Randy Apher Obituary

Name: Visitation for Randy Apher
Start: 2019-08-06T15:00:00.000Z
End: 2019-08-06T18:00:00.000Z
Location: Mercadante Funeral Home & Chapel - Worcester

Randy A. Apher

Auburn - Randy A. Apher, 51 of Auburn, died unexpectedly in his sleep on July 27, 2019. Born and raised in Worcester, he was the son of the late Michael and Marcia (Goldstein) Apher.

Randy will be sadly missed by his two daughters, Alisha Cancelli-Apher and her fiancé Nick Caracciolo, and Jillian Apher, two granddaughters Jaelynne and Briella, three brothers Scott and his wife Lisa, Gary and his wife Erin, Eric and his wife Kelly, one niece Erika and four nephews Seth, Tyler, Nick, and Mike. Randy also leaves his girlfriend and long-time crush Tanya Blake who was by his side when he passed. Randy also leaves behind endless friends, everyone loved him. He couldn't go anywhere without running into people he knew. He will be missed dearly by everyone who knew and loved him.

Randy had a great work ethic and was a dedicated, strong, hardworking guy who took pride in his work. He recently left Harvey's after 18 years to pursue new opportunities at Beacon Supply in Worcester. He was only there for a short period of time but was eager for his new journey.

Randy lived life on his own terms. His sense of humor was one of a kind, only Randy would laugh at his own jokes. One friend recalls, "Randy was a little trouble making punk, we all loved him". He enjoyed spending time with family and friends but mostly his daughters and beautiful granddaughters. They would go out for breakfast every Saturday to Miss Worcester Diner or Carl's Diner. Saturdays will never be the same again. You could find Randy at the gym every morning at 5am. Randy enjoyed hanging out with his brothers and trading endless barbs, as well as playing cards or betting any sport for money. His favorite past time was the lottery hoping to retire early; he played numbers and bought scratch tickets daily. Randy was a member of the Auburn Elks and loved his Tuesday night horseshoes. Randy loved being outside in the heat and going to the beach. He was a sports fan and never missed watching the Red Sox and Patriots.

The family would like to thank the Shrewsbury Police Department and the Massachusetts State Police for help and compassion at a very difficult time.

Memorial services for Randy be held through the MERCADANTE FUNERAL HOME AND CHAPEL 370 Plantation St. Worcester. Visitation will be held on Tuesday August 6, 2019 from 11am to 2pm followed by a memorial service at 2pm.

In lieu of flowers the family has asked that you make memorial donations in Randy's memory to your choice of www.autismspeaks.org , Auburn S Worcester County Lodge of Elks scholarship fund or to The Melanoma Research Foundation.

To share a memory of Randy or to leave a note of condolence for his family please go to www.mercadantefuneral.com

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Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette from Jul. 31 to Aug. 2, 2019.

Memories and Condolences
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Kurt Brenner

September 5, 2019

Remember randy and Gary from the old days at bay state gym in Worcester, always had fun time with them both. Randy always had a joke or story for all, you are sadly missed my friend may you rest in peace. In my prayers. Kurt Brenner

Kerri Menard

August 6, 2019

You'll always have a place in my ❤ heart. May your soul rest in peace. It's never goodbye Randy...it's I'll see ya later. Every time I saw you, it was always a high-five, so right back at ya.... HIGH FIVE IN HEAVEN!!

Carolyn Wentzell

August 3, 2019

Randy, I met you and Gary at Lincoln Lanes as teens and we became fast friends. We lost touch but I was so happy to reconnect with you two a few years ago, with big hugs!!! My condolences to your family, you are a hard loss. Always a good guy, always a pleasure to see. You are loved and missed.

Laurie Chaille

August 2, 2019

I didn't know Randy personally but I knew him really well through my daughter. She worked with him for years. First at Harvey's, then Beacon. He was a very hard working man, and the stories she told me, what a riot. My heart is broken for my girl for losing a good friend, but my heart is so broken for his family.

Randy Tardie

August 1, 2019

I knew Randy from his days at TJ Maxx. He was a great guy. My condolences to his family. He will be missed.

MATTHEW LAROSEE

August 1, 2019

I've known Randy since I started in the trades in 2000. He was always full of life, and would never hesitate to bust on me for anything, and that made him very endearing. He was strong and loyal and playful, but most of all he loved his family. He would tell me weekly stories about his granddaughters that always made his eyes sparkle. I know he is in a better place, I just wish we were blessed with more of his time on earth. Rest in peace Randy, you will be missed.

Ginette Bailey

August 1, 2019

I am so sorry for your loss. His friendly smile he gave to all will be missed.

August 1, 2019

Sorry for your loss, Jesse Ritz and family

MARK & KAREN SKIESTO

July 31, 2019

So sorry to hear of Randy's passing . hell of a guy and will be missed by all who new him. R.I.P

Russ and Shirley berg

July 31, 2019

We want to say we send our prayers and sympathy for your family loss.Randy was well liked and we will miss him .we are so sorry for the loss of Randy.Known Randy since he was 5 a great guy.Rest in peace Randy.

Wendy & Bill Steinhilber

July 31, 2019

Randy has lived in our home for 3 years and we've become like family. We will miss his silly laugh, "heh heh" and all the funny stories and especially his hijinks. He was a hell of a good guy and our hearts are broken for his family. We miss him already. Our condolences to all.

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