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for Aaron Griner
Roger Maris
June 25, 2023
You tend to dive deep in your past as you age....Hard not to think of Tampa's WAR HERO! What a good guy!
Megan Lakhani
November 1, 2022
Hi Brother,
So much in life changes all the time. I really wish you were still here to experience it all.
Always thinking of you.
Amanda Hendry (Studstill)
October 8, 2021
Oh man... where do I start? I miss you everyday. You were the best friend ( brother) anyone could possibly have. Losing you put alot of people in dark places. My 1st son now has your middle name.... there are no words that can express the loss everyone felt that day... losing you is only 2nd to my father less than a year after you... I hope that after all these years, your family and everyone that EVER met you finds peace in the fact that you did EXACTLY what you wanted to be doing in your last days... helping everyone you possibly could. You were the purest heart I ever knew and I'm so glad I was honored to have you in my life. I pray for your family, and miss you ever second. I love you bub! To the moon and back!
David Jones
May 25, 2020
I miss you Aaron, I think of you often.
Megan Lakhani
May 30, 2019
Hey Brother, We all still miss you and wish you could have stayed. We got together with Amanda and Austin last month. Amanda is still beautiful and Austin reminds me so much of you in almost every movement and gesture. He's a great kid and I know you are proud. I love you Bro! Always thinking of you!
Jessica Sachon
May 28, 2019
I think of you all the time. You are that butterfly I see constantly and I miss you dearly. Austin looks just like you!!!
Mark Barnes
May 27, 2019
Thinking of you bro. Not just Memorial day but every day. Still cant believe your gone bro.
February 3, 2018
As I sit and think of Austin's upcoming 12th birthday, I can't help but think of the first time I seen you and Mandy hold him in that hospital room. To being at Laurie's with us all and helping Elaine and I clean, only for us both to sit and laugh after because we knew she would come home and do it all again. Then sitting on the phone for what seemed forever while Mandy and I discussed wedding plans for Josh and I. Trying to pick a date and Josh saying we would wait for you to come home.... I remember instantly you telling Mandy that it was ok and we shouldn't wait because you didn't know exactly when you would be back. "You can't put your plans on hold just for me!" you told us. Little did any of us know that that week would be the last time I would ever speak to you again. I forever see you in Austin as he gets older and remember the silly things that I thought wasn't a big deal. You and Josh locking yourselves in the babies room for hours putting the crib together, to wearing that silly santa hat around a little square table that was clearly the kids table but we all sat at anyways. Most of all the love you showed to Amanda and Austin. We speak of you often and smile everytime your name is spoke. Love and Miss you
Andrea
Anita Lovallo
August 26, 2014
To Dustin Waggoner I was very touched by your words on the legacy site today. Could you please contact me personally at [email protected] I am Aaron's mother Anita Lovallo
Thank you for your kind words
Sincerely,
Anita Lovallo
Dustin Waggoner
August 23, 2014
It's been a long time since that day but tonight I told Griner's story to a friend and I got to thinking about that day. I still wear my bracelet in memory of him even though it's getting so worn you can barely read it anymore. I get chills each time someone asks what that bracelet is and I get to tell them Griner's story. I'm glad it keeps it fresh in my mind and that I have the opportunity to tell others about him. I was with him that day and saw the aftermath of what happened which will be burned in my mind forever. I hope that his son knows that his father was a good man who touched many people's lives. I will never forget him and I will wear that bracelet and tell his story until I am no longer able. God bless his family and many friends.
Megan Griner
March 9, 2014
You are always on my mind and in my heart! Sometimes in life you still need your big bro and I can hear you in my head. Thanks for being the best brother I could've ever asked for.
Bryan garrett
October 13, 2013
I think that you have helped me more than I will ever know.
Julie O'Brien
August 4, 2013
Aaron, how we miss you and have many memories of you! Mandy and I, with more friends and family, are participating in a "Run for the Fallen" on Aug.17, 2013. When Mandy asked me, I was very honored to walk/run FOR YOU! You will ALWAYS be a part of our life. Your spirit protects your family and especially our lil' man, Austin James! He looks more and more like you every day...with red hair! lol Just wanted to say hello and miss you! Morgan, wanted me to mention how you shared your "stick of gum" at Applebees when we had all gone out for dinner! You are such a special man and it carries over in your son..Austin! We love you and you are always in our hearts!! --Julie and Morgan xoxo
Jessica Sachon
June 29, 2012
A day behind the loss of you but it's still hard everyday knowing you're physically not here. Your son is growing and handsome as ever. I visited your wife and left flowers for you on your grave last summer if you weren't already watching. Your picture still sits on my desk at work, and any memories of all the things we've ever done aren't fading a bit. So you are loved and missed by all Aaron. You impacted so many lives. I will always miss you.
Joshua Wenzel
June 28, 2012
Well Bro, another year has come and gone, and it still doesnt get any easier to deal with you being taken from us. Till' we meet again.
David
December 22, 2011
I miss you Aaron, and I will always carry you in my heart.
Megan Griner
November 24, 2011
Bubby, Happy Thanksgiving. I was at the store a couple days ago and saw that they had that big league chew gum so of course I got it... I put a whole bunch of it in my mouth and it made me remember the time I took your Ken Griffey Jr rookie card and hooked it to my bike spokes to make that cool motorcycle sound. Man, when you heard that you started chasing me down the street and I almost choked on my big league chew when you caught me. anyway, today I'm so thankful for those memories of you today. I love you. -Little Sis
SGT Thon, Vandy
July 24, 2011
"DOC" I miss you so much. Being back in Afghanistan makes it so much harder. You are truly an amazing person. A best friend to all. I can still the remember the day of that tragedy happen vividly. I didn't realized at the time that you past away. It hurt me not to talk to you like I always do after missions. To you, CPL Aaron M. Griner, I salute.
Peggy Childers
June 29, 2011
June 28, 2011
To the family and friends of Cpl. Aaron Griner:
Please accept my remembrance of Aaron on the anniversary of his passing and know that he will never be forgotten.
Cousin Pete
June 28, 2011
I think of you everyday. This weekend is all about you! We all miss you and wish you were here. One day we will be together again. Until then your memory lives on. Rest in Peace Cousin!
Josh Wenzel
June 28, 2011
Well Bro, its been 5 years now, and Ive finally gotten up the courage to write to you in your guest book. I know, everyone always says "its seems like yesterday..." but it really does. You were with us through so much, its hard to believe that you were taken from us. Every day I think about all the good times we had and how much you looked after everyone, including me. Rest in peace brother.
Andrea Helmer
June 1, 2011
Your little man is growing aaron and everyday mandy tells him what a great and brave daddy he has!!! We miss you very much. Our little girls may never get to meet you in person, but they will know what a great uncle they have.
Megan Griner
January 10, 2011
I miss you so much Bub. Thinking and praying for you always. I love you.
Marshall Heffner
November 11, 2010
I was one of Aaron's friends aswell as battle buddy!!!! I was with him on his first mission aswell as last. it's been 4 years and it still breaks my heart everyday. I remeber sitting in the trunk of a hum-v with him on fathers day eating our mre, and him telling me this suck's i'm missing my first fathers day. I replyed were halfway done with this deployment bro don't worry their will be more to come. All he wanted was to get home to his wife and new son!!!!! I miss you every day brother and will forever!!!
Gioia Giltz
August 22, 2010
I had the privilege to run in memory of Aaron in the Run for the Fallen hosted by T.A.M.P.A this morning. I did not know him, but I am honored to be able to do that today. Thank you so much to him and his family for their sacrifice. I will always remember!! God bless!
Peggy Childers
June 28, 2010
To the family and friends of Cpl. Aaron Griner:
Remembering Aaron on the anniversary of his passing. May our fallen heroes never be forgotten!
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
Donna Francis
June 28, 2010
Remembering Aaron today, still with a heavy heart, but many fond memories of his smile and his kindness. You are missed, Aaron.
Dolores Lovallo
June 1, 2010
Memorial weekend is over but I never stop thinking of you.
Thank you for touching my life.
Donna Francis
May 31, 2010
This morning when I awakened, one of the first things I thought of was to visit this page and remember you on this solemn day. I think of you frequently and continue to display your picture proudly. RIP Aaron. You are missed.
Even in training he could manage to have a smile.
Andrew Barraza
May 30, 2010
Andrew Barraza
May 30, 2010
This weekend is meant for us to honor and remember those who we called brothers. Aaron was always one who i considered to be a brother. He never yelled when things got tough and he always did what was needed to get the job done. My brother in arms, my friend your are always in our thoughts and sorely missed but you will never be forgotten. I am proud to have met you and honored to have been one of your friends. This weekend is for you and for our fellow brothers in arms who have passed.
JESSICA SACHON
March 31, 2010
I think of you everyday. I can't believe how fast the years go by and yet it feels like yesterday. My thoughts and prayers are always with you and your family
March 18, 2010
To the family of Cpl. Griner. First let me say I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with the family and friends of this brave Hero.
I am organizing a Warrior Walk in Lakeland, FL on July 31st 2010 and would like to walk in honor of Cpl. Griner.Please contact me if you would like to walk in his honor... we would love to have you.
God Bless you and your family. Your fallen angel is watching over you.
Melissa
www.warriorwalklakeland.com
[email protected]
November 24, 2009
To My sweet nephew Aaron I think about you all the time and with the holiday's approaching I am especially Thankful to have been blessed to have you as my nephew. You are my hero.
God Bless You Aaron and Thanks for being you!
Love,
Aunt Marybeth
Beverly Fernandez
November 16, 2009
Aaron, You were a quiet strength in our large family. All of us loved you for your very special personality. The fact that you were so sweet ,caring & gentle but such an inner strength. You are in our daily thoughts & prayers. The sacrifice that you made is such a part of your character. We are all humbled to have been part of your youth . We so take for granted the ones we love. We never think that one day they will not be physically with us. Nana said it best "love each one for the special person they are" Now she is with you. I know that you are caring for her & Grandma as you did here on earth. Carry on with what you have always done so well.
I will always remember you and my prayers go out to you that you are in the loving arms of Jesus.
With great love & respect ,Aunt Beverly
Christopher Huntley
November 12, 2009
I would like to apologize for not offering my condolences to you sooner. On June 28th, 2007 I could not even look you in the eyes as I stammered out something like “I am sorry for your loss” as just one more soldier in a platoon of medics. There is a reason for this and I am finally ready to share it with you.
At the beginning of June 2006 I returned to Afghanistan after my mid-tour leave and rejoined 2-87 Infantry on Operation Mountain Thrust in Helmond provence. I was part of the aid station staff and put up with the heat and bad food like everyone else. What was different between Aaron and myself was that he went on patrol everyday and I stayed at the aid station. On June 27th Aaron got back from a patrol and I walked up to him with a proposition. The deal was that I was to take 3rd platoon for a day and he was going to take a day off. At the time it seemed like everyone else was able to get a day now and again to do laundry or what ever else needed to be done, and he was just as deserving of that time as the rest of us.
As we were walking to the aid station to tell our platoon sergeant of the agreement he stopped me and said, “I can't do it. If anything happened to you I'd never forgive myself.”
Aaron was a man with his faults and virtues. He was also a man of quiet, unassuming honor. It is that honor which I try to live up to as I receive the gift that each new day is. I try not to think too much about what would have happened if our roles were reversed. Instead I try to accept the facts as they are. I miss my friend, I wish things were different, and the streets of Heaven are too crowded with the souls of good people who have left us too soon.
God be with you, bless you, and keep you always.
October 8, 2009
Aaron,
You are in our hearts each day, each moment....we love you!
Uncle Lamar, Aunt Rosie & Cousin Jessica
n austin
July 6, 2009
I was the gunner in that truck that horrible june 28th 2006 day that still haunts my dreams like it was yesterday. Aaron always took good care of me and would sometimes just sit up and talk to me while i was on guard when he could have been catching up on lossed sleep in the midnight hours. He was a model soldier and a person you could trust with anything... he took care of his platoon and i know that i speak for the whole charlie co. 3rd platoon "outlaws" when i say we couldn't have asked for a better medic. I know because I have seen their "in memory" and black band tattoos that they have gotten with his name on them.
Peggy Childers
July 4, 2009
To the family of Cpl. Aaron Griner:
Aaron gave the ultimate sacrifice and will be held in the hearts of Americans forever. I cannot and will not let our fallen heroes be forgotten. My deepest sympathy to you. "Some gave all."
Peggy Childers
"Don't Let The Memory Of Them Drift Away"
www.IraqWarHeroes.org
jessica sachon
June 29, 2009
RIP- I will always love and miss you
from both me and my brother Mike. xo
June 28, 2009
Thinking of Aaron today and everyday...
Jessica Sachon
April 8, 2009
I think of you every day. I remember all the times we had ,good, bad, funny, sad. I will never forget how my family accepted you as one of us. Your wife Amanda was a lucky woman to have had someone like you in her life. I was blessed with the same. I hope you watch over your son and your family and just know that things will be fine. I will always love and miss you. God Bless.
Kenna Larra
April 7, 2009
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Sincerely,
Kenna
David Strong
September 30, 2008
I served in Afghanistan with Griner, I met him on the operation that he was taken from us. Aaron was and is an great man. He will always hold a special place in my heart and mind. I don't think I have ever met more generous person. I will never forget the times we spent together nor the day he gave his life for us all. He will be missed.
kyle bauch
August 21, 2008
austin and family,i went to basic with aaron,we all went through hell and high water together,we became family over that time and none of us will ever forget him,so my prayers are with you,this will not be forgotten.ever.god bless.
Emily Peacock-Cannon
August 15, 2008
To Aaron and his loving family,
I went to highschool with Aaron. I have to say that I knew Aaron was sweet before I ever even spoke to him because he always had this look of kindness in his eyes and won everyone over with his gentle smile. He was one of the sweetest and most sincere people I ever knew,he was an angel on earth, and now an angel in heaven. God bless you all and I will pray that god provides Aarons son with evrything in life that Aaron would have.
jessica sachon
June 30, 2008
I miss you- I will visit you soon
In Memory of Aaron Matthew ~ (Debra Estep)
June 28, 2008
Holding you all in my thoughts and prayers.
The Wind on The Downs
“I like to think of you as brown and tall,
As strong and living as you used to be,
In khaki tunic, Sam Brown belt and all,
And standing there and laughing down at me.
Because they tell me, dear, that you are dead,
Because I can no longer see your face,
You have not died, it is not true, instead
You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe;
I hear you laughing as you used to do,
Yet loving all the things I think of you;
And knowing you are happy, should I grieve?
You follow and are watchful where I go.”
(Written by Marian Allen during World War l )
Two lines that I wish you to keep near your heart…….
“You seek adventure in some other place.
That you are round about me, I believe”
I did not know Aaron, but I am remembering
his service. He is my hero. !
~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~ ~
The Other Side
i'm over on the other side
where life and death softly divide.
left my skin and bones behind
now i'm over on the other side.
can you feel me there with you?
my breath is gone but i'm not through.
loved you then and i still do
from over on the other side.
i can fly. really fly.
below the earth ... all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
it's good here on the other side.
the sweetest songs...the bluest skies.
thank you for the tears you cried
but it's good here on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth...all through the sky.
tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side
the world is smaller than a needle's eye.
where life and death softly divide.
when you leave your skin and bones behind
i'll be waiting on the other side.
i can fly. really fly. below the earth ... all through the sky.
go tell em all i did not die.
i'm just over on the other side.
Song lyrics by Don Conoscenti
C Desert Muse/SESAC
www.donconoscenti.com
(Used with permission)
“I hope it brings great comfort to any and all.
Peace on you. DonCon” 4-2008
The Other Side –
http://tinyurl.com/3o8gol
Sincerely,
Deb Estep ~ Ohio
Proud Air Force Mom SSgt Vince – Lackland AFB
Proud Air Force MIL SrA Dana – Randolph AFB
Remembering The Fallen – Blog
http://tinyurl.com/3z8p55
Angel and soldier drawing I have shared here.
http://tinyurl.com/6gey8b
May 31, 2008
You are remembered and respected. Thank you Cpl Griner!
JESSICA SACHON
November 16, 2007
I WAS JUST THINKING ABOUT YOU AARON. MY PRAYERS ARE STILL AND ALWAYS WILL BE WITH YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. I MISS YOU.
Aaron M. Griner, HERO
September 27, 2007
August 16, 2007
There is nothing that I can say or do to take away the pain or bring you peace in your time of sorrow, but I will offer you and your family my heart felt condolences. I also offer you my prayers that in time the pain will easy and the memories of your HERO will carry you through each day and night. I want to thank your HERO, for his/her selfless act of becoming a member of the armed forces, his/her willingness to defend the United States of America, all that we hold sacred and for the sacrifice that will forever be etched in the memories of all those who knew him/her. Though tears can never bring him/her back, we hope that our tears express our gratitude for the sacrifice that he/she made and our sorrow at his/her passing. I believe for every fallen HERO there is a star shining brightly up above to remind us of the precious gift we were given.
Your mission on earth is complete and you are now a member of GOD’s Heavenly armed forces. Stand down brave warrior and take your rightful place in Heaven with all the HEROES who have passed before.
I made a special promise to LE RON A. WILSON, a dear family friend who joined the Army with three other friends, one of whom is my son (Le Ron was killed in action on 07/06/07 at the age of 18) on the day he was laid to rest as I touched his coffin, that I would never forget him nor would I forget those that gave their lives for our country before him, with him and after him and so when I came across www.legacy.com, I thought what a great way to keep my promise to Le Ron, so I will continue to leave tributes in each guest book until the day there is no longer the need to leave these tributes to a FALLEN HERO.
REST IN PEACE, HERO, YOU WILL NEVER BE FORGOTTEN!!
PROUD MOTHER OF A U.S. SOLDIER
Currently stationed in Germany
Althea Barrett(Queens, NY)
Patsy Jo Reed Sircy
August 15, 2007
Sincere sympathy and love, Pat - R.N.
Aunt Rosie
August 13, 2007
We love and miss you our Aaron...
Jessica Sachon
August 13, 2007
Happy B-day Aaron 8/11/81, I think about you and your family every day. Keep your family and son strong over the years- I will see you someday and remind you that your choices in life were and are very honorable. I love you like a brother and always will. God Bless
Donna Francis
August 11, 2007
Thinking of you today ...
Anita Bridges
August 1, 2007
Baby Boy, it is almost your birthday. You will always be celebrated in my heart everyday. I feel you present always and I know you hold my hands and pray with me, I feel your hands on my shoulders keeping me strong and faithful. I know that you are doing wonderful things, because you always brought light to every place you ever ventured. I am so eternally grateful to have Austin and Amanda, they are beautiful and blessed to have had you, and you to have them. I am sure you see your boy growing up each day, and he makes you proud. I will always tell him about his daddy (my baby boy) and how he is a hero and this world is better because of his presence. Bub, many, many people were touched by your kind and loving presence. I will always love you. Happy Birthday.
Love, Mommy
July 30, 2007
Thank you for the sacrifice made by Cpl Griner and the sacrifice made by everyone who loves and misses him! May God bless all of you!!
Shane Zinn
June 30, 2007
Aaron,
The day I found out that you had left us, my heart dropped. I couldn't understand why God would take you from us. It seems like it was only months ago that we were all hanging out and being goofy. You are such an aweseom guy and never judgemental of anyone. You always try to do things to make others happy. I still remeber our trip to Factory with Jessica, Beth, You & myself. We made shirts to match and look hot. We all walked into the club and worked it like we owned it! That was the night Jessica fell through the speakers we were dancing on, and tried to play it off....limping around! Ha ha ha! The memories we have, I will never forget! I will truley miss you and hope to meet you at the pearly gates someday. Love ya man! God bless!
Dolores Lovallo
June 29, 2007
A Bronze Star in the Heavens
A day doesn’t go by without thinking of you
The loss of a man who was so true
He was taken from us way too soon
And leaves a void as large as the moon
We remember your warm smile
But can’t help but be in denial
That it cannot be true that God wanted you
When we had so much here for you to do
You went to a place and gave them your grace
Your courage was there with the soldiers in place
You protected and saved many lives day to day
And protected us back home who are at bay
Oh Aaron, we miss you, but you will never be gone
Because you are in our hearts from dusk until dawn
For CPL Aaron M Griner a true hero, son, brother and friend
Jessica Sachon
June 29, 2007
I will always miss your sparkling eyes and smile you brought to everyone around you. I will always miss the great times we had. I hope I get to meet your wife and beautiful son. I would like to tell your family that you raised such a generous, loving, and intelligent person, and no one can ever take that away. May God bless you and your entire family and one day soon enough I will see you again and tell you how proud I am of you. If you would have never left for the Army you might not have had such a beautiful son, wife, and legacy. Things happen for a reason. God bless your soul and may your wings keep you afloat to guide your son and protect your wife. I will always love you.
Megan
June 28, 2007
I miss you. I know you are looking down upon us right now and I feel your big bright smile as the rays of sunlight kiss my face. I remember you everyday and recieve the gifts you send me daily. Thank you. You were my bestfriend and always will be... I can't wait to be with you when my time here is done. I Love you Bub. little sis, meg
Kelly Gibbons
June 28, 2007
I thought alot about you and your family today. I have a picture of you and your son on my refrigerator. It is a constant reminder of how precious life is, and how we should always be loving and caring to those around us, as we never know how long we will be blessed to live. I admire your passion and your sacrifice. Thank you. I miss you and think of you everyday, and will always keep a picture of your smiling face to remind me.
Jessica Sachon
June 28, 2007
I will always remember our good times. You are in my heart. I will be visiting you shortly in NY. God Bless
Mary Beth Slayton
June 28, 2007
In loving memory of Aaron Griner
I love you and miss you. It has been 1 year and I think of you often. You are in my thoughts and prayers. I was blessed to have such an awesome nephew. You are my hero.
Donna Francis
June 28, 2007
Aaron, I think of you every day and will mourn you again on this day. My love and thoughts to Amanda and your son, and to all your family, on this first anniversary. You will always be special to me.
Annie VanHorn
June 15, 2007
Buddy,
Your life was an example of how God teaches us to live and your spirit has enriched many lives. I treasure every memory of our time together and I thank God for all of them. I miss you deeply in my heart and soul but I know that we will see eachother again because you have shown me the path to goodness with your forgiving and loving heart. Please know that until we meet again you will always be in my heart and mind wherever I go in this life. I love you Aaron.
Andrea Helmer
April 12, 2007
It was a pleasure to know you Aaron. Josh, Lonny and I will never forget you. Your little man is getting so big everyday, and everyday you are thought of. It seem like just yesterday when we got the news and it is a day I will never forget. We love and miss you so much Aaron. Austin is a great reminder of just how great of a person you were. Amanda, we love you and Austin so much. We are going to miss you guys so much when you move!! I know that I have a sister, but I am so blessed that god gave me another one. We love you guys.
Dolores Lovallo
March 28, 2007
Aaron, the son I never had. You were the kindest man I ever knew. You were always so kind to me and accepting of me. You are in my heart and I will always have fond memories of you. I love you. You are in peace and I feel your love come shining through my darkness. thank you for the time we had. I miss you,
Anita Lovallo
March 9, 2007
Buddy,
I miss you so much. It's hard to believe you are gone from this world. You were my only son and I would give anything to have you here again. We need more men like you in this country. I need you. I love you. Please rest in peace.
Ed "Trip" Carrick
February 24, 2007
With the passing of a loved one,
most people wonder, why?
Why they're not here with us today,
Why did they have to die?
In this hard time of darkness,
tears stream down our face.
But we can all rest assure,
That you've gone to a better place.
I don't think I can remember,
Ever seeing you without a grin.
You'd lighten the mood and brighten the room,
The moment you walked in.
I still remember when we met,
It was early in the day.
I was at the table talking to John,
At 112 West North Bay.
Those of us who knew you,
Were lucky that you touched our life.
But not quite as lucky,
As your child and and your wife.
You answered the call of duty,
And went off to defend our land.
To fight this War on Terror,
In Afghanistan.
A land that's scary and so far away,
Most people here, have no clue.
But you went there and fought with American Pride,
And did what you had to do.
Throughout history all our Brothers in Arms,
Fought to lay Freedom's foundation.
Killed in action, you passed with honor,
And the respect of this great nation.
So as the years pass,
And Austin grows older.
We'll make sure that he doesn't forget,
His daddy died an American soldier.
For the day we reunite,
We'll just have to wait.
You are in God's army now,
So defend those pearly gates.
Let's make today a glorious day,
No other time is finer.
Not to mourn the death, but celebrate the life,
Of our brother Aaron Griner.
In Nomeni Patri, Et Fili, Spiritus Sancti
Glen
February 21, 2007
“Soldier”
Written to Honor the Service of Our Fallen Soldiers
Soldiers write history, we pay the price
Many miles distant, you live the life
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We hope and pray that all will find peace
In God, in the flag, in memories of valor
Gone now, our pride and courage you see
“An Army of One” our motto forever
Willing to risk all for love of our Brothers
We’re still Your Soldiers…and we showed the way
Our Lives too short, now pray for the others
Lived free died Heroes in lands far away
Deep within souls all cherished our Service
We’ll always have what some never know
Courage and Honor, our names forever
Lived life with purpose…just our time to go
We march in the Heavens with Honor and Glory
Missions accomplished we fought the Good Fight
Many years from now…we’ll tell the full story
Until that Day we will live in the Light
Our lives we laid down in a land far away
Still watching o’er you this night and by day
No need to talk…just know we are with you
There in your hearts and we hear what you pray
Yes we are your soldiers
Our lives we laid down
Still We guard o’er you
Still Duty bound
Entered the Battle of our own free will
Out of Duty for Country, and we’d do it still
We’ll always have what some never know
Lived life with purpose…it was our time to go
Aunt Rosie Bridges
December 24, 2006
We miss you very much our Aaron.
Uncle Lamar, Aunt Rosie & Jessica
Travis Streeter
December 22, 2006
Aaron,
"Scud"...that was your nickname in soccer when we were little. I will forever remember you in those good old days. Soccer was our common bond! See you in heaven my friend! -Travis
Donna Francis
December 21, 2006
To Amanda,
I have been thinking of you these past few weeks, and how difficult it must be for you through the holidays without Aaron. I wanted to send you a letter, but do not know of any way to reach you. Please know that Aaron's friends still mourn him and think of him a lot, and have concern for you and Austin. Peace and comfort be with you during the holidays. We all miss him.
Nicholas Rose
December 19, 2006
Aaron, I miss you man, It's been a couple of months and i still cant believe that your gone. I have a son now, i was actually on my way home to see him be born when i heard about what happened to you. Ill never forget about how you helped me get through basic and A.I.T. I miss you man. If your folks and other family read this i would appriciate it if someone could contact me with where aaron is buried, i'd like to visit him when i get home.
Donna Francis
September 14, 2006
In case Aaron's family is monitoring this site, I wanted to send another note to let them know that we honored him on the anniversary of his 25th birthday, on August 11th, while we were in Hawaii. We went to the National Cemetery of the Pacific (called the Punchbowl) in Honolulu and put his Army photo, along with a flower lei, at a monument honoring Purple Heart recipients. At sunset we stood on the beach and toasted him. I still think of him every single day and will always miss his smiling face.
JERRY BROWN
September 7, 2006
Sorry for your loss my son Brad Brown thought the world of him.
Roberto Hanna
August 24, 2006
Aaron "Doc" Griner was awesome, no matter how much things sucked he always helped us out. When it was really hot one day after an ambush left my water carrying equipment useless, he gave me what little water he had left even though we had no idea how much longer we'd be out there. That was just one of many examples of his selfless service to his platoon. He was a great guy, I wish I could have helped him the way he helped me. We will always remember him, and the great things he did. Godbless him and his family. PFC Hanna 3rd platoon C co
Jeffrey Fernandez-cousin
August 11, 2006
Aaron Happy Birthday buddy. I will definitely have a Corona for you today. Certainly today is different from other birthdays in the past, but I guarantee you that even though you are gone we all will REMEMBER it and REMEMBER YOU in our own special way.
Linda Lagant
August 7, 2006
Just want you to know your family is in my prayers, my son was just a few vehicles behind Aarons, he called to let us know that HE was ok, but that he lost a "BUDDY" that day,Ipray God gives you comfort & strength to get through this. We are very proud of Aaron and appreciate his service to our country. GOD BLESS.
Kelly Gibbons
July 28, 2006
I knew Aaron through his sister, Annie, who had dated my brother many years ago. I had lost touch with Annie a few years ago, but always thought of her, Aaron, and Megan, attempting numerous times to find them again. I always loved Aaron, and both his sisters....he was so funny, and always made me laugh. I only today found out about his death and am absolutely devestated. My heart goes out to his new wife, his child, and his family....he will be missed very much.
SYLVIA GRINER
July 27, 2006
ON BEHALF OF AARON'S FATHER, ERNIE I WOULD LIKE TO THANK EVERYONE FOR THEIR DEEPEST EXPRESSIONS OF SYMPATHY. FROM TIME TO TIME HE WILL VISIT THIS GUEST BOOK TO READ EVERYONE'S THOUGHTS. AARON'S YOUNGER SIBLINGS XAVIER, GABRIELLE AND JILLIAN WILL TRULY MISS THEIR OLDER BROTHER AND WE WILL ALL CHERISH AARON'S MEMORY THROUGH HIS SON, AUSTIN. ERNIE AND I ARE VERY PROUD OF THE WONDERFUL SON,BROTHER,FRIEND AND HUSBAND THAT EVERYONE KNEW AND OF THE MAN THAT HE CAME TO BE.
ALWAYS IN OUR THOUGHTS.
LOVE,SYLVIA
Ashley Brown
July 25, 2006
I send my sympathy to the family of Aaron. I first met Aaron when I got to Ft Drum in Sept 04. He was the first friend I made. He had the biggest heart of anyone I know and always had a smile on his face. I will miss his smile greatly. He was a great man and a great medic. I am fortunate to have been able to meet him and befriend him 2 years ago. I will never forget him. Aaron and his family will always be in my thoughts and prayers.
Donna Francis
July 21, 2006
It has been 20 days since we received the news, and it still feels like yesterday. We were grateful that Aaron sent us one of his official Army pictures two years ago, and have it framed on a table in our dining room. Since that awful news on July 1st, we have had a candle lit next to it every day. We are a military family too and had to transfer to California two years ago. So it was very painful not to be able to attend the services. But please know that I did attend a Catholic mass here in his honor at the same time his Tampa services were being conducted. I took his photo with me and told the people in the church about him, and about his wife and child (even though I had not met Amanda and Austin). Please know that a large group of people here in Petaluma, California, took Aaron's, Amanda's and Austin's names down in writing and are adding them to their daily prayers. These are people I do not know, but they were touched in some way just by hearing about Aaron.
Aaron was a good friend of my daughter's when we lived in Riverview, and was at the house often. My own children have red hair, so he blended right in with the family and we felt almost like he was a "brother" to Mike and Jessica. Both of them have taken the news very hard.
Amanda, we lost touch with Aaron shortly after he went to boot camp. For the past year I kept telling my husband that we needed to find him. I'm so deeply sorry that this is how we did. I hope that I will have the honor of meeting you and Austin some day. I have grieved terribly for all of you for the past three weeks. But I know in my heart that Aaron is at peace and will watch over you and Austin. He had one of the biggest hearts of any young man I knew, and certainly the kindest and most considerate of any of my children's friends.
He will be missed so deeply by so many who were touched by him throughout his life. Aaron is much like a fleeting ray of sunshine on a cloudy day ... radiant and warm while here, but gone all too soon.
Rest in peace and happiness, Aaron. I will never forget you.
Vicki Hawkins
July 19, 2006
Dear Family of Aaron,
Our deepest sympathy to you in this time of great sorrow. May our God of all compassion lift you up and give you the peace and comfort you so richly deserve. May perpetual light shine upon Aaron as he joins the heavenly kingdom.
Peace,
Vicki and John Hawkins, friends of Lamar and Rosie Bridges
Kristina Lewis
July 18, 2006
Aaron, thank you for being my best friend. I am so honored to have the privelage of knowing you and experiencing all that you are. We had so many fun times together. I will never stop loving you and missing you. I await the day that you greet me at Heaven's gates. I had a dream the other night that you came back from Afganistan and told me that everyone had made a mistake, and that you were still here, and as we walked, we talked about your sweet son Austin and your beautiful wife Amanda. I got to hug you one more time. If only it wasnt just a dream. I know you were just letting me know that you are ok and with God and watching us. I am so glad you got to find true love and give the most precious gift of all, your little baby. I love you Aaron and miss you. Thank you for your brave sacrifice and huge heart. Thank you for always being true and honest and sweet. You will live on here on earth until we see you again.
Amanda, Thank you for loving Aaron selflessly and treating him with the dignity and respect that he deserved. He loves you so much and I know that from the moment he met you, he would say, "she is the one" Thank you for giving us the beautiful gift of Austin.
Anita, Earnest, Annie, Meaghan and Stephanie,
I know it isnt easy going through this hard time. Please try to find peace in knowing that you raised a wonderful man who was so giving and caring and loving and brave and selfless and beautiful in every way. He loves all of you so much and he made it very clear that his family is the most important thing in the world to him. Look up to the sky and smile because I know "Grinner" is smiling down at you and all of us. My prayers are with you all.
Susan Studds
July 17, 2006
My thoughts and prayers are with all of Aaron's family and friends in this most difficult time. We just Lost Pfc.Justin Ray Davis on June 25th 2006 same infintry same base Fort Drum and was also killed in Afganastan by friendly fire. I just do not understand. But I know the pain you are in GOD BLESS ALL OF YOU. Your hero fought his battle and one. Now he is your angle and will continue to protect you.
Soozie
Mark, Sara, Jaeden and Jenna Beam
July 17, 2006
Amanda and Austin, words can not express how sorry we are for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers every day. God will give you the strength to get through this, and remember that your friends and family are here for support! We love you both so much!
July 17, 2006
WHEN ANITA AND ERNIE ASKED ME WHETHER I WOULD READ A SELECTED PASSAGE THAT THEY CHOSE FROM THE HOLY SCRIPTURES FOR TODAY’S PRAYER SERVICES, I GLADLY ACCEPTED; NOT KNOWING, THAT AS I WAS PREPARING FOR THE READING, I WOULD BECOME DEEPLY MOVED TO SHARE A FEW WORDS BASED ON MY THOUGHTS ABOUT HOW THE LIFE OF AARON IS REFLECTED IN THE READING.
YOU SEE, MY READING WAS FROM THE 1ST LETTER OF PETER WHO WAS ADDRESSING THE CHRISTIAN COMMUNITIES MORE THAN 2000 YEARS AGO IN THE AREA KNOWN THEN AS ASIA MINOR AND TODAY THE AREA INCLUDES PARTLY WHAT IS KNOWN AS AFGANISTAN.
PETER WAS ADDRESSING THE CHRISTIAN COMMUNITIES ON THE TOPIC OF ‘THE GIFT AND CALL OF GOD IN BAPTISM’
SO, WHEN ERNIE AND ANITA HEARD THAT I WANTED TO SAY A FEW WORDS ABOUT AARON, THEY RELATED SOME MEMORIES THAT THEY WANTED ME TO SHARE WITH YOU.
AARON GRINER:
AARON’S JOURNEY OF LIFE BEGAN ON AUGUST 11, 1981.
WHEN HE WAS BROUGHT HOME FROM THE HOSPITAL WRAPPED IN SWADDLING CLOTHES, AARON WAS GREETED WITH EXCITEMENT BY HIS SISTER, ANNIE WHO KEPT SQUEALING WITH DELIGHT OF A NEWLY ARRIVED BROTHER. BOTH ANITA AND ERNIE WERE PROUD PARENTS TO HAVE RECEIVED SUCH A BEAUTIFUL GIFT FORMED BY GOD: A SON. SHORTLY THEREAFTER, AARON WAS REBORN IN THE HOLY SPIRIT AND FREED FROM THE ORIGINAL SIN THAT WE ALL INHERIT UPON CONCEPTION, BY BATHING IN THE WATERS OF BAPTISM; AND HE BECAME A MEMBER OF THE BODY OF CHRIST, THE CHURCH. HE RECEIVED AN UNCONDITIONAL GIFT OF SANTIFICATION THROUGH THE POWER OF THE HOLY SPIRIT WHICH LEFT AN IMPERISHABLE SEED ON HIS SOUL DESTINED TO GOD’S CALL TO GROW IN FAITH AND TO PERFORM WORKS NOT KNOWN TO ANYONE AT THE TIME AS HE WOULD JOURNEY LIFE ON THIS EARTH SEEKING FULFILLMENT FOR HIS DAY OF REDEMPTION.
AS A BOY GROWING UP IN TAMPA, HE ATTENDED SACRED HEART ACADEMY AS WELL AS MORNING STAR SCHOOL WHERE HE WAS NOURISHED REGULARLY WITH THE HEARING OF THE WORD OF GOD. HIS SISTERS ANNIE AND MEGAN WERE CONSTANTLY WATCHING OVER HIM TRYING TO KEEP HIM OUT OF MISCHIEF; WHILE ALSO TRYING TO KEEP HIM OUT OF THEIR DAILY ACTIVITIES. EARLY SIGNS OF SEEKING SOMETHING RIGHT WERE THE TIMES WHEN HE WOULD WEAR HIS SHOES BACKWARDS. AND WHEN QUESTIONED BY ERNIE AS TO WHY HE WAS WEARING HIS SHOES BACKWARDS, HE WOULD RESPOND CONSTANTLY WITH A SMILE : “SO ‘TUPID, THAT WHY”; LEAVING ERNIE TO WONDER WHAT WAS HIS REAL REASON.
ANOTHER SIGN THAT THE HOLY SPIRIT WAS PROMPTING AARON AS A BOY TO BE A SUBJECT TO OTHERS WAS WHEN HE WOULD ASK OF ANITA OR ERNIE WITH A SMILING FACE: “ARE YOU HAPPY TO ME?”
AARON LEARNED EARLY THE MEANING OF SACRIFICE AS A PART OF LIFE. ONE DAY WHEN THE CARNIVAL CAME TO TOWN WITH ALL THE SIGHTS, SOUNDS, FOOD SMELLS AND RIDES TO ENJOY, AARON SPENT HIS ENTIRE TIME AT THE CARNIVAL WITH HIS FRIEND WHO HAD A BROKEN LEG IN A CAST; HE WANTED TO BE THERE WITH HIS FRIEND JUST TO MAKE SURE THAT HIS FRIEND WAS OK RATHER THAN BEING IMMERSED WITH THE EXCITEMENT OF THE CARNIVAL.
AS A TEENAGER DURING THOSE AWKWARD TIMES WHEN HE WAS TOO OLD TO BE THOUGHT OF AS A BOY AND YET TOO YOUNG TO BE A CONSIDERED AS A MAN, AARON WOULD CONTINUE IN HIS JOURNEY IN LIFE TO SACRIFICE HIS TIME AND TO SHOWED SIGNS OF CARING AND BEING COMPASSIONATE TO OTHERS. HE ATTENDED TAMPA BAY TECH SENIOR HIGH SCHOOL HOPING TO FIND SOMETHING THAT HE WOULD BE ABLE TO DO THAT WOULD BE RIGHT. HE DISCOVERED THE SPORT OF SOCCER AND COACH JACK BLANTON WHO TAUGHT AARON THE VALUE OF SACRIFICING HIS FREE TIME FOR THE GOOD OF THE TEAM. ALWAYS SMILING THROUGH LONG HARD WORKOUTS, AARON BECAME KNOWN TO HIS TEAM MATES AS “GRINNER”. HE EXCELLED WELL IN COMPETITIVE HIGH SCHOOL SOCCER, SCORING MANY GOALS FOR HIS TEAM. COACH BLANTON WAS INSTRUMENTAL IN TEACHING AARON A PRINCIPLE THEORY FROM SCRIPTURES THAT READS “AN ATHLETE IS NOT CROWNED UNLESS HE COMPETES ACCORDING TO THE RULES.”
ALL THESE SIGNS THAT CAME FROM AARON’S JOURNEY IN LIFE, AS WELL AS OTHERS THAT YOU MAY REMEMBER AND WERE NOT MENTIONED, WERE VISIBLE IN FRONT OF EVERYONE INCLUDING EXTENDED FAMILY AND FRIENDS FOR THEM TO SEE, AND TO REFLECT SOME TIME LATER THAT THE SANCTIFYING GIFT OF GRACE RECEIVED IN BAPTISM WAS ALLOWING AARON TO GROW IN GOODNESS THROUGH THE MORAL VIRTUES HE ACQUIRED ALONG HIS JOURNEY.
ALTHOUGH SOCCER GAVE AARON A SENSE OF FULFILLMENT, HE REALIZED THAT HE COULD NOT CONTINUE TO PLAY SOCCER FOREVER BECAUSE IT WAS NOT DOING SOMETHING RIGHT. AS A YOUNG ADULT, AARON CONTINUED TO SEARCH FOR WAYS TO BECOME A PRODUCTIVE MEMBER OF SOCIETY. DURING THIS TIME OF HIS JOURNEY IN LIFE, HE TOOK ON SEVERAL ODD JOBS; HE ENDURED HARDSHIPS, DISAPPOINTMENTS, AND DISCOURAGEMENT UNTIL HE DISCOVERED THE CAREER PATH THAT THE UNITED STATES ARMY WAS OFFERING. AARON ENLISTED IN THE ARMY AND RECEIVED MEDICAL TRAINING AS A COMBAT MEDIC. JUST LIKE IN SOCCER, AARON SACRIFICED TO WORK HARD AND HE EXCELLED WELL. HE LEARNED TO PROVIDE MEDICAL CARE AND COMPASSIONATE ATTENTION FOR THOSE WHO WERE SUFFERING; HE LEARNED SOMETHING THAT SEEMED RIGHT.
WHILE STATIONED AT FORT DRUM IN NEW YORK, AARON MET AMANDA HELMER WHO ALSO WAS ASSISTING OTHERS BY HELPING THE UNFORTUNATE BECOME ADJUSTED TO THEIR PHYSICAL DISABILITIES. SOON THEY REALIZED HOW MUCH THEY HAD IN COMMON AND THEY BECAME HUSBAND AND WIFE. SEVERAL MONTHS LATER, BY THE WORKINGS OF THE HOLY SPIRIT, AARON’S UNIT WAS CALLED FOR DEPLOYMENT IN AFGHANISTAN BUT NOT UNTIL AARON HAD WITNESSED THE BIRTH OF HIS SON, AUSTIN.
WHILE SERVING THE ARMY’S MISSION PROUDLY IN AFGHANISTAN, AARON SACRIFICED HIS LIFE TO BECOME A MAN FOR OTHERS; PERFORMING MEDICAL ASSISTANCE AND PROVIDING MEDICAL ATTENTION DOOR TO DOOR TO CIVILIANS IN NEED. HE EMAILED ERNIE, AND WROTE THAT HE FINALLY FOUND SOMETHING RIGHT AND A SENSE OF FULFILLMENT. AARON HAD BECOME A MESSENGER OF THE HOLY SPIRIT AND HE FOUND FAITH IN THE LOVE OF GOD AS SHOWN ON THE FACES OF THOSE HE HELPED.
ON JUNE 28, 2006, AARON’S JOURNEY ENDED ACCORDING TO GOD’S PLAN BY THE PASSING ON HIS GIFT OF LIFE TO HIS SON; AND, IN RETURN FOR LOSING SOMETHING AS PRECIOUS AS HIS LIFE HERE ON EARTH, AARON GAINED HIS DAY OF REDEMPTION, BECAUSE THROUGHOUT HIS JOURNEY, AARON FULFILLED GOD’S MISSION AND HE KEPT THE SEAL OF THE LORD RECEIVED FROM BAPTISM BY PERFORMING WORKS OF COMPASSION AND CARE TO THOSE IN NEED; AND HE DID THIS WITH JOY.
TODAY, AARON’S LIFELESS BODY RETURNS TO US AS A STARK REMINDER OF A HERO WHO SERVED HIS COUNTRY WELL IN A MISSION WHICH IS NOT WELL PUBLICIZED IN THE MEDIA; HELPING OTHERS IN THEIR TRIALS AND SUFFERING. OUR MEMORY OF HIM IS A SHINING SYMBOL THAT REFLECTS THE TRUE MEANING THAT AARON WAS A MAN FOR OTHERS WHOSE FAITH AND ACTIONS, THROUGH THE WORKINGS OF THE HOLY SPIRIT, WAS FOR THE PRAISE, GLORY, AND HONOR OF JESUS CHRIST.
ERNIE AND ANITA ARE PROUD PARENTS, AS WE ALL ARE, OF AARON’S FINAL ACHIEVEMENT; SALVATION REVEALED TO HIM BY GOD.
BLESSED ARE THE PEACEMAKERS, FOR THEY SHALL BE CALLED SONS OF GOD;
MAY AARON’S SOUL BE GRANTED ETERNAL LIFE WITH THE COMMUNION OF ALL THE FAITHFUL DEPARTED WITHIN THE PRESENCE OF THE PERPETUAL PEACE OF THE FATHER, SON AND HOLY SPIRIT. AMEN.
Written and Delivered on July 14, 2006 by:
Dan Fernandez,
Uncle to Aaron Through the Marriage of Anita’s oldest Sister, Beverly,
Who is also the first born of 9 brothers and sisters to
Lamar and Mary Bridges.
Aunt Mary Beth & Uncle Bo Slayton
July 16, 2006
Aaron,
We love you and will miss you so much. We are so very proud of you and will always remember you!!
Mary Ann Yaney
July 16, 2006
Our hearts go out to Anita, Ernie, Annie, Meagan, Amanda and Austin. It is so hard to imagine losing a child. We nurture and protect our children and then we have to let them go out into the world to make a life for themselves. Aaron was so generous with his life that he wanted to make life better for those who didn't have the things we all take for granted. He wanted to make small children smile when they had nothing to smile about. He was the bright spot in their day. Austin has so much to be proud of. I have a hard time not crying every time I think about how he won't get first hand knowledge of his dad's great sense of humor and terrific smile.God Bless all of you as you get through this trying time. I hope you find comfort in knowing that Aaron is now in heaven without any pain looking down on us all with that beautiful smile. Every time the sun shines, think of that as Aaron's warmth around us letting us know that it will all be ok. Love, Mary Ann and Cliff Yaney
to austin, your father was a hero to all of us
July 16, 2006
rest your head now, weary soldier.
cast your weapons to the ground.
close your eyes and feel the peace.
the light of jesus fold around.
heed not our earthly battle cries.
there is no post for you to stand.
so rest now as he carries you within his loving hand
do not look back upon us.
disregard our selfish tears
walk in the sunlight of the spirit free of war or pain and fear.
your duty here is done now, as ours will someday be,
so go him now to places only heroes see.
Henryk Zaleski (USN-Ret)
July 16, 2006
Rest in pace at your last post in paradise.
Cindy Joy
July 15, 2006
I'm sorry that I did not have the privilege of knowing your brave son/husband Aaron. I know that Aaron must have loved his country and lived his life to the fullest.
I want to thank you for raising such a self-sacrificing young man. A true hero is one who makes a sacrifice for others. Aaron will not be forgotten. He will always be my Hero.
There are times when words are not enough so may God's eternal promises and everlasting love surround you.
I am with thee . . . I will strengthen thee.
Isaiah 41:10
SFC Danny Paul
July 15, 2006
Amanda, Megan, Aaron and Stephanie,
When the five of us were in the Police station sitting in the room at the airport waiting for Cpl. Griner to arrive in the airplane, that was the hardest/emotional experience I've ever had to do in my life.
Do you remember I kept leaving the room? It wasn't because I was needed in the next room with the Honor Guard, it was because I had tears in my eyes and I did not want for you to see me in that state. The four of you will always be a part of me for the rest of my life.
Phyllis Schuster
July 15, 2006
We do not know Adam as a man, but we know the kind of man he was because he was a soldier who served where others did not want to go. We know he wanted to come home to his wife and child, and all the family who miss him now. He is one more who we mourn now, and who we know we will see when the day is right. Our son Benjamin Schuster, was KIA in Ramadi Iraq on February 25, 2006 by sniper fire, and we know the journey you are on. It has only begun, yet you can always know, no matter what the personal pain, that this man was loved and worth every sacrifice we make. Some people have no one, you had the best and know you will one day see him again. Love never ends. Our thoughts and prayers are with you through this time.
william kiser
July 15, 2006
I will miss you man. I will never forget the past two years. You were a great man and moreso a great friend. I will see your casket tomarrow. Though the love I saw you had for your wife and child will be the memory I never forget. Much love. Amanda keep your head up. You have a beautiful memory of your husband. Stay strong I'm praying for you two, and I know he is looking down on you.
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