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Erika Meng Obituary

MENG, ErikaAge 44, originally of Nashville, passed away June 1, 2008 in Wayland, MA, after a long and courageous battle with both breast and ovarian cancers. She is preceded in death by her parents, Dr. Raymond H.C. Meng and Cecilia T.L. Meng. She is survived by her husband, Jacob Lage of Copenhagen, Denmark; her sister, Brita Meng Outzen; brother-in-law, Christian Outzen and niece, Kaia Outzen, all of Sudbury, MA; and brother, Henrik Meng of San Francisco. Erika was a 1977 graduate of Ensworth and a 1981 graduate of Harpeth Hall. She graduated magna cum laude from the University of Pennsylvania with a B.A. in political science and international relations. At Penn, she was a member of Phi Beta Kappa. After graduation, she worked in Shanghai, China, then worked for the U.S. Department of Agriculture in Washington, DC. She then went to the University of California, Davis, where she received M.Sc. and Ph.D. degrees in agriculture and resource economics. For the past 11 years, Erika was a Scientist with the International Maize and Wheat Improvement Center (CIMMYT) based in Mexico City. In that role, she traveled extensively, conducting research all over Asia - China, Central Asia and Caucasus, and South Asia and in Turkey, Morocco and East Africa. Erika spoke over five languages, and had a passion for travel, cooking, shopping and all things outdoors. No trip home to Nashville was complete without a hike around Radnor Lake or a trip to the Pancake Pantry. Erika's vibrant passion for life and people has touched people all over the world, and she leaves behind devoted friends on every continent. A Memorial service will be held Sunday, July 29, 2008 at 4 p.m., in Wightman Chapel of the Scarritt-Bennett Center. Visitation with the family will follow in the Raintree Room at Scarritt-Bennett. In lieu of flowers, the family requests donations to the Erika C.H. Meng Scholarship Fund for Development Policy at Research at the University of California, Davis, c/o Laurie Greene, Department of Agricultural and Resource Economics, University of California, One Shields Avenue, Davis, CA 95616 or Gilda's Club Nashville, 1707 Division Street, Nashville, TN 37203.

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Published by The Tennessean from Jun. 26 to Jun. 27, 2008.

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Dagmar Sands

June 20, 2019

Erika was the youngest daughter of my very best friend Cecilia Meng who loved her children so much. She was so proud to become a grandmother and she always talked about all of her children. Cecilia went also through cancer and fought and that is the trait her daughter had after her mom. I remember her talking about when Erika was diagnosed with cancer they went shopping for wigs together. Erika was very energetic, she loved sports and her mom very much. I know she will be always remembered and missed by her family. Dagmar & Tom Sands

Dagmar & Tom Sands

July 3, 2008

Dear Brita and Henrik,

I am so sad to read the news about Erika. I know she was just as remarkable person as both of your parents were. She was smart like both your mom and dad and she was passionate about travels and people like your mom. I know that you and Henrik have suffered so much loss in the past 4-5 years and I pray that God will give you strength through this sad time. I have a picture of Kaia on my desk and I see her smiling face everyday and think of Cecilia. Just yesterday someone asked me who the little girl was. I told them it was a very special young lady who was very much loved by her grandmother and who is loved by her parents.

Erika gave so much of herself to better this world and through her research and travels.
She and your mom will NEVER be forgotten by those whose lives they have touched. I do hope that you will stay in touch with all of us in FIABCI and send me updated photos of Kaia. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you. Please let me know if Tom and I can do anything for you. Sincerely, Dagmar & Tom Sands 770-476-1335

laura sullivan

June 30, 2008

A wonderful tribute to an exceptional woman. We will miss her.

Cecilia Funderburk

June 27, 2008

Brita,

I hadn't seen Erika since we were in high school sorority together. We had so much fun. Tears are running dowm my face as I write this. The world will truly be a sadder place without Erika.

Cecilia (Eakes) Funderburk

Susan Ross Kennedy

June 26, 2008

Dear Brita,

How sad I am to learn of Erika's death. Please know that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

I'd be delighted to do anything for you while you are in town.

Love, Susan

Kim House Hayes

June 26, 2008

Dearest family of Erika,
I was so saddened to hear of Erika's passing...what a radiant young woman. I was a classmate of Erika's at Harpeth Hall and remember so fondly her brilliance, appraochability, beautiful smile, and infectious laugh. I sincerely do not recall a harsh word or negative demeanor, and counted her as a dear friend. I can still hear her voice, how she spoke of what Henrik or Brita might be doing...the way she said "UPenn."

After we graduated, I moved from Nashville and lost touch with Erika. As I read her obituary, however, I was not surprised by the amazing life that she lived . What a legacy she has left behind in such a short time...Even now, I have difficulty writing the words that say that I am sorry for your "loss," because that seems so beneath her. We all gained frorm her life in immeasurable ways. I do grieve with and for you as you miss her daily physical presence. I pray that God will comfort each of you personally as only He can, and that you will never lack seeing Erika's indelible footprints wherever you may be. I pray that the Lord will help you to hear her laughter and be strengthened by her courage.

I am honored to be numbered in the company of her classmates and friends. I will miss you, Erika

Virginia Calton Ballard

June 26, 2008

Oh Erika! Even though I haven't seen you since high school, I am sad sad sad to hear how sick you've been and that you're now in a different world. Thinking of you and your family. Love, Virginia Calton Ballard

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