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Elaine Simes Obituary
Rutland - Elaine F. (White) Simes, 74, passed away unexpectedly at home on Tuesday, May 26, 2020. She was born in Holden, the daughter of the late William A., Sr. and Regina A. (Keefe) White.
Her beloved husband of 45 years, Kenneth D. Simes, passed away in 2015. Elaine leaves her two children, Karen Phillips and her husband, Theodore Phillips, Jr. of Rutland and Kevin Simes and his wife, Jennifer of Rutland; her four cherished grandchildren, Teddy and Rebecca Phillips and Abbygail and Michael Simes; her brothers, William White, Jr., Federic White, Thomas White and David White, Sr.; as well as many nephews, nieces, cousins and good friends. She was predeceased by her sister, Mary Jean Flynn and her brother, Richard White.
Elaine graduated from Wachusett Regional High School in 1963. She was an executive secretary for many years at State Mutual Insurance Company in Worcester and later worked at Oriol Healthcare before retiring in 2000. Elaine will be fondly remembered for spoiling her grandchildren and her cats Tigger and Lucy.
A graveside service for Elaine will be held at 2 p.m. on Friday, May 29th at Rural Cemetery, Main Street, Rutland. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Rutland Food Pantry, c/o Saint Patrick's Parish, P.O. Box 939, Rutland, MA 01543. Arrangements are under the care of the Miles Funeral Home, 1158 Main Street, Holden. To share a memory or leave an online condolence for Elaine's family, please visit
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Dan, Sonia and Jenna Root
June 1, 2020
We are so sorry for your loss. We each have fond memories of her. Our thoughts are with you and your family.
Cheryl (Congdon) Pearl
May 30, 2020
Karen, Kevin, and family,
Im heartbroken to hear of your Moms passing. I know how the emptiness it leaves in your lives, and that life will never be the same. I also know that she was so kind, loving, generous, and funny, and you each carry parts of her in you. Channel those parts of her you loved most every day, it makes the emptiness feel a little better. I am thinking of you all, and pray that you find comfort in each other right now. Love to all of you.
- Cheryl
Elsa Bates
May 29, 2020
It is with sadness I learn about Elaine's passing. She was a truly good person, with the most incredible sense of humor. She could have been a standup comic, and the world is truly a better place because of Elaine.
Paula Sargent
May 28, 2020
Elaine was my neighbor for just two years and I am glad I met her. She brought over the most delicious pumpkin cake when we moved in. She also always had dog treats for our dog. She was feisty and funny and I enjoyed knowing her. I hope she is reunited with her beloved husband.
Andrea Leland
May 28, 2020
I am so sorry to learn of Elaine's passing. Our friendship grew out of the oddest of circumstances, but she never lost her sense of humor. She was so proud of her family - always showing me photos of her grandchildren and bragging about their accomplishments. Heaven certainly gained an angel in Elaine. My deepest sympathy.
Rose Hall Hall
May 28, 2020
So sorry for your family's loss. Elaine was so much fun when she came in the shop. She was a wonderful caring person. Hope you all take care thank you Rose cutting Edge Rutland
Holly Jee
May 28, 2020
Elaine the dogs and I will miss seeing you and getting treats.
Sheila Crosbie
May 28, 2020
Elaine was one of my favorite customers who called me almost every other week to check in and chat. She brightened my day and was witty and kind. She will be dearly missed. My thoughts and prayers are with Karen and the family and friends of Elaine.
Derek and Gina Coulombe
May 28, 2020
I'm so sorry to hear of Elaine passing. She was such a wonderful person, so full of life. I have fond memories of her bringing us fresh baked zucchini bread to the back door of the pizza parlor. She will be missed
Kathy Butkiewicz
May 28, 2020
Such a lovely woman. She is an angel watching over her children and grandchildren. May she rest in peace.
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