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Donald Toups Obituary

"I have fought the good fight, I have finished the course, I have kept the faith." 2 Timothy 4:7. Donald died at his home in Prairieville on Tuesday, Sept. 9, 2008, after a lengthy and courageous battle with brain cancer. He was 66 and a native of Abbeville. He was a teacher and coach at Abbeville High for 14 years. He later moved to Baton Rouge in 1978 and spent the next 30 years as a State Farm Insurance agent. He is survived by his wife of 46 years, Sally Doré Toups; daughter, Tanyau Hughes and husband Bart, Baton Rouge; two sons, Chris and wife Delle Braud Toups, Baton Rouge, and Michael and wife Marla Diez Toups, Gonzales; eight grandchildren, Reid, Colin, Anna, Ryan, Natalie, Kason, Logan and Landon; sister, Brenda Toups Atchetee, Marietta, Ga.; stepmother, Marietta Toups, Abbeville; mother-in-law, Sidonia Doré, New Iberia; brother-in-law, Sterling Doré, New Iberia; and nieces, Julie Atchetee Jenkins and Janine Atchetee Lewin, both of Georgia. Preceded in death by his parents, Whitney and Velmae Thibodeaux Toups. Visiting at Ourso Funeral Home, Gonzales on Friday, Sept. 12, from 5 p.m. to 9 p.m. Visiting at St. John the Evangelist Catholic Church, Prairieville, on Saturday from 9 a.m. until Mass of Christian Burial at 10:30 a.m., with the Rev Michael Allelo, celebrant. Interment in Hope Haven Cemetery Prairieville. Pallbearers will be Kenny Almond, Tom Core, Jim Crane, Ed Domingue, Lindsey Landry, J.Y. Mula, Keith Thibodeaux and David Wilcox. Honorary pallbearers are Jeffrey Meaux and Jim Morel. A special thanks to St. Joseph Hospice and Synergy Home Care for their special care of Donald during his illness. In lieu of flowers, memorial donations may be made to the Mary Bird Perkins Cancer Center, 4950 Essen Lane, Baton Rouge, LA 70809 or to St. Joseph Hospice, 8923 Bluebonnet Blvd., Baton Rouge, LA 70810.

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Published by The Advocate from Sep. 11 to Sep. 12, 2008.

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Rob & Monica Musemeche

September 20, 2008

Dear Toups Family,
As the days and weeks pass, and as you return to life's routine, may you continue to feel comforted by the love and support of family and friends.

Millie Peterson

September 18, 2008

Dear Sally,
We have been out of state and just heard of Donald's passing away. I have been praying for you and your family. I know God has given you the strength to carry this heavy cross and he will continue to be your source of strength.
Please accept my sincerest condolences!

Mike & Beverly Summers

September 17, 2008

Dear Toups family,
Over a span of 30 years as a customer of S.F. agent Donald, I chose to stay with him over often less expensive offers because I recognized Donald's high standard of integrity. I always trusted his advice. You should really be proud of his life's work and know that he'll sorely be missed by many. God bless you through these times.

sandra cook

September 16, 2008

Dear Toups Family, Bill and I are so sorry to hear about Don. We still tell our friends about what a great cook he was, and how much we liked the whole family. Kenny just emailed me the obit in the paper. I will have to tell Chris.
Our sincere condolences,
Bill,Sandra, Chris and Kenny Cook

Eddie, Marilyn & John Lambert

September 14, 2008

Coach Toups & family, we are so sorry for your loss. We were not aware of your dad's passing until reading remarks by Kenny Almond in the Sunday paper today. Please accept our deepest sympathies.

Morris and Karen Boley

September 13, 2008

We are sorry for your loss. You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Luanne Pusateri

September 13, 2008

Dear Tanyau, Bart, Chris and Delle,
We were very sad to see that your father was ill and passed away. We know you will miss him. Know that your are in our thoughts and prayers.
Luanne, John, David and Joey Pusateri

Walter Calhoun & Family

September 12, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Fati Fuchs

September 12, 2008

Miss Sally, Tanyau, Chris and Mike,

May the memories of Mr. Toups give you comfort and peace in this time of sorrow.

I will never forget all the times he made me laugh so hard when I was in Baton Rouge hanging around your family. What a great guy! We will sadly miss him but know that he is happy in heaven. May God Bless you and out thoughts and prayers are with you.

All our love,

Fati, Tom, Christopher, Nicholas and Carly.

Tommy Picard

September 12, 2008

Sally, Tanyau, Chris and Mike:

I for one really respected Coach Toups. Rachel and I really enjoyed the times at the camp and really was glad to be able to spend a few minutes with Coach. He really taught me a lot about respect and hard work. As a person who didn't coach for a living, but did it on a part time basis. I took a lot that he taught me and passed in on to my kids. Rachel and I have all of you'll in our player and really are sad about your lost.

Sammy Theriot

September 12, 2008

Mrs. Toups and Family,
Representing the "Wildcat Family" here in Abbeville from 1969-1972 and since, we all will miss "Coach". Bobby Russo and Ray Gaspard join with me in reassuring you what a great man, coach, leader, and inspiration he was to us. He taught us well the words respect, commitment, and tenacity...all of which he modeled for us. We are all much better off because of his example of life to us. May God bless your family at this time of sorrow and know you are in our prayers. Coach will always be in our thoughts and words as we gather to remember him.

Respectfully,
Sammy Theriot, AHS 1971-72 Wildcat Captain

Ray Gaspard

September 12, 2008

I was a deffensive and offensive lineman for the Abbeville Wildcats, we one our district championship in 1972 thanks to Coach Toups. He was tough, but he was fair and really knew how to handle his end of scrimmage line. Travel well Coach, you were one of the greats.

Ray Gaspard

Kenneth & Madeleine Denoux

September 12, 2008

Mrs. Sally, Mike and the Toups Family,

Our thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

We enjoyed talking to Don at the baseball games and especially at the baseball camp at Mississippi State a couple of years ago. He was a really nice guy. We talked about Abbeville whenever we talked because I lived there as a kid and we are both the same age.

Again, our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Vickie Garon

September 12, 2008

Mike & Marla and family, I am very sorry for the loss of your loved one. Duane and I are praying for your peace at this time.God will take care of us all, we just have to ask for it.
Duane & Vickie Garon

From the Staff of Ourso Funeral Home

September 12, 2008

Offering our deepest condolences during this difficult time.

DENNIS & EDYLENE HEBERT

September 11, 2008

DEAR SALLY AND FAMILY,
DENNIS AND I WERE PLANNING TO MAKE THE SERVICES, BUT DUE TO "IKE" WE SEEM TO HAVE TO MAKE OTHER PLANS. WE ARE SO SORRY FOR YOUR LOSS AND WISH WE KNEW HOW TO MAKE THINGS EASIER. WE PRAYED FOR ALLOF YOU AND WE WILL MISS THE "LITTLE GUY WITH THE BIG CIGAR". ALWAYS, EDYLENE AND DENNIS

Claude and Barbara Simoneaux

September 11, 2008

May God bless you and your family in this time of sorrow.

Holly & Craig Wolverton

September 11, 2008

Mrs. Sally, Mike, Marla and the entire Toups Family:

We are so sorry for your loss. Hopefully each day will get alittle better for all of you. We have all only known Mr. Don for a short time but do have some great memories with him at the ballpark. He will be missed dearly. I only wished I had visted one last time before heading back to Alaska. Your family is very strong and with the help of each other and your friends you will get through this difficult time. Our prayers are with all of you.

Chief James E. LeBlanc

September 11, 2008

The employess of the Honeywell Geismar Facility join in extending heartfelt sympathy to the entire Toups family at this time of sorrow.

Remi Brignac

September 11, 2008

Ms. Sally, Tanyau, Chris, and Michael,

It saddens me to hear of Mr. Don's passing. Please accept my deepest condolences during your time of sorrow.
When I first moved to Baton Rouge, your family was the first for me to meet. Mr. Don always made me feel welcome when I came over to hang out with Chris and Michael. I will cherish all the good memories I have of Mr. Don (especially when I am out at the ballpark). He was always at the ballpark with us as we were growing up and playing ball.
He was a great family man, husband and father that will be sorely missed. I will keep you all in my prayers at this time and in the days ahead.

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