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Ralph LaViolette Obituary
AUBURN - Ralph P. LaViolette, 58, of Auburn, passed away after a long illness on Friday, April 3rd, 2015 with his beloved wife by his side.
Ralph was born on February 26, 1957, the 8th of 18 children of Bernard and Dorothy C. (Bouley) LaViolette. He graduated from North High School and attended Central New England College. Ralph lived his entire life in the Worcester area and was a self-employed floor installer for many years. He previously worked for the Department of Youth Services as a counselor. Ralph was always very athletic, loved working out and loved the Patriots and Boston Red Sox. He also loved watching old movies especially westerns. He enjoyed spending time with his family and playing card games with Sue's parents. Ralph's family and friends will always remember him by his famous saying, "Be Good."
Ralph leaves his wife and best friend, Susan E. (Fant) LaViolette; a daughter, Brianna LaViolette of S. Grafton; seven brothers, Francis B. LaViolette of East Brookfield, Mark R. LaViolette of Worcester, Paul J. LaViolette of Brookfield, James G. LaViolette of Oakham, John R. LaViolette of Holden, Peter K. LaViolette of Leicester and Joel T. LaViolette of Ft. Lauderdale; ten sisters, Cecilia D. Stienstra and Lois M. Ferrandino both of Douglas, Anne M. Thebeau of Charlton, Jeanne L. Iovieno, Irene R. Sjogren and Amy L. LaViolette all of Worcester, Betty T. Whiteaway and Lynn M. Batista both of Holden, Ellen J. LeBoeuf of Barre and Gail L. Sarty of Sterling; his Mother and Father In-Law, Allan and Donna Fant and a brother-in-law, Jeffrey Fant all of Sutton ; a sister-in-law, Linda Iozzo of Dudley; friend, Eva Stellato of Oakham; many aunts, uncles, nieces, nephews and cousins.
A period of calling hours will be held on Friday, April 10, 2015 from 4-7 p.m. in the MERCADANTE FUNERAL HOME & CHAPEL, 370 Plantation St., Worcester with his memorial service immediately following at 7 p.m. Burial will be held privately. In lieu of flowers, memorial contributions can be made to: Sterling Animal Shelter, 17 Laurelwood Rd, Sterling, MA 01564 or the Wounded Warrior Project, P.O. Box 758517, Topeka, KS. 66675. To share your thoughts, memories or prayers with the family, please visit Ralph's personal guestbook at:
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Lois
April 1, 2025
Hi Ralphie, thinking of you and missing you. Sending hugs and kisses your way!
Sheryle Gaudette
March 29, 2025
10 years you've been gone. It's hard to believe. You are loved and missed by many, Ralph.
Sue
April 3, 2023
8 years. You are so very much missed. I absolutely dread this day as it approaches but the memories we made help me get through it. I will love you always & forever.
Always remember
Sue
Sheryle
March 29, 2023
I can't believe it's been so long. You were such a great guy and I will always treasure my memories of you!
The Rose
March 29, 2023
Thinking of you, lots of memories of our childhood. Missing you
Sue
April 3, 2022
7 years. You are so very much missed. Think of you morning, noon, & night. I will always love you. Until we meet again...
Always remember
Sue
Angela Marra
March 29, 2022
Thinking of you, Susan, and all your family at this time of year.
Sue
April 3, 2021
It´s been 6 years and yet time has stood still. Think about you every single day, wishing we could create more memories. You are so very much missed. Thankful for the time we had together. Someday we will be together again. Until then, have fun but behave up there. Will always love you.
Always remember
Sue
April 3, 2020
5 years. Still, at times, can't believe you left us. I keep reminding myself that we were lucky because a lot of people don't find what we had. You will always be the love of my life. Our 30 years of memories will be in my heart forever. So until we can create more memories....Always remember ❤❤
Sue
Cilla Laviolette
March 29, 2020
We are sorry you were called home so soon. We will always miss you and will always remember you with love.
April 3, 2019
On my mind morning, noon & night, and all the times in between too. You still make me laugh & cry. Miss you every single day as you were my life. Be good up there. I will always love you.
Always remember ❤❤
Sue
Rob Trigiano
September 16, 2018
RIP cuz! Going over your house was a highlight of my childhood. Such a great family! Take good care my friend and say hello to Paulie, your mom and dad...and mine too :)
April 3, 2018
Always on my mind, forever in my heart, til we meet again. Keep watching over me please. Always remember.. ❤❤
April 3, 2017
To my love, "always remember"...❤❤
Sue
April 3, 2016
1 year ago we lost a wonderful brother, father, husband and friend...rest peacefully Ralphie.
Markus
April 27, 2015
Proud to be your Wife
My Ralphie, you were the most sweetest, caring, generous, honest, funny, hard working and handsome man I ever met. Your personality made the whole room come alive for me. You had it all...including my heart. Thank you for sharing the last 21+ years with me. Boy, we've been through a lot! I look around our home & am reminded of how we, together, made this house our home. It is so empty and quiet without you. There have been so many family & friends expressing their sense of loss about you leaving us so early. Know that you were truly loved by many.
Exchanging vows with you was the happiest day of my life, losing you was my saddest. I will miss your twinkling blue eyes, your beautiful smile, your sense of humor, & just spending time together. Whenever you reached out to hold my hand, I just melted, knowing you were my best friend.
Being a man of your word, I will hold you to one more promise. You always said that you would wait for me at the Pearly Gates. Guess what Dearie, it's a date! So my love, until that time comes, I will hold onto my memories of you. I know that you will be watching over me & Bri.
Rest in Peace, my love.
Always remember, I love you.
Sue
Alisa Padavano Deveau
April 17, 2015
My deepest condolences to the Laviolette family for the untimely loss of Ralph. I have so many fond memories of Raplh over the years growing up and hanging out with my brother at Holmes Field and later DYS. Will always remember that big smile....May you Rest in Peace.
Sheryle Gaudette
April 15, 2015
My deepest condolences to the LaViolette family. I knew Ralph many years ago and have always thought of Ralph with fond memories. That look! That smile! He was a great, great guy! He will be missed. Hugs to you all! Sheryle (formerly from East Brookfield, MA)
Deb and Bill Laflamme
April 13, 2015
Jimmy and family,
So sorry to hear of Ralph's passing. Hugs and prayers to you and your family.... He will be missed. RIP Ralph
David Chiras
April 10, 2015
My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.
janina (martinelli) mozer
April 10, 2015
Jimmy and family..... so sorry for your loss. Thoughts and prayers are with you all
April 10, 2015
Susan and Family
So sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you at this very sad time.
Rosann Query
Denise Risedorf
April 10, 2015
To the Laviolette Family. I was so sad to hear of Ralph's passing. I went to North High School with him. Always thought he was so handsome, and that smile was amazing. May god comfort you during this difficult time and your memories of him close to your heart.God rest his soul.
April 10, 2015
to our daughter in law IRENE and her wonderful family,please accept our deepest sympathy in the loss of you brother RALPH OUR thoughts and prayers are with you .MEM AND PEP SJOGREN
Debbie Sjogren
April 10, 2015
Irene and family, We are so sorry for your loss. Please know we are thinking of you at this difficult time....
Debbie and Alan Sjogren
April 10, 2015
I send all our sympathies to the family at this very sad time. So sad to lose someone so young. With love Lynn (Harris). Nicky and Steve (Rossendale)
Derek Welch
April 9, 2015
Mark, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your entire family. I'm very sorry for your loss. I hope you find strength in your faith and the cherished memories with Ralph.
Susan Mpndor
April 9, 2015
To all our LaViolette cousins! We are so sorry for the loss of your dear brother. Our prayers and thoughts are with you all during this sad time. Love, Louis and Susan
April 9, 2015
Vaughn and I wish to express our condolences to all the Laviolette family in the loss of Ralph. Share the memories and lean on each other for strength and love. May God bless and keep you all In his care. Vaughn & Verna Harding
Mike Trotto
April 9, 2015
Ralph the stories you shared with Jimmy and I still stay with me always. You were the big brother I never had. I love you my friend. Rest in comfort. Trotts.
April 9, 2015
Sorry to hear of Ralphs passing. May he rest in peace.
Al Vuona
Charlene White
April 9, 2015
Sue and family. I never met Ralphie, but remember all the smiles on your face while talking about him, i will keep you in my prayers.Keep the faith and always remember the good times.Fondly Charlamaine White
Nancy Dalbec
April 9, 2015
Although I didn't know Ralph, I went to school with Frnakie. My sypmathies to the entire Laviolette family, much too young to be taken from this world. Thoughts and prayers to you all during this very difficult time.
Nancy Blain Dalbec
angela simone
April 9, 2015
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Melanie Duquette
April 9, 2015
To Laviolette Family,although I did not know Ralph personally,I grew up with your family,went to school with Mark and Lois,a Grafton Hill girl and St Joseph Church-I am very sorry for your loss-too young-he is at peace now.God Bless you all.
denise roy
April 8, 2015
i am so very sorry for your loss. I went to school with Ralph at St. Josephs. He was a wonderful person. May God fill you with his love and give you peace during this time.
Cindie & Dave Tessier
April 8, 2015
Our deepest sympathy to Sue & Brianna. We'll always have fond memories of Ralph. So sorry for your loss.
Mark & Linda Paldino
April 8, 2015
To all the Laviolette family I'm so sorry to here of Ralphs passing he was a great man. RIP Ralph till we meet again in heaven
Adele Duquette
April 8, 2015
I am so sorry for the loss of your brother, Ralph. He was in my class during the St. Joseph years. I remember him as being so cute and so sweet.May God shine perpetual light on your face, my friend.
Linda Soucy
April 8, 2015
On behalf of my entire family I would like to extend sympathies to the Laviolette family on the loss of Ralph. The Soucy's and Laviolette's grew up together on "the hill" and at St. Joseph's. He was an important part of a wonderful family. May he rest in peace.
April 8, 2015
My heartfelt sympathies and prayers go out to Sue, Brianna, Jimmy and the entire LaViolette family. He was a good soul who will obviously be missed by many. I will especially miss his great big bear hugs and wonderful sense of humor. Rest in peace good friend.
Elio
Vincent McSheehy
April 8, 2015
An great friend.
April 8, 2015
Ralph was my classmate and a good friend all through grammar school. Sorry to hear of his passing. May you rest in Peace Ralph.
Anne Gibree Dwyer
Bill Brazeau
April 8, 2015
To the LaViolette Family:
My heart goes out to you all during this sad time. Ralph is great guy and will be deeply missed by all the people who had the pleasure of knowing him.
Donald Paldino
April 7, 2015
I grew up on Orient St. just a few house down from Ralph's family , and I can't ever remembering seeing him without that big smile ! I'm three years younger than Ralph, which when your just a kid that's a big difference but Ralph was always so friendly . My thoughts and prayers to The Laviolette family.
Don Paldino
April 7, 2015
Dear Laviolette Family, May God bless you & your family during this time of sorrow. Sorry about your loss. Your friend from Orient Street, Paulette Duplessis Abdow.
Dave Penny
April 7, 2015
A great guy with a big heart. I had the opportunity to be his friend and work with him in his flooring business. I can still see Ralph's smile RIP
Robin Israelson
April 7, 2015
To the Laviolette Family. I was saddened to hear of the passing of Ralph. I have known him for many years. He was a wonderful friend and was always there if you needed him. He will be greatly Missed.. R.I.P.
Gina and Peter Lizotte Cestodio
April 7, 2015
To my second family the Laviolette's, I love you all -To Sue, we only met a few times and each time I could see the immense amount of love you felt for Ralph. He was truly blessed to have you in his life. To Brianna, I remember you when you were just alittle girl. You have blossomed into a beautiful, smart girl. Your dad I am sure was very proud of you. My condolences to you, Sue, and LaViolette family. To my best friend Amy I love you and here for you always. We have a friendship like no other . I always remember Ralph making his entrance when he would visit his parents. He was a breath of fresh air. Good looking, charisma you had! He always had that big smile on his face. Rest in peace Ralph
Karen Feraco-Lamb
April 7, 2015
Dear Laviolette Family....I am so so sad to hear of Ralph's passing. Who from "the hill" didn't know Ralph or any of the Laviolettes! My fondest childhood memories are of my "crush" on him and watching him jog around Holmes Field from my living room window!!!!Who didn't love Ralph!!! My love and sympathy to all of you.
Love,
Karen Feraco Lamb
April 7, 2015
Condolences and big hugs to the LaViolette "famille" from your Canadian friends and neighbours in New Brunswick...especially Gene and Marilyn Bourque, Acadie Siding, New Brunswick.
Brad & Cathie Moreschi
April 7, 2015
Our deepest sympathy on Ralph's passing. Sending our prayers and best wishes to the LaViolette family during this very difficult time.
Gladys Rodriguez-Parker
April 7, 2015
May you rest in ever lasting peace and may your family know they are in our hearts and prayers.
Bill & Cathy Battelle
April 7, 2015
To the LaViolette family - Cathy & I pray for your comfort and peace in Ralph's passing. You all are never far from my thoughts - as I carry around a constant smile of my youth with me each day - always knowing that I was accepted and loved by you all. I have very fond memories of Ralph that will always make me smile and laugh to the point of tears - which is what he usually brought you too after a game of full-contact Risk!
Rest in peace brother.
Bill & Cathy Battelle
April 7, 2015
With our sincere and deepest sympathies to The Laviolette Family and relatives. Gone to soon. Please accept our condolences. May Ralph Rest In Peace. Love The Brodin Family
Don Perron
April 7, 2015
Our deepest sympathy goes out to the Laviolette family.
Don & Janine Perron
April 7, 2015
I was so saddened to read of Ralph's passing my memories of him through the halls of North High was that he always had that beautiful smile on his face. Heaven has another angel R.I.P old friend my heart goes out to the whole Lavioleete family..Peggy Direnzo Buffone
Anthony Petrone & Family
April 7, 2015
May the love of friends and family carry you through your grief.
April 7, 2015
ohn d family my heart goes out to you, so sorry aunties heart feels the pain with you.
April 7, 2015
Dear very special Family, Our family would like to offer our condolences on the loss of your brother, when I saw the picture of Ralph, I saw Bernie. God Bless you all.
Jacqueline Gagne Tarasiak Breault
April 7, 2015
Rest in Peace, Ralph. Our condolences to, and prayers for the Laviolette Family. Very sorry for your loss.
Paul & Carol Morkunas
Jay Foley
April 7, 2015
Sad to see Ralph's passing. Haven't seen him in years. Always remember he was always smiling! Taken way to early! Till we meet again keep smiling!
Tammy (Germain) Beliveau
April 7, 2015
Grief can be so hard, but our special memories help us cope. Remembering you and your loved one today and always.
Carolyn Parker
April 7, 2015
To the LaViolette family very sorry to hear of your brothers passing. I remember all of you from St. Joseph's. Carolyn Gervais Parker.
Ted Boulay
April 6, 2015
Frank, my heartfelt sympathy and condolences go out to you and your family. May your brother Ralph rest in eternal peace.
sean kelly
April 6, 2015
Laviolette Family-The Kelly family sends along our condolences and prayers to all of you.
Carl DiPilato
April 6, 2015
Ralph was a fella one could rely on. I worked with Ralph at DYS and he covered my back on many occasions. He had the knack of being the warmest and most gentle guy around but at a moments notice he could be the strong disciplinarian the job demanded. He was cool under fire and always tempered his discipline with the compassion needed to stabilize the situation. He loved life and he made being around him a pleasant event. It was my pleasure to have had the opportunity to have worked and known him
Marcia Coco
April 6, 2015
Susan I am so very sorry to hear of your husband's passing. We did not know him but I know he will be sorely missed. Our sympathies and prayers are with you and your family.
Your cousin
Marcia
Cher Pawlin
April 6, 2015
Chelsea, I'm so sorry for your loss. May your memories bring you comfort.
Sue Rinaldi
April 6, 2015
So very sorry to hear of Ralph's passing. Thoughts are with you all.
April 6, 2015
So sorry for your loss to the Laviolette family. Cheryl Misale
Mark Collette
April 6, 2015
My deepest sympathies to the Laviolette family. Ralph was my best friend in grammar school .R.I.P my old friend. Mark Collette
Christine luperchio- Wilcox
April 6, 2015
John so sorry to hear of your brothers passing. May you and your family find comfort in the loving memories you have of your brother. God bless.
Chelsea LaViolette
April 6, 2015
Rest in peace Uncle Ralph. I'll always remember how you made it a point to tell me how beautiful I am, everytime I saw you. You always gave the best hugs. You were the sweetest man & will forever hold a place in my heart. Until we meet again in heaven. I love you <3
Sarah LeBoeuf
April 6, 2015
Uncle Ralph,
You will be missed by many, thoughts of my youth bring memories of your laugh and bench pressing all the kids... You were a lovable, funny, sincere, brave and loyal man.
Priscilla LaViolette
April 6, 2015
Ralph, you were always so sweet to everyone. We had so many laughs and great times whenever we got to see you. I always loved your sense of humor. You will always be loved and missed.
Mark Skiesto
April 6, 2015
To the LaViolette Family,
I'm so sorry to hear of Ralph's passing.
diane benedict
April 6, 2015
Amy, I am so sorry about the loss of your brother. May he RIP. My prayers are with you and your family at this time.
Frank LaViolette
April 6, 2015
Ralph, no man ever had a better brother. You may now rest in the peace you so richly deserve.
Kim Lizotte
April 6, 2015
Thoughts and prayers during this very difficult time. I am very sorry for your loss
April 6, 2015
Susan & Brianna so sorry for your loss, Ralph will be sorely missed RIP baby brother till we meet again...I love you!
Angela Padavano
April 6, 2015
To the LaViolette Family,
I was so sorry to hear of Ralph's passing. I have fond memories of him hanging out with my brother up Holmes Field. May he rest in peace.
Sharon & Jim Wilson
April 6, 2015
All our prayers and love to the family at this time and always.
April 6, 2015
RIP Raplhie, You were a very loving and strong little brother. We will all miss you and your words of wisdom and your quick wit. You will be sorely missed.
freddie potenti
April 6, 2015
To Brianna & all the Lav's Family..My deepest sympathies on the loss of Ralph. I will never forget Ralph at North High school and our inter-city sand lot tackle football games of the 1970's when Mulcahy's Field would play Holmes Field every football season for years. Ralph was certainly one of a kind. He sure could have given Tom Cruise a run for his money in the "looks" department.Lol. Ralph was a fellow Worcester "Home Boy" all his life. A good MAN with a BIG heart. Rest in Peace Brother. May God Bless Your Soul. See you again someday.
Angela Marra
April 6, 2015
Thinking of you all...
April 6, 2015
Susan, Sending love and prayers to you and your family.
Linda and Gerry Warpula
April 6, 2015
For Brianna, especially, and all of your family - my prayers and hope for joy in the memories are with you. So sorry.
Sara Savage
Dierdre LeBoeuf
April 6, 2015
So sorry for your loss. No words will make it easy, but knowing how much Ralph is loved by family and friends, that is what will help you all thought this sad time.
April 6, 2015
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
April 6, 2015
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Lisa Piermattei
April 6, 2015
Rest in Peace Ralphie
April 5, 2015
To the LaViolette Family our condolences go out to all of you Ralph was a great guy may he rest in piece. Cathy Simone and Wilbur Lamothe.
Joel La Violette
April 5, 2015
Farewell Ralph, rest in peace my brother.
Brian Dupuis
April 5, 2015
Lots of good memories that will last a lifetime. RIP from our family to yours our condolences
John Dupuis
April 5, 2015
Rest in Peace old Buddy. Until we meet again on the other side.
tom smith
April 5, 2015
He was my best friend I'll miss him alot
bob noone
April 5, 2015
Ralph its been a long time and life goes by, but when i heard you passed i just remembered our younger years and smiled. you were a good man and gone to soon, but though i will miss you, i will always remember the good times. good bye my friend. bob noone
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