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Cresta McInnis
January 10, 2014
This candle burns eternally in your honor, Ashley.
Lucy!
Cresta Brewer-McInnis
January 7, 2014
It hit me like a ton of bricks today that tomorrow marks the 6th anniversary of your parting. I knew that it was just a mere few days away when I left Mom & Dad's for my Christmas visit. But, just as all the other days, events, special occasions, & numerous unforeseen moments that pass you are as you shall always be forever in my thoughts.
Even now, as we have began a new year (2014)it's painfully obvious that the sorrow of your passing will ever be easy.
Christmas was especially difficult this year because so much has happened; so much has changed..as life tends to do.
Craig and Jess had their first child, Josey a beautiful little girl. Stephanie, Tim, and their son, Haden bought a new home in Tacoma. And, your children....your amazing, sweet, beautiful kids are growing up so fast. Toby is already in second grade, and he's as smart as you! Plus, he's finally losing his baby face and growing so tall!!! Lucy is in first grade and she's learning so quickly! She also loves to read, and does so quite well! She is a lot like her Favorite Autie Cresta though,... Hyper! Hyper! Hyper! And, she has long limbs just like me too! They are both sooo funny, smart, and remind me so much of you!
I know that you're watching over them from Heaven. In fact, I know for a fact that Toby is quite aware of, and takes comfort in this fact! He's teaching Lucy to remember it too!
Ashley, I'd give anything to see your smile; hear your laughter; hug you, and tell you how much I love you again.
I know that one day I will be able to do all of those things, but God's plan for me seems to be far from over, so I'll have to continue to wait. Until that time, I will keep on doing my very best to be the "Favorite Auntie Cresta" for your children.
I'm going to continue to send messages to you when I talk to Jesus. I know that at least that way, you will always hear my words of love for you!
Six years, yet not ever to be forgotten, loved, and missed!
Give G.G., Aunt Estelle, Aunt Irene, and everyone else there with you in Heaven a big hug and kiss for me. I love you, Ashley!
Your Sister and Friend,
Cregga
Toby at the Audubon Zoo N.O. 2013
Toby Spencer
January 7, 2014
Cresta aka Cregga Brewer-McInnis
April 23, 2012
It is now April, 2012, and yet I still think of you every day. I had no idea the pain of your passing would remain this strong throughout these passing years. It is not so much pain actually as it is sorrow.
I like to think that you are watching from Heaven as your children grow. They are getting so big! Toby loves to read just like you, & Lucy is growing like her Auntie Cresta...all arms and legs. Ha! I'm so proud of them both. In fact, Pete told me that I am officially the, "Favorite Auntie!". My goal is complete! HAHA...
I read some letters Chelsea let me read that you had written & sent to her many yrs ago. I was shocked,and honored. I cried as I was reading them, and you mentioned me in nearly every one of them! I always knew I loved you very much, but I guess I didn't realize how much I also meant to you. It makes me happy to know!
Well Ashley, I will continue to miss you & think of you every day! Until I see you again, I love you dear seester!
Ashley Tucker
November 3, 2010
I didn't know Ashley but anyone who looses someone be it a friend of family member my heart goes out to them.
Abi McInnis
September 20, 2009
Ashley, it's been nearly two years and I miss you more than ever. Sometimes I wonder if this is ever going to get any easier.
I know u are in heaven and that brings me some peace, but the selfish part of me wants you here with us again.
One day. One day i'll see you in heaven. Till then, i'll continue to watch over your family and talk to you about how much they are growing. The kids look so much like you, especially LuLu! I know you watch from heaven, but i'll talk 2 u anyway.
MICHAEL MURRAY
June 16, 2008
Take comfort in knowing that now you have a special guardian angel to watch over you.
Suzie Purdy
June 13, 2008
I was devastated to learn today ( 6/13/08) that Ashley was no longer with us. I shall always remember the precious toddler and pre-schooler who seemed to be straight from the pages of Golden Books. And, who was always brighter than a new penny. And, of course, I remember Diane and Joe and Stephanie and Cresta as much loved backdoor neighbors.
It's Friday the 13th indeed to get this awful news from Carol Aregood who ran into Chelsea Reeves.
I know that Joe and Diane and Cresta and Stephanie will make sure that Lucy and Toby feel their mother's love everyday.
My love to you all. I cherish all the good memories we made together.
Leah Romo (Geter)
February 5, 2008
I knew Ashley back when we were in high school in Monroe, Louisiana. Ashley, Mindy, and I were pretty much stuck like glue until we moved and graduated. I always mourned the loss of our friendship but I would get glimpses of news from former friends about how much of a wonderful life she was leading. She is and will always be my little pooh bear....always a special place in my heart. Ashley is in the heavens looking down on us with the angels....with that beautifully shy smile of hers.
Kathy Trivette
January 28, 2008
Pete, Toby and Lucy
In our short time working together, I got to know Ashley, you and Toby. We all knew how much she loved her family and looked forward to the birth of Lucy. She often talked about how fast Toby was growing up, she longed for him to stay a baby just a little longer.
Ashley was truly a wonderful, sweet person. Her presence in our lives will be missed. Just know that God won't let you go through this by yourself - He'll be with you all the way. He'll give you the courage to carry on and give you the stength to handle whatever comes.
Denise Graven
January 23, 2008
I don't know Ashley nor do I know her family or friends but I do know the pain of losing a beloved child. I just want you to know that there are many of us out here that are suffering your same loss and we are here in numbers to help support you and each other. I am so very sorry for you loss and the huge void you will now forever struggle with each and every day.
Gowri Krishnan
January 21, 2008
Dear Peter, Toby, Lucy
reading the entries in the guestbook and on all the boards that Ash was active on, it is very obvious she was a very special person who touched so many lives in a positive way. my heart goes out to you and i pray that you are able to live and grow with her love and memory supporting you every step of the way.
Ashley,
you will be missed by all who knew you. Rest in peace, dear friend.
Craig Brewer
January 19, 2008
Dear Sweet Little Sis,
I don't feel that I've told you this enough, but I am so proud of you. For being the baby of the family, you sure grew up the right way quick and made such an impact on our world. I know you are with us in spirit. Toby and Lucy will know what a wonderful, positive, and loving human being you were. It warms my heart to know that you were happy. I am also amazed at how many lives that you had a positive effect on with your tremendous heart.
Pete,
Thank you so much for bringing light to Ashley's life. Brother, keep a positive spirit. I know you are and will continue to be a terrific father.
Susan Grantham
January 18, 2008
One only had to look at Ashley's sweet face to know what a sweet spirit she was. I recall her has a small child sitting in the back of her mom's van - with a shy smile and a friendly hello for her aunt's friends. Words cannot ease your feeling of loss - I am so sorry.
Cresta aka..Cregga Brewer
January 17, 2008
Ashley, I know that you are in heaven and at peace. I take great comfort in this fact. You are and forever will be the most amazing being i've ever known and love. You never judged me. Your love was unconditional, as is mine for you. You gave me the strength to face the many challenges in my life. You never gave up on me, even though many times I gave up on myself. I am so thankful to God for allowing me to let you know how grateful I am for showing me a different side of love, through Toby. My beautiful Ashley, my sister, my champion, my alli, my co-conspirator{wink-wink}, my hero, my friend, my inspiration, and still my source of courage...I will make certain that Lucy learns just how very special her mommy is and how precious she is to you. I will not let Toby's memories of you fade, and I will give every ounce of strength, love, and support i have to Peter and family. I love you so much Ashley. I pray that you know what an impact your love, laughter, strength, and grace had on all of us who knew you. I have always felt blessed to have you as a sister and a friend. Your wonderful loving spirit has changed us all for the better; however, all of us are struggling to concieve a tomorrow without you.
My words fail to convey just how much you were and forever will be loved and missed. There simply are no words to express how we miss you, and will forever love you.
God lent us an angel
To show us what "love"
truly means.
He gave her a voice,
though soft,immensely profound
Her love for the Lord
showed many the way
Her smile and laughter
more memories for us to save
And just as He intended
God brought her home.
Her gifts, are our blessing
And through us, her loving work
Will live on.
This is not goodbye, but simply, "I will see you when I am done." I love you, Ashley. I know that you are at peace.
Eileen Fourroux
January 15, 2008
Dear Pete,
As I read through all the wishes expressed in this guest book, I became aware of the numbers of people who Ashley touched across our country. So many of the expressions came from those whose only contact was via written words and not in person, yet they were so impacted by her virtue and incredible kindness. What a gift she had to share.
We can never understand the timing of tragedy but we trust Almighty God in all things. When questioning the "why" of this, I was consoled by the thought that Ashley loved Jesus more than life. Knowing how she loved her family that is a profound thought.
We take comfort knowing that she is enjoying the presence of God and that she has only preceded us to praise Him around the throne. We will see her again.
Until that precious time, teach your children about their mother and about the hope we have in Jesus. Know that there are many around the country who are praying for all of you. May the Lord Jesus encapsulate you with His peace that passes all understanding.
Sari Robinson
January 14, 2008
I want to thank all of you who have signed this guest book. It is great comfort to know that Ashley was so well loved and that Peter, Toby and Lucy will have your continued friendship and prayers. As her Aunt, I loved her more than I can say and will miss her terribly. Only through Jesus will we get through this.
Kelly
January 14, 2008
Just an iVillage mom offering my condolences to Pete and the kids. I didn't know Ashley, but from the looks of it, she was a wonderful mother and friend. I hope you are all able to heal soon from this tragic loss.
Chelsea Sekanic
January 13, 2008
As you know, Ash was one of my oldest and dearest friends. It seems like she's always been in my life. We have shared a lifetime of memories. I will never forget her sweet spirit. And, I can close my eyes and see her sheepish grin with those dimples and remember the way her shoulders shrugged when she laughed. She taught me so much, even at a young age. Ash always had a great sense of humor, although it was usually reserved for those she knew well. :) I count it an awesome privilege to have had the last 20 years with her. I don't know if I could adequately put into words how much I loved her and what an impact she had on my life. She truly walked in love. ...I love you all!
Chelsea
Staff of Dutchtown Pharmacy
January 13, 2008
Our hearts go out to the entire Spencer family, please know that you are all in our prayers.
Fran Rabalais
January 12, 2008
I sold Ashley and Peter their home in Prairie Village. My heart goes out to this family especially Peter, Toby, Lucy and Ashley's parents. I cannot begin to imagine your pain - my thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Corinne Perrine
January 11, 2008
Ashley, I will miss you and your sweet spirit. You had the best advice and the funniest stories. My life is better for having known you. My heart goes out to your husband and children in this difficult time, may they find peace.
Amanda Batty
January 11, 2008
I wish I was as good as Ashley was at finding just the right words. She always knew just what to say to make you feel a little better, to make you laugh and to make you smile. I will truly miss having such a great friend in my life.
My prayers will be with Pete, Toby and Lucy and the family during this trying time. I hope you find peace in the fact that she is with the angels and she will always be watching over you.
Cheryl Fischer
January 11, 2008
Pete, I may not have seen you or Ash in ages, but you have often been in my thoughts and prayers. I miss you and will miss Ashley more than I can comprehend right now. Your faith will see you through this, and Toby and Lucy will help just by existing. I love you all.
Mindy Boline
January 11, 2008
Ashley I will miss you greatly, I'm sorry for the world's loss. She was the most caring person I've ever met. I've never had a friend like her since, no one ever matched the qualities shes had. She is and always will be my best friend.
Jessica
January 11, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss.
Renee Yung
January 11, 2008
I only knew of Ashley through the November Moms-to-be message board on iVillage. I just wanted to say how sad I was to hear of her passing. My thoughts and prayers are with her family and especially little baby Lucy.
Holly Gomez
January 11, 2008
I was horrified to hear about Ashley. You are in our family's thoughts and prayers. I wasn't Ashley's best friend but she was such a wonderful person!
Susan Reynolds
January 11, 2008
Ashley was one of a kind. Soon after we met we talked kids often and she suffered through my grandmotherly advice with good humor and sass. I loved it.
Then we both started to look forward to the birth of baby Lucy and I even put her scheduled c-section date on my calendar. Living though her pregnancy was an exercise in reality and she made me laugh with every graphic wonderful description of the situation she was experiencing.
Though I'll never know the feeling her family has, I hope they see what joy she brought to others, even the night before her accident when she worried about her beloved LSU tigers' performance against my poor defeated Buckeyes. That playful caring Ashley will live forever in my memory.
Linda M
January 11, 2008
Ashley, I only knew you from the December 2005 Snugglers, but what showed from there was a beautiful, caring, kind, funny and compassionate woman. Words can not begin to describe what pain and grief anyone who knew you can be suffering. I hope your children will get to know you as they grow up and remember the vibrant and beautiful woman you were. Life is so short and for you, it ended way too soon. Your friends and family, no matter how well they knew you will surely have a void from missing you. I hope you are looking down from heaven on everyone and send your blessings. It's amazing that such a young life touched so many others in ways that can never be matched
bingomamma19 from December Snugglers
Jenna Kimbo
January 11, 2008
Ashley, Thank-you for touching my life.
Peter, I am so sorry for your loss,may the Lord strengthen, and comfort you and the kids at this very difficult time.
Amy Misner
January 11, 2008
Ashley was such a wonderful friend, wife and most important a wonderful mother. Her kids were the most important people to her and she will continue to watch over them from heaven. It is such a tragity to lose someone so young who is so full of life and love. The world has truly lost a very special person but heaven has gained a very special angel and someone to care for all the angel babies. I am truely sorry for your loss. She was a very important member of our Dec 05 Snugglers and she will be forever remembered in our hearts.
R Wrye
January 11, 2008
Your memories are a blessing to us all, Ashley. My thoughts and prayers are with Pete, Lucy, Toby, and the rest of the family. Ashley touched more lives, than she'll ever know.
Melanie Fry
January 11, 2008
Last night, as I got ready to sleep, I envisioned Ashley surrounded by angels in Heaven. There is no doubt in my mind that she is with the Lord. Ashley was never afraid to make her love for the Lord known. I know she is smiling down on her family today.
My deepest sympathy to Pete, Toby, sweet baby Lucy, and the rest of Ashley's family and friends. I've considered Ashley a friend of mine for the past two years, although I never had the pleasure of meeting her in person. She was truly a wonderful person and she is so greatly missed already.
Laura Morgan
January 11, 2008
I only knew Ashley through the message board on Ivillage but I could tell that she was a wonderful person with a great sense of humor. I know she is in Gods hands now and is watching over her babies and Peter. Her entire family has my deepest sympathy.
Glenda Bouvay
January 11, 2008
Heaven has truly received another special Angel. I will always remember Ashley's sweet, sweet spirit.
Cindy Guitrau
January 11, 2008
Pete and Family
Ashley will be missed --- How I will miss her smile at work and the love she had for everyone - always positive --- Pete she always talked about her beautiful family and love for them
Allison Van Alstine
January 11, 2008
Prayers to her family, love to Ashley.
Laura Prakel-George
January 11, 2008
To Ashley's family:
Please know that she has touched a world full of hearts that ache with you and burst with memories of her. There is not a corner of the world in which Ashley will ever be forgotten.
My deepest sympathy,
Julie T.
January 11, 2008
Although they won't feel your hand on their cheeks, your sweet little babies will always feel you in their hearts. We're missing you already Ash.
Kara & Kelsey's mama.
Kristi Johnston
January 11, 2008
Ashley was one of the most inspirational people in my life and yet I never met her. She showed me that I didn't have to be a perfect mom or wife, I just had to give it all I had. She convinced me that I needed to do whatever it took to make me better and not worry about what the outside world thought. I loved Ashley in my own way and miss her more than I thought possible of someone I never met. Neither the Ivillage snuggler group nor I will ever be the same since she's gone. I know she is in heaven watching down on all of us and being a very special guardian angel to her children. May we all find the peace that she has...
@doug e
January 11, 2008
Ashley I will miss talking with you everyday and every time the Tigers play I will think of you. God's peace be with you and your family.
Terri McLaren
January 11, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss, Ashley was a wonderful woman and touched so many lives!!! She will be greatly missed by many!!!
Rebecca Dohn
January 11, 2008
Peter, Toby and Lucy, our hearts go out to you. Try to stay strong for each other. We are all praying for you and your family.
Heather Long
January 11, 2008
Thanks for teaching me to live, love and laugh often Ashley! You will be forever missed.
Teressa Flye
January 11, 2008
Our lives are a bit emptier now that Ashley is gone, but fuller because she let us get to know her.
Karen Seymour
January 11, 2008
My deepest and heartfelt sympathy at this tragic loss of a wonderful wife/mother/daughter. My thoughts and prayers are with you all.
Sherylanne Lloyd
January 11, 2008
My deepest sympathy to the family. May God give you the comfort you will need to make it through this trying time. I will truly miss Ashley, her smile, and her friendliness that came naturally. She was one of a kind.
M.C. Dillingham
January 11, 2008
God bless you, Ashley. My thoughts and prayers are with the Spencer and Brewer families.
Lauren from ivillage
January 11, 2008
Ashley was a very special person. Our prayers are with her and all of her family.
Sunshyne Kersker
January 11, 2008
Sweet Ashley. You will be forever remembered as a kind and caring, wonderful friend. A beautiful soul, that touched and healed so many pains for others. I am so sorry that we had to see you go, but so glad I got to have you in my life for just a while. I hope you are at peace and watching your family wherever you are.
Thank you for being you Ashley.
Debbie Exsec2u
January 11, 2008
(((Pete, Toby, Lucy and family))) You have my deepest sympathy. Ashley was well loved by friends in all walks of life! She was a bright light that touched many lives and she will be greatly missed. Know that some of those who cannot travel to attend the service, will be lighting a candle in her honor. Her memory lives on in our hearts.
January 11, 2008
God Bless you and your family.You are missed by many.
from a mom on nov 07 board
Denise Westphal
January 11, 2008
Peter,
Words cannot express the sorrow we feel for your loss. Just know that you, Toby and Lucy are in our prayers and thoughts always. Stay strong and rely on the Lord and your loving family at St. Margaret's.
We love you and are so sorry!
Denise and Hayley Westphal
Kristen Midha
January 11, 2008
Ashley, you meant more to this world than you could ever know. Earth is a bleaker place without your smile. I hope you shine your love down on us from Heaven, and watch your beautiful daughter grow into a wonderful woman and your handsome son grow into a strong man, because with your genes and Peter's genes, and everyone around to show them what a person you were, there is no doubt they will shine in your image.
Emma Harvey
January 11, 2008
We will miss your wonderful sense of humor Ashley, your naturally supportive nature. My prayers are with you and your family, I will personally miss you so much on the December 2005 Playgroup.
Emma (britishmummy, IV Dec05)
Rosella Williams
January 11, 2008
Our prayers are with your family during this time. Tim's parents Sonny and Rosie Williams
Samantha Cooper
January 11, 2008
Ashley, you will sorely be missed. You were such a positive force in this world and will remain so through those you leave behind. Your beautiful babies carry the best of you forward, and I have no doubt that you are at peace now.
Erika Lefkowitz
January 11, 2008
Oh Ashley....I hope you're somewhere basking in how much you are truly loved. I wish you much peace. You brought light and love into so many lives...how much you'll be missed is impossible to express in words. I love you!!
Peter, Toby, and Lucy and the rest of Ashley's family -- Saying I'm sorry for your loss is an understatement. I hope your love for each other helps you be strong through your grief. God Bless you all.
Annie Pecue
January 11, 2008
I just want to offer my deepest sympathy to Peter and the kids. Also to The Brewer and Spencer Families. I worked at St. Margaret's Church Office and also helped out in the Nursery. I did not know Ashley well, but what I did see in Ashley was a gentle, loving mother. Everytime I saw her she was smiling and friendly. A time like this is never easy, I will continue to keep the families in my prayers.
Debbie & Gary Francis
January 11, 2008
Ashley, you were a wonderful wife, mother, daughter, sister and our friend. You will truely be missed by us all. The wonderful times our families shared with you will never be forgotten. There will be a huge void in all our lives without your smiling face and loving heart. To our dear Brewer and Spencer friends, our prayers are with you all for comfort and may the peace and love of our Lord be with you always.
Elaine
January 11, 2008
Pete and family, I hope you can get the strength from God to help you all through this time. Ashley will be dearly missed.My heart goes out to you at this time and in the days ahead.
Tracy Nicolosi
January 11, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. Your family is in my thoughts and prayers. Please let me know if I can do anything for you.
Corey Walker
January 11, 2008
Ashley will be greatly missed by all her fellow Snuggler Mamas. We miss you Ash!!!
A Wesley Funeral Home & Staff
January 11, 2008
May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.
Bernadine Poole (Co-Worker)
January 11, 2008
Ashley will truly be missed. May God bless each of you.
Sherry Efferson
January 11, 2008
Dear Peter, Toby, Lucy and all of Ashley's family,
I wish I had the words to say how sorry I am for the loss of a young woman as wonderful as Ashley. Ashley loved her family with every fiber of her being. She loved the Lord. She loved her friends. That sweet smile could make any day a better day for me. I'll miss her. I know that while we greive, Heaven is so much brighter and better with our Ashley there. I believe with all my heart that we will be together with her again. I know she and the Lord will watch over all those she loved in the short time we were blessed with her presence. My heart, my love and my prayers are with you all. Peter - my brother sends his condolences and prayers too.
proud Papa
January 11, 2008
Beautiful faces
January 11, 2008
Ashley and Lucy
January 11, 2008
Liz Hertensen
January 11, 2008
Goodbye Ashley. I only knew you briefly, but you were an amazing person to talk to, you were always there when someone needed you and you will be greatly missed.
Mollya Haley
January 11, 2008
Peter and Family,
We only had Ashley in our work family for a short time, but we all were so very fond of her. Her sweet disposition and her willingness to tackle any project given her endeared her to me immensly. I always told her she was my "at work daughter" because she was the same age as my youngest daugher, and Toby was born the same time my grandson was born. I will surely, surely miss her. My prayers are with you all, and always remember, God does not give us more than we can handle in one day. God's peace.
Mollya Haley
IT Business Support
Janelle Riche
January 11, 2008
With love from one of Maggie's Warrior's to another.
Michele Rabalais
January 11, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. Ashley was always such a sweet person and I will miss her beautiful smile. My thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
Barbara Dirks
January 11, 2008
Dear Peter,
I met you and Ashley at Holy Spirit during the Alpha course. You both touched everyone's hearts with your love for one another and for life. You and your children are in my earnest prayers. This is a terrible, shocking loss for everyone.
From the Staff of Ourso Funeral Home
January 11, 2008
Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.
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