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Joseph Smalley Obituary
WORCESTER - On December 14th, our world became a little smaller. Joseph R. Smalley, Jr. passed away after a hardfought personal struggle.
Joe was born on April 9, 1979 in Worcester. He is survived by his beautiful daughter and true angel, Taylor-Lynn Smalley of Worcester, his loving parents, Joseph R. Smalley, Sr. and Iona R. Sage, his wife, Michelle (Farrell) Smalley, his brother, Matthew Smalley, his incredible stepmother, Sue Harding, his stepfather, Peter T. Sage, Sr., his grandparents, Iona and Arthur Premo, his grandmother, Catherine E. Smalley, brothers, Aaron Dahrooge and Peter T. Sage, Jr, sisters, Krystle and Andrea and many aunts and uncles. Last, but not least, he is survived by the greatest group of friends you could have, Jason "Jay" Watson, Chris "Merc" Mercier, Matthew Paharik, Brandon Blanchard and of course, Dana "Daner" Hendrickson.
Joe attended Wachusett Regional High School, where he blossomed into a truly talented and tremendous football player. He was awarded a scholarship to play for University of Michigan and received many accolades for his football talent.
The funeral will be held Monday, December 19, 2016 from Callahan, Fay & Caswell Funeral Home, 61 Myrtle St., Worcester with a Mass at 11:00 a.m. in St. Peter's Church, 929 Main St., Worcester. Calling hours are Sunday from 4-7 p.m. Burial is private.
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Margie Turner
December 11, 2020
Iona,
I think of you and your son so often. May your love and memories keep you strong. Prayers for you today and always.
Terry Clark
December 29, 2016
Catherine, Joseph and family: Just heard Of your loss of grandson Joseph and son. Please accept my condolences and know you are in my thoughts and prayers. I can't imagine what it must be like to lose a child. You have lost too many young ones. Just think of Joe and Mary together in Heaven. God Bless You. Love.
Sandy Cortes
December 23, 2016
Joe, Sue, Matt, & Fam, I wish I can take your pain and bare the brunt of it for you. My heart breaks for you w your loss. I wish I can somehow be there for all of you as you had been for me over the years. I pray for your strength.
With Love,
Phil Greenstein
December 21, 2016
To Joe Sr. & family,
I am so deeply sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts during this difficult time.
December 20, 2016
Michele..
I am soo sorry for your loss. We all have soo many memories together and I'll always cherish them always. My thoughts and prayers are with you and taylor and jaimyn and the rest of his family... we love u and are here for you.
~Kristen Hod
Sydney Chauvin
December 20, 2016
Dear Taylor
I'm sorry for your loss. I've been thinking about you for the past few days. I feel so bad and sorry. I wish I could be there for you and your family. If you need anything always remember that I'm always here for you. Call me at any time.
Love your friend,
Sydney chauvin
Doug Jacobs
December 20, 2016
I'm so sorry to hear this horrible news. My deepest sympathy goes out to Joe jr & his whole family. Rest easy Joe.
Nancy Currie
December 20, 2016
My thoughts and prayers for entire Smalley family. You have experienced so many losses over the years. Sending love.
Mitch & Barb Magnette
December 19, 2016
Dear Joe, Sue, Matt, and family,
Our deepest sympathies on the loss of Joe Jr. We have many fond memories of little Joe when he was younger. You are all in our thoughts and prayers at this very difficult time.
Andrew Giangaspro
December 19, 2016
Matt, my deepest sympathy during this time of your loss. It's comes with a heavy heart. He's with the Angels Now. Rest In Peace.
Anthony Byron
December 19, 2016
So very sorry for your loss.
Ashlee Kloczkowski
December 19, 2016
Matt,
I wanted to reach out to let you know I have been thinking of you during this difficult time for you and your family. My sympathy and condolences are with you all. Stay strong!
Matt Litwinowich
December 18, 2016
Sorry to hear about your loss,
As a class mate of Joseph growing up, I have many great memories of him. Thoughts and prayers with your family
Kris, Alex and Scott Faucher
December 18, 2016
Iona we are so saddened to hear the passing of Joe Jr. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time.
Wally Pingeton
December 18, 2016
Mr."Biggie" you were the definition of an AWESOME individual!!!! Always there when needed, never complained, that smile of yours was second to none!!! The guy upstairs needs you...As a big Notre Dame fan I am sure you will be wearing the ND cap instead of the Michigan cap as in this world!!! I wish you peace my brother....look forward to seeing you again!! Peace
December 18, 2016
Michelle and all of Joe"s family and those close to him. it is a true tragedy to have lost a man so young. May he rest in peace and stay in your hearts
Steve & Gerry Polimeno, Quincy, MA
Don Smalley
December 18, 2016
To my cousin Joe Sr., sending sympathies on the loss of your son Joey. It is terrible and much sad news to hear and hope you have the strength to overcome the loss.
Martha and Jeff Dean
December 18, 2016
Gary, Nadine and family, so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
Dave Harding
December 18, 2016
Joe, Sue- and family, my deepest regrets and heartfelt sympathy, all will be in my prayers!
December 18, 2016
Iona Sage & Art Premo
Very sorry to hear of Joe's passing. Especially hard at his time of year.
Please accept our heartfelt condolences.
Steve & Diega Therrien, Princeton,MA
Cliff and Robin Premo III
December 18, 2016
Iona and Smalley Family,
Please know we are terribly saddened to hear of the loss you have been given. Please know you are all in our thoughts and prayers as you move forward in the days to come. Love and prayers to all
Cheryl Charest
December 18, 2016
I am very sorry to hear of Joe's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you, his family and friends. Again, my deepest sympathies for your loss.
Kathy Barsotti
December 18, 2016
Iona, So very sorry for the loss of your son.my thoughts and prayers are with you and Joeys entire family
Meghan Castaneda
December 17, 2016
I am so very sorry to hear of Joe's passing. I have many funny memories of him from Paxton Center School. Your family will be in my thoughts.
Mary Ellen Kilbreth
December 17, 2016
To Joe, Sue and family,
He is in God's arms now, and may our heartfelt sympathy comfort you at this time. May your memories keep him close to your heart.
With prayers and love,
The Kilbreth family
Jackie and Sam Ramondelli
December 17, 2016
There are no words that can possibly ease the pain you all feel from such a loss, but know there are many who are here who care. May God give you strength. Prayers for this beautiful young man. May he rest in peace.
Hold tight to good memories of good days. Sending prayers for your family, hugs and love
Iona Sage
December 17, 2016
My Dearest Joey,
If ever there is a tomorrow when we're not together, there is something you must always remember. You are braver than you believe,stronger than you believe, stronger than you seem and smarter than you think. But the most important thing is even if we are apart I'll always be with you. Love you forever xoxo. Mom
Debbie Hines
December 17, 2016
Iona my heart hurts for you and yours much love to you Iona, a mothers love never ends xoxox Debbie Hines
Bobbi Britt
December 17, 2016
Joe and Sue I am so sorry for your loss. Joe Jr. was always so nice and friendly. His presence will be missed.
Tina Cullina
December 17, 2016
Iona, Gary and all of Joey's family. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sadness. I am so sorry to hear of the loss of Joey. I will always remember him as the fun loving little boy I knew growing up in Paxton.
Chuck and Roxie Gregory
December 17, 2016
Iona and Pete,
We are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this very difficult time.
Hugs to you both
Iona Premo
December 17, 2016
Dear Joey,
I am going to miss your call every night and our special conversations. You will forever be in my thoughts and prayers.
A grandmother's love will never fade.
Love and miss you,
Meme
Gary Premo
December 17, 2016
Joey,
Auntie Nadine and I have a huge void in our hearts. You were like a son to us and will forever be held in our hearts.
May you Rest In Peace.
Uncle Gary & Auntie Nadine
Emily Eisenmenger
December 17, 2016
Rest in Peace Joey
Colleen Chadwick, Katie Dunn and
December 17, 2016
Iona and Peter,
Our prayers are with you.
Eileen O'Connor
December 17, 2016
Dear Iona
Cheryl and I are praying for you and your family.
A loved one is never gone he will live in your heart and memory forever. Always remember what great love you gave to Joey , be sure to know he loved you too.
Eileen and Cheryl
Diane Ouellette ( co worker & friend of Iona)
December 17, 2016
My deepest & heartfelt condolences...sending prayers,, strength, and love..
Diane Meehan
December 17, 2016
Joe and Sue,So sorry to read this; please know you and the rest of his family are in my thoughts and prayers xoxo
Diane (Chris and Nora)
(David Walsh's niece)
December 17, 2016
To the Smalley Family,
Our thoughts & prayers are with you, may you find the support of family & friends a source of comfort in the days ahead.
With our deepest sympathy,
Susan & Rocco Franchi
Charlton, MA
Stacey Caron
December 17, 2016
Iona, I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Melissa Sage Elmer
December 17, 2016
Our prayers and love go out to you Iona and Peter, along with all of Joey's family. May God take him into his fold and help to console those he left behind.
Peace and much love,
Melissa & Jeff Elmer and family
Kelly Monahan
December 17, 2016
Matty, I am so sorry to hear about Joe. He was a great guy and I know exactly how you are feeling. Love Kelly
Margie Turner
December 17, 2016
Dear Iona and Family,
So very sorry for the loss of your loved one. Prayers for you and your family during this difficult time. I am here for you Iona.
With Deepest Sympathy,
December 17, 2016
Joe, sorry for your loss,you are in my thoughts and prayers,
Bob Maynard
Goodyear Az
Mark Lindstrom
December 17, 2016
Joe, So sorry to hear of the loss of your son. I won't forget the talks we had at the auction. He was a sharp buyer and worthy "competitor". You taught him well. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. RIP Joe Jr.
joe mazzapica
December 17, 2016
Joe and family sorry for your loss i know how it feels, i lost my son in october stay strong
Tim Hare
December 17, 2016
Joe. So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and Prayers are with you and your family. May God grant you His grace and peace.
December 17, 2016
Joe and Sue, so sorry to hear of your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
love, Bev Duddy and Jerry
Gayle Guilmettte
December 17, 2016
JOE, Such a sad thing to have to loose your son at such a young age, I know the struggle you are dealing with and hope you can get peace by knowing he's probably in a better place with no pain now, sending LOVE and PRAYERS your way! Gayle Molaghan Guilmette
December 17, 2016
To all of joes family.
joey you were always my favorite friend of Peters. The 2 of you were always getting into trouble but you always had this gleam in your eye so I knew it was just fun. Not only were you Peters friend but when he got sick you stepped up in a big way to be kind to him. I'll never forget that you the vacations at Hampton beach with you. I still can't believe you not hear with us. Rest easy now. Your struggle is over. Be at peace
Elayne Griff
December 17, 2016
Joe and Iona...I can't tell you how broken my heart is for joeys passing. My son Peter and joey were always little devils together and when he came on vacation with us it was worse yet we loved joey for his spirit and his sense of adventure. When Peter was sick joey stepped up to the plate and was so kind to him and I will never forget that. He had a compassion deep in his soul that he didn't always show. This world will not be a better place with him gone, he needs to still be here. We must keep him in our hearts forever
David McDonnell
December 17, 2016
Iona and Joe, My thoughts and prayers are with you and entire family. Joe rest in peace
Carolyn Smith
December 17, 2016
Joe and Sue. I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Joey had a good sense of humor and his love for Taylor was written all over him. May he be at peace. Sending prayers to you both at this sad time.
Dana Stoico
December 17, 2016
Joe, Matt and family, Sorry to hear about Joe my thoughts and prayers are with the entire Smalley family.
Peter Galvin
December 17, 2016
My dear, beautiful Joey , remember we used to say"we don't die we just get different".A part of me is also "different"because of you!Joe you tried and you made it home! I will always love you my brother. Peter and Linda Galvin
Iona Sage
December 17, 2016
My dearest Joey I will love you forever. Love Mom
Carol Kalil-Hamilton
December 16, 2016
may he rest in peace and his memory be eternal.
Sorry for your loss.
Trish Hendrickson
December 16, 2016
To all of Joes family members,
So very sorry to hear of Joe's passing. A very sad loss to all who knew him. Keeping you all in in my prayers for strength to get through this very hard time.
Trish Hendrickson
Michael Robidoux
December 16, 2016
Joe you will be missed bro im glad you stop by to see a few weeks ago i will treasure A Moment Forever. May you rest in peace my friend
Victor and Geneva Pagán
December 16, 2016
Joe and Iona,
Our thoughts and prayers are with your entire family. Little Joe was a great person and will be deeply missed.
Ann Litwinowich
December 16, 2016
Taylor I am so sorry to hear about your dad. He was always helping out when we needed him at Nelson Place. I am thinking of you ! ❤
Joanne Quinn
December 16, 2016
My deepest sympathy to the family and his daughter. A very sad day and too young to have passed, Joe was great kid that was liked by so many people. He will be missed but never forgotten.
Matt Saad
December 16, 2016
Those we lose continue on in our hearts and memories.
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