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David M. Collins

1949 - 2020

David M. Collins obituary, 1949-2020, New London, CT

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David Collins Obituary

New London - David M. Collins, 71, of New London, died Thursday, Aug. 27, 2020, at home with his beloved family. David bravely battled Multiple Myeloma for ten years, remaining strong while successfully participating in multiple clinical trials at the Dana Farber Cancer Center in Boston. Ever mindful and caring, he hoped to contribute to finding a cure that would one day save others' lives, if not his own.

He was born in New London Jan. 19, 1949, the son of Walter and Rita Flynn Collins. He is survived by his loving wife, Kathryn Miller Collins. They recently celebrated their 49th wedding anniversary Aug. 8, and enjoyed a devoted partnership for 56 years.

David was a graduate of New London High School and attended Mitchell College, Boston University, and received his master's degree in Russian history from the University of Illinois. After teaching high school history in Massachusetts and New London, he turned to a career in the floor covering business, working as a business manager, salesman and estimator for B-T Tile, Crest Tile Distributors and Cluff Carpet One. An avid reader with a reverence for knowledge and education, David had many skills and interests. He spoke French and Russian, was a gifted orator and writer, loved Shakespeare and classical music, could provide an on-the-spot lesson on any number of philosophical or historical topics, and was a quintessential humanist. He had a vast set of practical skills that allowed him to completely remodel his modest New London house, transforming it into the family's perfect dream home. David had been enlisted in the Connecticut National Guard and was active in the community throughout his life. He coached his children's soccer, softball and baseball teams, led the New London High School Band Boosters, and most recently, served as a board member for the New London Housing Authority. He endeavored to make the world around him a safer and better place, leading the Southeast Connecticut chapter of the SANE-Freeze organization in the 1980s and 1990s, acting and speaking out against the proliferation of nuclear weapons. David marched for world peace with Kathryn and their children as soon as they could walk. They all hope to continue his pursuit of good deeds for the sake of humanity.

In addition to his wife Kathryn, he is survived by a son Daniel Collins; and a daughter Emily Collins and her husband Michael Filburn. David is also survived by his loving sister Maryellen and her husband Gilbert Bowman, one of his best friends. David was loved deeply by many family members and dear friends; and by his sweet cat, Stormy, a special companion. He will not be forgotten and will live on in the hearts of those who were fortunate enough to know and love him.

Funeral services will be private. A celebration of his life will be held at a later date due to concerns of COVID-19. Condolences may be shared on David's memorial page at www.neilanfuneralhome.com and donations in his honor can be made to the Multiple Myeloma Research Foundation or Beacon Hospice.

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Published by The Day on Sep. 1, 2020.

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Michael J Blasko

September 25, 2020

Kathy, Emily and Danny, My deepest sympathy for the loss of a great guy. Dave hired me in the mid 80's @ B-T Tile. We did not know at the time he would set me on a lifetime career path. His ethics, attention to detail and quest for knowledge have guided me to this day. He has greatly influenced my life and many others. I always enjoyed stopping in to visit with him at Cluff's and laugh about the old days. Dave shall always remain in my thoughts.

Susan Cash

September 11, 2020

Dear Kathy, Emily and Danny,
We are so heartbroken for your loss. David was a shining example of a husband, a father and a friend. We cherish the many years of friendship that brought our families together through kindergarten at Jennings School. Sending all our love.
Susan and Don Cash

Meg Barnes-DiNallo

September 5, 2020

I’m so sorry for your loss, Emily! Much love and support to you and your family during this terrible time.

Pamela Starling-Cluff

September 4, 2020

Kathy,

We were so very sorry to hear about David. He truly was one of the good guys. We will miss him terribly.

You all are in our hearts and prayers.

We love you,

Pamela & Greg Cluff

Donna Dunigan

September 3, 2020

I remember that day at Ocean Beach when Kathy met her Prince Charming. We were just young teenagers enjoying an afternoon at the beach. Who would have guessed that that moment would change Kathy’s life forever. She and David were truly soul mates. David became a part of my New London family and I loved him dearly. He was one of the nicest and bravest people I have ever known. I am blessed to have know him all these years. Kathy and David, Fran and Steve and my late husband and I were and will be “Forever Friends”

Lois Santaniello Kosiba

September 2, 2020

So sorry for your loss. Have wonderful memories from high school.

Pam Mugavero

September 2, 2020

Kathy , Daniel and Emily ,
So very sorry for your loss. Dave always had a pleasant smile and greeting whenever I saw him. He was one of the good ones. May he Rest In Peace.

Len Contillo Jr

September 1, 2020

Richie, Joe and I spoke today about the good times we had hanging with you at the Millers and Sullivan’s. You were a great friend and you and Kathy were the perfect couple. We offer our deepest sympathies to Kathy and your two children/families. You will be remembered our friend! ❤

Pam Metcalfe

September 1, 2020

I am so very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Dr. Bruce Thomson

September 1, 2020

David, Kathy and children were next door neighbors to my parents...and wonderful neighbors they were indeed!
Although I did not know David well, I knew how well he treated my parents!

May Kathy, Daniel and Emily find comfort and peace in our Lord during this time!

Dr. Bruce Thomson

Brian R

September 1, 2020

Dave and I crossed paths for many years during his time in the flooring industry. Great guy. I never realized what an interesting life he lived. Speaking out about Nuclear weapons? Marched for world peace? Heck I didn't even know he spoke French and Russian. I just knew he was a very smart man ,A nice guy .and sold me flooring. His Family and friends were very lucky to have him in their lives.

Peter Roper

September 1, 2020

Nice remembrance of Dave. There's so much more. His leadership in People's Action for Clean Energy to protect us from nuclear power and advocate for clean energy alternative; his deep concern about and efforts to combat the racism that exists in our society; his good humor, concern and support during my bought with cancer; his work ethic and efforts to provide quality products; his love of his family and friends and his interest in their family and friends; his analytical and conversational ability on most topics and his ripping good letters to the editor on a regular schedule. Thank you Kathy, Emily, Dan and Stormy for sharing him.

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