heaven. God Bless him and you.

Brad Essex

March 5, 2004

I met Matthew about 14 years ago and knew at that very moment that he was someone special. His personality was his charm and if he was down about something you would never know it. We played softball on Herald teams together, basketball everywhere from some driveway to a full-court, we attended many sporting events over the years. Just us boys being boys I guess. In recent years we both became parents and often joked about our new roles on the phone. Matthew was always talking about how lucky he was to have Dany and his girls. They were his world and I know that he will always be with them. I will never forget you Matt.

Brad Essex and Family

Amy Staker

March 5, 2004

Dany - You and I both moved to south Florida from Utah in the fall of 1993.

Matthew and I sat next to each other for over 2 1/2 years. He had such a beautiful love and respect for you. Last Friday, I had a great conversation with him. When I asked about you and your daughters his reply was, "my life is beautiful." He was so rich in character and I feel so blessed to have known him. He was kind, thoughtful, hilarious and so full of character, life and spirit. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

I will miss him tremendously. Should you ever need anything, please call upon me. I'm always here as the other Mormon girl from Utah. I wish I could do more.

Love Always,

Amy Staker

David Itkin

March 5, 2004

For 5 years Matt and I lived in adjacent apartments. We were of elementary school age, our moms were both young widows and the yenta who managed the apartment complex thought it a good idea to put my mom and I next door to Matt's family when we moved in.

Thank you, Thelma Levitch.

For 5 years I had a great guy, one year older, cheerfully testing the waters for me before I had to dive in: "Sunday Funday" and judo lessons at the old downtown JCC. The terrors of moving from 12 Corners Elementary School to 12 Corners Middle School. Camp Seneca Lake.

Ever after I had a dear friend, good for a warm smile and a warming welcome. Seeing Matty always brought me back, at least for a moment, to a time when the world seemed boundless --- boundlessly

exciting, boundlessly fun.

Although our paths crossed rarely once we both left Rochester, I was always tickled to hear of his professional successes and especially of his beloved family, through the strong connection our moms still share, 30 years later.

Matt's passing is cruel beyond words, unimaginable.

He was a mensch and the world is poorer for his passing from it.

Paula Stenzel

March 4, 2004

I never met Mathew in person, but grew to know him as the "right arm" to Larry Bien and Mike Petrak in our national sales meetings. He always had incredible ideas, humorous remarks and unending knowledge of the newspaper industry. I will miss him tremendously, as I am certain we all will. My heart and prayers are with his family as they mourn this wonderful man.

Steve Rosethal

March 4, 2004

Dany and family,

Words cannot relieve the devistation you are going through now. All that can be done is to take comfort in those closest and keep alive Matthew's memory in what you do. I had the opportunity to work in the National Adv while Matthew was there. Everyday he would be smiling and always talked about you and the girls. He was so proud of his life, his family and it showed. Just know that as the hours turn into days and those turn into years Matthew will always be there with his humor & smile.

John Hoover

March 4, 2004

Mathew is/was one of the finest people I've ever known. All of the good/great things said of Mathew are absolutely true. I met Mathew after he was only a week or two on his new job at the Herald. Polite, courteous, likable and friendly. Any time that he would come to the 4th floor he would drop in to say hello and to ask "how are you?." I am anguished by the loss of Mathew. He will ever be in my mind. To all family members and friends, I share your sorrow.

Maurice Amiel

March 4, 2004

As so many others, I am in shock over Matt's sudden death. I have known Matt for about 13 years since he joined our Sunday morning basketball game in Coral Springs in 1991. Matt was a terrific guy. He brought his usual humor and easy going demeanor as well as his funny one liners to every game.

It was a fun time for all of us. Ever since he bought his home, he would always say he was coming or going to Home Depot, his home away from home and we would kid him about his new found domestication.

I remember when Matt's first daughter was born. My wife and I visited him and Dany in the hospital and they were so proud and happy. It was a beautiful thing to see him beaming like that.

This past Sunday we played basketball like normal. Matt showed up late as usual, but we all expected to see him arrive late as he had a ride from Boca. Before playing, he would go through his stretching routine, a ritual for Matt.

It's hard to believe that I won't be seeing or talking to Matt again. Sunday basketball will not be the same without him. I still can't get his death out of my head, it seems like that's all I can think about. His beautiful wife and kids being alone without him is just too hard to imagine.

We will all miss him dearly.

He was just a great guy.

David Knight

March 4, 2004

My heart is so heavy after hearing about the passing of Matthew. These past couple of days have been hard to deal with. I keep hearing Matthew telling me things, like "keep going man" or "you're on to something" or his always reassuring "right, right, right".

I met Matthew over 10 years ago, when he came to Philadelphia to meet with me about an advertising program for the Miami Chamber of Commerce. From the first day we met, we connected and knew that we would remain friends. We later worked again putting together The Herald's Money Show. Matthew put his heart and soul into making this event a success. And it was a success on every level.

Over the years, whenever I got to Miami, he was always my first call, usually from the airport. We would have lunch and plan our careers together. He was always a good listener and an excellent sage.

I am writing this guest book entry because I really don't know what else to do. I loved Matthew as a friend, a colleague and a genuine, gracious man. He is one the best "human" beings I've ever had the honor to call friend. I guess what I really want to say is , how deeply sorry I am that he has passed on to a new life. I wish I had one more lunch with him. One more chance to say to him how cool, and calm and collected he really is.

The best way I can describe how I feel about Matthew is, that he is a "light" in the this world. A "light" for his family, friends and everyone he touched. He will shine forever. His brilliance, compassion, and his good nature will inspire me for the rest of my life.

I am happy to have celebrated even one moment of my life with Matthew.

I will miss him dearly, but I will cherish his friendship always.

David Torchin

March 4, 2004

Our deepest condolences to the Dany, the girls, and the family. Matthew will be sadly missed.

David Torchin, Staff, and Family

Paco Gou

March 4, 2004

Dany and Family - I worked with Matthew at The Herald some years back. He was one of the people that made me look back fondly at my time there. What a great loss for all... My prayers are with you and your family. May God bless you...Paco Gou

Peter Romano

March 4, 2004

I was deeply saddened when I learned of the news of Matthew Fine's passing. I knew Matt as a peer and a friend for over ten years. I was a client of Matt's initially, and our professional relationship grew into a friendship that meant a great deal to me. When I decided to make the career transition to ad sales, Matt was an invaluable resource for me. He was deeply proud of his family, and I enjoyed our phone calls, and his occasional trips to New York which always resulted in great dinner and laughs.

Dany and his family are in my prayers. I will miss Matt a great deal.

Craig Singer

March 4, 2004

Matthew Fine was too young and too good to leave us so soon. He was a Father, Son, Brother, Uncle, Husband and friend to many. His devotion to his work and family will be remembered. He was my friend of reason and compassion. I loved him like a brother.

Matt and I we're very close. I met him 15 years ago when we we're both pushing cheap ads in the Herald's Northern most territories. We both climbed the ladder of success there sharing many ups and downs together. We shared in the excitement of having kids in the same year just months apart. Our families enjoyed spending time together and taking a vacation together. I'll never forget our first Tahoe trip!

Matt's devotion to his job was well known. He made it all the way to the top at The Herald as the national advertising director. Where the buck really stops. If you have a successful national advertising department, you have a successful paper. The Herald needed a young, dedicated, focused, goal-achieving director and they found that in Matt. He took that department to new levels in one of the toughest recent years in advertising. He blew away his goals and 2003 was his best year at The Herald. Most importantly, he gained the respect of his national sales team and bosses who believed in his leadership and plan for success.

He did more for the Herald then most employees. He sold hundreds of millions of dollars for the almighty Herald over the years. He served tirelessly on community boards that we’re not even in his advertising category. He developed alternative revenue sources the Herald NEVER thought about or could carry out without his dedication. It's not easy pushing a new idea through The Herald! He worked late every night. I would speak with Matt on his way home each day trying to make his miserable drive a little better.

I left the Herald after 8 years to start a new business. Matt was very influential in giving me the strength to leave the security of The Herald to try something on my own. We talked about starting the business together for a long time. He chose to stay and I chose to leave. Matt was not a big risk taker. He always supported me and gave me brotherly advice. We always bounced ideas off each other. He was my real “silent partner”.

Matt loved his wife Dany more than she ever knew. He told me how lucky he was to have met Dany. She is truly an angel that came into Matt's life and brought him joy like he had never experienced before. She was the best thing in Matt's life and he knew it. He might not have always told her and he might have expressed his love in different ways, but the devotion was there. He adored his wife for good reason. She is remarkable.

Cecily and Isabella we're also the joy of his life. He wanted more children too. He loved them so much. Matt was always trying to spend more time with the kids. He would try to make them his priority with his tough schedule. About a month ago, Matt was in Vegas for business around Super Bowl weekend. Rather then come home on Monday and spend the weekend in Vegas, Matt took the red eye home on Friday night to be with Cicely and Isabella. He tried to give them as much love and time as possible. He was their Papa.

Matt loved his whole family. He had a great relationship with his mother, brother & sister. He was also very proud of his nephews and nieces. He got along great with Dany's family and enjoyed their visits.

Monday night Matt and I we're talking during his nightly exercise walk about investing in real estate together. He wanted to do something else. The drive and stress of the advertising business were wearing on him. We talked about a specific investment and Matt wanted to do it right away. I (for once) told him we needed to analyze the numbers more. He told me he was tired of always analyzing things and that he wanted to just do it. He said was going with his gut feeling. Something Matt rarely did.

I know we are all in shock over the loss of Matthew, but let’s try to focus on the positive things that Matt brought into our lives. As with all deaths, we reflect on living every day to it's fullest. More importantly than that, we have to live our lives the way we want to RIGHT NOW, and not wait too long for things to change on their own.

If Matt touched your life in a positive way, I hope you will contribute to the Memorial Fund that has been set up. Please give as much as possible as Matt did for so many.

I'll miss you Matthew and will always keep you in my heart. I will be there for your family now and forever.

Matthew Fine Fund

C/O KRMH Credit Union

1 Herald Plaza

Miami, FL 33132