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Thomas Polhamus Obituary
AGE: 55 • Vineland
Mr. Thomas S. "Tom" Polhamus, 55, of Vineland, NJ passed away suddenly on Tuesday evening March 14, 2017 in the Inspira Medical Center, Vineland, NJ. Tom was born in Elmer & raised in Vineland where he remained a lifelong resident.
Tom has worked in the computer industry all of his life and was presently employed by BT Americas, Princeton, NJ as a computer analyst. He was very talented with his hands as well, doing carpentry work and automotive mechanics working on cars. He was a longtime member of the Nostalgia Knights Car Club & the 1st State Corvair Club.
He is survived by his wife; Sandie Polhamus, son; Scott (Vickie) Polhamus, daughter; Allison Polhamus, grandson; Joshua Polhamus, father & mother; Fred & Rita Polhamus, sisters; Debra (Mark) Seeto, Carolyn (Dennis) Woodard, father & mother in-law; Doug & Kathy Tadajewski, stepchildren; Jason (Kristen) Terris, Patrick Terris, Justin (Nadia) Terris, step grandchildren; Timmy, Dominick, Daniel, Lily Ann, Jared, Ashli & Kayla. As well as many Aunts, Uncles, Cousins, nieces & nephews.
Relatives & friends will be received on Monday March 20 from 9:30-11:00 AM at the Pancoast Funeral Home, 676 S. Main Rd., Vineland, NJ where his funeral service will be conducted at 11 AM. Cremation & Inurnment will follow. For those who wish, memorial contributions may be made to the N.J. Veterans Memorial Home "Activities Fund", 524 N.W. Blvd., Vineland, NJ 08360. To e-mail condolences & or tributes, please visit www.pancoastfuneralhome.com
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susan pennington
March 11, 2021
Forever Always in my heart
Abby Simmons
March 20, 2017
To Aunt Rita & Family
My deepest condolences go out to your family. It was wonderful to get to talk to you guys at Grandmom Jean's 90th birthday party. I pray your family find the strength to heal during this difficult time. May you find comfort in the fact that he lived his life to the fullest and now he is at peace. Rest easy, Tom.
Steven & Mair Simmons
March 19, 2017
Uncle Fred, Aunt Rita and family; I want you to know I enjoyed being in Thomas's company the night of Jean's birthday. Thomas was a kind, friendly, respectful man to talk to and very passionate about his family. A wonderful person. So sorry for your loss.
Love, Mair and Steve Simmons
March 18, 2017
Fred & Rita,
Condolances on your loss.
Cliff & Millie Shield
March 17, 2017
March 17. 2017
Our thoughs and prayers are with you and family. We have fond memories of Tom when he was in our youth group.
Grace & Dom Bianco
Kathy Webb
March 17, 2017
Debbie and family, love and prayers being sent to the entire family.
Sarah Acton
March 17, 2017
Many thoughts and prayers are with the entire family.
Special Condolences to my dear college friend, Debbie Seeto. Siblings are our first friends. So sorry for your loss.
Linda Barth
March 17, 2017
Rita , Fred and Family, So very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you ! Joe and Linda Barth
March 17, 2017
With deepest sympathy, Michael & Stephanie Fidiaj
March 17, 2017
THINKING OF ALL THE FAMILY IN YOUR TIME OF SORROW, FOND MEMORIES OF TOMMY AND FAMILY WHEN WE WERE MUCH YOUNGER!!!
SO SORRY TO HEAR OF HIS PASSING!!! YOUR COUSIN TRACY( POLHAMUS) USHLER
susan pennington
March 16, 2017
Rita, Fred, Carolyn, Debbie and to Tommy's wife, children and entire family. My deepest sympathy and with a broken heart, sending all my love and prayers. Sue
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