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Benjamin Land Bivins

1939 - 2021

Benjamin Land Bivins obituary, 1939-2021, Tallahassee, FL

Benjamin Bivins Obituary

Benjamin Land Bivins

Tallahassee - Benjamin Land Bivins, 81, died peacefully on February 19 at his home in Tallahassee after a long battle with Alzheimer's and Parkinson's.

Born and raised in Macon, GA, he was the son of Howard and Katherine (Armstrong) Bivins. He attended Davidson College and Emory University School of Medicine before enlisting in the Air Force for three years, including one in Vietnam.

Following his residency at the University of Michigan, in 1972 he moved his young family to Tallahassee to open his dermatology practice. Several years later, he became the first in Tallahassee to offer Mohs skin cancer surgery after training with Dr. Mohs. Dedicated to his patients, many expressed over the years how much they appreciated that he took the time to listen to their concerns and treat them as individuals. After retirement in 2000, he continued helping patients as a regular volunteer at the Neighborhood Medical Center.

Throughout his life learning meant doing. Whether it was teaming with his brother Guy on boyhood woodworking projects, traveling to experience other cultures and locales, sailing, developing photographs, speaking Spanish, or simply trying his hand at something that sparked his interest, his broad curiosity led in many directions.

A longtime supporter of and participant in the local arts community, in retirement his passion for creating art deepened and he returned to school to earn an MFA in painting at FSU. After graduation he continued his involvement with FSU through advisory positions, as an instructor, and by funding travel for students and visiting artists. He delighted in exploring the possibilities in art, and it was rare to find him without a small pad and pen for quick sketches and notes. Enjoying art remained a central part of his life even as Alzheimer's took his ability.

He cherished and was cherished by his family. He is survived by his wife Elece; children Christopher (Jennifer DuBose and daughter Kate), Margaret Irene (Kit Goodner and children Henry and Ana) and Lucy (Eric Schmidt and sons Hugo and Leif), all of whom he had with his first wife Nancy, and Elece's daughters Ali (Ed Thomas and sons Chad and Ben) and Emily (Rick Mottern and daughters Amelia, Ava and Adeline); and siblings Jack (Deanna), Guy (Juanita) and Charlotte (Roland Knight, who predeceased him) and their families.

The family will hold a private memorial service. Donations in his memory are encouraged to the FSU Foundation to benefit the Ben Bivins Fund for Art or to the Trust for Public Land.

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Published by Tallahassee Democrat from Feb. 19 to Feb. 21, 2021.

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Rhonda Booth Dulgar

February 27, 2021

Dr. Bivins was the example of everything a doctor should be. He was caring and kind, very knowledgeable yet able to explain things in a way that non-medical people could understand what was going on. I am so saddened to hear of his passing, but I am so glad that I had the opportunity to have had him as a doctor on several occasions. My prayers for all the family and friends who are grieving and hurting. His was a life well lived and I hope that the knowledge of that brings comfort to all that are hurting. Love and prayers.

JYHorton-Patient

February 25, 2021

Dr. Bivins was my dermatologist in 1982. He removed ear keloid. I was anxious to get them done before I went back home for a visit. I told him I was from a small town outside of Macon, and he asked, Gray or Haddock. This is a processed, and took care of me, and I have never had anymore problems with ear keloids. We laughed and he told me about Alice Walker and her book, The Color Purple and suggested I read it. May the work he has done speak for him.

JERI P SUMNER

February 23, 2021

Its hard to say in a few words what I thought about Ben. He was a kind, gentle man, so talented and we are fortunate enough to have one of his paintings, which I cherish. He has been a dear friend for many years and I was truly blessed to have known him. The world will be a sadder place without Ben. Rest in peace, my friend.

Libby Lewis

February 20, 2021

Curtis and I are saddened to hear of Ben's passing. We will miss seeing him on his daily walks. His was always cheerful and his smile broad. His desire to connect with others was truly warm and inviting. Our prayers and thoughts are with you.

Georgiana Buck

February 20, 2021

Ken and I are so sorry to hear of Ben’s passing. We will remember seeing he and Elise walking in the neighborhood. He would always have a delightful smile and a bit of conversation. May he rest peacefully with the angels.

Brenda Johnson Williams

February 19, 2021

Dr. Bivens was a great doctor and kind man who listened to me complain about my teenage acne and allergies. May God comfort and bless his family.

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