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Shirley Fay Obituary
Shirley leaves her husband of 37 years, John W. Fay; a daughter, Wendi Adams and husband Neil of Auburn, and a son, John P. Fay of Auburn. She leaves her 2 granddaughters, Alexa Adams and Amanda Fay, the lights of her life. She also leaves her twin sister, Beverly Camarra of Worcester and her sister, Jeannette Perry of Shrewsbury; 2 nieces, Katie Perry and Bonnie Dufault; nephew, Spencer Perry; and many sisters- and brothers-in-law.
Shirley was born in Worcester. She was raised in Shrewsbury and graduated from Shrewsbury High School. She worked at the Worcester Country Club for more than 20 years and was currently employed by Honey Dew Donuts. Shirley loved spending time with her family especially her grandaughters and also loved going to the beaches in Maine and Newport, RI.
Shirley was a kind and generous person inspiring others to follow her example. Her untimely passing leaves a void that will not easily be filled by her family and friends.
Funeral services will be held Friday, August 20, 2010 in Nordgren Memorial Chapel, 300 Lincoln Street at 10 a.m. Burial will follow in Worcester County Memorial Park. Calling hours will be held Thursday, August 19, 2010 from 6-8 p.m. in the funeral home. In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to United Way of Central MA, Denholm Building 484 Main St., Suite 300, Worcester, MA 01608-1880.
For directions or to leave an online condolence message, please visit:
NordgrenMemorialChapel.com
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Memories and Condolences
for Shirley Fay
Donna-Marie Card
August 23, 2010
Wendi - I'm so sorry to hear about the passing of your Mom. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. May your memories help to get you through a difficult time, you will cherish them.
Cindy Maher
August 19, 2010
John,
So sorry to hear the shocking news of Shirleys sudden passing. She was one of the nicest people I have ever met. Thoughts and prayers are with you.
Wayne Staltare
August 19, 2010
Shirly worked with me in Northbourgh from 1975-77. She was a great server/waitress the customers loved her. She became a friend to me during those short two years. But, what I remember most about Shirley was her dedication to her family and friends. God Bless
Betty Parker
August 18, 2010
Dear Jonh and Family,
Trust in the Lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding;in all your way acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight. Proverbs 3:5-6 We will always remember Shirley for her great heart and wonderful smile, for she was de most kind and hard working person I ever know,we will miss her. May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Tim,Betty, Joshua,Sarah and mama Dioni
Amy Walsh
August 18, 2010
To the Fay Family,
I have worked for the Honey Dew corporate office for ten years and have had the wonderful opportunity to see Shirley's smiling face in the Sutton and Auburn stores. She was a wonderful woman and ALWAYS asked how I was and always wished the best for me. I will miss being able to see her and having her making me smile. So sorry for your loss......
Margaret Ralph
August 18, 2010
Dear John and Family, You are all in our thoughts and prayers. Shirley was the greatest and she will be greatly missed.
Margaret, Ian, Martin and Peter Ralph
Kate King
August 18, 2010
Aunt Shirley was an exceptionally kind person who will be missed by all whose lives she touched. Uncle Johnny, Wendi, Jack, Neil, Amanda and Alexa, I'm so sorry. My thoughts are with you all as you grieve. See you soon. Love, Kate
August 18, 2010
Dear Beverly,
I was so sorry to hear about the loss of your sister. Although I did not know her I only knew of her through you. Since I lost my sister I understand what a terrible time this is for you and the family. Please know that you will all be in my thoughts and prayers. Love, Bobbie
Lynn & Rick Roy
August 18, 2010
Mr. Fay & family,
It saddens us to hear of Mrs. Fay's passing she was a wonderful pleasant person that was always a joy to talk with. Her soft spoken words of kindness even her smile with a simple hello,She will be missed.
Rick & Lynn Roy
Mary Lavallee
Mark Thibeault
August 18, 2010
I worked with Shirley many years ago in Northboro, I remember Shirley always had a laugh and a smile for all she worked with. My deepest condolences for John and all the Fay family.
Kathy Morrow
August 18, 2010
Dear John and family Shirley was a remarkable to women, very kind and loving, she always had a smile and a kind word she will be truley missed and John I am deeply sorry for your lose. Good Bless.
Kathy and Jim Morrow (Guertins Cafe)
August 18, 2010
Dear John, Wendi and Jack, May you find comfort from your family and friends in the days ahead. Shirley was a dear sweet woman who will be missed by many. God Bless. With Love, Pauline & Henry
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