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John Romano Obituary
John "J.J." Romano Jr., 40, known to those closest to him as J.J., passed away suddenly on Sunday, Dec. 18, 2011.
He was a graduate of Vineland High School, a graduate of Cumberland County College and Rowan University. Born and raised in Vineland, for the past two years John was employed at the Law Office of Seymour Wasserstrum as a legal assistant in the loan modifications department. Colleagues and clients alike will remember him for "going above and beyond to help others in need." John also worked part time as a catering organizer for the Beth Israel Synagogue. He loved to socialize, ride horses, dance, sing and take trips to the casino. He enjoyed living life to the fullest and will be remembered by loved ones as having a smile that could light up any room.
He is survived by his mother, Jean Romano; brother, Eddie Maddalena, both of Vineland; three nephews, Matthew, Jimmy and Joe; two nieces, Danielle and Carol; and several cousins. John is predeceased by his father, John Romano Sr. of Vineland; brother, Vincent Romano; and sisters, Carol Marandino and Lori Maddalena. "J.J. lit up my life, if love could keep him alive, he would live forever."
Funeral services will be held at 5 p.m. Wednesday. Burial will be private. Friends will be received from 3 to 5 p.m. Wednesday at the DeMarco-Luisi Funeral Home, 2755 S. Lincoln Ave., Vineland.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to Newfield Bank, Sixth and Landis Ave., Vineland, NJ 08360 to the John Romano Jr. Memorial Fund.
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Memories and Condolences
for John Romano
Marion Blakeman
December 18, 2024
I will always remember John as he was my third grade student at Durand School.
Darleen Freeman
December 30, 2011
JJ...we had some wonderful times although too little...always a smile and laughter. We had many deep conversations that I will never forget. Peace be with you my friend until we meet again. Love always, Dar
Gary Capizola
December 28, 2011
I will always remember that JJ had a smile on his face all the time. May the Lord bless his soul and welcome him into the Kingdom of Heaven. To Jeanie, Eddie and the rest of the family: Our thoughts and prayers are with you all. May the Lord comfort you in your time of grief. Gary & Cindy
Desiree Hillegass
December 28, 2011
I love you JJ. I will miss you more then you could have ever imagined. I am glad that I had the pleasure of working with you! Watch over us my love<3
Jackie Fanelli
December 27, 2011
My deepest sympathies to all of you. I will alway's remember all the good times shared with your family.
December 27, 2011
My deepest sympathies to the family of JJ. I will always remember him fondly as the smiling, friendly little third grader. I was fortunate enough to meet up with JJ during one of the catering events at Beth Israel Synagogue and catch up on his life. I will place JJ's name on the memorial tree at Durand Elementary School and find his picture in my class photos to put in the Memorial book along with his obituary. I will work hard to put this together in the next several weeks. JJ will not be forgotten...Sincerely, Marion Blakeman, JJ's third grade teacher at Durand School.
Sharon Masters
December 27, 2011
JJ....Your smile and laughter will be remembered. My condolences to your family.
Charleen Pullia
December 26, 2011
I'm so sorry to the family, my prayers are with you all.JJ was a wonderful person may he make everyone in heaven smile as he did here on earth
Lisa Graiff
December 26, 2011
J.J.-Your soul was always kind and the world is missing someone who had so much more to offer. It is our loss here not to have you in our presence, but it is God's gain to have you in his grace. You will be missed by many.
Melissa Comparri
December 25, 2011
Deepest sympathies to the Romano family.
JJ, your bright smile will be forever missed. I light this candle in your memory.
December 25, 2011
"My First Christmas in Heaven"
I see t...he countless Christmas trees around the world below
With tiny lights like heaven's stars reflecting on the snow.
The sight is so spectacular please wipe away that tear
For I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.
I hear the many Christmas songs that people hold so dear
But the sounds of music can't compare with the Christmas choir up here.
I have no words to tell you of the joy their voices bring
For it is beyond description to hear the angels sing.
I know how much you miss me, I see the pain inside your heart
For I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.
I can't tell you of the splendor or the peace here in this place
Can you just imagine Christmas with our Savior face to face?
I'll ask him to lift your spirit as I tell you of your love
So, then pray for one another as you lift your eyes above.
Please let your hearts be joyful and let your spirit sing
For I am spending Christmas with Jesus Christ this year.
Becky LaSpada
December 25, 2011
Jeanne:
My sincerest condolences go out to you and the rest of your family. No mother should have such pain as in losing a child. Not once, but three times.
You are in my thoughts and prayers and, I know you have faith in Our Lord, that He has a purpose and a reason for this. May he sustain you now.... and forever.
Your friend and co-worker,
Becky
Jerome Lukas
December 25, 2011
To the entire Romano family:
I am so saddened to hear of this wonderful young man's passing and how difficult it must be for all you to celebrate Christmas while mourning the loss of this vital family member.
May the Holy Spirit comfort you and endear J.J.'s memory in your hearts and may his warm, loving smile encourage you to do great things in his honor.
May the Lord walk with you and share the deep passions of His heart for you and bring you peace and comfort like only He can bring.
My heart and prayers are with you, especially Mayor Bob.
Jerry Lukas
lisa skinner miles
December 25, 2011
Lighting this candle today for you JJ. Merry Heavenly Christmas my friend. Thinking of you today...
Chrissy Valentin
December 25, 2011
U were such a nice guy. My heart goes out to his family. May God give you strength through this difficult time. Ill miss u John!
Chrissy Valentin
December 25, 2011
I miss you so much. You always use come to my job and we would talk together like we have been friends forever. You are the sweetest guy I know. Heaven just gained another Angel.
Jason Scalzi
December 24, 2011
Thoughts and prayers go out to the Romano family and all those who knew JJ. Your smile always brought joy to those who knew you. The Scalzi Family
sophia vai
December 24, 2011
J.J. may you rest in peace. Give Vinnie a big hug and kiss from me. Keep smiling!!! <3
Shannon Esposito-Dagostino
December 24, 2011
JJ I will never forget you or all the memories we shared, the times we laughed and even the times we cried. You were truly a great guy who always knew just what to say or how to make someone smile. I will remember you always, RIP honey, you will be so missed!!! xoxox
Robin Carter
December 24, 2011
My condolences go out to his friends and family.
buddy pritchard
December 24, 2011
J.J., your light will forever shine...
~buddy~
buddy pritchard
December 24, 2011
JJ, u will be miss by all, but NEVER forgotten...with a kind heart and open mind, u were always able to brighten up a room...Rest In Peace my friend
December 24, 2011
Although i haven't seen JJ for a few years since he lost interest in horses i have many fond memorys of him.I'll miss you my friend.Chay Johnston
Stephanie Burns
December 24, 2011
JJ was one of my sweetest friends. His smile could light up a room, and his laugh was so infectious. I will remember fondly and with lots of love. Keep your smile on, JJ. I will miss you always!
Melissa Cavanaugh
December 24, 2011
JJ was a kind a loving person who no matter what always put others first before himself...he will be deeply missed
December 24, 2011
JJ We will always remember how your smile would light up a room and what a kind and gentle heart you had. We will miss you! George & Wendy
darrell boyd
December 24, 2011
rest in peace jj.
Kay Marcacci Capelli
December 24, 2011
JJ...such a kind,gentle person...Working with you was always an adventure...You endured so much in your life...RIP my friend...you will be missed...
Leo Marie
December 24, 2011
We will miss you.
Debbie Queen-Ballurio
December 24, 2011
We will forever remember your wonderful smile and loud laugh. You will forever remain in our hearts at The Law Office of Seymour Wasserstrum.
Kerri Geissel(Ehlman)
December 24, 2011
Jean,
I am so sorry to hear about J.J. He was a great person.
My thoughts and prayers are with you at this hard time.
Law office of Seymour wasserstrum Wasserstrum
December 24, 2011
Forever in our hearts.
David Huber
December 24, 2011
Very sorry to hear of your passing. A gentle and kind soul who cared for others.
Kelli Mattioli
December 24, 2011
Rest in Peace J.J. Your smile will light up the sky. You will be sadly missed but never forgotten.
Staff of Seymour Wasserstrum
December 24, 2011
We will miss your beautiful smile and loud laughter and your morning dancing in the hallways. You were a great co-worker and wonderful friend!
sherry andrews
December 24, 2011
You will never be forgotten with your contageous smile..you will be sadly missed J.J! May you rest in peace. :'(
December 24, 2011
I send my most heartfelt condolences to J.J.'s family and friends. The loss of your loved one at any time is a sorrowing time indeed. Please hold your hearts to that precious light of knowing how many lives J.J. touched during his short time with all of you. God Bless!
Gino Milita, formerly of Vineland, NJ
Angie Link-Dennis
December 24, 2011
JJ...my heart is forever broken. You were the best friend a person could have. Love you always.
Diana Pitman
December 24, 2011
I first met J J many years ago when he was a waiter at Brewster Villa. Through the years he has always been a ray of sunshine even when his heart was hurting with all his personal losses. Now my heart aches for his mother Jean. My she know that J J is the brightest star in the dark sky! Love you J J.
Parth A Eubanks-Leach
December 24, 2011
John and I had a photography class together at VHS in 1985. He had a smile that reached from ear to ear.
lisa skinner miles
December 24, 2011
You touched so many lives with your smile and laugh. I will hold all the memories of you close to my heart. You were a great friend and i am honored to have known you. Will miss you dearly JJ. But i know you are watching over us and smiling. RIP dear friend.
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