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Alyne Queener Armistead MASSEY

Alyne Queener Armistead MASSEY obituary, NASHVILLE, TN

Alyne MASSEY Obituary

MASSEY, Alyne Queener ArmisteadOf Nashville, Tennessee. Passed away on September 11, 2012 at home surrounded by her family. Mrs. Massey was a community leader and philanthropist who was infinitely generous with her time and talents, her intellect, her hospitality, her humor and her loving support of family and friends. Throughout her life, she was a champion of countless nonprofits. Her caring nature and proactive approach resulted in a lifetime of accomplishments benefiting numerous people and organizations. Mrs. Massey was born in New Haven, Connecticut where her father, the late Millard E. Queener attended Yale Law School. Her mother was the late Adeline Frierson Armstrong Queener. Mrs. Massey was preceded in death by her husband, Jack Carroll Massey; her sister, Lucille Frierson Queener Courtney. Mrs. Massey is survived by her sons, Leonard Hearne (Bill) Armistead III and Robert Hunter Frierson (Bob) Armistead; her sister, Elizabeth Myers Queener. She also is survived by her grandchildren, Stephanie Alyne (Aly) Armistead, Massey Frierson Armistead, Anne Parkes Armistead and Lewis Addison Armistead V; her nieces and nephews, Richard Gordon Courtney, Elizabeth Currey Courtney, Gale Courtney Moore, Father Robin S. Courtney, Jr., Hunter Armistead, Jr. and Benjamin C. Armistead; her sister-in-law, Clare C. Armistead. Mrs. Massey was raised in Columbia, Tennessee, educated at Ward-Belmont Preparatory School and graduated from Vanderbilt University where she was a member of the Delta Delta Delta sorority. In addition to Nashville, she had resided in Franklin, Tennessee and Palm Beach, Florida during her life. She was married to the late Leonard Hearne Armistead, Jr. and thereafter to Mr. Massey, who established the Alyne Queener Massey Library at Vanderbilt University in her honor. Mrs. Massey's professional achievements include having served as a former reporter with the Nashville Banner and subsequently, as the Director of the Womens' Division of Commerce Union Bank. She was the first woman to be elected to the board of trust of Third National Bank and served on the board of Volunteer Capital Corporation. She also formerly served on the Vanderbilt University Board of Trust and on the boards of the Vanderbilt Heart Institute, the Kennedy Center at Vanderbilt, the John F. Kennedy Center for Performing Arts in Washington, DC, the Library of Congress in Washington, DC, Cheekwood Botanical Gardens and Museum of Art, the Preservation Society of Palm Beach, the Society of the Four Arts in Palm Beach and the Blair House in Washington, DC. Mrs. Massey was a founder of the Community Foundation of Middle Tennessee and the Tennessee Performing Arts Center. She was an avid supporter of Battle Ground Academy, Planned Parenthood and of the Mental Health Association of Middle Tennessee where she established the Jack. C. Massey Leadership Award dinner. She was also a member of the Colonial Dames of America, the Garden Club of America, the Garden Club of Nashville, the Belle Meade Country Club of Nashville, the Centennial Club of Nashville, the Bath and Tennis Club of Palm Beach, the Everglades Club of Palm Beach, the Meadow Club of Southampton, NY, the Bathing Club of Southampton and the Colony Club of New York. Visitation will be held from 1-3 p.m. on Friday, September 14, 2012 at Cheek Hall at First Presbyterian Church on Franklin Road in Nashville. A memorial service will immediately follow at 3 p.m. at the Church conducted by Reverend Todd B. Jones. Ushers will be John Anderson, the Honorable John Bailey of Palm Beach, Dr. Robert Goucher of San Francisco, Jack M. Bass, Martin Brown, William Benjamin of Palm Beach, Brownlee Currey, Honorable Winfield Dunn, Henry Hooker, Sidney McAlister, William Tyne of London, William Pannill of Palm Beach, Robert Sterling of Palm Beach, John Schuler of Palm Beach, Chancellor Nicholas Zeppos and members of the Vanderbilt University Board of Trust. A private service will be held for Mrs. Massey at a later date at the family mausoleum at historic Zion Presbyterian Church in Columbia, Tennessee, which was established by her family in 1805. She will be the eighth generation of her family to be interred there. The service will be conducted by Reverend Robin S. Courtney, Jr. In lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to Vanderbilt University School of Law or the Cheekwood Botanical Gardens and Museum of Art.

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Published by The Tennessean from Sep. 12 to Sep. 13, 2012.

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Robert Gotcher

September 7, 2019

My fond memories of Alyne have not lessened with time. I think of her often with such fond recollections. Knowing her was one of the highlights of my life.

Nancy Maureen Jarman

September 18, 2012

Alyne was truly a great lady, loving friend and thoughtful human being. I will miss her greatly as well as many others. And, of course, her smile and laugh are indelibly imprinted in my mind.

Misty hyde

September 15, 2012

Bill and Bob. So so sorry about your mother. I will miss her smiling face on Fridays with the Bridge ladies at Bmcc. I am out of town or I would have been there ..love, Misty

Beverly Dortch

September 14, 2012

Bill, Bob, Elizabeth and families, so sorry for your loss of Mrs. Massey. The short time I worked for her she was always kind and patient with me. Please know you are in my prayers and that the Lord has her in His arms. Beverly

Sandra Frank

September 14, 2012

Mrs Massey was a great lady of grace and dignity who represented Nashville
both in it's traditions and it's visions for the future.

September 14, 2012

Mary (Sissy) Leech. She was a wonderful
lady. I am glad I had the opportunity to know her.

September 14, 2012

I'm happy to say i worked for Mrs. Massey for some time,she had a great sence of humor an loved a good laugh.For me i'll always remember her in the beautiful gowns she wore to "Swan Ball" an many parties, an now she is a beautiful Angel in heaven. God bless her family. larry l.

Sue Wilson

September 13, 2012

I am so saddened at the death of Mrs. Massey, she was such a dear person to me, a Godly person to. She will be truly miss. May God Bless the Armistead family.

September 13, 2012

THE PENDERGRASS FAMILY ARE SO SORRY TO HERE THE PASSING OF MRS. MASSEY. THE FAMILY AS A WHOLE WILL BE IN OUR PRAYS. THELMA AND JANITA PENDERGRASS.

Arnette Lawrence

September 13, 2012

Bob, Bill, Aly, & Massey,
On behalf of our mother, Susie Lawrence, we her children would like to extend our deepest sympathy during your time of loss. Your mother and her many kindnesses will always be remembered.

Jack Gaines

September 12, 2012

Richard so sorry for the loss of your wonderful aunt. My prayers are with you.

elizabeth holtz

September 12, 2012

Bill, So sorry to hear about the loss of your beautiful vibrant mother. You are in my thoughts and prayers during this difficult time.

September 12, 2012

we loved you so much, Lar an Frank

Larry and Debbie Deason

September 12, 2012

Bob and Bill,
We are so sorry for your loss. May God bless you and your family.

Robert Gotcher

September 12, 2012

Am so heartbroken for the family of one of the finest friends and most extraordinary women of our world.

Buddy and Dianne Benedict

September 12, 2012

Bill--Dianne and I are saddened at the death of your mother. I know she was a very special person and will be greatly missed by all who knew her.
We are out of the city and will be unable to attend her funeral services. None the less, we are thinking about you and stand beside you in your grief.
Buddy and Dianne Benedict

Frank Bumstead

September 12, 2012

Alyne was a true philanthropist. She gave to many worthwhile causes and worked tirelessly in behalf of those causes. She was, above all, a true lady. Her grace and charm serve as examples to us all. I will miss her friendship.

ROGAN ALLEN

September 12, 2012

Alyne was a wonderful Woman that helped make Nashville the amazing City it is today. She was a true Christian in every sense of the Word. May God guide her Home.

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