Search by Name

Search by Name

FUNERAL HOME

Boles Funeral Home - Southern Pines

425 W. Pennsylvania Avenue

Southern Pines, North Carolina

UPCOMING SERVICE

Visitation

Aug. 29, 2025

3:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m.

Boles Funeral Home

Send Flowers

Ruth Patterson Obituary

Patterson, Ruth

96, of Southern Pines died, August 18, 2025 at St. Joseph of the Pines in Southern Pines, NC. She will be interred with her husband at Florida National Cemetery in Bushnell, Florida.

Ruth was born August 26, 1928 in Waynesburg, PA to Guy Lancelot Goodwin and Anna Mae Clutter Goodwin. In 1949, Ruth married Joseph Bryan Patterson, who served in the Navy. They were happily married 61 years. Ruth and Joseph loved to travel and were able to visit all 50 United States, the United Kingdom, Canada and Paris.

Ruth worked as an accountant for the public school system. She was a member of the Grace Chapter of Eastern Star in Geneva, OH. After moving to Southern Pines in 2014 she also attended Belle Meade Chapel and was a resident of Belle Meade and St. Joseph of the Pines.

Ruth is preceded in death by her husband, Joseph Bryan Patterson; brothers, Ralph Goodwin and Raymond Goodwin; sister, Dorothy Forshey. She is survived by her niece, Rita Roberts of Southern Pines, NC as well as many nieces and nephews in Pennsylvania, Iowa and Tennessee.

Family will receive friends Friday August 29, 2025 in the Ascot Room of Belle Meade from 3 pm to 4 pm. The family requests that memorials be made to the charity of their choice. Online condolences may be left at: www.bolesfuneralhome.com

Services are entrusted to:

Boles Funeral Home of Southern Pines

View Guest Book www.tampabay.com/obits

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Tampa Bay Times on Aug. 27, 2025.

Memorial Events
for Ruth Patterson

Aug

29

Visitation

3:00 p.m. - 4:00 p.m.

Boles Funeral Home

Southern Pines, NC

Funeral services provided by:

Boles Funeral Home - Southern Pines

425 W. Pennsylvania Avenue, Southern Pines, NC 28387

Memories and Condolences
for Ruth Patterson

Not sure what to say?





0 Entries

Be the first to post a memory or condolences.

Make a Donation
in Ruth Patterson's name

Please consider a donation as requested by the family.

How to support Ruth's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor Ruth Patterson's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more