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Richard Bates

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Richard Bates obituary, 1937-2019, Shrewsbury, MA

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Richard Bates Obituary

Richard A. Bates, 82

SHREWSBURY - Richard A. Bates, 82, a lifelong resident of Shrewsbury, passed away peacefully on Monday, December 16, 2019 in the comforts of his home with his family by his side.

Richard was born in Shrewsbury on May 20, 1937, a son of the late Earle C. and Hester R. (Sivret) Bates. He grew up in Shrewsbury where he graduated from Beal High School. Richard earned his bachelor's degree from Clark University where he was the college's catcher for the baseball team. He later earned his master's degree from The University of Hartford. Richard worked for over 25 years for the Town of Shrewsbury School Department as a teacher for elementary and middle school students before he retired in 1986. With his summer's off from teaching, Richard remained active as a finish carpenter.

Being a resident of Shrewsbury all his life, Richard was very active in the community starting at a very young age as a bat boy for the town high school baseball team and later as a football, baseball and basketball coach for many years for Shrewsbury High School. Richard like many of his family was a member and inductee into the Town of Shrewsbury Athletic Hall of Fame. Family and sports were his life. He was also very involved with the Shrewsbury Senior Center Friends Men's Club, the Borough's Family Branch YMCA in Westborough and the First Congregational Church of Shrewsbury where he was a deacon for many years. Richard was a proud father and grandfather who never missed any of their sporting events. He loved spending time with his wife Jeanne camping, vacationing and trips to the casino. Richard will always be remembered for his kindness, compassion and witty sense of humor.

Richard is survived by his beloved wife of 53 years, Jeanne M. (LeBlanc) Bates; their three children, Christine Tonelli and her fiancé Shion Philibert with whom he lived, Nicolas Bates and his wife Kathleen Shaffer of Melrose, MA and Richard E. Bates and his significant other, Kellee Kores of Leicester; four grandchildren, Rino Tonelli, Zachary Bates, Joseph O'Brien and Phoenix Bates; four loving sisters-in-law, and many nieces and nephews. He is predeceased by a daughter, Jeanne Marie Bates; two brothers, Earle "Sonny" Bates and William Sivret; two sisters, Ruth Andrews and Corliss Glover; four brothers-in-law; and many wonderful "grand pets."

A funeral service for Richard will be held on Friday, December 20, 2019 at 11:00 am in the MERCADANTE FUNERAL HOME & CHAPEL, 370 Plantation St., Worcester. Burial will follow in Mountain View Cemetery, Shrewsbury. Relatives and friends are invited to calling hours on Thursday, December 19th from 4-8 pm in the funeral home. Contributions in his name can be made to: VNA Care, Fund Development Office, 199 Rosewood Drive, Suite 180, Danvers, MA 01923.

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Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette from Dec. 17 to Dec. 18, 2019.

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Jay Foley

February 14, 2020

Jeanne I just came across this. Dick was a great friend and we hung out together for many years. Always remember seeing you guys at Mt Snow when you were supposed to be honeymooning after your wedding. My sincere sympathy and condolences to you and the family.

Elaine Sivret

December 23, 2019

My thoughts and prayers are with you all at this time - I got the chance to speak with him on one of my visits home last year - he stopped by when I was outside. I also had the honor of having him for a teacher at Beal School - he was a good man.

December 22, 2019

May the God of all comfort sustain your family during the days ahead Psalms 119:76

David Branagan

December 21, 2019

I'm sorry for your loss. Richard was a kind friendly man who dedicated his life to teaching others and making a difference in their lives.

PETER BRANAGAN

December 21, 2019

Sorry for your loss. Never could ask for a nicer or better neighbor. He will be missed.

Abigail Wood

December 19, 2019

So much love to the Bates family. I am so very sorry for your loss.

Sally Markos

December 18, 2019

My deepest heart felt condolences to my dear Aunt Jeanne and my wonderful cousin's Chrissy,Nick and Richard.
I'm so sorry for the loss of your amazing father and husband.
He was such a kind caring man that was selfless and humble.
He will be deeply missed by so many but never forgotten.
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this most difficult time.

Tom Nault

December 18, 2019

So very sorry to hear of Richards passing. I will fondly remember working and coaching (71 undefeated Frosh Football team, assisting with the varsity football with Art Liljgren too). So many good memories. My sincere condolences to the extended Bates family.

April and Vinny Pendleton

December 18, 2019

Our deepest condolences to all the Bates family. Our thoughts are with you through this difficult time.

Rita (Ernenwein) Williams

December 18, 2019

With deep sympathy my thoughts and prayer are with all of you during this difficult time. may you find comfort in the memories that you share.
God Bless,

Vera Ilievski

December 18, 2019

Christine I am so very sorry for your loss. Heartfelt prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time.

Gordon Warren

December 18, 2019

My heart felt thoughts, prayers and condolences go out to the entire Bates Family. Dick was certainly a " Shrewsbury Man " through and through. His love, pride and passion for his family was so very real. His contributions to the Shrewsbury HS Athletic program was immeasurable. He was a good man who will be missed. Rest in Peace Dick.

Sandra Diminico

December 17, 2019

Christine and Shion I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. God Bless you all

Elaine Vadenais

December 17, 2019

So sorry for your loss. I got to know Richard from the morning workouts at the y. He always spoke very highly of his family and attending sporting events with the grand kids.

He was in amazing shape and liked by all!

Pamela Dicicco

December 17, 2019

Christine I am so very sorry for the loss of your Dad. He sounds amazing. My prayers are with you and your family.

Timothy McCoy

December 17, 2019

I only knew Richard through his son Nick's wonderful stories and thoughts about him. From all I have learned, he was an incredible man and father. So sorry for your loss, Nick.

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