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Mercedes Ramirez-Newkirk Obituary

Mercedes Beatriz Ramirez-Newkirk WORCESTER - Mercedes Beatriz Ramirez-Newkirk died suddenly on Friday, September 21, 2012, at the age of 35. Mercedes was a 1998 graduate of the College of the Holy Cross and earned her Master's Degree in Social Work from Boston University. Mercedes was employed by the Department of Children and Families for 14 years, having dedicated her career to serving children. She possessed a grace and selfless character that was always giving to others and her joyful spirit was truly a blessing. Mercedes was the co-founder of the Rise Above Foundation, a charitable organization dedicated to providing children in foster care with life enriching activities and opportunities. Her passion for helping others was immeasurable. Mercedes was born in Framingham, Massachusetts on September 27, 1976, the daughter of Betty G. Ramirez and Jose I. Palma Ramirez. She is the sister to Roy I. Ramirez, Marcela P. Blue, and Victoria E. Palma. On July 29, 2006, Mercedes married Brian R. Newkirk and the couple have two sons, Benjamin I. Newkirk, 4 years old, and Jacob C. Newkirk, 2 months old. Mercedes is also mourned by her sister-in-law, Connie K. Ramirez, brother-in-law, Dominic L. Blue, and an incredible array of family members including great-aunts, aunts, uncles, cousins, nephews, nieces, and in-laws. Mercedes held a special place in her heart for her family members in Colombia and El Salvador, in particular, her grandmother, Crucita Ramirez de Palma. She is predeceased by her grandmother, Maria de Carmen Gil, and grandfather, Jose I. Palma. Her funeral will be held on Friday at 11:00 a.m. in the Immaculate Conception Church, 11 Prospect St. Marlborough. Burial will follow in Evergreen Cemetery. Visiting hours at the William R. Short and Son Funeral Home, 95 West Main St. Marlborough will be held on Thursday evening from 5-8 p.m. In lieu of flowers, donations or checks may be directed to the "Newkirk Children Fund" c/o TD Bank, 847 Williams Street, Longmeadow, MA 01106, or any TD Bank branch, in support of Benjamin and Jacob. www.shortfuneral.com

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Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette from Sep. 25 to Sep. 27, 2012.

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Marilyn West

October 11, 2012

May the knowledge of knowing that Mercedes is in the loving arms of her creator bring peace to all who knew her and her family. I was saddened to learn of her passing and send my deepest sympathies to her family. As a former receptionist at DCF (Whitinsville), I will always remember her with fondness and in prayer.

Karen Newkirk

October 5, 2012

There are no words to express the deep lost and sadness I feel for Mercedes. No words! She was so beautiful inside and out. She will always be in my prayers along with my son and grandsons.

Miguel y Martha Palacios

September 30, 2012

Jose y Betty, quisiera que sepan que no encontramos palabras para describir el pesar que sentimos por la perdida de su especial y amada hija. Siempre estaran en nuestras oraciones.
Dios mitigue su immense dolor.
Miguel y Martha Palacios

Becky L.

September 30, 2012

my heart goes out to everyone that knew and loved Mercedes.

Karen & Jeff Chapman

September 30, 2012

Jeff and I are at a loss for words. We were so very sad to hear of Mercedes passing. So very young with so much to live for. Please accept our sincere condolences and know that our thoughts and prayers are with the entire Ramirez and Newkirk families

September 29, 2012

I did not know Mercedes well but you didn't need to know her well to see that she was as beautiful on the inside as she was on the outside. My heart breaks for her family. Words can not express how sad I am for all of you. I hope you find comfort and strength from each other.

Martha McGuane

September 28, 2012

My heart goes out to your whole family from our Holy Cross family. Mercedes, Brian, Benjamin and Jacob will forever be in our prayers.

Former DCF co worker

September 28, 2012

Mercedes was truly a wonderful person. God bless her soul and her beautiful family, friends, and colleagues.

Peter MacKinnon

September 28, 2012

Our hearts and thoughts are with Mercedes' family during this time. Mercedes was an exceptional person and will be deeply missed.

Seneca Wallace

September 28, 2012

Mercedes was an exceptional person and I am deeply saddened by her passing. May the Lord comfort her family, friends and the many people whose lives she impacted. Brian if you need anything let me know.

September 28, 2012

Mercedes was an angel on earth that I'm sure heaven did not want to be without...that is clear. Thank you Mercedes for being so special and such a good person ! I hope I am even half the person you were ! R.I.E.P. my friend...

Kettelyne DCF

September 28, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with the family.

September 28, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with the family. I did not know Mercedes, but from what I read, it will be a great loss for her two little children, her husband, family and the department. God Bless you all.
Nilda Harrington- Fall River Office

Joanna Heldenbergh

September 28, 2012

My thoughts and prayers are with you.

pat senior

September 28, 2012

I knew Mercedez through my daughter and what a great gal. Rise above, DCF, her hubby and kids were all so important to her and still are. We had many great times and her energy still exists around us. Thanks Mercedez.

Sharon Curry DCF

September 27, 2012

I am so sorry for your loss. My prayers are with the family at this very difficult time.

DCF SW

September 27, 2012

So sorry for your loss. I am sure her family will let her boys know how much she was loved and how much she loved them

Gina

September 27, 2012

The tragic passing of Mercedes should be a gentle reminder how precious life is. Mercedes was a beautiful person inside and out; her smile would light up any room and her heart was always open to anyone who needed it. I am so sorry for your loss Brian; please know that your two boys will be a reminder each day of the love you two shared. Hold them tight and hold closely to your most beautiful memories of your wife.

Maria Turner

September 27, 2012

Mercedes became a member of RELMA, a group formed at DCF over 20 years ago looking at how we can better work with families as well as staff. Mercedes was truly an inspiration to all in our group. She was a soft spoken women with a strong message around family, co-workers and faith. She will truly be missed. We will keep your family in our prayers.

Adrianna Newkirk

September 27, 2012

Mercedes everytime if think of you and and my brother I smile you made him so happy you were such a great wife, mother, and sister in law. Your smile, your gentle caring nature, and positive energy will never be forgotten. I know you will always watch over Brian, Ben, and Jacob until eternity. I love you, may you rest in peace.

September 27, 2012

Mercedes was a blessing to everyone who met her. I thank God the opportunity of meeting her, as she was always a kind and loving person. My sympathy to all her family and friends. May the Lord give you strenght in this difficult time. My prayers are with you.

Blessed are those who mourn, for they will be comforted. Matthew 5:4

Carmelo Mojica

September 27, 2012

Betty y Familia, los acompan~o en este momento de tristesa y dolor, que Dios le mucha fortalesa en estos momentos de tristesa.

DCF Co-worker

September 27, 2012

My heart is filled with sadness for all of you. Mercedes was a wonderful gift from God. Please find comfort in knowing that she is with Him now and will always be with you and watching over her beautiful babies. We were all blessed to have had her in this world for the time that we did. She touched more lives than we will ever know.

Antonio Harris

September 27, 2012

It can be so hard to face the first year without your loved one, but the love of family and friends can carry you through.

Carlos A. Escobar

September 27, 2012

Gracias Mechi por todos los favores para conmigo en los momentos mas dificiles siempre contaba con su ayuda oportuna.
Que DIOS la bendiga.

Brian Newkirk

September 26, 2012

Thank you all friends, family and strangers alike. Your words really mean alot to us; her family. We will keep them in our hearts as a fond memory of the beautiful woman that was taken too soon.

Sincerely,
Her Loving Husband

Sheila Flynn

September 26, 2012

Dear Isabel Arias, Mercedes aunt, and all of her family. Please accept my deepest sympathy at this tragic time.You will all be remembered in my prayers.
God bless all of you. Sincerely yours, Sheila flynn

Rick & Tracey Pare

September 26, 2012

Betty and Family,
We are truly sorry to hear the loss of Mercedes. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time.

Caren Bacon

September 26, 2012

Marcela and family -

Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers at this extremely difficult time. Mercedes was a wonderful person and this world was truly blessed to have had her, even if just for a short time. She will live on, in both your memories and your hearts.

Cheryl Bonin

September 26, 2012

Mercedes was such a beautiful person both inside and out and truly a great spark of life and love in our world. I cannot recall a time when I ever saw Mercedes without a sweet smile on her face. She graced the lives of so many children and adults alike and we are all so much the better for having known her, even though for not nearly a long enough time.
My thoughts and prayers go out to her work family, friends, and of course her own family during their time of need.

Erin Walsh

September 26, 2012

I'm so sorry to hear of her passing. I knew her in college and she was so nice. My thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family.

a fellow DCF worker

September 26, 2012

I want to express my deep sadness to the family of Mercedes. I did not have the honor of ever meeting her but was compelled to write my condolences. My heart goes out to her husband and babies....

Corinne Contarino

September 26, 2012

My heart is fulled with so much sadness. Mercedes was truly a beautiful and compassionate woman. To have had the privilege of spending seven years working beside her, I was always touched by her patience and goodness. The tragedy of her passing brings unspeakable grief to her family, friends, and colleagues. We can honor her memory most by emulating her shining example.

September 26, 2012

You will be missed!

September 26, 2012

Betty and Family:
I am truly sorry to hear of your loss of such a young, beauiful and caring, daughter, wife, mother, sister. I will keep you in my prayers that God's grace will comfort and console you during this difficult time.
Your former Co-Worker
Bill Arnold

Emma Brown

September 26, 2012

Betty, I am truly sorry for the loss of you daughter, I know your pain all to well,May the Lord keep his loving arms around you and your family in your hours of need.

When You feel Lonely.
When a person you love passes away
Look to the night sky on a clear day.
The star that to you, appears to be bright,
Will be your loved one,
Looking upon you during the night.
The lights of heaven are what shows through
As your loved one watches all that you do.
When you feel lonely for the one that you love,
Look to the Heavens in the night sky above.

September 26, 2012

When I read about a young mother dying and leaving a young family behind, I feel compelled to express my sincere sympathy to all that loved her. God has plans for those left behind especially those too young to remember her caring arms are them. God bless you and strengthen you.
Sincerely,
A mother

Celia Braga

September 26, 2012

Betty, I'm so sad to read of Mercedes passing. I'll keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers.

September 26, 2012

To all who have known and loved her, find comfort in all the memories you shared. Sorry for your loss. Find strength in your faith at this difficult time.
-a mother in Oxford, Ma

Lurdes Melo

September 26, 2012

Betty, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your daughter. I can imagine the pain you must be in. God will keep you strong. Those boys need you. Take care.

September 26, 2012

This woman was truly touched by God. My condolences to her husband, sons, family, friends, co-workers and all who loved her.

Betti McCarthy

September 26, 2012

To have met and/or to have known Mercedes was to be touched by an angel! For the last 5 years, I was blessed to have been able to work with her, laugh with her, cry with her and love her. My very deepest condolences to her beloved husband Brian, her adored children Benjamin & Jacob, and her other loving family members....Mercedes will be dearly missed!

September 26, 2012

Dear Betty,
I`m so sad to read of your daughters passing, I think of you often and remember your Joy when you became a Grandmother,, I`ll keep you and your family in my thoughts and prayers, Take care.
Nancy Richard

Denita Jordan

September 26, 2012

Even as a Christian, I often struggle with God's choice on when he decides to take a loved one. Mercedes flawlessly mastered what God sent her here to do which was to touch lives. If we all strive to mirror Mercedes' personality, characteristics and giving spirit, this world would be a better place. My heartfelt condolences go out to her family as you mourn the loss of such a Precious Gem. In Christian Love.

kristy bosma

September 26, 2012

Mercedes will be missed. Having worked with her for the past 6 years. I always found her to be fair, caring, and had what was best for the families. Anyone that knew her, knew what a wonderful person she was. Many blessings to the family as they transition through this difficult time.

Jo-Ann Kenney

September 26, 2012

I worked with Mercedes for a short time but that was enough to tell me what an amazing person she was. She was kind, loving, and truely an inspiration to everyone. I know she will be missed by all that knew her. It was an honor to work with her. My sympathy to her family.

Terry Aponte & Michael Babin

September 26, 2012

Betty, Brian & Family

We are so sorry to hear of the loss of Mercedes. We will be thinking of you in this difficult time.

Carlos Augusto Escobar

September 26, 2012

Mi mas sentido pesame a su esposo,hijos,a su madrecita a su padre y sus herman@s acompaƱo en su dolor

Enia Quaglia

September 25, 2012

To the Ramirez-Newkirk family, my deepest condolences I will remember Mercedes' special smile when I came to visit the office with Lily & Lisa. She was a beautiful person, remember her through her boys 7 may God give you all strength to endure this great loss

September 25, 2012

Mercedes was always so nice to me I am very greatful for her especially in the situations I was in. Rip Mercedes thanku for always being so nice to me

Mercedes and Jacob

Elizabeth Loder

September 25, 2012

John, Thomas, Stephen and I are so very sorry to learn of this tragedy. Our hearts go out to you and the entire family. I am attaching a beautiful picture of Mercedes and Jacob that I took last month. So sweet, and a reminder of words from the Bible: "As a mother comforts her child, so will I comfort you."

John and Michele Giglio

September 25, 2012

Dear Betty,

We were so sorry to hear the news of your daughter's passing. We are thinking of you and praying for your family during this difficult time.

John and Michele Giglio

shawna nelson

September 25, 2012

so sorry for the familys loss she was an amazing women.

Kim Barnaby

September 25, 2012

My deepest condolences to all of the family and friends of Mercedes. My thoughts and prayers are with each of you as well as-- to all of those whom were touched by Mercedes selflessness and dedication to all of her families.

Elyzabeth Hackathorn

September 25, 2012

Mercedes had a smile that would light up a room and her warm and beautiful personality would make someone feel like a friend almost immediately. She will be missed by so many....her legacy will live on with her children, the Rise Above Foundation and with every person she ever encountered. Heaven has an angel now with the brightest and warmest smile anyone has ever seen. We were blessed to have known her. Sending love and hugs to her family and her children.

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