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Carl Messina Obituary
He was born March 16, 1923, in New London, the son of the late Frank and Frances (Favolise) Messina. He attended local schools and graduated from the former Chapmen Technical High School. He enlisted in US Navy, serving in World War II. He was united in marriage to the former Isabel Sylvester on Sept. 16, 1944, in St. Joseph Church. Mrs. Messina survives him. He was employed as a manager for United Electric for many years before retiring. He later worked for M.J. Sullivan Auto in New London. Mr. Messina, Sr. was a Life Member of the New London Lodge of Elks #360, VFW Post 189 New London, Sons of Italy and a member of the New London Country Club in Waterford. He was affectingly known as "Zampie" to his grandchildren and great-grandchildren. He will be fondly remembered by his devotion to family, sense of humor and generosity to everyone who knew him.
Besides his beloved his wife of 64 years of marriage, he is survived by two children, Carl Messina, Jr. and wife, Alane of East Lyme and Carol Fahey and husband, Joseph of Waterford; two siblings, Joseph Messina of New London and Marie Bevilacque of Florida; six grandchildren, Jason Griswold, Melissa Messina, Carl Messina, III, Matthew Messina, Bryan Fahey and Dayna McKaught; and eight great-grandchildren.
He was predeceased by a brother, Philip Messina.
His family will receive relative and friends from 6 to 8 p.m. on Monday at the Impellitteri-Malia Funeral Home, 84 Montauk Ave., New London. The Funeral will assemble at 9 a.m. on Tuesday and proceed to a Mass of Christian Burial at 10 a.m. in St. Joseph Church. Interment in St. Mary Cemetery with military honors.
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for Carl Messina
Ron Sachatello
August 4, 2019
Carl Messina was a loving family man who enjoyed everyday of his life having a great family by his side.
I am sure he always knew in his heart this was his greatest gift, and his most desired accomplishment in life.
Patty Plikus
August 11, 2009
Carol, Carl and families,
Uncle Charlie was one of the most wonderful people we know. His smiling face and sense of humor will never be forgotten. He taught us the meaning of family through the love that he showed us. We love him and will miss him so much. You know that we will always be there for you.
Love, Patty, Erin and Jodie
Roberta Malleck
August 11, 2009
We are thinking of you during your time of loss and sadness. May all your wonderful memories of your father sustain you.
Roberta and Andy
Ronald Bevilacqua
August 11, 2009
Dear Aunt Isabel,Carl,Carol and Family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this tough time. Uncle Charlie will be sadly missed. We have very special memories of your family visiting us in Florida. We had so many laughs and good times. Our memories will always be with us. We love and miss you.
Ronald Bevilacqua & John Lewis
Heather Lemanski
August 11, 2009
Carol and family,
I am so sorry for your loss. You are in my thoughts and prayers. May your memories bring you peace.
MARIE BEVILACQUA
August 10, 2009
MY DEAR BROTHER AND FAMILY
YOU ARE ALL IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYERS.YOU WILL ALWAYS BE IN MY HEART AND NEVER FORGOTTEN MY BROTHER. REST IN PEACE. GOD BLESS.
SISTER MARIE AND BEVILACQUA FAMILY
Barbara Cook
August 10, 2009
Marie,
So sorry to hear about your dad. I pray you will be comforted with the wonderful memories you have of him. Just know that our prayers and thoughts are with you in your time of sorrow.
Barbara & Chuck
Ed & Betty Windhom
August 10, 2009
Our thoughts and prayers are with all of you at this very sad time. May you find comfort in your memories.
Joyce Vlaun
August 10, 2009
My thoughts and prayers are with you all during this sad time. May you find peace and comfort in your memories and those who surround you. God Bless, Joyce Vlaun and Family
Ron Sachatello
August 10, 2009
Mr. Messina was a fine man and excellent husband and father. He treated all who knew him with respect and friendship. I know from his good life on earth he will live in eternal peace, and I wish the family the pleasure of his fond memory.
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