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Benjamin Smith Obituary
Rutland - Benjamin W-P Smith, 20 a vibrant fun loving sweet young man passed away unexpectedly Easter Sunday, April 16, 2017, joining in heaven his father Walter R. Smith who passed away in 2001 when Ben was a 5 year old child.
Ben will be forever loved and missed by his mother, Kelley J. (Pike) Smith and his step father Robert Levins; his sister and best friend, Tara J. Cronin, all with whom he lived; a brother Joshua D. Smith his wife Nicole, nephews Carter and Mason Smith of West Boylston; a stepbrother and two step sisters; Randy LeBeau Cheryl LeBeau and Chole Levins; his maternal grandmother, Anne Clark and her husband Curtis of Florida, paternal grandmother, Caroll A. Campbell and her husband Jack of Auburn; many Aunts and Uncles; all of his cousins including Trisha Pike and Talexa O'Leary with whom he was very close. His close friends Franky Lil Jimmy James and his girlfriend Jessica; many other extended family members and friends. He is also pre-deceased by his maternal grandfather, William C. Pike; paternal grandfather Paul A. Smith
Benjamin was born in Worcester on June 5, 1996. He grew up in Rutland and graduated from Wachusett Regional High School in 2015. As a teenager, high school student and most recently young man he worked for a man he thought of as a second father, Gary Sclamo of Sclamo Appliances as a warehouse manager and repair technician.
Ben was a sweet loving son, brother, uncle, nephew, cousin and friend. He loved his dogs Casey P Nut Maggie and Angel. His passion was for the outdoors, especially fishing, off roading, mudding, 4 wheeling, boating, jet skiing and all water sports. He was an accomplished technician who could disassemble, reassemble and fix anything that needed repair.
Friends and relatives are invited to calling hours, Tuesday, April 25, from 4 pm to 8 pm in the MERCADANTE FUNERAL HOME & CHAPEL, 370 Plantation St and again on Wednesday morning from 11 am to 12 noon. His funeral service will be held at 12 noon at the Funeral Home. Burial will be private. In lieu of flowers, Memorial contributions may be made to Community Healthlink Inc 72 Jacques Ave Worcester, MA 01610 or Sweetpea For Animals 1090 Pleasant St. Paxton, MA 01612
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Memories and Condolences
for Benjamin Smith
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Stacie Banks
February 2, 2024
God be with you, Ben. Its sad you left so soon. You will never be forgotten. Love, Cousin Stacie
Dick Mary
April 13, 2023
Rest in peace Ben. We'll always remember the nice work you did for us in Auburn.
Aunt Sandy Pike
April 15, 2021
It's so hard to believe that it's been 20 years it seems like just yesterday. RIP Ben. Kelly and Tara you are in my prayers now and always, God Bless and be with you at this time!
Shawna and eric Dejesus
April 15, 2020
We miss you so much at cool sandy kid !!
Nathan Bouthiller
February 3, 2020
Rip brother I hope you're having a fun time with our Lord and savior and just enjoying the heavenly kingdom love you kid
April 27, 2017
RIP Ben. We remember so very well how wonderful it was to see a young boy and his dog Casey, growing up at Cool Sandy. The freedom to ride your bike,fish and swim. It was a pleasure to have you stop by to say hello, when you were riding your bike with your fishing pole by your side, and Casey was running along side, wearing his bright bandana.
Gone way too soon. You will be missed.
Faye & John Pace, Helen Ave.
Lee Hall
April 25, 2017
Kelly and family,
I am so very sad to learn of the loss of your son. It hurts to even think of the pain you are feeling. My heart grieves with you.
I don't know why we have to go through such trauma in this life but I am praying that you and yours may find strength in the wary days ahead, peace, comfort and hopefully some joy in your future.
Sincerest sympathies,
Lee Hall
cheryl & te
April 25, 2017
Kelley, our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Kendall Molina
April 25, 2017
Dear Kelley,
Your son Benjamin, your family, and you are in my prayers.
With My sincerest condolences,
Kendall
April 25, 2017
Kelly,
I'm so deeply deeply for your loss. The only thing that may help with the pain is time, and memories are forever.My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Bob Carelli
Elizabeth/Betsy Fitzpatrick
April 25, 2017
Kelley, Tara, Joshua and all of the family,
My heart aches with you. I pray that the light and love of God eases your pain and guides you into eventual peace and comfort. Let the love that surrounds you help to hold you up and carry you forward in the days ahead. I send my love to you and all of the family. God Bless Benjamin Smith -
Deb Baillargeon
April 25, 2017
Kelley,
Wishing you peace to bring comfort, courage to face the days ahead and memories to forever hold in your heart.
Heartfelt condolences to you and your family.
Karin Smith
April 25, 2017
Dear Kelley,
Words can not even begin to express the deep sadness I feel for the loss of Ben's life. You have been on my mind and heart constantly, sending lots of love, hugs and prayers to you and your beautiful family. I'm thinking of you and asking for strength to help you all though the next few minutes, hours, days, weeks,and months ahead. Love always xoxox
Maria Siemaszko
April 25, 2017
Great Spirit, God Creator of All
I welcome You into my Heart, Mind, Body and Soul
There is always room for You here
Grant me the Wisdom to heed my inner voice and the Strength to sat grounded while I sing my favorite song
Guide down my chosen path and give me courage to pursue what is available to me
I am Thankful for the lessons and Grateful for my struggles; I have not Forgotten what has brought me to where I am today
Open my HEART to the HEALING wholeness of nature; We are all related, and through this, I WILL Find SERENITY
Great Spirit, God, Creator of all Cleanse my Spirit and Wash my Soul
I AM READY TO WALK AND BE WITH YOU
Tim and Julie Walsh
April 25, 2017
Dear Kelly and Family:
We are so sorry that you had to experience the worst kind of tragedy possible. We grieve with you and your loved ones. We have nothing but prayers, thoughts & love for you, love to help you get though the pain yesterday, today, and for what is gonna seem like a thousand tomorrows. We wrap our thoughts and prayers around your aching heart and soul.
May the God of this universe in some miraculous way bring peace to you and your family. +
Love,
Tim and Julie Walsh
john erickson
April 24, 2017
Kelly,sorry for your loss.your in our prayers.stay strong
Kathy Berrocal
April 24, 2017
Dear Kelley,Tara and Family, I'm so very sorry for your loss.My deepest condolences.Sending prayers your way.
Kathy Perry Berrocal
Costa Rica
April 24, 2017
You will all forever be in our thoughts and prayers.Rest in peace Ben. Love Julie, Kaci, Don, Dustin and Brandon Holbrook XO
Lori Keddy
April 24, 2017
Thinking of you and your family Kelley. So sorry for your loss.
Neil Ouellette
April 23, 2017
The Rosary and a prayer was said for Ben at mass today. Prayers will continue for you and your family Kelley. My deepest sorrow and thoughts.
Barbara Ann Clancy Hall
April 23, 2017
Oh Kelly.. I'm soo very sorry & in shock for you & yours, for the loss of your beautiful son. You are the kindest, warmest person a Mom could ever have... I'm praying for you & yours, Truly. Xoxo God Bless you hon & know, hes OK.. With his Dad & Great Holy Spirit. : (
Elinor Saarinen
April 23, 2017
Our deepest sympathies on the loss of your son. You and your family are in our thoughts and prayers. Remember all the happy times you had as the days and years go by. He will always be with you. Fondly. Elinor and Ralph Saarinen
Amy, Scott, Beth & Dave Smith
April 23, 2017
Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
April 22, 2017
I want to give my deepest condolences to your family for your sudden loss, I could never imagine what it's like to lose a child, I pray God will hold you in his arms during your most trying time & ease your pain as much as possible, I am deeply sorry for your heartbreak
April 22, 2017
RIP Ben xoxo
April 22, 2017
Remember the smiles...
Cherish the moments.....
Find comfort in memories.
With sympathy for your loss,
Sue Sjogren
Sue Ambrogi
April 22, 2017
Kelley, may the fondest memories of your son carry you through your roughest days.
Phil,Cheryl Johnson
April 22, 2017
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Louise Colebrook
April 22, 2017
I'm so sorry Kelly and family my heart breaks for you just know he's safe and in peace God takes the best he will always be with you kelley rip ben
Courtney Anderson-Messier
April 21, 2017
Kelley, Tara, Trisha, Talexa, and furbabies,
We can't express how sorry we are for your loss. Losing a loved one, is never easy. We're sending you all our love and support to you all. Rest in peace Ben, with your daddy and all the angels. Watch over your family ♡ Amen
Todd Saarinen
April 21, 2017
Kelly, We are praying for you.
Kateri #37 in suggested
April 21, 2017
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
Kateri
April 21, 2017
His intentions honest and his love was pure, God gained another Angel today. May he guide his Mother, Sister and close loved ones (and me) with the strength necessary to get through this difficult time.
Warehouse Shenanigcans
Kateri Hastings
April 21, 2017
April 21, 2017
Kelly my prayers to all of our family,Auntie Glo
April 21, 2017
MAY GOD BLESS THIS FAMILY TODAY & ALWAYS I KNOW ALL TO WELL OF WHAT YOU'RE GOING THRU. FROM A MOTHER WHO ALSO LOST A SON.
MY DEEPEST CONDOLENCES, A MOTHER
Jessica Schwarz
April 20, 2017
He had a heart and smile that would light up my life and eyes brighter than any candle could shine
A mom
April 20, 2017
My deepest sympathies to your entire family. Losing a child is the most devestating, unnatural, thing a mother can go through. God must of needed an angel. May he be at peace in the arms of his father. My prayers are with you
Meg Ryan
April 20, 2017
Kelley,
My sincere condolences for the loss of your son. I will keep you and your family in my prayers forever. May God grant you peace as you treasure your memories and love for Ben.
Julie Jamron
April 20, 2017
Dear Kelley, Rob, Tara, Chloe and family, We are so sorry for your loss. We will always remember Ben and have fond memories of him, he was the first friend Jacob had when we moved to the neighborhood and was always helpful and kind.
Love,
Julie Jamron
David Cabana
and Jake
Dave Pepper
April 20, 2017
So sorry for your loss kelly n family ..my thoughts n orayers are with you all ..
Julie and Bruce Provencal Warblow
April 20, 2017
Kelly and Tara, Words cannot express the sorrow and sympathies. You are in our thoughts and prayers.
Donna Densmore
April 20, 2017
Kelley, Tara, Rob and all... I simply can't find the words to express how heartbroken I am for you.
You will be in my prayers always.
Love and hugs, Donna
Pam and Jim Edmonds
April 20, 2017
Kelley, Tara, and all of the Pike Family,
I cannot express how truly sorry I am for your loss. Our condolences to ya'll. My heart breaks for you all! Oxox God Bless ya'll!!
Daniel Damon
April 20, 2017
Dear Kelley, Rob, Tee and the entire Pike family, I am without words to fully express my sorrow for the loss of Ben. you are all in my prayers now and always.
Micheal and Lisa Germain
April 20, 2017
Our deepest condolences on the loss of such a young life. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time
Micki Elmi
April 20, 2017
My most sincere condolences to you and your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers! Prayers for Benjamin's eternal peace! Love you Kelly!
Sandy Pike
April 20, 2017
Kelly and Tara, My Heart goes out to you both. I pray for God to give you His Love, Strength and Comfort at this time of Sorrow. Know that you are Loved and I'm here if you ever need someone to talk to. Love Aunt Sandy
Paula Courtemanche
April 20, 2017
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Lynee Gibbons
April 20, 2017
My heart is broken for you my dear sweet cousin Kelley and Tara. I am praying for your strength at this time
Russell Hawley
April 20, 2017
We are so very sad at the loss of another Cool Sandy Beach beloved son. You are all in our prayers. Russ and Pam Hawley
Vladimir Devil
April 20, 2017
Ben taught me how to chop wood and ride a jet ski when he was only 13.Thank you for something that I can show my kids.
The words that cannot be found streaming down our faces.
A Parent
April 20, 2017
While the loss of a loved one is never easy, even when anticipated, it is most certainly the hardest when they are taken from us too soon. Your recent loss of your beloved Ben whose death at such a youthful age is definitely in the category of those hard losses.
We ask for God's blessings on your family. May you find the courage and strength to move forward in peace and confidence by remembering you do not walk alone.
In deepest sympathy.
April 20, 2017
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Kim Strniste
April 20, 2017
No bond is as great as that between a parent and child. Our deepest condolences are with you as you grieve.
Debbie Engvall
April 20, 2017
There are no words when a parent loses a child.... No matter the age.....infant, 20's, or 60's. The child takes a piece of the Mother with them. Just know that Ben will always be with you.
A new star shines down from above always looking down on you and family and friends. Keep him alive with stories of his life.
Love to you all.
Gloria Zemaitis
April 20, 2017
Kelly& Tara& Family,
Our heart felt sympathy for your loss. May God give you strength at this most difficult time.
Gloria and Ray Zemaitis John and Robert Coakley
Paula Courtemanche
April 20, 2017
RIP Ben
Keri Montgomery
April 20, 2017
Kelley, my heart is breaking for you and Tara. Praying for hope and healing.
dennis dziokonski
April 20, 2017
sorry rob and family for your loss. may he rest in peace
Kathy Butkiewicz
April 20, 2017
Kelley & Tara, our most heart felt sympathy to you both. Thoughts and prayers.
Kathy & Justin Butkiewicz, John Rexford
Eric and shawna
April 20, 2017
Kelly, tara, and all...
I am so sorry for your loss. Ben was an amazing kid and always made everyone laugh. May he rest in piece with all beautiful angels and spirits .
Janet St.Amand Hodgdon
April 19, 2017
So sorry to Kelly and family and the Smiths :(
Barbara Lucci
April 19, 2017
I am so sorry, Kelley, for the loss of your handsome young son, Ben.
Always remember, he lives on inside of each of you.
My heart to yours,
Barbara Lucci
Mary Seaman
April 19, 2017
Dear Kelley, The loss of your child, is always the worst. We pray that the good Lord will bring you the peace and comfort you need. Tara, may "HE" also bring you peace and comfort. Love, Aunt Mary & Uncle Dick
April 19, 2017
Shocked and saddened at the heartbreak you now have to try and overcome. I am so sorry Kelley.
Lynne Bishop
Lynne Bishop
kristy shea
April 19, 2017
im so sorry Kelley and tara...
Eileen McLaughlin
April 19, 2017
So sorry for your loss. Know that many are praying for you and your family.
Sherri Sweet-Chabre
April 19, 2017
Kelley, Tara, and Family,
I cannot express how truly sorry I am for your unimaginable loss. My heart breaks for you all! Love and prayers.
Kelly Smith
April 19, 2017
Kelley I'm soo sorry 4 ur loss as well as ur family. Bill and I send our condolences as well as thoughts and prayers. May he RIP God Bless Bill Belanger and Kelly
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