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Robert Elia Obituary

Robert J. Elia, 68, of Ashburn, VA previously of Worcester passed away Wednesday March 30th 2011 in Arlington Va. with family at his side. Robert was born March 20, 1943 in Worcester, MA, the son of Rae (Cusanello) Genatasio. He graduated from North High School in 1960, and in 1964 earned his degree in Civil Engineering from Norwich University, in Northfield, VT. He was commissioned in the U.S. Army as a Lieutenant during the Vietnam era. He has lived in Virginia for more than 16 years. Robert worked his entire career in construction management. For many years he owned and headed a company he founded; Systematics General Corp., of Herndon, VA, specializing in building secure electronics rooms for the US Military and high tech teleconferencing rooms for business before retiring. He is survived by his wife, Janet (Metall) Lima- Elia of Ashburn, VA; his two sons and their spouses, Robert and Kathryn Elia of San Rafael, CA, David and Sandra Elia of West Cummington, MA; his former wife Doreen (Peterson) Elia of Madison, CT: two step-children, Jeffrey Lima of Assonet, MA and Meredith Wallace Kazer of New Haven, CT; 9 grandchildren; Aunt Marie (Toe) Cuccaro, many cousins, and a host of friends.

Robert was a devoted alumnus of Norwich University. He was active in The Norwich and Washington Area Alumni Associations and very seldom missed a Norwich Alumni Homecoming. He also loved sports and was a great baseball fan; traveling many years in the winter to spring training. His favorite teams were the Boston Braves, and NY Yankees. He had a special love for the NY Giant Football teams.

Friends and relatives are invited to visit with the family Sunday, April 3rd from 4 P.M. to 6 P.M. in The MERCADANTE FUNERAL HOME & CHAPEL, 370 Plantation Street, Worcester. His funeral will be held Monday, April 4th from the funeral home with a Mass at 12 noon in St. Mary's Church, 640 Main Street, Shrewsbury. Burial will follow in St John Cemetery. In lieu of flowers, please send donations in his memory to The General I.D. White Scholarship, care of Norwich University, Development and Alumni Relations Office, 158 Harmon Drive, Northfield, VT 05663.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette from Apr. 1 to Apr. 3, 2011.

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Bill Gregg

April 3, 2011

My thoughts and prayers are with Bob's family, whom he loved dearly. I wish I could be with you to pay my respects to one of my oldest and dearest friends. I thank God for putting Bob and me together back in the old neighborhood, for all the good times we had as kids and for our enduring friendship. May you rest in peace, old friend.

Leo & Iris Finkelstein

April 3, 2011

In loving memory of a wonderful person. We will love you and miss you always.

Jim Cronin

April 1, 2011

Sorry to read of Bob passing. He will be missed by old friends from North High class of 1960

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