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FRANCIS RICHARD SHOTTES Francis Richard Shottes, 79, died July 13, 2008 after a brief illness. He was born November 15th, 1928 in North Andover, MA, a son of Frank and Mary Elizabeth (Graham) Shottes. Fran Shottes was the Founder and President of SISCORP, a Washington DC- based government relations firm with expertise in defense, biomedical research, telecommunications, and cutting-edge technology. He was known for his ability to develop relationships based on trust and mutual respect and enjoyed close working relationships with senior-level policy makers, key congressional staff and top Executive Branch officials. Prior to his founding of SISCORP in 1987, he was Director of Marketing for AVCO Systems Division (Textron) where, among other achievements, he played a key role in securing the $7 billion MX missile program. "Fran was a wonderful friend and was dedicated to helping the Defense Department and the Nation get the best capability for the future" according to the Under Secretary of Defense for Acquisition, Technology and Logistics, the Honorable John Young. Although an accomplished businessman, Francis Shottes was first and foremost a family man who cared for and loved his large, extended family. At family parties, Fran's main concern was that everyone present have a good time with plenty to eat and drink. Among his greatest pleasures were playing in the water with his children and grandchildren at his beloved Big Island Pond in Derry, New Hampshire and walking the wide, sandy beaches near his Florida home. Fran Shottes was truly larger than life, known for his gregarious nature, his generous spirit and his fun-loving ways. He is survived by the love of his life, Judith (Tofuri) Shottes, and ten children; Thelma Regan and her husband Michael, Debra Thompson and her husband Eustace, Karen Vitale and her fiancé Jimmy Odell, Susan Bailey, Andrea Frounjian and her husband Mark, Nancy Robertson, Michael Shottes and his wife, Denise, Jennifer Shottes, Eric Shottes, and Beth Ratliff and her husband, Duane; sister Mary (Shottes) Correia; mother-in-law, Georgianna Tofuri; 36 grand children and many great grandchildren, nieces, nephews, cousins. He was predeceased by his brother, Jack Shottes. Family and friends may call on Wednesday, July 16, 2008 from 4:00 to 8:00 p.m. at the Cataudella Funeral Home, 126 Pleasant Valley St., Methuen, MA 01844 . A funeral Mass be held on Thursday, July 17, 2008 at 10:00 a.m. in St. Michael's Church, 196 Main St ., North Andover , MA 01845. A Burial will follow at the Elmwood Cemetery in Methuen, MA. Memorial contributions may be made in Fran's memory to the American Heart Association, 20 Speen St., Framingham, MA 01701. Please visit our online guestbook at www.cataudellafh.com.

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Published by TC Palm on Jul. 16, 2008.

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susan bailey

August 4, 2008

We all will forever miss your laugh, the times shared at the lake. Mostley I want to thank you Dad for the donkey rides,the tubing rides. Mostly I want to thank you for my sisters,Thelma,Debra,Karen,Andrea, Nancy and Jennifer,brothers Michael and Eric. We really did have some good times. There'll be no teeth gone!!! My children as well as your other grandchildren will also miss you. Just know Dad, you were loved by many,and you were our creator of this motley crew. Love you forever

Debra Thompson

July 28, 2008

I am extremely thankful for the gifts my father gave me, most precious are my 6 sisters (Thelma, Karen, Susan, Andrea & Jennifer) & 2 brothers (Michael & Eric), there is no greater gift than a loving family, the children my father created. Out of that blossomed so many more family members, and that will continue to grow into my father's legacy. My father worked so very hard in being all he could be. He taught us all the value of knowledge through doing it on our own, he was a self-made man & wanted his children to enjoy the full fun of living and learning OUR true abilities and who we become. We were not bought, only self made. He was extremely generous with all his extended family and friends. He was a hero in your mind, be very thankful, because you might not be where you are without him, so good luck on your own.
I have his genes & genetics made me feel very close to my dad & I will truely miss the conversations and times I spent with him. Thank you for the love of all things associated with water and enjoying the serenity of being around it. Today, as I spent time on the beach I thought of my father and will every time I am around water. That was how powerful my dad was. Love forever, no matter what. Debra, his #2.

susan bailey

July 23, 2008

I pray this family will beable to find comfort in the love of each other; regaurdless of life's diversities we all had one major thing in common. we all loved the man called husband, father, friend. thank you judy for loving my dad. to Beth thank you for your children, I know they gave Dad great joy. I love you all and if you need me or anything just contact us I know your pain and the confution this loss brings but will never know how you feel,that will forever be personal. Perhaps one day we can just have a cup of tea together.[cosmos?] Love and peace to all . The bailey's

Darla & Roy Buckner

July 21, 2008

Judith...sorry to hear about Frannie's passing...Darla and I worked with Frannie at the Textron office in Washington...he was a pleasure to work (and play) with...we'll keep you and your family in our thoughts and prayers..

Larry Emerson

July 18, 2008

Dear Judy and family,

We're so sorry to hear about Fran. We always enjoyed you folks, weather working on the boat or taking Fran out fishing. We will miss him dearly.

Larry & Danny, Atlantic Mobile Marine

Frank & Phyllis Di Leo

July 16, 2008

We cannot express how sad we feel on Fran's passing. Fran was one of a kind. A special man in so many ways. We will miss him and his endearing friendship. Our prayers, condolences and thoughts are with Judy and the family. God Bless.

Bob Wilson

July 16, 2008

He was a great guy and good friend.

Bob & Dolores Wilson

Cari Campagna

July 16, 2008

I am so sorry for your loss. Mr. and Mrs. Shottes were the nicest people to work for at the Vero Beach Countr Club. Always so caring and fun to talk to. He will be greatly missed.

Eleanor Tague

July 16, 2008

Dear Judy and Family,
We are very sorry for your loss and we pray you will find the comfort and strength you need for the time ahead.

Steve and Eleanor Tague

Bob, Paula, Tara & Greg Correia

July 16, 2008

There are not enough words to express the sadness that we feel for your tremendous loss. Uncle Fran was a very special man and had such a positive influence on our lives. We have many fond memories of the time spent on Big Island Pond swimming, water-skiing, "fast" boat rides, family gatherings, and the hospitality. He always made sure everyone was having a great time. He touched the lives of so many and will always have a special place in our hearts. Our thoughts are with all of you. May your fondest memories help you through this difficult time.
With love and heartfelt sympathy,

Condon McDonough

July 16, 2008

Judy,
For those who knew him and especially those of us "in the business" Frannie was special.
A terrific guy. We will miss him but not forget him. RIP.

THE LOSEY FAMILY

July 15, 2008

WE ARE SO SORRY TO HEAR ABOUT FRAN. HE WAS SUCH A WONDERFUL PERSON. PLEASE KNOW THAT EVERYONE IN VERO BEACH IS THINKING OF AND PRAYING FOR YOU.

Teresa Kalil

July 15, 2008

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man."

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.

Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998-2008

joe & carole brophy

July 15, 2008

Dear Judy & Family

Please accept our sincere condolences. We have heard so many wonderful stories about Francis from his nephew Gary Shottes, that we felt Francis was part of our family.

We will miss him.

Jack and Phyllis Daugherty

July 15, 2008

Judith, we are so sorry to hear this sad news. Franny was far too young and was always so vibrant, this is hard to accept. He will be sorely missed by us and by his many other long time, very good friends. All our best to you and your family.

Arthur Clifton

July 15, 2008

Dear Judy and Family,

You have our deepest sympathy. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. We love you.

Arthur and Elaine Clifton

Carol & John Shottes

July 15, 2008

To Judith and the extended Shottes family,

Our deepest sympathies are with you all.

Love, Carol & John Shottes and family

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