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Emmala Howerton Obituary

Emmala (Emy) Mays Kelly Howerton Emmala (Emy) Mays Kelly Howerton died peacefully in her home in Madison, Florida on April 11, 2010. She was surrounded by her loving family and friends. Emy was born on September 4, 1919 in Monticello, Florida and was the daughter of the late Colin P. and Mary (Mamie) Mays Kelty. Her late brother was Captain Colin P. Kelly Jr., the first hero of WWII. Her grandfather was Dannitte H. Mays, who married Emmala Bellamy Parkhill. D.H. Mays became Speaker of the House of Florida, and later a U.S. Congressman. Her great-grandfather was Richard Johnson Mays, who with his wife, Eliza, settled in Madison County in the late 1820s. He was responsible for forming the Baptist Association of Florida at his home at Clifton Mansion, near the Jefferson County line, and is marked by a commemorative monument. Her surviving children are Colin Kelly (Vicki) Howerton and Mary Howerton Blackmon, Tommy (Michelle) Howerton, Sandy (Lilla) Howerton, and Gaines Howerton. Her surviving grandchildren are Memy Howerton Hayes (Tommy), John Blackmon (Michelle) and Matt Blackmon (Brooke). Great-grandchildren include: Kelly Hayes, Cole Hayes, Nora Blackmon, Davis Blackmon, and Emmala Jane Blackmon. Emy loved playing bridge in the weekly bridge club. She was a member of Ladies Golf Association of the Madison Country Club where she played golf, and was the church organist for many years at the First Presbyterian Church. She was also a member of the Colonial Dames, Daughters of the American Revolution, and a longtime member of the Audrey-Newman Circle at First United Methodist Church. Emy lived in Madison all of her life. Emy's engaging personality and her welcoming smile will be greatly missed by all. Services will be held at the First United Methodist Church in Madison, at 2:00 p.m. EDT, Thursday, April 15, 2010, with interment at Oak Ridge Cemetery. Visitation will be at Beggs Funeral Home Madison Chapel from 5:30 to 7:30 p.m. EDT, Wednesday, April 14, 2010. Memorials may be made to First United Methodist Church, 348 SW Rutledge St., Madison, FL 32340; Madison County Memorial Hospital, 303 NE Marion St., Madison, FL 32340; or Big Bend Hospice, 1723 Mahan Center Blvd., Tallahassee, FL 32308.

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Published by Tallahassee Democrat on Apr. 13, 2010.

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Claire Hembree

April 19, 2010

Dear Mary, Colin, Vicki & family, Please know that our thoughts and prayers are with you and will continue to be. You were so blessed to have such a wonderful Mother. Madison will never be the same without her, she was a true Steel Magnolia if there ever was one. We have such fond memories of her and will cherish them always. We were sorry we were unable to be at the service, but we heard it was such a tribute. Claire and Joe

Kelly Bevan Spirer

April 15, 2010

Dear Sandy, We are so sorry to hear of Miss Emy's passing. We are so thankful that we got to see her last summer when she was feeling well. Our prayers and love go to you and your entire family. Love, Kelly, Peter, Sam and Rachel

Rosa Downing

April 14, 2010

I will miss Mrs, Emmy, I used to work at the cafe which is now O'neal in Madison years ago. I always looked forward to seeing her and her Family. She always had such a Beautiful smile and Personality. I will miss her Dearly. Rosa O'Quinn Downing

April 14, 2010

Mary, I was so sorry to hear about your Mama. She was so thoughtful and kind! She surely will be missed. Know that we are thinking of you and your family at this very sad time. Love, Otelia and Ray Thompson(Fayetteville Tennessee)

Bill, Suzanne & Joseph McCain

April 13, 2010

Colin and Family,
Sorry to hear about Emy. She will be missed greatly. My the Lord grant you peace at this time. You all are in my families prayers at this time.

Teresa Carswell Howard

April 13, 2010

Mary & Family,
I was deeply saddened to learn that Miss Emy has passed away. Although I have not seen her in many years, she has always been one of my favorite people! She was just so sweet and so cute and so much fun to be around...a wonderful, elegant, true Southern Lady whose bright, beautiful smile will be GREATLY missed by the many people who loved her, myself included. I will always remember a conversation we had once about how much we both loved jewelry. She laughed and said that her Daddy always called her a "gypsy" because she loved it so much! By the way...did I mention that, when I grow up, I want to be Miss Emy! :)

Please know that all of you are in my thoughts and prayers during this sad time.

Irma & Wiley James

April 13, 2010

Our thoughts and sympathy are with you.

Frandy Baggett

April 13, 2010

One of my all-time favorite people! Always smiling, always gracious. She will be greatly missed.

April 13, 2010

Hello to Ms Emy's family and our love and sympathy to you and Madison town for the loss of a great lady.
Joan Richards-Herndon and Family

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