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Kirkland O'Steen Obituary
Kirkland Cantey O'Steen, 25, of Tallahassee, Fl. passed away peacefully at home, May 1st, 2015, from a brain aneurysm. He was born January 16th, 1990 in Tallahassee, Fl., the first born son of Lisa Kirkland O'Steen, and Thomas Clyde O'Steen, both of Tallahassee. He was predeceased by his maternal grandparents Lucile "Busy" Summers Kirkland and W. Raymond Kirkland of Lake City, FL. He is the grandson of Dr. and Mrs. Lawrence Carlton O'Steen (Margaret Cantey) of Stuart, Florida. Kirkland was currently employed as an analyst for Tax Watch.
Kirkland loved to read and the desire for learning was instilled in him at an early age at Holy Comforter Episcopal School. From there he went to Leon High School and was a member of the 2007 National Champion Men's 2V Rowing Team. Rowing inspired Kirkland's love of strength conditioning and physical fitness. After attending Florida State, he graduated from the University of Florida in 2012 Cum Laude with a B.A. in history, one of his passions. Kirkland became an avid wing shooter at the age of 8, after dove hunting at Bienville with his Grandfather, Papa. Kirkland loved to be in the woods, whether it was running or walks with his family at Phipps plantation. When he wasn't in the woods, he was always impeccably dressed, no matter the occasion; never missing a chance to wear one of his bespoke suits, always with a freshly picked flower in his lapel. A true gentleman of the south, Kirkland was perfecting the bloody mary recipe passed down from his late grandfather Ray Kirkland. His love of spicy foods, Tabasco and any hot sauce, only helped in the pursuit of creating the perfect cocktail.
Kirkland's family was the most cherished part of his life. Kirkland is survived by his parents Tom and Lisa; his brothers Thomas and Drayton; grandparents Margaret and Larry. He is also survived by his Aunt Lynn Sullivan, and Cousins Jack and Carrie, of Jacksonville, FL., and numerous friends.
Funeral arrangements are being handled by Beggs Funeral Home, 3322 Apalachee Pkwy. The funeral will be held on Tuesday, at 2:00 at Trinity United Methodist, 120 West Park Avenue, Tallahassee, FL. 32301. Interment will be at 11:00am, Wednesday, May 5th at Oak Ridge Cemetery, Madison, FL. Memorial contributions may be made to Trinity United Methodist Church, P.O. Box 1086, Tallahassee, FL 32302.
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Memories and Condolences
for Kirkland O'Steen
Sponsored by Lisa Kirkland, Thomas and Drayton O’Steen.
Manley Family
October 18, 2015
Just returned yesterday from 6 months in Montana and ran into Kyle's mom and dad who informed me of Kirkland's passing. I remember him well from Holy Comforter as a smart, principled, and passionate young gentleman, the kind of man our country needs so much in these times. We are saddened by his loss and send our best wishes to Tom, Lisa, Thomas and Drayton. May the peace of the Lord be with you all.
Walter, Linda and Ben Manley
Heather Douglas-Shoup
May 10, 2015
Dear Tom,
I just heard of Kirkland's passing. I am so sorry. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Nathan Newell
May 8, 2015
Praying for Kirkland and your family. Nathan
Linda Gilleon
May 6, 2015
Our thoughts and prayers are with each of you. With deepest sympathy, The Gilleon Family
May 6, 2015
Margaret and Larry, we learned of the sad loss of your grandson, Kirkland and send our sincere sympathy and prayers to you and your family.
We met you in Stuart, FL at FUMC, where we were members.
Tiller and Joyce T. Phillips, Lynn Haven, FL
Nora Doran
May 6, 2015
Dear Tom and Lisa,
We are so sorry for your loss. You and Thomas and Drayton are in our thoughts and prayers. We hope your memories of Kirkland will one day help ease the pain of this sudden and tragic loss. With deepest sympathy, Richard, Nora, William and Brennan Doran
Kitty Redfern
May 6, 2015
Kirkland leaves so many precious memories for so many people; he was a blessing sent from heaven.
May 6, 2015
Lisa, Words could never explain how deeply saddened I was to hear about your son, Kirkland's passing. Although I never had the chance to meet this dear man Kirkland, I know he was so loved by all. You talked so fondly of the times you and your sons shared together and I hope the beautiful memories of this young man will bring some sense of peace down the road. Kirkland seemed to have a beautiful spirit and a kind and gentle soul. I will pray for you and be there to listen any time you want to share the beautiful memories of this dear child who was taken away all too soon. My heart grieves with you and your family. I send you all the loving and healing energy you will need each minute, hour and day to try and find the strength to move forward. My condolences to the entire family to you and your husband and especially to Kirkland's younger brothers. I will always have you all in my prayers.
Kimberly Cody Waterhouse
May 6, 2015
Lisa:
Wishing you and your family peace and comfort during this difficult time.
Eve Williams
May 6, 2015
Dear Tom, Lisa, Thomas and Drayton, Our hearts are with you during this time. We pray to God to give you comfort in all the wonderful memories you have of Kirkland. Eve, Michael, Thomas and Eve
Terry Perry
May 6, 2015
So very sorry for the loss of your Kirkland, such a tragedy to lose a child. No words are sufficient but please know that I as well as many others are praying for your family.
Laura Ruth Norris
May 5, 2015
Lisa,
Our thoughts and prayers have been with you and the boys since learning of your tragic loss. What a handsome, great son and young man he was. There are no words adequate as we never understand why. But, you know where he is and may that bring some comfort as you mourn.
Love, Laura Ruth & Mary Anne Norris
Jean RIllstone
May 5, 2015
Dear Tom & Lisa, We are all so sorry for your loss. You and the boys are in our thoughts and prayers. With deepest sympathy, Doug, Jean, Nick, Nathan, Meaghan & Molly Rillstone
Barbara Hodges
May 5, 2015
Dear Lisa and Tom,
My heart is broken to hear of the passing of Kirkland. I send my sympathy to you both, as well as Thomas and Drayton. I have such wonderful memories of Kirkland and your family. Lisa, I remember our sitting together at the front of Trinity Methodist when Kirkland was just a baby. I was so delighted when he came to Holy Comforter, and I got to watch him grow. Words can not express the deep sorrow I feel for his loss and the loss that all of you are experiencing. I will be praying for all of you!Love to all of you! Barbara Hodges
May 5, 2015
Dear Lisa, Tom, Thomas and Drayton,
We are so heartbroken over the news of Kirkland's passing. We know he is in a better place in heaven and will look down and you all and give you strength and peace during this tragic time. You will be in our prayers now and in the future. Ida, Bill, Carter & Elyse
May 5, 2015
Dear Lisa & Tom, Drayton and Thomas - We are so very sorry for your tragic loss. What a wonderful young man Kirkland was. I know you will miss him dearly but he will be with you in some way every day! A wonderful son, brother, cousin, nephew, grandson, friend. Sending much love to you all.
Lisa/Elroy Caldwell
May 5, 2015
Tommy & Lisa, We am so so sorry for your loss. Please know you are in our thoughts and every prayer.
Love,Debbie, Whitney, Audrey & Julie
May 5, 2015
Lisa: my prayers are with you and your family at this tragic time ... Jo Haley, Lake City
May 5, 2015
KIRKLAND DID GREAT WORKS ON EARTH,
NOW, KIRKLAND IS IN HEAVEN WALKING ON STREETS OF GOLD.
HIS SMILE HERE IN THIS PICTURE,
IS NOTHING TO THE SMILE HE IS WEARING IN HEAVEN.
WHERE ALL IS PEACE & JOY.
OH, ONE DAY WE WILL JOIN IN THAT HEAVENLY BAND,
& WILL SEE KIRKLAND & OTHER LOVED ONES.
WHAT A GLAD DAY THAT WILL BE.
THANK YOU JESUS.
Somkit thompson
May 5, 2015
My heart breaks for you Lisa. My thoughts and prayers are with you. I cannot express my sadness enough. Love you.
Susie Hall
May 4, 2015
Lisa and Tommy, My heart is broken for you. I can not even imagine what you are feeling. I am sending you both strength and peace as you learn to navigate your world without Kirkland. I will keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers forever and a day!
Ed Caum
May 4, 2015
So sorry for your loss, and wishing you the Lord's blessings and strength at this time.
Death leaves a heartache no one can heal, love leaves a memory no one can steal.
From an Irish headstone
Laura Frandsen
May 4, 2015
Lisa,
Words can not express our sorrow for your loss. You are in our prayers.
With deepest sympathy, Laura & all of us at Cade & Associates.
Anne Canova
May 4, 2015
I'm sorry for the loss of your Grandson. My prayers.
Charlotte Cowen
May 4, 2015
Lisa, Tom, Thomas & Drayton and family: Please know that your tremendous loss deeply affects all who know and love you. Lots of prayers are being said on your behalf. May your wonderful memories of Kirkland fill your heart at this sad time.
Layna Kirkham
May 4, 2015
Thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
May 4, 2015
The office of Architects: Lewis + Whitlock, send their deepest condolences and sympathy in this very trying time. Rely on the strength of your friends and family to get you through this difficult moment.
C N Kirkland
May 4, 2015
On the Kirkland side you join a litany of noble ancestors: GGGGG Gfather John, GGGG Gfather Cuyler, GGG Gfather Green, GG Gfather Ansel, G Gfather Clarence, Gfather Raymond Give them my regards for at 92 I shall soon be joining you all for a great family reunion.
Carline Peeler Kennedy
May 4, 2015
Lisa you and your Family are in my thoughts and prayer
Al Purser
May 4, 2015
Lisa, Edie and I are so sorry to hear this news. I know that your Mom and Dad are showing him around. Al
Becky Brown
May 4, 2015
Lisa, Tom, Thomas and Drayton, all of our love to you at this tragic point in your life! May God give you the strength to carry you through this time and as you move forward! Joe and Becky Brown
Tom Morgan
May 4, 2015
Dear O'Steen Family,
Kirkland was a valuable and memorable member of The Leon Crew and I am sorry for your loss.
Tom Morgan
Gina Landrum Campbell
May 4, 2015
Lisa, I'm so very sorry. Words just can't express such a loss. You and your family are in my prayers.
Susan Espenship
May 4, 2015
Lisa, words cannot express how deeply saddened mom, sis and I are for your family's loss. Memories are God's gift to those left here...until you reunite in God's kingdom, May the holy spirit comfort and keep you close to him...all our love..Susan, Nancy and Kathryn...
Kelley Miller
May 4, 2015
My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Josh McSwain
May 4, 2015
John 11:35.... Simple words cannot express how this hit me. Coach Josh
Elyse Kenney
May 4, 2015
Lisa, so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
May 4, 2015
With deepest sympathies.
The Foundation for Florida Gateway College
Patti Weiffenbach-Terrell
May 4, 2015
So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Love The Weiffenbach Clan
May 3, 2015
So sorry for your loss!
Sending prayers for comfort!
With love, Donna Davenport Brown
Kelly Patterson
May 3, 2015
My deepest and sincerest sympathy to Tom and the entire O'Steen family. Prayers for peace and healing for you all. Much love!!
May 3, 2015
Lisa and Tom
Sean and I were very saddened to hear of your loss. Please know all of you are in our thoughts and prayers.
Sean and Stephanie Pushor
Cory Stuhmer
May 3, 2015
My deepest condolences. Kirkland was a great student and great kid. He was always one of my favorites.
Linda Dix
May 3, 2015
Lisa, I was so saddened to hear this news. My heart aches for you and your family. Please know you are in my thoughts.
Linda Dix
May 3, 2015
Kirkland was in my care as a young child
at Holy Comforter School.That is a special memory for me Prayerfully,
Frances Blount
Troy & Gigi Register
May 3, 2015
Lisa & Family - you are all in our thoughts and prayers. May your memories help you during this difficult time. Kirkland was a fine young man. Love you!
Kerri Nash
May 3, 2015
Dear Lisa,
My heart goes out to you. As I read Kirkland's accomplishments he was obviously an outstanding leader and southern gentleman. My prayers are with you and your family.
Kerri Nash
Carl & Fraces Wilson
May 3, 2015
Lisa, We were just devastated to hear from Merry Lynn of your loss. Such a handsome young man. Our prayers are with you and your family.
Dray & Judy Summers
May 3, 2015
Lisa, Dray and I know what you're going through and know that God will wrap you in his arms as he did us to get you through this somehow someway. Please know that you are forever on our minds praying for comfort to you and your precius family. Warmest thoughts, Dray and Judy Summers
Deb -Rose Brown
May 3, 2015
Praying for you and your family, Lisa. Imy heart goes out to you, I simply can not imagine the loss you feel. May GOD give you peace because Kirkland is with him now.
Eunice Quisenberry
May 3, 2015
Tom, what a sad shock to learn of your, and your family's loss... Kirkland sounds as though he is a duplicate of his Father - someone I have always admired and respected.... So grateful that through Patrick and Mary Margaret I have the pleasure of knowing you....GOD's comfort will surround each of you.......I AM SO VERY, VERY SORRY. Fondly, Eunice Quisenberry Laguna Beach/Tall FL
Karen Hoffman
May 3, 2015
Lisa, my heart aches for you and your family. I am so sorry. May God bless you all during this tragic time
Karl Plenge
May 3, 2015
Lisa -
Love and prayers and much sympathy to you.
May 3, 2015
Lisa and Tom,
My deepest sympathy is poured out to you and your family! Love the memories of Graham and Kirkland over all the years and I want you to know that you are in my prayers. He was a fantastic boy and man. Love you! Katrice
Brentley Kilpatrick
May 3, 2015
I had the opportunity to go to grade school, and grow up beside Kirk. He's as genuine as they come. We will miss you man. My prayers go out to the family and other friends of this wonderful man and friend.
May 3, 2015
WHAT A BEAUTIFUL SMILE.
NOW KIRKLAND IS SMILING DOWN FROM HEAVEN WATCHING OVER EACH OF YOU.
GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY.
WHAT A GLAD REUNION DAY THAT WILL BE,
WHEN WE ALL GET TO HEAVEN.
Anna
May 3, 2015
WHAT A BEAUTIFUL SMILE.
NOW KIRKLAND IS SMILING DOWN FROM HEAVEN WATCHING OVER EACH OF YOU.
GOD BLESS YOUR FAMILY.
WHAT A GLAD REUNION DAY THAT WILL BE,
WHEN WE ALL GET TO HEAVEN.
gloria tucker
May 3, 2015
To the O'Steen family: You have my deepest sympathy on the immeasurable loss you have suffered, but take courage, it is only momentary. The greatest parent in the universe promises at Hosea 13:14 that he will recover our loved ones from death and he will redeem them from the grave. What a wonderful blessing awaits you in the near future when pain, sickness, and death will never harm your family again.
May 3, 2015
Lisa, you have been so supportive of me while I have been in crisis. My heart aches for your loss and I am here if you need anything. Love and prayers from the Johns family, especially Valerie & Jessica.
Sandra Summers Jarrell
May 3, 2015
Lisa, I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. Please know you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
Gerri Hall
May 2, 2015
Dearest Tom, Lisa, Thomas and Drayton~ It is with a broken heart that I pray that God give you peace during your time of loss. Kirkland was the best of the best and loved his family dearly. I am so proud to have known him and honored to have loved him. Thank you for sharing your son and your brother with me to love. Much Love To You All~
Kathy Thomas
May 2, 2015
So deeply saddened for you.
Felecia Ford
May 2, 2015
Lisa, I am overwhelmed to learn of your loss. My prayers are with you and your family.
Felecia Adams Ford CHS 1978
Darlene & Earl Suber Jr
May 2, 2015
Lisa..My heart goes out to you an your family. We are so very sorry for the loss of your loving an bright son Kirkland.May you find comfort in our Lords surrounding arms. Sending prayers and praying for you all.
May 2, 2015
Lisa,Tom,Thomas and Drayton,
The Avera family has you in our thoughts and prayers. We are so sorry. God bless and comfort you.
Sheila Costigan
May 2, 2015
Lisa, our hearts are broken for you and yours. I hope you find peace and comfort through family love and the beautiful memories of your sweet son. God bless.
Norbie and Kelli Ronsonet
May 2, 2015
Lisa, you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers as you all try and find your way though this very difficult time. Kirkland was a wonderful, handsome young man who will be missed by so many. You have our deepest sympathies.
Shellye Hook-Richards
May 2, 2015
Lisa, Please accept my sincere sympathy for the loss of your son. Love & prayers to you & your family. May the Lord comfort you at this time of need.
Jillian Fry
May 2, 2015
Lisa and family,
My heart is heavy with your tremendous loss. This obituary gave me a glimpse of a charming, beloved young man. I hope your memories ease your pain, and that faith and love bind you ever closer to your family and friends.
Jillian
Betty Pat Witt
May 2, 2015
Lisa, you and the family are in my thoughts and prayers. Kirkland was such a fine young man and will be missed by so many. Love you.
Patti Witt Summerlin
May 2, 2015
We love you all. Our prayers are being sent your way. We are so very sorry.
Marti Chumbler
May 2, 2015
Lisa & Tom,
You, Thomas, and Drayton are all in our prayers.
Brent & Marti Chumbler
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