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Chun "Harmony" Desiderato

11/1/1953 - 3/25/2023

Chun "Harmony" Desiderato obituary, 11/1/1953-3/25/2023, Waterford, CT

BORN

11/1/1953

DIED

3/25/2023

FUNERAL HOME

Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Home - New London

12 Ocean Avenue

New London, Connecticut

Chun Desiderato Obituary

Waterford - Chun Desiderato of Waterford, passed away March 25, 2023, at Lawrence + Memorial Hospital in New London. The daughter of Ho and Song Park, she was born Nov. 1, 1953, in Gangneung, South Korea. She moved to the United States in 1972, where she resided for the remainder of her life, first in Vermont, and then in Connecticut, where she managed a successful small business for many years while raising her family.

She was predeceased by her loving husband, Otello Desiderato, with whom she enjoyed traveling, attending operas, plays and museums, quietly strolling in Harkness Park, cooking, gardening and entertaining with their many friends and family members. She intensely loved her family and was a daily presence and inspiration in the lives of her children and grandchildren and their many friends, all of whom adopted her as their own mother or grandmother, "Harmony." While small in stature, she was a giant in spirit, and her grace, wisdom, compassion, generosity and boundless energy had an immeasurable positive influence on the lives of everyone in her orbit. She was greatly loved and will be tremendously missed.

Survivors include her daughter Mary Tibbals and her husband, John of Mystic; her daughter Martha Davis of Jewett City, and their father Bill Davis of Griswold; her stepson David DeRaggio and his wife Valerie Raggio of Granby; her stepdaughter Laurie Desiderato and her husband Richard Hook of Bemidji, Minn; their respective children and grandchildren; and three sisters and a large and loving extended family in South Korea and Italy.

The Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Home of New London is managing the arrangements. There are no calling hours. Donations in memory may be sent to the Gastrointestinal Cancers Program Fund at Yale New Haven Health in her name.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Apr. 2, 2023.

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Veronica corbett

March 27, 2025

Always in my thoughts. Miss you. Veronica

Veronica

December 19, 2024

Missing you Chun.

Jo Wheeler Mugford

March 28, 2024

Mary & Martha,
Wanted you to know that our entire family think of Chun(Cookie) frequently and we wish you peace and strength as you remember her. Mom misses their 3 hour phone conversations and her bubbly personality.

Veronica corbett

March 27, 2024

Miss you Chun think of you all the time.

Patricia Fleury

April 24, 2023

Mary and Martha
I'm so sorry to hear of the loss of your Mom, who I knew as Cookie. She was the most kindest person I knew. My condolences to you both.

Veronica corbett

April 3, 2023

Mary I am so heartbroken to hear of of my dear friends passing. I know she is now with her beloved Otello. My love and prayers for you and the family. I will miss her

Nicole Copeland

April 2, 2023

Cookie Emo. Thank you for loving us and being such an incredible woman. You made such a positive impact on our lives. We will always cherish the memories. We love you so much!

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