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Benedict Minik Obituary

Mystic - Benedict Minik, 71, husband of Eleanor (Burke) Minik of Mystic, died Friday morning, Jan. 23, 2009, at Lawrence & Memorial Hospital in New London.

Born in Hartford on May 17, 1937, he was the son of the late Olga (Laskevich) Erwinski.

He was honorably discharged from the U.S. Coast Guard and prior to his retirement, was the department manager in respiratory therapy at The William W. Backus Hospital in Norwich.

Ben had many hobbies including boating and fishing and was happiest when spending time with family and friends. He was also a volunteer at the Mystic Seaport.

On Sept. 14, 1957, in Hartford, he was united in marriage to Eleanor (Burke) Minik, who survives.

Surviving, along with his wife, are four sons, Stephen J. Minikowski of Somers, Mark J. Minik of Kent Island, Md., William J. Minik of Hertford, N.C., and Paul J. Minik of Pebble Beach, Calif.; seven grandchildren, Laura, Katie, Michael, Jessica, Callan, Ben, and P.J.; two brothers, Gerald Minikowski of Mystic and David Minikowski of Colchester; a sister, Myra Steele of Ellington; and several nieces and nephews.

There is no visitaion. Services and interment will be private and at the convenience of the family.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made in his memory to the Mystic-Noank Library, 40 Library St., Mystic CT 06355.

Arrangements by Labenski Funeral Home.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Jan. 24, 2009.

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Beth and Lenny Burke

January 28, 2009

Eleanor,
We are sending all our hugs, prayers and warm thoughts your way. We had a family slide show Saturday and I added to great pictures of Ben. One was at Carols Wedding toasting with a beer and the other was a family reunion picture with Ben sitting over a bucket of what I think is oysters doing all the dirty work. It warmed our hearts to see his smile. Love to you and the entire family.

Debra (Eydenta) Callahan

January 28, 2009

Ellie, Steve, Mark, Bill, & Paul,
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of Ben. Such a truly wonderful man throughout his whole life. I am so glad I got to see him last summer after so many years. He provided many happy memories, especially at the lake!

Michelle and JC (Beauregard) Christiansen

January 26, 2009

Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time. I will remember "Uncle Ben" with fond memories.

Anne Robinson

January 25, 2009

Aunt Eleanor, Steve, Mark, Bill and Paul: I am so very sorry to hear about Uncle Ben. His presence will be greatly missed. I know he and my Dad are together watching and smiling down on us. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

Laura Beauregard

January 25, 2009

El, Mark, Paul, Beeb, Steven, it broke my heart to lose Ben. I have always enjoyed my time with him. I will fondly remember Ben taking me out in the boat when I visited Mystic, giving me the personal tour of the Seaport and making me an iron plant hanger! He helped w/Connor, and made us excellent meals! He helped keep me in touch w/ other members of the Burke clan by bringing me over to see my cousins in the area that I never get to see. I will also miss our long chats about medicine (of course, he was always right!) I miss reading emails he unknowingly replied to all on his emails that were meant for his boys! He loved them so very much and it was easy to see how proud he was of all of them. My heart is heavy and me and Connor will keep you all in our thoughts. Bumpy, I miss you already! Love Buzz

Jennifer Beau-Catterson(Beauregard)

January 25, 2009

Aunt Eleanor, Steve, Mark, Bill and Paul,
It always brings a smile to my face to remember Ben and his antics while us kids were growing up. How could I not admire a fellow talker! He is already greatly missed. I will hold those memories dear and hold you all in my heart.

Myra Steele

January 24, 2009

I was the last big brother to hold, kiss and pray for you.It is My most treasured honor that it comforted you.Regardless of your humble request my family will celebrate you and cherish your laughter,wisdom and persona in a memorial service and dinner in your honor. all who love you are welcome.Safe passage,Leave a light on for us, always, your baby sister

Skip & Amy Boggis

January 24, 2009

Elli we got a email from Rose saying Bennie was sick. Amy always enjoyed Bennies humor at Backus. We will miss him. God bless

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