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Thomas Guilfoil Obituary

Thomas F. Guilfoil 75

DUDLEY - Thomas F. Guilfoil, 75, of Dudley, died peacefully Friday, November 22, 2019 at Brigham & Women's Hospital in Boston. He survived a successful double lung transplant in 2018 and fought bravely and stubbornly against the insurmountable medical complications from the surgery. Thomas was born in Worcester, MA. He is the son of the late William and the late Ann (Griffin) Guilfoil.

He is survived by his wife of 52 years, Carol-Ann (Bardsley) Guilfoil, two daughters, Kelley Guilfoil-Zinkevich, her husband Brian, of Worcester, and their children, Joseph, Maximilian, Xavier and Caroline, daughter, Karryn Ryan of Oxford, and her children, Griffin, Colin and Nathan, grandchildren, Connor, Erin and Jacob Murphy and their father, John Murphy, and Daniel O'Connor, who Tom considered a son. He was predeceased by his beloved daughter, Kerri (Guilfoil) Murphy and sister Clair (Guilfoil) Docherty. He also leaves many nieces, nephews, extended family and friends behind.

Tom was raised in Auburn, attended Auburn schools and received his BS from Clark University and MBA from Anna Maria College. He was a Human Resources Director for many years and retired from Wing Memorial Hospital, in Palmer. After his retirement he staffed the front desk at his daughter Kerri's gym, The Fitness Studio, and volunteered for Special Olympics.

Tom considered himself blessed to find Carol as his high school sweetheart, they built their life and found wonderful life-long friends and neighbors in Auburn. He was active in Auburn Lassie League softball, bowled at Colonial Bowl in Worcester, and was an avid golfer, swimmer and skier. His special place was his second home in Springfield, NH, where he enjoyed all of his dogs, the outdoors and making mischief with countless friends and family.

Everyone Tom met, from the grocery clerk, to the pharmacist, to the server at his favorite breakfast place, was drawn to his spirited, positive and caring demeanor, and he loved to talk to young and old alike. At his most recent home in Dudley, he was often found playing catch with his grandchildren or relaxing on the front porch, smoking a cigar, sipping a scotch and doing a crossword puzzle.

The funeral will be held 11 AM on Tuesday, November 26 at Bartel Funeral Home & Chapel, 33 Schofield Ave., Dudley. Calling hours will be Monday, November 25 from 4-7 pm at Bartel Funeral Home.

In lieu of flowers, memorials may be made to the Adam Bullen Memorial Foundation, 24 Charlton St., Oxford MA, 01540 (508) 987-5999

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by Worcester Telegram & Gazette from Nov. 22 to Nov. 24, 2019.

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Ann-Joyce Peters (Sister Ann-Joyce, SHCJ)

November 20, 2021

I just wrote a message (I guess too long!), and it disappeared), so I just want to say that visiting Tom and all our cousins was so much fun (MANY years ago!). Pray for us, Tom - as we pray for you! LOVE, "AJ"

Ann-Joyce Peters

November 16, 2020

I would like to say that I only saw "Tommy Guilfoil" in our family visits from New Jersey to Massachusetts several times a year --he was so cute! And I never saw him in my adult life --so at my 83 years, I look forward to seeng him again in heaven! With love , (Sister)
Ann-Joyce Peters, shcj (Society of the Holy Child Jesus

Michelle LeBeau

June 25, 2020

I am so sorry to just now hear of your loss. I worked with Tom for many years in Worcester and then Leominster, he was always so welcoming and funny. My deepest condolences.

December 4, 2019

Dear Carol, Kelley, and Karryn

I was saddened to hear the news of Tom's passing. He was such an upbeat guy with a warm smile. He will definitely be missed. I pray all your happy memories will help ease your loss at this time.

Fran and Pat Hickey

Mike Sheyker

November 26, 2019

Dear a Carol and Family

Louise Tom's cousin and I want to extend our condolences to all of you. I did not meet Tom and Carol until our Golden Years. We spent an exciting adventure driving thru Ireland with Louise's sister the Sister Joyce and our daughter Carolynn. It was the start of a fantastic friendship. We spent several vacations together in Wisconsin, Florida and Arizona. Tom and I discovered the true joy of golf...don't keep score. We have missed him dearly the last few years when he was unable to travel. Carol and family you are in our thoughts and prayers.

Louise and Mike Sheyker

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Mary Ann Franco

November 25, 2019

Dear Kelley and family,
I was saddened to hear about the death of your dear father. I hope you and your family are comforted by the many happy memories you have of him. Our family will keep you in our thoughts and prayers during the difficult days ahead.

Love, Mary Ann and Paul Franco and family

Fran Horuzek

November 24, 2019

I had the pleasure of working with Tom at KomTek during the late 90's. Couldn't meet a more kind and dedicated person. Truly sad to lose a good friend and coworker. My sincere condolences.

November 24, 2019

So sorry to hear of the passing of Tom. I knew Tom for the past Few years from bowling and would always tell jokes to him every week. Tom was a very positive person and fun to be around and to know. He will be missed by a lot of people. My condolence goes out to his family. RIP,Tom. Ernie Dew

Diane Carroll

November 24, 2019

Dear Mrs. Guilfoil, Kelley, Karen and family,
I am so sorry to hear about your dad. He was a great dad and I will always remember Mr. Guilfoil by his special Barbara Ave Dinner Call for his girls. Sending my deepest condolences.

November 23, 2019

So sorry fo r your loss. Judy Daniels

Bruce Bennard

November 23, 2019

Sad news but fond memories - Tom was a good high school AND neighborhood friend from 1959-62 during my 4 years living in Auburn. My sincere condolences to all his loved ones - I am sure they are legion.

KATHY Blais

November 23, 2019

Carol and family. My heartfelt prayers to all of you I hope as saddened to read of Toms passing. Its not easy. He was such a pleasant man. Thinking of you

Joyce Peters

November 23, 2019

Dearest Carol, --- and all the family whom I wish I knew better! Greetings from Chile! My memories of Tom are from our childhood years of driving up from New Jersey to Massachusetts to visit all the relatives, especially our cousins Clair and Tommy! Then years later, my sister and brother-in-law (Louise and Mike Sheyker) -with Tom and Carol, we went to Ireland (I think!). As I have read now the different tributes about Tom, I was reminded about our time together. He was an outstanding person -- and I look forward to being with him again in Heaven! (Save me a place, Tom!)
Your first cousin, Joyce

Fran and Janet Paquette

November 23, 2019

Carol and family, We are so sorry to see that Tommy has passed away. We shared many fun events in our younger days...Tom was always the life of the party! Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Chandra Capone

November 23, 2019

Carol and family I am so sorry to hear of Tom's passing. My heart is broken. I was so blessed to have had Tom as a boss, mentor and dear friend who I will treasure in my heart forever. Tom was the most brilliant, kind, humble and amazing person I have ever known. I will miss him dearly and will never forget all the laughs we shared. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. With much love, Chandra

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