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Alan Rabitor Obituary
Uxbridge - Alan R. Rabitor, 69, died Mon. Dec. 28, 2015 after a long illness.
He is survived by 2 daughters, Kendra J. Rabitor-Sheldon of Millbury and Kirstie Tarr of Webster; 3 grandchildren Carlie Rose, Kyler and C.J.; 3 sisters Marcia A. Tognazzi of Grafton, Gail M. Rabitor of Ware, and Karen M. Palmieri of Linwood; 4 brothers Edward T. Rabitor Jr. of Danielson CT, Bruce D. Rabitor of Charlton, Thomas J. Rabitor of Uxbridge, and Mark S. Rabitor of Middletown RI; many nieces, nephews and his beloved dog Me-Too. He was brother of the late John H. Rabitor, Marilyn Rabitor, Paula M. Brill and Neil J. Rabitor.
Born in Northbridge on Sept. 6, 1946 he was the son of Edward T. Sr. and Alberta M. (Lachapelle) Rabitor. Alan was a Teacher at the former Computer Ed Institute in Somerville and the V.A. in Worcester. He was educated in the Northbridge school system and was a U.S. Army Vietnam veteran, serving in the Special Forces. He was a private family man, who enjoyed music, poetry, reading, and spending time with his dogs.
Following cremation, a Celebration of Alan's Life will be held Thurs. Jan. 7 from 6:30-8:30 pm at the Uxbridge VFW Post #1385, 16 Cross Rd. Calling hours are private. Donations may be made to: Monahan Home, VNA Care Network & Hospice, Development Office, 199 Rosewood Dr., Suite 180, Danvers, MA 01923 or to the Veterans Inc, 69 Grove St., Worcester, MA 01605. To leave a condolence message for the family please visit: www.jackmanfuneralhomes.com
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Memories and Condolences
for Alan Rabitor
January 7, 2016
Dearest Alan,
Thank you for the wonderful memories you have left us all.
With a great appreciation for books, you took me to the amazing Book Warehouse! Always ready and willing to assist anyone who would say to you: Alan, my computer doesn't seem to be working right you would shake your head back and forth in dismay; stop, flash your smile, and say Bring it on over!
Eternal Peace to you,
Respectfully,
Lola
Bettyann Pina
January 4, 2016
Deepest sympathy Kendra & kirstie may the LORD help you through your sorrows
January 4, 2016
I am very sorry for your loss.Having grown up wiith Alan he was a good friend. Terry parker
Tim Cluett
January 4, 2016
Sorry for your loss.
January 4, 2016
To the Rabitor family, my deepest condolences. Sandra Palmieri
J. P.
January 2, 2016
I salute your veteran. My condolences for your loss and gratitude for your loved one's service to our country.
Suzanne (Beland) O'Leary
January 2, 2016
Alan,
Thank you for your service to our country.
Rabitor family sorry for your loss.
Kris Ann Marley
January 2, 2016
When God calls our loved ones home, he leaves a gift of memories. Hold on to your memories, and let them guide you during this time of sadness.
Lisa Peyrone
January 1, 2016
Another angel in heaven. Rest in peace.
December 31, 2015
I am very sorry for your loss. May God comfort and strengthen you in this difficult time.
David Plourde
December 31, 2015
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
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