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Paul Dacri Obituary
WORCESTER - Deacon Paul J. Dacri, 65, of Worcester, passed away peacefully after a brief illness on Wednesday, November 7, 2018 at UMass Medical Center.
Paul was born in Worcester, son of the late Michael J. and Ruth H. (Brouillette) Dacri, Sr. where he was a graduate of Holy Name Central Catholic High School. He was ordained a deacon for the Diocese of Worcester on June 11, 2011 at St. Paul Cathedral by the Most Rev. Fr. Robert McManus. Paul has served as a deacon at St. John's Church from 2012 up until his passing. He previously was assigned to St. Mark's Church in Sutton for a brief period. Prior to being ordained a deacon, Paul was a member of St. Stephen's Church.
Paul enjoyed vacationing with his family at Old Orchard Beach and the White Mountains. He was a kind, caring and selfless person who loved spending time with his family. His family meant the world to him. He also loved to cook; especially his Italian specialties.
Paul's wife of 25 years, Patricia A. (Fallstrom) Dacri passed away on November 12, 2001. He is survived by his son, Timothy P. Dacri; three daughters, Jennifer A. Martell and her husband Russell, Joanne M. Dacri and Jill M. Vazquez and her husband Sam all of Worcester; two brothers, Steven M. Dacri of Worcester and Michael J. Dacri, Jr. and his wife Lauren of East Brookfield; two sisters, Jeanine M. Dacri and her wife Lucia Camara of New Braintree and Christine M. Bolivar and her husband Steven of Shrewsbury; eight grandchildren, Katarina Dacri, Isabella and Vincent Martell, Gianna Vazquez, Lucas Dacri, Gabriella Martell, Sadie Dacri and Sophia Vazquez; many nieces and nephews.
Services for Deacon Dacri will be held on Saturday, November 10, 2018 at 11 am in St. John's Church, 40 Temple St., Worcester. Burial will follow in St. John's Cemetery, Worcester. A period of calling hours will be held on Friday, November 9th from 4-8 pm in St. John's Church with a vigil service to be held at 7 pm. MERCADANTE FUNERAL HOME & CHAPEL, 370 Plantation St., Worcester is honored to be assisting the family with arrangements. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to: St. John's Church, 40 Temple St., Worcester, MA. 01604.
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LynnAnn (Falcone) Lamanuzzi
November 18, 2018
I was sorry to hear of Paul's passing, my sympathy to his family.
I have fond memories of Paul and of Patty. We grew up together and spent a lot of time in our younger days. Paul was so in love with Patty and his heart so big when it came to others. His life and how he lived it is true to that.
Reading the other messages of condolences made me smile to be a small part of his life.
May peace be with him.
November 18, 2018
So sorry to hear about Paul's passing. I live right up the street and I am a nurse and worked with Your Mom for many years at the Providence House in Worcester. She was a great lady and your Dad was a wonderful man. May he rest in peace and may your family be given the strength to get thru this difficult time.
Sincerely,
Susan Hughes
Ken and Clem Dufresne
November 10, 2018
My condolences and prayers to all deacon Paul's family and friends. It was a pleasure listening to Paul speak at St. John's. May he rest in peace!
Susan Horan
November 10, 2018
So sorry to hear of Paul's passing. Such a good man gone too soon. Remembering all the high school good times shared with Paul and Patty. Enjoy eternal peace, Paul. Say hi to Patty for me.
November 10, 2018
To the Dacri Family, My thoughts and prayers are with you All. I knew Paul from coming in to Roberts Fish & Chips. He was a wonderful caring sweet man. May He rest in peace and God watch over you all. With Deepest Sympathy, Rose Busha.
Angela McCluskey
November 9, 2018
My condolences to Deacon Paul's family, he baptized all three of my children and was a genuine, kind man who clearly loved his grandchildren. He will be missed at St John's parish.
Marie Bonofiglio
November 9, 2018
Dear Jen, Joanne, Jill & Tim
Our sincere condolences on the passing of your Dad.
Always thought your Dad was a great guy especially when your Mom, my sister & I would go to bingo every Tuesday night for years to the little round church & your Dad would watch the four of you so your Mom could get out & enjoy herself.
His thoughtfulness & unselfishness came through those 20+ years ago.
You can truly say you had the best Mom & Dad in the world.
Our thoughts & prayers are with you.
Marie & Laura
Anthony
November 9, 2018
Deacon Paul baptized my son. Before his baptism, he met with me and my wife to discuss faith, raising kids, and resilience. He was a tremendously kind man. I also enjoyed seeing him each day at St. Stephen School as he picked his granddaughter. My deepest condolences to the family. So sad to hear of his early passing.
Darcy Lauzier
November 9, 2018
Tim, Lucas, Sadie, and your family, Joe and I extend our heartfelt sympathies, and wish you peace as your fond memories heal your souls.
Darcy and Joe Lauzier Jamestown, RI
Nancy Osborn
November 9, 2018
Jen, Jo, Jill, Tim. I was extremely saddened to learn of the passing of your Dad. Paul was a good man and a loving, caring husband to my friend Patty. My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time.
Anthony Petrone & Family
November 9, 2018
To the Dacri family,
I am very sorry for your loss. Although I didn't personally
know Decon Paul I attend Mass regularly at St John's and always enjoy his spiritual advocacy.
May he Rest In Peace, where we know through our faith in Jesus we all will be together one day. God Bless all of you doing these difficult times.
Andrea Caplan
November 9, 2018
Paul was a wonderful man who lived for his family. He adored his wife and their children and grandchildren. We were classmates and had many good times together. Later, we'd sit together at softball games when our girls were on opposing teams and laugh like we were back in school. Rest In Peace Paul.
Much Love and Sympathy to your family.
Andrea (Query) Caplan
John harrington
November 9, 2018
To The Dacri Family:
I was sorry to hear about the passing of Paul. I remember him from St. Stephen's School and Church. My thoughts and prayers are with you at your time of loss.
Susan Caissie
November 9, 2018
Joanne, Katarina, and Family',
My heartfelt sympathy and prayers. He was such a good person. I am so sorry for the loss of your dad and grandfather. My heart is sad for you. May God help you get through this very difficult time and surround you with love. Sue Caissie
Sue Guertin
November 9, 2018
To the Dacri Family,
I am so sorry for your loss. Your father was an amazing man and his presence was felt by all. Memories from those St Stephen days with him and your Mom will never be forgotten. My family was blessed to have him christen my grandson 2 weeks ago. Paul being there made the day more special to me.
He's with the love of his life now and together they will always be watching over you.
Adele Pepin
November 9, 2018
To the Dacri family and the St. John's community,
My family is saddened to learn about Deacon Paul's sudden passing. He was such a kind, gentle man. I'll always remember how helpful his was with my dad and then when my dad passed, how supportive he was to my mom. He will be missed by all of us in Sunday mass. May you all find peace during this difficult time. Now he's watching over us with my dad and all the other angels in heaven.
Many blessings to you all.
November 9, 2018
Timmy and Family,
Prayers of strength and faith be with you. Deacon Dacri always carried the light of Christ in his heart and brighten all that he encountered. May the Lord be with you in this difficult time of sorrow. He is with the Angels and Saints that he joyfully proclaimed.
God Bless,
Mike Martin
November 9, 2018
Rest in peace Paul.
From an old friend.
Paula Pietro-Malmquist
November 8, 2018
To the Dacri families, I am so sorry for the loss of a wonderful Dad,Grandfather and Brother. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Deacon Paul was number one! He was the kindest person to all. Hold on to your beautiful memories..God Bless You All.❤
James Kieras
November 8, 2018
My condolences to Deacon Paul's family. We were fortunate to have his presence at St. John's church
Edward Andrzejczyk
November 8, 2018
I want to extend my condolences to the Dacri family on the loss of my elementary classmate Deacon Paul. As you look at every segment of his life, he was always trying to do the right thing. Serving in the US Army. Helping folks as an EMT. Taking care of Patti and the kids. And finally in his service to the church. He is a great inspiration to us all.
Edward Andrzejczyk
November 8, 2018
My condolences to the Dacri family on the loss of my former classmate at St. Stephen's elementary school, Deaccon Paul. If you look back on his life at every point he was always trying to do the right thing.Serving in the Army, helping people as an EMT. Taking care of Patti and the kids. Serving as a Deacon. A great inspiration for us all.
Helen Leto
November 8, 2018
May the give all strength with the of your father. He gave my sister great comfort at her time of need. I will never forget the grat times we had at the beach.My thoughts and prays go out to you and your family.
Liz and Joe Plonski
November 8, 2018
Tim and Family,
So sorry to learn of your Dad's passing. He was such a nice guy and always good to talk to. I can always remember hearing the sound of the Yahtzee dice coming from your kitchen when you parents would play for hours. RIP Paul...
November 8, 2018
May God bless your family and may you watch over your loved ones Paul. You will be missed dearly.
Diane O'Grady
John Viveiros
November 8, 2018
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
November 8, 2018
My thoughts and prayers are with Deacon Paul's family at this time.
Darlene Lanava
Ursula Shea
November 8, 2018
May his soul rest in peace. Such a wonderful person to alll. God bless his family he will be missed.
November 8, 2018
To the Dacri Family,
Joe and I were saddened to hear of your Dad's sudden passing. We've known Paul close to 40 years. Please know that you were blessed to have such an amazing Dad. I remember at your Mom's funeral mass, Fr. Sanders was officiating and was talking about hero's. He then asked "you want to talk about hero's? Right here (pointing to Dad in the front pew) this is a hero! Your Dad never left Mom's side. We never heard him complain. What an example of being a husband/Dad. We'll miss seeing him at the 10:15 mass, as well as, our yearly summer trips to Maine. Know that your Mom and Dad raised 4 great children. Your loss is shared by many. He's now reunited with the love of his life.....
Joe and Cheryl Simo
Luanne, Hailey, Abby, Lacie Martell
November 8, 2018
We are deeply sorry for your loss. Our heart and prayers go to all of you. Paul was a great man.❤
Ben Monfredo
November 7, 2018
As a Eucharistic Mininster at St. John's, I am saddened to learn of Paul's untimely death. He was a good man and was easy to approach. My sincere condolences to his family, as well as his church family. God has ushered, yet, another saint into His kingdom. Those who knew Paul, knew a quality man with a beautiful soul. May God bless him and keep him close to His heart.
Ben Monfredo
Brian Scarbeau
November 7, 2018
So sorry for your loss. My wife and I were classmates with Paul and Patty. You are in our prayers. Brian & Cathy Scarbeau
Lucille and Harry Worley
November 7, 2018
To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.
Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."
It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.
God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.
When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.
I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.
There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.
If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.
So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.
And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.
Ruth Ann Mahaffey (author)
©Copyright 1998
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