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Jeffrey R. Grandy

1939 - 2017

Jeffrey R. Grandy obituary, 1939-2017, Vero Beach, FL

Jeffrey Grandy Obituary

Jeffrey R. Grandy

Vero Beach, FL

Jeffrey Ransom Grandy of Vero Beach, Florida, formerly of Bedford, New York, died peacefully in his sleep on April 12, 2017.

Jeff was born in Sioux City, Iowa, on December 10, 1939, the second of three sons born to the late William F. Grandy and Bonnie Brandt Grandy. Jeff graduated from Phillips Exeter Academy and magna cum laude from Yale University, where he was elected to Phi Beta Kappa. With a beautiful tenor voice, he sang throughout college and was tapped to be a member of the 1960-61 Whiffenpoofs.

Jeff began his career with First National City Bank (now Citigroup) while serving in the U. S. Army Reserves, and received an MBA from New York University. He spent his professional career at Citibank, where he was a Senior Vice President and led divisions of the bank while working in the U.S., Brazil and England. Jeff was an eternal optimist, taking on the challenges of single fatherhood for several years, the successful merging of two families, and later quadriplegia as the result of a fall in 2003. Jeff enjoyed a wonderful and loving relationship with his wife, Mary (Partenheimer Gallant) Grandy, since their marriage in 1982. Together, they were devoted parents to their five children and cheerleaders for their grandchildren. With a passion for travel, Jeff and Mary led many adventures for the family in the U.S. and Europe. Throughout their marriage, and particularly after his injury, Jeff drew strength from Mary's care and support. He was always very grateful for the excellent care and friendship he received from his health aide, Isaac "Paul" Donkor for fourteen years.

Jeff was happiest spending time with his family, playing golf and enjoying the company of old friends. In retirement, he was active singing with choral groups, writing and maintaining a low golf handicap, while his health permitted. Jeff also devoted time to his favorite organizations including service as a Board member of the Indian River Medical Center Foundation and the Bedford Golf and Tennis Club. In addition to Mary, he is survived by children Jeffrey M. Grandy, Edward (Natalie) B. Grandy, A. Stuart (Sarah) Grandy, Paul (Jennifer) W. Gallant, and Sarah (Rocky) Gallant Kurita, his nine grandchildren, Carter and Reed Gallant, Hailey and Henry Grandy, Marlon and Lyra Grandy and Zander, Kendall and Katherine Kurita, who knew him as "Poppy," and brothers William (Jeanne) Grandy and Fred (Catherine) Grandy. Jeff's first marriage to the late Lucy Bent McKinley ended in divorce.

A memorial service will be held on Friday, May 12 at noon at St. Matthew's Church, Bedford, New York. In Jeff's memory, donations may be made to the Christopher and Dana Reeve Foundation, 636 Morris Turnpike, Suite 3A, Short Hills, NJ 07078 or the Indian River Medical Center Foundation, 1000 36th St., Vero Beach, FL 32960.

An online guestbook is available at www.lowtherfuneralhome.com.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by TC Palm on Apr. 23, 2017.

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April 14, 2020

Lots of fond memories of Jeff. Delightful personality. Fun-loving. His memory lives with me. Dick George

Valrie Goulbourne

August 17, 2017

My condolences to the Grandy family. Jeff was my department Sr Vice President at 399 Park Avenue,New York. He was such a nice person to work with. Sorry for your loss.

LAUREL PEART

June 4, 2017

I WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER MR. GRANDY FOR BEING THE BEST PERSON TO WORK FOR IN VERO BEACH FLORIDA. HE WAS A CUT ABOVE THE REST. HE TAUGHT ME SO MANY THINGS EVEN TO LEARN TO LAUGH AT MYSELF. THANK YOU AND MAY YOU R.I.P MY ANGEL. AND MAY YOUR FAMILY FIND STRENGTH IN GOD'S LOVE.

Richard George

May 5, 2017

After 14 years posted overseas with Citibank I returned to NY Head Office in 1985 looking for a job that would teach "transferable skills". Jeff took me on as a relatively expensive new recruit in Citicorp Real Estate even though I had no commercial real estate experience. It certainly worked out for me and I appreciate Jeff's taking a risk that it would benefit the bank as well. Jeff was fun to be around, had a great sense of humor and loyalty to Citibank and was a model for younger bankers. Thanks for the memories, Jeff.

May 2, 2017

WE WILL ALWAYS REMEMBER HIM AT THE WOUND HEALING CENTER. HE WAS A GENTLE MAN. MAY HE REST IN PEACE.

INDIAN RIVER WOUND STAFF

Lawrence Small

April 30, 2017

Although I last saw Jeff more than 25 years ago, I remember him well. He was a real gentleman, with impeccable integrity, a warm sense of humor and a keen mind.....a wonderful colleague, indeed. My deepest wishes of condolence go to all of his family. Sincerely, Larry Small

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