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Harrison Kowiak Obituary

Harrison Kowiak, 19, of Tampa died Nov. 17, 2008.

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Published by TBO.com from Nov. 19 to Nov. 24, 2008.

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JM

May 24, 2025

Love, prayers and blessings to all the family.

Florida Resident

August 2, 2017

Hello Harrison and Kowiak Family:
Harrison, I saw your Mom on a video clip on my newsfeed. I don't know you nor you know me, but I lost my brother a month before you on the same year. He left this earth way too early as well. My Mom is Asian too and my brother is half Asian. I thought about my own Mom while listening to your Mom on the video clip and how hard it is still sometimes for her that her younger son is gone too. I hope you can say hello to my brother up there in heaven. His name is Russell.
Condolences.

Renae Mayfield

May 9, 2017

Dear Harrison,
I just saw your mom on TV and although we've never met I want to tell you that your story has touched my heart. I have a son who is in college now and I can only imagine how much your absence is felt by those who love you. Your mom is a very strong person and she is making sure that people will continue to get to know who you were for years to come. As someone who never knew you I feel your mom's pain, just seeing your pictures today I can sense that you were a wonderful person full of potential and I am so very sorry. God speed to your mom Harrison, As she continues sharing your memory and her promise that your life will not be in vain.

Lianne Kowiak

February 14, 2012

Son,
Happy Valentine's Day! I still have the last e card you sent me for Valentine's Day in 2008. I miss you so much and think of you every day. Emma is getting so tall and into volleyball and now softball! Sometimes I see her do a mannerism or she shows a facial expression just like you did! It's funny how there are reminders of you everywhere.

Pops and I are doing okay, we will always love and miss you. Keep smiling Harrison.

Love,

Mom

Graduation!

Monique Hackett

November 15, 2011

Harrison,
Oh man how much has happened in the past few years. I miss you so much. I'm getting ready to graduate. It's so weird to think that it was only 4 years ago we were at graduation together. You were getting ready to go to China and me Lebanon. I miss you Buddha. Your mom said Emma wants to go to Wharton. I hope she gets to meet a great friend like you there. And have as much fun as we did there. I think she would love it. Especially, with Zayas still there and Mama 'R'.
Your family really misses you, but they are so strong Harrison. I know where you got it from. But I wanted you to know that I was thinking about you. I know your anniversary is a few days away. But not a day goes by where I don't think of you. Your picture is on my night stand and the bracelet you gave me Jr. year is still on my right hand. Love you so much and miss you!

Love,
Monique

Lianne Kowiak

October 19, 2011

Harrison,
Not a day goes by that i don't think of you. Your special smile, funny jokes and of course your singing in the car as we attempted to sing John Mayer songs!
I miss you so much son. You would be so proud of Emma, she made a club vollyball team, is playing for her
School and placed third for her first forensics competition!
We approach the third anniversary of your passing. Too early son and I ask why did it happen ? So senseless and so painful.

You would have been 23 in a few months son. Oh the life experiences you would have have been going through. Perhaps your Masters, perhaps your first job, your own business, seeing the world.

Just know you are always with us Harrison

I love you always,

Mom

Lance Byars

April 7, 2011

I am going to the Master's tomorrow. I think of you every single day. I wish you could go with me. I am sad...I miss you.

Rachel

November 18, 2010

You all are on my mind and in my prayers today. Harrison's beautiful smile and legacy lives on. God bless you!

Doug Tong

July 12, 2010

Dear Lianne. Brian, and Emma

Harrison lives on in thoughts and sites. The benches at his high school in Tampa will be a testament to the positive thoughts he generated when he played and practiced. The gift of him coaching the younger kids who did not know the sport will be remembered by those whom he touched. As I visited mom's grave in NY, I know that Harrison and grand mom Macy are hosting others "upstairs". I said a prayer for them. I am glad that Emma is a great younger sister as she looks up to H. Your cousin Brianna is doing well and recounts the time in Annapolis when during J&V's wedding, H borrowed cliff note ideas for a book that he was supposed to read. All good memories. 18+ months later and we're still wonder8ing "whgy this had to happen". Stay warmed by his love and in his memory. Love, Uncle Doug, Aunt Lee and Brianna

Cheryl Hertzer

November 18, 2009

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Kowiak and Emma,
I know that Harrison is in your thoughts today, as he has been throughout the year. He was dearly loved by many friends, and he has not been forgotten. My thoughts and prayers and with you today.

Caitlin Pratt

November 17, 2009

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Kowiak and Emma,
As the one year memorial of Harrison's passing approaches, I just wanted to let you guys know that he is still thought of each and every day by so many people. His love of life and love of the people around him continue to influence people today. I know tomorrow I will celebrate Harrison's life and smile knowing that he is playing golf and telling jokes with God.

Mary (Bracken) Moore

January 26, 2009

Lianne, Brian and Emma,

I have been sitting here trying to find the "right" words that might help to ease your pain and I know that there is very little, if anything that I can say. I wish more than anything Lianne, Brian and Emma that I was beside you to give you a silent embrace.

I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers to give you the strength to carry you through each day.

Love
Mike, Mary, Sean and Kristina

David Palmquist

January 19, 2009

Brian and Lianne,
My sincerest condolences on the passing of your son, Harrison. He was blessed with 2 great parents and will be missed greatly.

Sam Howard

January 19, 2009

Harrison- I think about you everyday buddy. Not the same without your face around. It's golf season right now, im sure your hitting the links in heaven every day. I was in tampa over christmas and it is beautiful ! My thoughts and prayers are with your family. Much love.

Mike D'Agostino

January 8, 2009

Harrison, its been a while since you moved away from jersey but it still seems like yesterday. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family

Laura Campbell

January 6, 2009

To the Kowiaks,
This is Laura Campbell from West Orange. Harrison and I were close friends so long ago. I have only the best memories of spending time with all of you as well as Harrison. I cannot form enough words to tell you how heartbroken I am. Our friendship was many years in the past but his memory lives on in my heart.

Fourth of July 2008

Mary Meckley

January 6, 2009

Harrison, we miss you and the light you shined on all those around you with your bright smile and kind and gentle manner. Lianne, Bryan and Emma, we wish you peace on this day, Harrison's birthday.

Mark and Jean Schutt

January 5, 2009

Harrison, today on your twentieth birthday when you should be the one receiving gifts; many are cherishing the gifts you gave. The smiles when you entered a room, the moments of pride at your achievements, the leap of a heart when hearing your voice on the phone, the laughs you shared, the warmth of your hugs, and the wagging of many a tail upon hearing you turn the key to care for a loved pet left behind. Brian, Lianne, and Emma; on this day we extend to you our deepest sorrow.

Rachel Gentry

January 5, 2009

Happy Birthday, Harrison! I know you're having an awesome party up there. Peace and much love!

Wren Shealy

December 23, 2008

Merry Christmas, Harry!!! You're experiencing first hand the TRUE reason or the season..and I couldn't be happier for you. I miss you so much!!!

And Merry Christmas, Mr. and Mrs. Kowiak..you both deserve a great one just as much as Harrison did.

Caitlin Pratt

December 21, 2008

Dear Mr. and Mrs. Kowiak and Emma,
I hope you all have a blessed and peaceful Christmas season. You all are continuously in my prayers and not a day goes by that I don't think of your wonderful son.

Linda Lipson

December 18, 2008

Dear Lianne, Brian, and Emma,
Not a day goes by that we don't think of you and pray that you are able to find some peace in the wonderful memories that you have of your son. We are so thankful that we were able to have Harrison with us for Thanksgiving last year--it will always be a special memory for us. We wish you strength to endure this difficult time and please know that you are in our thought and prayers.

Harrison Stephen Kowiak 2008

Lianne Kowiak

December 17, 2008

Son:

Not a day goes by that I don't think of you and see your smiling face or hear your voice. Christmas will not be the same without you Son, however, please know I think of you constantly and hold you near and dear to my heart.

I miss you so much, Harrison. Peace be with you.

Love,

Mom

Brian Kowiak

December 14, 2008

As is a tale, so is life: not how long it is, but how good it is, is what matters.
Lucius Annaeus Seneca

Angela Gwosdz

December 14, 2008

LR Alumni c/o 2007 Women's Golf Team

My thoughts, love, and prayers are with you always.

Debra Gordon

December 11, 2008

Dear Lianne, Brian and Emma~Please count on your faith, family and friends to hold you up! Harrison's light will forever shine.
In God's Grace~
Deb, Ted and Teddy Gordon

Josephine(Vozza), Glenn, Amanda, & Nicholas Wujcik

December 9, 2008

December 9, 2008
Dear Lianne, Brian, Emma, and family,
All of you have been in our prayers. We pray that you feel God's love in your hearts at this time. When tragedy comes into our lives we have to have a deep faith in Our Lord.
We send our love and continued prayers.
God Bless your family.

Brian Kowiak

December 8, 2008

I lost my son.

Why?
I do not know.

To where?
I do not know.

From where?
This, I do know.
From my loving heart and loving arms.
He is from my flesh
He is from my blood.
He is from my very soul.

Shall I ever heal?
No

Do I wish to heal?
No

Why?
It is my choice not to.

Shall I ever let him go?
No

Shall I ever put Harrison behind me?
No

Shall I move on with my life?
Yes, but not alone…

In his poem “Birches”, Robert Frost wrote, “Earth’s the right place for love”.

If that is true, I shall instead move on but put him next to me here on earth.
With my arm tightly around his shoulder.
I shall never let go.

I shall always have my son next to me.
I shall always have my best friend next to me.
I shall always have my hero next to me.
I shall always have guidance next to me.
I shall always have inspiration next to me.


In Harrison we all saw –
Focus
Determination
Tenaciousness
Balanced with -
Kindness
Generosity
Compassion

Harrison your zest for life is awe inspiring even still.

"I would rather be ashes than dust! I would rather that my spark should burn out in a brilliant blaze than it should be stifled by dry-rot. I would rather be a superb meteor, every atom of me in magnificent glow, than a sleepy and permanent planet. The function of man is to live, not to exist. I shall not waste my days trying to prolong them. I shall use my time."
~Jack London

Harrison, this is exactly how you lived, as I now shall.
You never just existed.
You lived!
You used your time.
You used it fully.
You used it well.

Live your life exactly as Harrison did.
Don’t just idly exist.
Live your life!
Use your time on earth!
Use it fully!
Use it well!
Hold your friends near.
Hold your family and children dear.

Harrison, we will always be together.
I will love you always.
Pops

Jennie Buccino

December 5, 2008

Harrison- You were one of the greatest people I ever met and was lucky enough to get to know in High School. Having classes together, doing silly projects, and especially tutoring you made us form a friendship that I will never forget. You were one of the happiest young men I have ever known and it was just a breath of fresh air every day! I want to apologize for missing your memorial.. I heard it was absolutely beautiful and everything you deserved, but I was stuck up here at Penn State still having classes and unable to make a flight home. I want you to know my heart was there with everyone celebrating your amazing life though. I think of you and your wonderful family everyday- you are missed by everyone buddy! I will never forget our memories or what an honor it was to know you.. See you again one day- Jennie Buccino

Dan and Julie Kuhn

December 4, 2008

Brian and Lianne,

We are so very sorry for your loss. Although we never met Harrison, we felt like we knew him from your many stories at Vintner's. Your pride and love for him was quite apparent. I bet God saved the best courses for Harrison to play now!

You are in our thoughts and prayers. God bless you and your family.

Jane Marlor

December 3, 2008

Such a wonderful man, and a great person...I can see him as Payne Stewart's caddie, getting all the tricks of the trade, and working his way into a foursome...

Ms. Shellman

December 2, 2008

Dear Mr. & Mrs. Kowiak and "Sweet" little Emma,

May God provide your family with peace during your time of grief. Matthew 5:4 Blessed are those that mourn, for they shall be comforted. Regards, Ms. Shellman

Scott Short

December 1, 2008

Dear Lianne, Brian and Emma,

How do I begin to express my sorrow for your loss or understand what you are going through? I’ve been staring at a blank sheet of paper for days hoping I could come up with the words to comfort you and let you know you do not grieve alone.

Even though Harrison’s life was shortened, it was long in love, adventure and experiences that only you could give him. From Lego Land to the numerous cruises you embarked on, you did it all. I hope you look back and celebrate all the memories you created with him in 19 years.

Over the days, months and even years to come, you will continue to receive notes, cards and letters saying what a wonderful son and brother Harrison was. I hope those words comfort you as you try and make sense of all you have gone through in recent days. I hope you also celebrate those words as a tribute to the type of family you are and the son you raised in Harrison.

I am sorry I am not there to personally offer you a hug, but know I am here when you need me, as you have been there for me many times.

I continue to keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Love,
Scott

Eric Bunch

December 1, 2008

To the Kowiak Family,
I did not know Harrison but I went to the same school as he did and I am sorry I did not know him. My wife and I want you to know that our prayers are with you and your family.

me and Harrison at Cousin Justin's wedding

Emma Kowiak

December 1, 2008

Dear Brother: I went to Busch Gardens recently and you will never guess, I went on Sheikra, Montu, and Gwazi! Can you believe it? I wish you were here so we can celebrate! It was awesome! I miss you and love you and I will see you in heaven one day. You were the best brother, and no one can replace you! Love, Emma
P.S. Thanks for playing Cash Cowz on Webkinz to earn me kinzcash! I love you!

Mike, Cindy, Tiffany and Nicholas McKenna

December 1, 2008

Dear Kowiak's

We can only offer you this: You are in our daily thoughts, prayers and discussions as a family. This has greatly affected each and everyone of us. We are so sorry for your loss and wish we could be there for you in person. We feel so blessed we had Harrison in our home this past summer for the time we did. We had a great time and now, this visit has grown in stature and we re-live our moments with him every day. Thank you for sending him our way. We hope to see you soon but for now, we wish you whatever peace God can offer you with the strength you get from all who loved your son, including us.

Bert Holland

December 1, 2008

Lianne- I can remember so many conversations, over the years, about our sons. I always enjoyed listening to you speak of Harrison, as you would just "light up" when you mentioned his name. So many have written about Harrison's caring attitude and award winning personality. It's obvious he inherited that from his mom. You are in my constant thoughts and prayers. God bless you, Lianne.

Jean Trzeciak

December 1, 2008

Lianne, Brian, and Emma,

We spend such a short time of our existence here on earth. God gives us our children to teach, guide, show love, and prepare them to meet Him. You showed Harrison what true love is and he showed love and respect to the people he touched. That’s our real purpose on earth.

Love can be risky. We give of ourselves knowing that pain can ensue. Be comforted that the pain will lessen and the time is short until you will join your beloved son and brother again in love, an even more perfect one.

You remain in our prayers; that you will feel God’s loving arms around you and gain strength.

Scott Barfield

December 1, 2008

Lianne- To you and your family. Although I did not know Harrison, it is obvious that he was an outstanding young man and will leave his mark on those that knew him. You will always have him with you. Know that he has made a difference in the lives he has touched and take comfort, as I have done, in this passage. I can do all things through Christ who strengthens me.- Philippians 4:13

Michael Cobb

December 1, 2008

Lianne,
I will never forget our conversation about Harrison starting to drive and how nervous you were. You and all friends and family of Harrison will continue to be in our prayers. May "the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus" always.

Lynn Bahnsen

December 1, 2008

Please accept our deepest sympathy. Your associates at
Johnson & Johnson State Govt. Affairs - Southern Region.

Andrew Novielli

December 1, 2008

Lianne, Brian and Emma
I was one of the lucky ones to meet Harrison as a liitle boy,(so well behaved and well mannered)many years ago.
I truly can say I met a family filled with love and I know that love will guide you through this.
Our heart and love are with you all
Andrew Novielli(LifeScan) & Jerry

Mom and Son

Lianne Kowiak

November 30, 2008

My Dear Son: What can I say? I long to see your beautiful face and give you a big hug. I miss your voice and the mother and son talks we would share. I miss your funny antics and how you made me laugh. I am so proud of all you accomplished in your 19 years with us, son. We tried to teach you right from wrong,
"treating others as you would want to be treated", living your life with gusto and to be happy day in and day out. Your spirited, fun, full of life, thoughtful, and compassionate ways will never be forgotten. I hold you in my heart now and always and thank you for fulfilling my life, son. I will love you always and never forget you Harrison. You made us so proud and I can't wait to see you when my time has come to join you in heaven. Then maybe you, me, Pops, and Emma can take one last cruise together and you can eat your heart out kid! Love, Mom

November 29, 2008

Dear Tong and Kowiak Families,

Our deepest sympathies during this painful time. We hope the following poem will offer you some comfort.

A Loved One's Message

To my dearest family
Some things I'd like to say
But first of all to let you know
That I arrived OK

I'm writing this from heaven
Where I dwell with God above
Where there are no more tears of sadness
There's just eternal love

Please don't be unhappy
Just because I'm out of sight
Remember that I'm with you
Every morning, noon, and night

The day I had to leave you
When my life on earth was through
God picked me up and hugged me
And He said, "I welcome you"

"It's good to have you back again
You were missed while you were gone
As for your dearest family
They'll be here later on

I need you here so badly
As part of my big plan
There's so much that we have to do
To help mortal man"

Then God gave me a list of things
He wished for me to do
And foremost on that list of mine
Is to watch and care for you

I will be beside you
Everyday and week and year
And when you're sad I'm standing there
To wipe away the tears

And when you lie in bed at night
The day's chores put to flight
God and I are closest to you
In the middle of the night

When you think of my life on earth
And all those loving years
Because you're only human
They are bound to bring you tears

But do not be afraid to cry
It does relieve the pain
Remember there would be no flowers
Unless there is some rain

I wish that I could tell you
Of all that God has planned
But if I were to tell you
You wouldn't understand

But one thing is for certain
Though my life on earth is over
I am closer to you now
Than I ever was before

And to my very many friends
Trust God knows what is best
I'm still not far away from you
I'm just above the crest

There may be rocky roads ahead of you
And many hills to climb
But together we can do it
Taking one day at a time

It was always my philosophy
And I'd like it for you too
That as you give unto the world
So the world will give to you

If you can help somebody
Who's in sorrow or in pain
Then you can say to God at night
My day was not in vain

Author Unknown

Loni & Frank Choy and Gan & Mooie Eng

Ashley Bowman

November 28, 2008

My deepest sympathies go to your family Harrison was one of the first people I met on campus and was truly an amazing person. My thoughts and prayers are with you!

ELLIE.CATHERINE,ANNA

November 26, 2008

R.I.P
WE LOVE U!!!!

Carol Keyt

November 26, 2008

My thoughts and sympathy are with you all during this sad time.

Jessica Monroe

November 25, 2008

Lianne: It seems like only yesterday we were talking about baby names and we talked about your Harrison and Emma. I'm so sorry to hear about your tragic loss and hope that memories of Harrison keep you all strong during this difficult time. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Penny Gallagly

November 25, 2008

The Kowiak Family,
Greater Tampa Junior Golf Association expresses our deepest sympathy to you all. Harrison will be greatly missed. He will always be a leagacy to this association. Harrison will be remembered as a great golfer; worlds best smile; and a young man with great ambition. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Warm regards,

Doug and Irene Waitzman

November 25, 2008

Dear Kowiak and Tong Family,

Our deepest prayers are with your families at this sad time. May you take comfort in knowing that Harrison is in a peaceful place. Keep his bright smile shining every day!

Rob Johnson

November 25, 2008

Please know our thoughts and prayers are with your family at this time and forever in the life of LRU.
I expect there are no "bogies" in heaven...only "birdies and eagles"...therefore you know Harrison is indeed in heaven.
LRU Parent

Beth Keyt

November 25, 2008

Lianne, Brian and Emma-
So difficult to imagine what you are going through right now. So many people have been priveledged to watch, through pictures and stories, what a wonderful man Harrison grew into...
Please know that thoughts and prayers are with all you.
With much love,
Beth Keyt

Lisa

November 25, 2008

Harrison was an unbelievably caring person. Although we didn't get to know each other until the summer before he left for college, he was one of those people who included you in everything he did, so that it felt like you had always been friends with him. I remember two nights before he left for school he came over and talked to me until 3 in the morning. He talked to me about his mom and dad and his sister and how much he loved them and how much he was going to miss them. He told me how he got to pick out his sister's name and how she use to practice karate on him. He talked to me about growing up in California and snowboarding, visting China and how his grandmother spoke Mandarin Chinese. He told me about wearing a huge fur coat when he first moved to Tampa and how he was so excited to begin college. He told me about how he met each one of his friends and how much we was going to miss them when he was in North Carolina.
Harrison was the type of person who his smile could light up a room. He was so proud of his friends and family and you could tell because when he talked about them, his smile just got bigger and bigger.
I wish I got to know Harrison longer, but I'm so blessed to have had the chance to become friends with him. You will always be in my thoughts and prayers!

Hank,Doreen&Dan Radzikowski

November 25, 2008

Dear Lianne,Brian,Emma&Family,
No words can express to you the deepest sorrow that we feel for Harrison and also for you at this time.
May God bless you and give you the
strength and faith at this time.

With sincere sympathy and love,
Hank,Doreen & Dan

Aaron Burns

November 24, 2008

God bless the Kowiak family. Your son was a blessing to the Lenoir-Rhyne community.

Jennifer Martin

November 24, 2008

To the Kowiak Family,
My thoughts and prayers are with you in this time of sorrow. Harrison will forever be missed. He was the first person at LR to talk to me, it is so sad that such a wonderful guy had to leave us so soon. God Bless.

Marie Hord

November 24, 2008

Harrison, I'll never forget the day I met you in Economics. You brightened up the room when you walked in, and I knew you were a special guy! I am happy I had the privilege of sitting beside you. You are truly missed around Lenoir Rhyne, and campus will never be the same. Watch over your family and friends.

To the Kowiak family, please know Harrison was an amazing person and touched many hearts. I am praying for you all.

Mike Pesci

November 24, 2008

Brian, Lianne and Emma;
My brother Brian sent me your tragic news. My heart aches for you. This is just not right; the universe is upside down. I cannot imagine any worse pain than you are having now.

As sad as you must be, know that your pain comes form goodness. The greater the love, the greater the pain. And the love is always a good thing .
We will keep you in our prayers.
Love,
Mike and Peggy Pesci

Susan & Doug Benton

November 24, 2008

Lianne, Brian and Emma,

Words cannot begin to express the pain and sorrow we feel for you and your family. The loss of Harrison at such a young age is an indescribable tragedy. We will always remember Harrison for his quick smile, his kind heart and his beautiful spirit. May his soul rest in peace.

Susan Mead

November 24, 2008

Lianne, Brian and Emma,

My heart is broken for you with the news of Harrison's death. May God hold each one of you in the palm of his loving, comforting hands. He is in Heaven with Jesus -- and Kyle. And we can take comfort in knowing they are now in the presence of the Almighty.

My best friend told me each time I saw a butterfly I would hear Kyle say, "Love you Momma" and each time I saw a dragonfly, I would hear Kyle say, "HEY MOMMA!" I wish you a lifetime of hearing "Love You, Momma, Dad and Emma" and "HEY EMMA, Momma and Dad" as butterflies and dragonflies flutter and flit through your lives.

All my love,

Susan

Paula, Steve & Kaitlyn Davis

November 24, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Mary Piacente

November 24, 2008

Dear Lianne and Family-I send my deepest condolences and prayers to you. You are in my thoughts. God bless Harrison....

Kathy Seeger

November 24, 2008

Lianne and Family,
There are not words to express the sadness in my heart when I heard about your wonderful son Harrison. Lianne, when you visited Michigan this fall, and we talked about Harrison, the pride and love for your son shone through. Please know that Harrison and your entire family are in our thoughts and prayers through this very difficult time.

Tiffany McKenna

November 24, 2008

Lianne, Brian, and Emma,
My family and I are thinking of you through this terrible time and we will truly miss Harrison so much. I am glad we got to spend time with him this summer in California. We wish we could be there for his memorial. He truly had an impact on everyone he came into contact with. He had nothing to say but good things about his relationship with his family while he was here, especially Emma. He has always held a special place in his heart for her. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Polly Pickering

November 24, 2008

Kowiak Family, our thoughts are with you during this very difficult time. Sincere regards, Glenn Smith & Polly Pickering and son Grant Smith

Brian Pesci

November 24, 2008

Dear Brian, Lianne and Emma,
I am deeply saddened to hear of Harrison's tragic death. It is clearly evident that he was a very special young man to have touched so many. I will pray for you all in this awful time of grief and loss. May God bless you and keep you.
Brian Pesci

Maria Marsh

November 24, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Tony Ciko

November 24, 2008

Dear Lianne and Brian,

Sandy and I were deeply saddened to hear about Harrison. We are praying for you and Emma, and for Harrison. He's certainly in a better place. God bless you.

The Phanumas Family

November 24, 2008

Dear Lianne, Brian, Emma, and the Kowiak and Tong Families:

We were shocked, speechless, and deeply saddened by Harrison's passing, and extend our deepest condolences, prayers, and love to all of you. Although we haven't seen him since he was a very young boy, he grew up to be a happy, handsome young man, which is a testament to you, your family, and the values you instilled in him. His smile, personality, and spirit touched alot of people. We take comfort in knowing that his spirit continues with God.

Caitlin Pratt

November 24, 2008

Your silly smile will be greatly missed. We all love you dearly and are so grateful to have such an amazing angel looking down on us.
I love you and miss you

Joe Houghton

November 24, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Denise Gioffredi

November 23, 2008

Dear Lianne, Brian and Emma
I can't imagine to understand the pain and sense of loss that you, are feeling. I wish I could reach across the miles to give you a huge, loving hug and we could have a good cry together. Harrison is known as a leader in the community, at school and in his faith. He is a very fine man who had learned to let Jesus' love and life shine through him. This is such a wonderful reflection of how you (Lianne and Brian) coached him through life. Harrison projected your generosity, compassion and respectful consideration for others.

As we approach Thanksgiving week, I am so grateful for your friendship, the joy that Harrison's life brought to your family and all that knew him. I'm thankful for Jesus' gift of eternal life and I know that Harrison will be a very special angel in heaven.

You are in my thoughts and prayers. May God's Peace be with you.

November 23, 2008

It's true that bad things happen to good people! If anything Harrison has shown us is that life is unexpected. Live now and live for your truth. Be who your are always and reach for the stars. Make every minute count.
Rest in Peace Harrison.

Bambie Idlewood

November 23, 2008

I'm sorry for your loss, know that another sparkle is in the sky has he looks down on you blessing you with love.

Doug, Lee & Bri Tong

November 23, 2008

Dear Lianne, Brian and Emma- we truly feel your pain and mourn your loss. Harrsion was an outstanding young man and will be missed. It was our honor to be his godparents - and his uncle, aunt and cousin. The messages from family, friends, and the community have been meaningful and from the heart. He will always be remembered as a young man who placed others before self. You've done an oustanding job raising him. He will be networking with the angels through the golf course in heaven with his big great smile.

Love always,

Uncle Doug, Aunt Lee and Brianna

Scott Straub

November 23, 2008

He touched everyone he met. We had dinner together with our families in NYC this past summer and he gave me a five minute golf lesson. I enjoyed that evening because he was warm, friendly and humble. Alot of terrific attributes for a young man. To Brian, Lianne and Emma our heart suffers alongside with you, our prayers and thoughts hopefully will give you some strength. We love you and will miss him dearly/

Chuck Tyrpak

November 23, 2008

I was so sorry to hear the news. It's been several years since we lived in NJ and saw each other, but it still feels like yesterday. My prayers and thoughts are with you.

Barb & Gary Kovar

November 23, 2008

We were so sorry to hear this news! What a terrific young man Harrison was, and what a loss for his family and all those that knew and loved him. You are all in our prayers!!

Paula Ng

November 23, 2008

Dear Lianne, Brian and Emma,

It has been many years since we've seen each other, but we are still family and we feel your loss.

Our son Daniel is the same age as Harrison and is also away in college. Remember how we met at a birthday party at Chuck E Cheese? The years have passed so quickly and I feel a great loss at not having met the fine young man Harrison had become.

Always know that you and your family are in our prayers.

Your family in Hawaii,

Paula (Aunt Yet An's granddaughter), Dennis, Daniel, Loren and Amanda Ng

The McLean Family

November 22, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss. Please know that we are praying and thinking of you. I only got to meet Harrison once, but it is obvious how he touched so many lives. God bless.

Aunt Lee

November 22, 2008

Donations in memory of Harrison Kowiak and
contributions in lieu of flowers can be made to:
_______________________________
"The Harrison Kowiak Memorial Fund"
_______________________________
and mailed to:

PNC Bank
3 Kennedy St.
Lancaster, PA 17602
Attention: Andrea Nesbitt

The funds will be used for his sister's college education as "big Brother" would have wanted the best for his little sister. He loved her very much and they were very close.


LifeScan, Johnson & Johnson set up this fund.

Aunt Lee

November 22, 2008

__________________________________
*** The Memorial Service for Harrison ***
__________________________________
will be held on Saturday, November 29, 2008
1:00p.m. at
St. Mark the Evangelist Catholic Church
9724 Cross Creek Blvd.
Tampa, FL 33647
813-907-7746

Judy Messina

November 22, 2008

Lianne, Brian and Emma:

Words cannot express how deeply sorry I am for your loss. I came to know Harrison through his Uncle Doug. I am a gold fanatic, so, Doug would keep me apprised of Harrison's golf and academic accomplishments. Harrison was a special soul and the world was a better place because of him. I am just sorry that I never had the chance to actually meet him.

Your family is in my daily thoughts and prayers. May GOD bless you and remain with you during this difficult time.

With deepest sympathy,

Judy

leon lee

November 22, 2008

Lianne and Brian,
Amanda, Kris, Keri, Anissa and i are extremely sadden to learn about Harrison's passing. eventhough we've only met Harrsion once, his looks stays very clear and fresh on our minds. Harrison will always be remmebered as a charming, bright yound man. we'll miss him.
Deepest sympathy.

Leon & family

Fred Ulep

November 22, 2008

To Harrison's Family

As a parent of a LRU student-golfer, I am sad for your loss. A young life cut far too short. I pray for your family and mourn your loss.

Deepest sympathy

Vicki McGuire

November 22, 2008

Lianne and Brian - you raised a wonderful son who has left a great impression on all who knew him. My love to both of you and Emma as you work your way through this impossible time. "Big Brother" will always be wathing over his little sister.

Doug, Lee & Brianna Tong

November 22, 2008

Harrison, Do you remember the old film usually shown at Christmas. it's called, "It's a Wonderful Life" w/ Jimmy Stewart and Donna Reed. The premise is that Jimmy is ready to call it quits and the angel (Clarence) rescues him and shows him what the world would look like without him ever being born. You and your infectious smile reminds me of the Jimmy Stewart character. You've always had a positive influence on folks you've come into contact with. Your perspective on life, how to help others, why being a big brother/good cousin was important to you, and why life should be enjoyed during our time on earth was all taken in by anyone listening. You will always be in our hearts and minds. Remember to use your networking skills upstairs and get to meeting all who have preceded you in God's better place. We will see you again one day. Thanks for teaching me how to approach the game of golf from a better perspective.

Your loving Aunt , Uncle and cousin, Brianna

Dear Lianne, Brian and Emma (our favorite niece), The outpouring of support & love demonstrates the reciprocal love and fond memories of Harrison. You have really done an outstanding job raising a great young man and being a great younger sister. Remember all of the good times and the conversations w/ H. We are really proud of the Kowiak family standing tall in Hickory and Charlotte this past week and leaving a great history w/ LRU students and faculty who attended his service on Thursday. This is painful and will always leave a void in your hearts, but remember that H is watching from above and loves you back. I will miss our off campus meals at the Italian restaurant in Statesville, NC. Transferring 8 organs to recipients who will get a second lease on life is one more example of how H would have wanted to care for others and do his role at community service. "Simply an epic young man, who will be sorely missed".

With much love, H's God parents and Brianna

mary Lau

November 21, 2008

Lianne & family:

Richard, Marjorie, Donna and I are very sorry to learn about death of Harrison. We regret that we had never had opportunity to meet Harrison.

I just want you to know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Please take care.

November 21, 2008

sorry for your tragic loss heaven has another angel to look down on you be comforted he is at peace

Margie Camara

November 21, 2008

Harrison will always be remembered as wonderful young man, loving son and brother. The pleasure is ours to have known him. We will miss him and not forget his cheerful and wonderful ways. As you grieve, know you are surrounded by many prayers. Margie

Lisa D

November 21, 2008

Harrison's Family,
I didn't know Harrison, but I am a parent and know that you are in pain. I am truly sorry for your lose and have been praying for you since I heard the news.

Trish Blassingame

November 21, 2008

Soar high Harrison Kowiak - shower us with falling stars. From Matt Furey have I learned of you, your parents, your life. A candle is lit in your honor.

sunghwan jun

November 21, 2008

yo Harrison will keep u in our prayers.. dam... y u?y so soon? we'll all remember u 4ever.. R.I.P.

Cheryl Hertzer

November 21, 2008

Dear Kowiak Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Harrison was one of my son, Abe Amayreh's, friends. I know that Abe loved him and that his life is richer for having known him. Harrison was a wonderful young man and his life touched the hearts of many people.

I pray that God will give you strength during this difficult time.

Cheryl Hertzer

Circle of Love
Written by Cheryl Hertzer

Some men have more than four score
To live out their earthly time
They hoard their gold,
They're bought and sold
Unhappy for all their lives
No time for friends
No time for love
Although their years are long
And in the end, what does it mean?
They never lived at all.

CHORUS:
The circle of love will come back to you
The true measure of life
It's not the gold or the length of your years
But the love you’ve left behind.
For the circle goes around and around
And comes back and then
Your spirit lives on in your family and friends
In the love you’ve left behind
In the timeless circle of love.

Some pass untimely and far too soon
We mourn with salty tears
But they welcomed each day
In such a way
They had full and joyful years
With time for friends
And time for love
And family cherished so dear
And in the end, what does it mean?
They lived and loved so well.

Are you weaving a circle of love
In these your days on earth?
Do you live for gold?
Is your heart cold?
What will measure your worth?
Take time for friends
Take time for love
Learn from the dear one you mourn
And in the end, what will it mean?
His circle of love lives on.

Linda Sexton

November 21, 2008

May God bless you at this time.

Rhonda Kovar

November 21, 2008

To the Kowiak Family...
So sorry for your loss. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers.

Kyra Varney

November 21, 2008

Harrison, you have been an inspiration to many. Your bright smile could light up a room, and you will always have a special place in the hearts of all of us who were blessed enough to know you.





Why so soon?


Why so soon,
would you take this man,
why so soon,
We can't understand?

Could it be,
that his work was done,
it's just that we,
thought it had only begun,

But you work in ways,
that we can't understand,
and we know that Harrison,
is all part of your plan.

His smile so famous,
is just the start,
of the love he held
inside of his heart.

To know him was luck,
befriend him, a pleasure,
and his memory is something
we all will treasure,

Harrison we love you,
and though we can't know,
why God took you so soon,
your love will never go.


To the Kowiak family, you have been so strong, even when life has been so unfair. We don't know why God takes our loved ones away, especially so suddenly, but he touched the lives of many, and I'm sure he looks down on you and his famous smile shines bright. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Bob, Carrie, Lauren, Sawyer, and Campbell Zook

November 21, 2008

Lianne, Brian, and Emma, Our thoughts and prayers go out to you. He has touched so many people in his life, may you some day find comfort seeing his spirit live on in the hearts of those he knew.

Emma I am thinking of you and you can call me anytime that you need an ear to listen or a hug for comfort.
We Love You- Lauren

Monique Hackett

November 21, 2008

Harrison,
Where is my life coach when I need him? You were an amazing friend Harrison. You were there for me when I needed you, you knew what to say and what to do to get me to smile. No matter if it was my family or school or boys. You were there, I won't forget all of our late night talks, your crazy voicemails. and our amazing times we spent together. Just know one thing Harrison I love you and I know you are still with all of us. Your legacy will live on Buddha it will! I promise you that. I love you Harrison and I miss you! I know your happy and I know Buddha and Jesus are kickin' it at the golden golf course. I will never forget you love! I am so blessed to have you in my life.

Lots of love... 1999

The Chun Family

November 20, 2008

Lianne, Brian, Emma,

Our sincere condolences on your tragic loss. Harrison was truly a one of a kind child. We will always remember his signature smile and how much he loved life and his family. We hope you don't mind us sharing our favorite photo of him from back in 1999 when you were still in CA. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

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