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Alice Regina "Lady Slipper" Kirchner

Alice Regina "Lady Slipper" Kirchner obituary, Norwich, CT

Alice Kirchner Obituary

Norwich - Alice Regina Lady Slipper Kirchner, wife of the late Carl Anthony Kirchner and eldest member of the Mashantucket Pequot Langevin family line, passed away on April 20, 2010, at The William W. Backus Hospital after a lengthy illness. She was 85.

Born on Oct. 6, 1924, she was the daughter of the late Joseph Guevremont and the late Alice Guevremont Brend. She lived on the Mashantucket Pequot Reservation in her early years, where she attended the Cider Mill School. She moved to Norwich and graduated from the Norwich Free Academy in 1943. She attended The Backus Hospital School of Nursing, graduating as a registered nurse in 1945, and began her career in nursing at The Backus Hospital and then the Norwich State Hospital until her retirement in the early 1970s.

Regina, as she was fondly called by her friends and relatives, married Carl Anthony Kirchner on Sept. 15, 1946, at the Central Baptist Church in Norwich.

She enjoyed many special pastimes during her life, such as sewing, dancing, and traveling with friends all over the world. She was an accomplished basket maker and gave her baskets to the special people in her life. She was very involved in her church, the Central Baptist Church in Norwich, serving on the women's league and the Diaconate for many years, as well as teaching Sunday school when her children were young.

After moving back to Mashantucket in the early 1980s, Regina was a very committed and caring tribal elder. She served on the Elders Council, Peacemakers, and the Pre-trial Intervention Commission. She also was very active with the first Constitution Review Committee in the early 1990s, spending many years helping to provide recommendations for reform of the Tribe's constitution and by-laws.

Regina moved from the Mashantucket Pequot Reservation to StoneRidge in Mystic in 2006. There she was as involved as possible in the health committee and book club, meeting old friends and making new ones.

Regina Kirchner is survived by her son, Bruce Kirchner and his wife, Sande, of Watch Hill, R.I., and her daughter, Barbara Poirier and her husband, Raymond, of Mystic; a brother, Gary Brend and his wife, Diane, of Tampa, Fla.; her grandchildren, Erin Guyot Thomas, Jason Guyot, Carl Kirchner, and Myles Kirchner; and her great-grandchildren, Chanel Thomas and Quinten Fratus. She is also survived by numerous nieces, nephews, and cousins; and her extended Mashantucket Pequot family. Regina loved her family and was a very caring and generous daughter, mother, aunt, grandmother, and great-grandmother. She will be sorely missed by all who knew her.

Her brother, Joseph Guevremont and his wife, Luz, predeceased her.

There will be a memorial service at 11 a.m on Saturday, May 8, 2010, at the Central Baptist Church, 2 Union St., Norwich. Interment will be private.

In lieu of flowers, donations in her memory may be made to the Mashantucket Pequot Museum and Research Center, 110 Pequot Trail, PO Box 3180, Mashantucket CT 06338-3180 or the Smile Train, 41 Madison Ave., 28th Floor, New York NY 10010.

The Cummings-Gagne Funeral Home in Norwich has been entrusted with the funeral arrangements. Condolences may be shared with the family at www.cummings-gagnefh.com

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Apr. 23, 2010.

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Ann Fournier Petta Claybaugh

May 21, 2010

Dear Barbara, Bruce and Family, I have fond memories of Reggie almost all of my adult life. One of the most memorable was her trip with my mother to visit us here in Texas. Reggie was a wonderful lady! She will be truly missed. All of you are in my prayers. Fondly, Ann and family

Bobbie James Thompson

May 18, 2010

Barbara and family,
It's so hard to lose a parent. Cherish your times together.

Gary Brend

April 30, 2010

Dear Family,
Although I am deeply saddened by the loss of your mother and my only sister, I am comforted by our fine memories together. I know she is in God's memory too, and in His due time He will awaken her from "sleep" and like Jesus' friend, Lazarus we will welcome her back to life along with all our loved ones who have died. (John 5:28,29)

Mary Burns

April 26, 2010

Dear Barbara, Bruce, & family,
Please accept my sincere condolences. May you find comfort in the memories of your mother and loved one that will continue to live on in your heart.

Elaine Fournier

April 26, 2010

Bruce & Barbara: Your mother was such a good friend to my mother and a great help in her transition into Stone Ridge. I so enjoyed having lunch with her and their little gang in the dining room and will missing see her. All the Fournier's will pray for you and your families.

Heidi McDonough

April 25, 2010

Bruce, Sandie, Karl & Myles, my heartfelt sympathy to your entire family on the loss of your mother, mother in-law and grandmother. I think of you all often and send hugs and prayers your way as you heal through this difficult time. Love Heidi McDonough

April 25, 2010

Barbara, Ray, Bruce, Erin, Jason and Family,

I am so deeply saddened to have learned about your Mom and Grandmother. Please accept my condolences and know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. Mother's are truly special, and Alice was no exception. She gave great meaning to the phrase, "Good things come in small packages."

Saying good-bye to a loved one is never easy, but remember - even though she is not here, she lives on in all of you. Her gestures of love, friendship, caring, goodwill and kindness are all a part of who you are and your spirits now as you go forward in your lives. I am thinking of you all and hope that God will grant you peace and comfort until you meet again.

Love and God Bless,

Jane A. Mueller

April 25, 2010

Bruce & Family:

We express our deepest sympathy for your loss. Your Mom was a lady that lived a very active life. I know that you and the family have many fond memories of the good times you shared.
We always had a good time talking with her at your home.
Love:
Bill & Pat Mignault

Billy Shafman

April 23, 2010

Bruce,
So sorry to hear about the loss of your mother. I think of you and your family often.
~ Billy Shafman

James Cortina

April 23, 2010

Bruce, Barbara, Gary, Erin & Jason, my heartfelt sympathy goes out to you, family and friends. Sadly, Mashantucket has lost one of its finest citizens, a community has lost a friend and the family has lost an example of character who they will love and respect forever. I would like you to know that a lot of people will pray for you, and my hope is that their prayers will give you the strength necessary to move on. Know that she will always be with you wherever you may be. In the days to follow, may you be strengthened by the fact that she will always be admired for her deeds and noble qualities. I will miss her friendly smile and greetings when ever we met but most of all will never forget the memories of Alice.

April 23, 2010

Bruce-My sympathy to you and your family. I remember working with your mother on LW3 when I was in Psy Aide training and she was a fine lady who taught me much. take care. Dick Wilber

Arthur E. Richards Msgt USAF ret.

April 23, 2010

Bruce Your Mother was a fine person and certainly left a Legacy as a Mother and person. You were fortunate having had each other- both could not have done better!

Cheryl Bennett

April 23, 2010

Barbara and Family,

So sorry for your loss. I always enjoyed Ms Kirchner's wisodom and company while working at Tribal Court with her. My thoughts are with you at this difficult time. Your memories will help you through.

My Condolences, Cheryl P Bennett

(-=< Ray 'n' Mindy Hamilton >=-)

April 23, 2010

Dear Ray, Barbara, and the entire Kirchner Family,

Understanding the hole left behind, regardless the inevitability or forewarning, pray this helps some wee bit...to allow...enable…the grief, which is a sad, but necessary part of loss! I’m a friend of Ray’s from EB, and so truly sorry to hear about your mom. Trust that now she’s at peace with our Lord…definitely keepin’ y’all in our prayers!

When my mother died, even after a years-long battle with cancer, I was shattered by the loss…inconsolable…she was my mentor! I like to think that I got my character from my father, but my mind and its capacity from m’dear sainted mother!!! BUT, "If your faith assures you she's in heaven, then what are the tears all about?!?" I hold eternity with My God dearly close...a cherished, hard-won prize...but, in the interim, that answer lies below.

SELFISH TEARS
(I Eulogize My Beloved Mother - March, 1989)

Today we cry...must admit they're selfish tears.
You see...our faith assures your journey's done.
But it's not for you we mourn, at all, my dear;
It's for those of us you've left behind...alone!!!

We share your joy...share your happiness at rest,
Your painful fears now for forever stilled.
You've fought the good fight, passed the final test,
But you've left behind a hole that can't be filled!!!

So, until we each rejoin you some someday,
And, while your memory buoys us through those years,
We'll miss you...but continue on our way,
And, from time to time, we'll cry our selfish tears!!!

Ray Hamilton (c) March 19, 1989

Our sincerest condolences and prayers,

April 23, 2010

Bruce, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
Sincerely, Margot Porazzi

June LeClair

April 23, 2010

Bruce,
My sincere sympathy to you and your family on the loss of your mother.

Paula Tedesco

April 23, 2010

Dear Barbara and family, my condolences.I remember Barbara from school and saw this in the paper.All my prayers are with you.

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