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Kathy Scheller
January 21, 2025
Hi, it´s just mom. I was thinking about you and missing you. I love you forever and a day.
Mom
October 6, 2023
Hi Bobby,
I miss you so much! I bet it was nice to see Grandma again. I can´t believe you´re 44. I hope you´re having a nice birthday. I love you so much. The tears are coming down too fast. I´ll say goodbye for now and then I love you.
Aunt Diane
March 26, 2023
Dear Bobby, I'm sorry that I missed your birthday. But I still think about you a lot and miss you. I hope your with Grandma & Grandpa and all the pets that you loved.
Patrice Larkin
October 7, 2022
Dearest Bobby,
I love and miss you very much. Please continue to watch over us.
Love,
Aunt Pat
Mom
October 6, 2022
HAPPY BIRTHDAY BOBBY Not a day goes by that I don´t think about you. I love and miss you so much. Give a kiss to grandpa and grandma for me And dad. Just remember I always love you.
Diane Scheller
October 6, 2022
Dear Bobby,
It's been a long time since I've written to you here. But I think of you & my many memories of you often. I will always love you & I cherish my memories of you. I pray your with your Dad, Grandma & Grandpa and the many animals that you love. Aunt Diane
Mike
August 30, 2021
I wish you were still here, you were truly a good person and there are so few of those left these days. Your mom and Pat miss you always and I know your friends miss you too. I know you're in a better place, you were too good a man not to be.
Mom
June 4, 2021
I think about you Bobby everyday ❤ I can now smile when I do. I remember you and Richie going to preschool together what a team you were!! I found a pic of you two going to first grade in your shirt and tie. I sent it to Rich. Love you my son❤
Mike
August 30, 2020
I still can’t believe you’re gone, we were just talking the other day about how much Lucy loved you, she used to get so excited when you would come over And she would hear you say momma! and get on the floor with her. We miss you.
Mom
February 8, 2020
I love you and miss you everyday ❤ Can you Believe Donna is 16 years old? I got in touch with Kevin and Joe we are going to get together and get something to eat they all miss you. I hope Grandma is holding you in her arms. Watch over Grandpa & Grandma for me.. I hope you will see Keith & Brian. Take care of each other. Love you Mom❤
Mike Harwick
February 8, 2020
You will always be loved and missed.
Mike
March 13, 2019
Bobby, I wish that you didn't leave us so soon, I know how much your mom misses you every day. You were a good man who always was ready to help anyone who needed it. I know that you are loved up there with your Dad and Granpa and Lucy. And you're loved and missed down here by all of us. I'll always take care of your Mom and your Aunt Pat. You are missed and loved and always in our hearts.
Mom
March 13, 2019
I was just sitting here thinking how much you would have loved the new house. We have a pool and I know you and Mike would have a blast in it. I will always have you in my heart and never stop loving you. I miss you every second of every day. ❤❤❤
Tonya Freund
August 31, 2016
Hi bobby,there's not a day that goes by that I do not think of you. I miss you so much.I think often on how things would be so much different if you were still around.I love you so much ,my brother ,my friend.. Love tonya
Mom Scheller
October 6, 2013
Bobby, just wanted to wish you a HAPPY BIRTHDAY ! I miss you so much and love you to heaven and back. You will be missed forever give kisses to Grandpa and Lucy!
October 1, 2013
Just sitting here and saw this bright orange car on TV and thought OMG how you would love this car. Miss you every day love you..
Patrice Larkin
August 28, 2013
Love and miss you...every day, Bobby.
Kiss your Dad, Grandpa and Lucy for me.
Love,
Aunt Pat
Diane
August 27, 2013
You're always in my heart Bobby. I love you and miss you.
Love,
Aunt Diane
Cale girard
August 31, 2012
Sure do miss you you bro!
tonya freund
August 31, 2012
i love n miss u sooo much.im just thankful i had u in my life for the time that i did.u helped make me the person i am today.always in my heart.xo
Diane
August 28, 2012
Bobby,
You're always in my heart Bobby. I love you.
Aunt Diane
August 28, 2012
It's been 5yr since you left us. I miss you and love so much. Please know that I keep you in my heart every second of every day. Love Mom
Diane Scheller
October 7, 2011
Happy Birthday Bobby,
We miss you.
Love,
Aunt Diane
Mom
October 6, 2011
Bobby,
Happy Birthday!I can't believe that you are 32y old. I swear it was just yesterday that I held you in my arms for the first time.I didn't think I could ever love anyone with the intensity and devotion that I felt for you. I remember thinking that I would do anything in the world to protect you. I am so sorry I was not with you that morning. If I could I would have taken my last breath so you could have gone on living and enjoying your life. Donna is 7 now can you believe that, she is definitely your daughter. She looks at me with the corner of her eye just like you did,when she is trying to get out of trouble and is always calling me and saying grandma I want! Who do you think she takes after. Donna favorite color is orange she loves it, we make a deal she can have somethings orange but she has to have other colors too.I have tried for years to get her to wear a dress but to know avail. Grandma and Aunt Pat and Aunt Diane, all miss you so much. lucy is sitting next to me crying and I know she misses you and your MAMA!she is 12y old now and we have another dog Sandy she is 3y you would love her too. I hope you have a great day with Dad and your grandpa's. Tell them I love them and they better be taking care of you, because when I get up there they know what will happen, I have not changed. I love you my son forever and ever.Happy Birthday!!!!
October 6, 2011
Happy Birthday, Bobby. We miss you.
Love you, Aunt Pat
Terry Scheid
September 3, 2011
Hi Bobby - It's been a long time since I wrote you a note, because I know YOU know when I'm thinking of you and speaking directly to you. But it's so close to that date I don't like to think about, and the fact you weighed heavily on my mind today, I thought I'd write.
You know I'm living in Florida now, and today I went swimming with my Dad. It was an absolutely beautiful day, and as I was floating around on my noodle (yes that's an image I know YOU were laughing at), the memories of swimming with your Mom and you and your friend, (was it Anthony?) at your Grandma's pool at the first house in PSL came flooding back to me as if it was yesterday. You were always laughing and having such fun in the pool, yelling "Aunt Terry, Aunt Terry, watch this . . .!" There were so many terrific memories, but now they seem like snapshots frozen in time. Like I was watching your life unfold from the sidelines, not participating in it.
Vivid pictures in my mind of you sitting on the Main Street USA curb at Disney World's Magic Kingdon waiting for the electric light parade to begin (I do believe you were a little too hyper, overtired and impatient and your Mom had you sitting there on a time-out for fighting with your friend.) You were sitting on the curb, with those long legs pulled up to your chin and your long arms wrapped around your body with the cutest pout on your face. Of course your Mom would yell at me because I was always laughing at the situations that caused her to try punishing you in the first place.
And then there's my 'picture' of you out on the balcony of the hotel that you and your Mom came to join me at when I was attending a conference in Fort Lauderdale. The sun was setting behind you and I remember thinking you really did look like that Baby Sunshine your Mom liked calling you.
Remember the 4th of July in Clifton Park and how we went down to the Plaza in Albany to watch the fireworks? We parked behind the Bar Association (one of the perks of having a place to park downtown) and walked over the the festivities. Such fun. Again, that picture of you - in your jeans, navy shirt, Mets BB cap, worn backward of course, and sneakers is seared in this mind for all eternity.
Remember coming over to my Dad and Mom's house in Wildwing Park when Dad was outside either digging up a tree or planting it? You were his helper the whole time we were there. Your Mom and I went inside to talk with my Mom, and you stayed there wanting to shovel out the dirt or anything you could think of to help. My Dad got such a kick out of you that day, and from then on every day you happened to come by and visit.
Today's warm sun beating down on me as I floated away deep in thought made me certain you were somehow with me in the pool and I know I will see you one day again. Of this I am certain, and just wish there had been more time to increase the number of photos in my album called Baby Cloud. I did meet your daughter this summer though, and have been able to start a new page in the back of your album.
I miss you very much Bobby, but feel free to come swimming with me again whenever you want.
All of my love, 'Aunt'Terry
Kathy Scheller
August 29, 2011
Bobby,
Its hard to believe Its been 4 years since you left us. I miss you every min of the day.I had so much fun with Donna we talked a lot about you and she saw pic of you when u were little.I hope Dad and Grandpa are watching over you.love you so much my heart is always with you my son.
LOVE MOM
August 28, 2011
Hi Bobby. I've been thinking about you a lot today. It's still so hard to believe that you're gone. But you'll always live in Donna and in our hearts and in our memories. I love you Bobby.
Aunt Diane
August 28, 2011
Bobby, we miss you so much. Your 2nd "mama" misses you too (Lucy). Your mom, Grandma and myself had Donna with us for a few months this year. We told her all about you and showed her all the pictures we have on the computer of the two of you together. She loved watching herself with you in the slide show. Watch over us hon. Give my love to Grandpa.
Love you, Aunt Pat
jeanie couser
August 31, 2009
Bobby,
Its your anniversary and we wanted you to know that we are thinking of you.( Every August and every October)You are loved and you are missed!
Love,
Allan &
Jeanie
Kathy Scheller- Harwick
August 30, 2009
Dear Bobby,
I can't believe its been 2years. It seems like just last week,that you were yelling Mama.I miss you so much! Things will never be the same.I don't care how much time goes by a part of me is with you always.I love and miss you so much.Lucy sends her love.Donna is a small mini you.Her looks and temper and her giant heart.
We love you until the end of time. Give Grandpa a big kiss for me.
Love MOM
Diane Scheller
August 28, 2009
Dear Bobby,
Although the time grows longer since you have left us, I always keep your memory close to my heart. I love you and I miss you. I'm glad Grandpa is with you. God protect you and watch over you.
Love,
Aunt Diane
Patrice Larkin
August 27, 2008
"Whispers from Heaven"
When I left this world without you
I know it made you blue.
Your tears fell so freely, I watched: I know this is true.
While you were weeping,
Days after I passed away --
While all was silent within me,
I saw you kneel to pray.
From this wonderful place called heaven
Where all my pain is gone,
I send a gentle breeze to whisper,
"My loved ones, please go on."
The peace that I have found here
Goes far beyond compare.
No rain, no clouds, no suffering --
Just LOVE from everywhere.
You need not be troubled
Just stay close to GOD in prayer
Someday we'll be reunited
My love, HIS love surrounds you always,
EVERYWHERE
Diane Scheller
August 27, 2008
Dear Bobby,
I can't believe that it's been a year since we lost you. I think about you all of the time and try to keep those special memories close to my heart. We miss you Bobby. Please watch over us.
Love,
Diane
Sean Hardy
February 29, 2008
I think about you daily. The things we used to do. How much i miss not having you here to talk to. I want you to know that I will always keep my promise to you with Donna. I miss you Bobby.
Your Best Friend, Sean
brittany
January 31, 2008
Dear Kathy,
I jus want to reach out and let you know that i am here for you when you need me to be
mom
December 27, 2007
Bobby Merry Chritmas,I spent the day with Donna.I gave her present's from me, with you in mind. She loved all the Dora the explorer things.Also the big girl doll. We had a great day, Donna and Sydney, Amanda.It was hard, evey time she smiled and laughed she reminded me of you.I would not have traded it for anything. I love and miss you so much. My only wish is to have been able to kiss and hug you one last time. All my love Mom.
Brittany blevins
December 4, 2007
I found this online and it kinda hit me in the heart, so i jus wanna let you know i was thinking about u how much i miss u and how much i wish u were here i love you dearly always and forever my boobear
We all know you're gone
and gone is forever.
I sometimes think I hear and see you,
then I think its not true
and it breaks my heart in two -
two pieces that slowly mend together,
month after month.
Memories are painful and also wonderful.
Why God wanted you now is something no one knows,
why you took his hand and left us all behind.
What we will always know and always show
is that you are a wonderful friend!
JACKIE DESMARAIS
December 2, 2007
OH BOBBY I MISS YOU SOOOOO MUCH! I KNOW YOUR IN A BETTER PLACE NOW THOUGH, I'LL NEVER FORGET YOU!!
LOVE YOU:(
Brittany blevins
November 28, 2007
I just couldnt get you off my mind today i guess because the holidays are near. i remember last year you and i put OUR christmas tree up and we bought all of our decorations for our place, we went out and bought the kids toys and gifts it is soo hard right now to not have you around to help me reach the top of our christmas tree, and to put a smile on my face, i miss you but i do know that you are up there watching over everyone and that u are in in my heart but i miss you.. love you always and forever.brittany(babyboo)
Diane Scheller
October 6, 2007
Happy Birthday Bobby,
We all love you and miss you. I'm glad you're with your father and grandfather for your birthday. God bless you all.
Love,
Aunt Diane
mom
October 6, 2007
Bobby,
Happy Birthday, I wish we could be togeather more than you know. I hope you are at peace and are having the biggest party with all your loved ones there.I love you so much.
Michael Maraziti
September 25, 2007
Dear Kathy,
Di, Michael, Brandie and I are all very saddened to hear about Bobby. We will, as always, pray for both of you. Even though it has been a long time, I remember Bobby well. Both Michael and Brandie send their love and have fond memories of playing with Bobby when they were all so young.
Love always, Mike and Di Maraziti
Bobby at Kevin's wedding
September 25, 2007
September 25, 2007
Bobby and Tonya
September 25, 2007
Bobby and Donna
September 25, 2007
Susan Sandick
September 21, 2007
To Bobby and my dear friend Kathy,
Life and time are a circle, and though Bobby may have moved on to another part of the circle, love and good memories will sustain us until we reach him again.
Never say good-bye, for we shall meet again.
Farewell for now to a very special person.
Joann Hoose
September 19, 2007
For what is it to die but to stand naked in the wind and melt into the sun.
And what is it to cease breathing, but to free the breath from its restless tides, that it may rise and expand and seek God unemcumbered.
Only when you drink from the river of silence shall you indeed sing.
And when you reached the mountaintop then you shall begin to climb.
And when the earth has claimed your limbs, then you shall truly dance.
Jaime Hoose
September 19, 2007
Bobby,
It's been a long time since I last saw you and I regret that I will never get the chance to talk to you again. I still listen to the awesome music you introduced me to and I can remember the way that you made all of the kids smile (and maybe a little bit crazy) when we were camp counselors together. You have a special place in my heart and will stay there always.
Terry Scheid
September 18, 2007
Dear Bobby:
You've always been a special part of my life - you, my 'baby cloud' and me your 'Aunt Terry.' I've always wanted the best for you, hoped you would find happiness and peace, and am confident you began finding it with Donna Marie. I can't begin to tell you how sad I am that you are no longer with us. I am so glad and greatful I had the opportunity to speak with you for so long the week before you died. You sounded like you were beginning to find happiness, and now, you left us too soon. I will never know what life would have brought you, but I do know, you brought such love to my life. I will miss you so much more than I can ever say, but hopefully in your heart, you know . . .
Patrice Larkin
September 15, 2007
To my sister Kathy, our family and all Bobby's friends; hold on to the hope and truth that "grief diminishes as memories nourish the heart". May we all find peace and comfort in cherished memories. Bobby, I know your Dad and Grandpa were there waiting for you before before we even knew you were gone from us. Love, Aunt Pat
Diane Scheller
September 15, 2007
Dear Bobby,
You were my nephew but I couldn't love you more if you were my own child. I'll always love you and miss you Bobby. My dearest memories are of you as a child but you grew up to be a sweet, loving man who always strived to be the best you could be. I was and always will be so proud of you and grateful that you were a part of my life.
Love,
Aunt Diane
Roy Scheller
September 14, 2007
For over half of my life, Kathy and her son Bobby have been a team. Together they taught me about love and committment to others, tolerance, patience and forgiveness. As a team they briought happiness and joy to my parents and siblings. My thoughts and prayers will continue for them both and my memories will always include the sight of my father and his grandson fishing together in the Catskills.
Kathy Scheller-Harwick
September 13, 2007
Bobby its 5:20am, I was looking at some pic's of you. I miss your smile so much. I am so lost without you, Its always been Bobby and Ma. Love you so much my son, Please know I only have good memories of you not one bad memory ever. Hope you are safe and happy with Dad and Grand-pa.
Love always, Mom
jeanie& allan couser
September 12, 2007
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
Barb
September 11, 2007
There are no words that I can express to Kathy and her family of how sad I feel about the loss of Bobby. I have known the Scheller's for over 45 years. I knew Bobby before he was born. As in most people's lives there are regrets. I regret that I never got to see how Bobby grew from a child to a man. I know his family loved him very much. I believe that Bobby will always be in the hearts of all those that loved him.
Lori Peloquin
September 8, 2007
My deepent sentiments to Kathleen and Robert's parents. Although I never met Bobby, I heard so many good things about him from my dear friend and Bobby's Grandmother, Kathleen, who loved him so much. My prayers are with all your family.
Kevin and Stacey Slater
September 8, 2007
Our hearts go out to Bobby's family. Bobby was one of a kind and a dear friend. He will truely be missed by all and remain in our hearts forever.
Rich and Mary Sheridan
September 7, 2007
To Bobbys family:Our prayers and thoughts are with you all. Bobby will always be remembered in our home for the time he and Donna Marie spent with us at Thanksgiving, along with his other friends. He impressed us not only for his height and good looks but for the loving and devoted Father he was. There is nothing worse than losing a child or a friend, but the belief and faith that he is in Gods hands and now a guadian spirit to all he loved or who loved him may ease the pain .
Our Sympathy To The Entire Family: Rich and Mary Sheridan
JEANANN AND DAVID JACOBS
September 7, 2007
WE ARE ALL GOING TO MISS BOBBY GREATLY. HE WAS ONE OF OUR GOOD FRIENDS. OUR LOVE TO HIS MOM AND TO DONNA. BOBBY WAS SUCH A GREAT GUY AND WE HAD MANY GOOD YEARS TOGETHER. WE MISS HIM AND WILL ALWAYS KEEP HIM IN OUR HEARTS. LOVE-
JEANANN,DAVID,RAEGAN AND BABY DAVEY.
Brian Gaca
September 6, 2007
I miss you and I still wish you were here.
Alana Andrews
September 5, 2007
Bobby was a great person.. Could always make me laugh!! We will all mmiss him very much, I am sorry for his moms loss of a great son, Donna's loss of a great father, and our loss of a great person . We love ya and you will be missed.
Jennifer Watson
September 5, 2007
It has been a few years since I have seeb Bobby, but he was a wonderful and very funny person. He was definitely one of the nicer guys in the group and always respectful. Always Remembered, Never Forgotten. Many, many hugs sent to Bobby's family.
Derek Dimsey
September 5, 2007
Bobby and i went through a lot of ups and downs. He meant a great deal to a lot of people including myself. No one especially his friends and family should have to go through a tragedy such as this. To everyone that reads this, Bobby was a great person remember him the way he would want to be remembered. "Pour one out for your homie" Love you Bobby!!
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