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Debbie O'Connor Obituary
She was born in New London, on May 15, 1952, the daughter of Josephine Dolce Dibble. She was a graduate of New London High School and had been employed as an administrative assistant at Foxwoods Utilities Department.
She is survived by two sons, Patrick O'Connor and Matthew O'Connor of Gales Ferry; and two brothers, Lee Dibble of Waterford and Gregg Dibble of Las Vegas, Nev.
Calling hours are Tuesday from 6 to 8 p.m. at the Thomas L. Neilan & Sons Funeral Home, 12 Ocean Ave., New London. Relatives and friends are invited to attend. The funeral service and burial are private at the request of the family.
Please visit www.neilanfuneralhome.com for directions or to send a condolence note to Mrs. O'Connor's family.
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Memories and Condolences
for Debbie O'Connor
August 18, 2010
Our thoughts are with you, Dr. Goldman and Staff
August 17, 2010
Our deepest regrets go out to you and your family, Michelle. Debbie was a dear, dear friend and we will miss her so. Sorry we cannot make the services because we are currently in North Carolina. We would love to hear from you and see if everything is going okay. Please contact me at [email protected]. Love.
Curt and Marianne Emunson
Andrew Malleck
August 14, 2010
We were friends of your mom. She was a fun loving woman, with a wonderful personality and a great sense of humor. Though we lost touch over the years, we will always remember her with a smile.
Roberta and Andy Malleck
Peter Lawrenclle
August 13, 2010
I still have Debbie's voice on my phone message recording. I'm grateful to have spoken with you recently and I still have that video of us in your kitchen. I've loved you since we met. We did our first homework assignment together and went to public school together and Sunday school as well
August 13, 2010
Josephine, I am so sorry for your loss. You may not remember me but I am Janice Wadleigh from the Ten Pin Bowling Alley in New London, Ct. I always remember your three "kids" running around the lanes. You did a wonderful job on raising them. My heartfelt sympathy to you and your family. Janice
August 12, 2010
Matt and Pat, we are so sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you. ~Dan, Lexie and Wil Velazquez
August 12, 2010
Dear Matt and Pat
We were sorry to hear about the loss of your mom. Please know our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time. I will always remember her lively spirit, love for her sons and her smile.
Albert Sr. Debra, Kamilah, AJ, and Michael Sargent
Jim Swinnerton
August 11, 2010
Patrick and Matt - I just heard about this very saddening news, your Mother was one of a kind and I'm so glad I met her.She touched my heart also like so many other.She will be missed. This tear is for you Darling.With much love,
August 11, 2010
Dear Patrick & Matthew,
We are so sorry for your loss. We loved seeing your Mom at football/baseball games through the years. She was a GREAT lady. She was so proud of you both.
Peace & Love,
Dwayne,Mary,DJ&Derek Berry
Sheri Huth
August 10, 2010
Debbie, I was blessed to have known you, and honored to be counted amongst your closest friends. The world will never be quite as sunny (or friendly or funny) without you in it, and you will be missed more greatly than you could ever know. Thank you for being such a wonderful person, friend, "sister" and mother -- while you may not have been perfect (who amongst us is?), your friendship, love and support were always overflowing and unconditional. Thank you for always being you.
Although my heart is breaking at the thought of your passing, it saddened me so deeply to see you battling illness that I’ll take great comfort in knowing that you're no longer in pain and are simply in a better place, finally at peace. I hope that you’ve met up with your Mom, Mikey and other loved ones who have gone before you … and that you’re basking in the glory of our love for you. And don’t worry about the boys -- you raised them well, and they’re good, honest, loving, strong young men; I know they’ll be just fine and will continue to make you proud.
Take care my friend, my “sister”. Until we meet again, Debbie …
Peace and Love always,
Miss Sheri B
Rick Silvia
August 10, 2010
Friends from high school, friends through life, I hope to see you in our next life. My prayers go out to you and yours. Your friend Rick Silvia
Richard Overholt
August 10, 2010
We were so sorry to hear of your loss. The thoughts of many are with you at this time of sorrow.
August 10, 2010
Hey Dibbs,
We'll always have the project days...May you fly like an angel!
Glenn Hamler
August 10, 2010
I am deeply saddened by the news of Debbie's passing. Deb was a wonderful person, who I had the honor of knowing. She was a true friend of myself and family. A dedicated and loyal worker. Debbie was especially close with my brother Mike, who passed in 2007. She will now join Mikey in eternal rest and may the angels deliver her to the lord beyond those pearly gates of heaven. I'm sure you two are already united as I write. You will forever be missed. We love you!
August 10, 2010
You've taken the journey we all must take
I take comfort and I know
You're in a place, you can share with Grace
I will miss you Debbie
Sha nay nay
Jo P
August 10, 2010
you were the Louise to my Thelma. I love you...
Sue Jacobson
August 10, 2010
Patrick and Matthew I'm so sorry for your loss. Your mom loved the two of you with all her heart. I remember when you were young and came to my house your mom always wrote you each a note and told you to look at the stars and find the brightest one and she'd be there. Remember to look to the stars, she'll be there watching over you.
You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Much love, Sue
Paula Daigneault
August 10, 2010
Patrick and Mattie, Your Mom told me "I can always count on you" and please know I will always be here for both of you. All our hearts are breaking because we will all miss her so much. You both were why she fought so hard and I will always admire her strengh and courage I was so lucky to have her friendship and love. She is our angel now and I believe she is not in pain anymore. Always be there for each other that was her wish to both of you. I love you Debbie and will always remember through all your pain you laughed and lived. I will see you in heaven. Love, Your little sister
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