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Donald Fallon Obituary
A devoted son, he was born on Feb. 23, 1968, in Tuckahoe, N.Y. to Donald Fallon of Mystic and the late Susan M. (McClory) Fallon. Donald was raised in the Groton/Mystic area and was a 1986 graduate of Fitch Sr. High School. He graduated from the New York Maritime College with a Degree in Marine Engineering in 1991. He devoted his life to the Maritime Industry both at sea and ashore, most recently as a Harbor Tug Master in Bayonne, N.J.
Donald's abounding love of life was apparent to all who knew and loved him. His jocular sense of humor and rapier wit was and is a continuing source of joyful conversation among his family and his many friends. He was active in local softball leagues in New Jersey and was an avid fan of the New York Islanders and New England Patriots. But his single greatest joy came from being "Uncle Don-Don" to his three beautiful nieces, Devin, Avery and Maerin Lyon. He epitomized the words of Ralph Waldo Emerson, "...to know that even one life has breathed easier because you have lived".
He is survived by his father, Donald of Mystic; his sister, Kimberly Lyon and her husband, Matthew and their three previously mentioned daughters, all of Groton; and many aunts, uncles, and cousins.
Donald was predeceased by his mother, Susan.
His family will greet relatives and friends from 2 to 8 p.m. on Friday, at The Dinoto Funeral Home, 17 Pearl St., Historic downtown Mystic. A Mass of Christian Burial will be celebrated at 10 a.m. on Saturday, at St. Mary Mother of the Redeemer Church, 69 Groton Long Pt. Rd., Groton. Burial will be in Elm Grove Cemetery, Mystic. A reception celebrating Donald's life will follow at the Groton Lodge of Elks, 700 Shennecossett Rd., Groton.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to his mother's favorite charity, Navy and Marine Corps. Relief Society, 875 N. Randolph St., Suite 225, Arlington, VA 22203-1977.
For information, directions, or to share a note of remembrance/condolence with his family, please visit www.dinotofuneral.com
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Memories and Condolences
for Donald Fallon
Teri Romano
October 25, 2008
Woody,
I am so privledged to have had the opportunity to know you. Thank you for all of the laughs...The Cup won't be the same without you. Last night when I found out about your passing it already felt like something was missing. :-( My condolences to Woody's Family! Love ya Woody!! I'm going to miss you!!!
Teri
Jason Filardi
October 16, 2008
Kim, Fallon Family...
I cannot even pretend to know what you all are going through. So I'll just say I am so, so sorry. My prayers are with all of you.
Julie Goodwin Gallo
October 15, 2008
Dear Kim & family,
I was so sorry to hear of Donald's passing. My thoughts and prayers are with you.
(-=< Ray [Wally] Hamilton >=-)
October 14, 2008
Dear Jocko and entire Fallon Family,
I’m an old shipmate of Jocko’s from the Skate back in the mid-1970’s, but from that “other end” o’ the boat...though we did have stern tubes, too, now I think of it! Though I can’t possibly understand the hole left behind...by a son...still I pray this helps some wee bit...to allow... enable…the grief! So truly sorry to hear about young Don, Jocko. Definitely keepin’ y’all in fond prayers that Christ hold you close in this trying time!
When my mother died, even after a years-long battle with cancer, I was shattered by the loss…inconsolable…she was my mentor! BUT, "If your faith assures you she's in heaven, then what are the tears all about?!?" I hold eternity with God a precious, cherished prize...but...in the interim, the answer lies below...and believe me...I understand the tears often are not nearly as casual as this implies!
SELFISH TEARS
(I eulogize my beloved mother - March, 1989)
Today we cry...must admit they're selfish tears.
You see...our faith assures your journey's done.
But it's not for you we mourn, at all, my dear;
It's for those of us you've left behind...alone!!!
We share your joy...share your happiness at rest,
Your painful fears now for forever stilled.
You've fought the good fight, passed the final test,
But you've left behind a hole that can't be filled!!!
So, until we each rejoin you some someday,
And, while your memory buoys us through those years,
We'll miss you...but continue on our way,
And, from time to time, we'll cry our selfish tears!!!
Ray Hamilton (c) March 19, 1989
My sincerest condolences...fondest, sympathetic prayers,
jill (morrison) greene
October 12, 2008
To The Fallon Family,
I am so sorry to hear about Don, No matter what was happening in school he always made me laugh.
Shar Lechner Wielis
October 12, 2008
I am so sad to hear of Don's passing. We had so much fun in high school. Don was always a friend people could count on for comfort, support and many laughs! I always looked forward to seeing Don at the fireworks over the river. I can still hear him greeting me "Shar Babe" in his big happy voice and giving me the biggest hug ever! I will miss him greatly. Know that your family will be in my prayers. May the grace of God be with you during your time of sorrow.
William Bochnik
October 12, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss. When Bob McLean forwarded the obit to me I was dumbfounded. Your family is in my prayers
Erin and Katie Sherman
October 11, 2008
Mr. Fallon and Kim,
We are so sorry for the loss of Donald. He has touched the lives of many and he was especially good to all of the girls, with his great personality and sense of humor. He always had a smile on his face and was the life of the party. His life will always be treasured. Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Erin and Katie Sherman
Joe & Robin Shelmet
October 11, 2008
May the shining light guide you through the clouds and direct you to your rightful place in haven!
Let’s just hope everyone up there is ready for some crazy fun.
Peace!
Beth Markowitz (Mallory)
October 10, 2008
Mr. Fallon and Kim,
I am so sorry to hear of your loss. Words can't express the sadness. I wish you peace.
Jen Webber
October 10, 2008
Kim,
You have my heartfelt condolences for the loss of Donald. He used to keep me from falling asleep in band with his jokes. I would get in trouble from Mr. Parkinson for laughing.
Keep comfort in knowing he will be with your Mom watching over you and yours.
Very Fondly,
your friend Jen
Jennifer LaPre
October 10, 2008
To our Dearest Jacko,
All of our love and prayers go out to you and your family. You have our deepest sympathy.
We love you,
Jennifer, Joe and Joe-Joe XXOO
Gregg Landry
October 10, 2008
I enjoyed Don as a soccer teammate and friend. Always had the sense that he "had your back", was a very loyal and personable guy. Will be missed until we all meet up again in a better place. Our thoughts and prayers are with his family.
Bob Johnson
October 10, 2008
Jocko and Family, our thoughts and prayers to all of you.
Bob & Toni Johnson
Robin Mantzaris
October 10, 2008
Don was a fun loving individual, who will be dearly missed but never forgotten. My deepest sympathy to Don's family at this very difficult time.
Love Robin
tracy conley
October 10, 2008
kim,
my deepest sympathies go out to you and your family right now. i am so very sorry for this loss, your brother was certainly one of a kind! a loss of this kind is devistating, you are all in my prayers!
tracy (sparen) conley
Glen Graham
October 10, 2008
My deepest sympathy to the entire Fallon Family. Don was a great guy and fun to be around especially during the alumni soccer games. He will be sadly missed.
Coach Bernie Nasser
October 10, 2008
My deepest sympathies to the entire Fallon family...Don was one of my many student athletres while at Fitch Sr. High...he always brought that "sense" of humor to every practice, match, meeting...even after graduation he would call me and we'd spend time discussing what life was all about...I do believe he met RWE in my English class!! I am deeply saddened by his passing, may his soul rest in peace. If there is anything that I can do, please feel free to call upon me.
Marcy McBratney
October 10, 2008
For the past 2 days I've been hoping that our Dear Woody is still here with us! I know in realilty he is not here on earth with us but will always be in our hearts and memories! He was a such caring person and great friend and no one will ever replace him and he will always hold a special place in my heart! Joey and I will surely miss him alot. To his family no words can express our Deepest Condolences!
Kristin McHone
October 10, 2008
I miss you Schmoopie, so very much. I'm thankful for every moment we spent together and for you being there for me. "There is no other Schmoopie, you are MY one and only Schmoopie."
Joan Griffin
October 9, 2008
Jocko and Family, My thoughts and prayers to all of you.
Robyn Wood
October 9, 2008
Woody,
Your laugher and bright smile will be dearly missed. You were truly a sweet and special friend. I will forever hold you in my heart!!
Love Robyn
Kim Sewart
October 9, 2008
To Don's Family,
My husband and I spent quite a bit of time with Don during our college years, and are deeply saddened to learn of his passing. There was NO ONE who could make us laugh like Don could. We always knew we would have a great time wherever Don was present. He was a wonderful guy, and we will remember him always. Our deepest sympathy to you during this most difficult time.
Brian & Kim Sewart
Bev & Paul Czikowsky
October 9, 2008
Woody, thank you for gracing our lives with your kind and generous spirit. We will deeply miss your presence at Norm's annual 4th of July celebration. We take solace in knowing that you will be looking down upon us from above. Enjoy the view from heaven....
You will always be the biggest and brightest firecracker of them all.
XoXo's
Floyd Maher Jr
October 9, 2008
The lose of someone with so much joy is tough. But knowing he is in a better place with his mom will help soften the pain.
Nancy Spalluto
October 9, 2008
I have very fond memories of Donald when he was a kindergartener in my class at Charles Barnum School Room 2. He always made me smile.
With my deepest sympathy during this sad time.
Nancy Spalluto
Kristen
October 9, 2008
The world is a better place for having had you be a part of it and those of us who shared in your life are forever better because of you. Perhaps some more smiles were needed in heaven... You will be missed.
Thoughts and prayers to the family.
Gary Hebert
October 9, 2008
Woody, you will be surely missed. With such an outrageous passion for all things fun how could we ever forget you?! If we learn one thing from you it's how to always live life to the fullest - Don't look back - Full speed ahead. Rock on, my friend
Aunt Sunny Hlewicki
October 9, 2008
DA,
We will miss you always, but I know you are with Nana, Pop and Mom. That is helping me to cope with our loss here on earth.
Our love always,
Aunt Sunny & Uncle Wally
Tricia Volpe
October 9, 2008
with hearth felt sympathy
Liza shea
October 9, 2008
Miss Kimberly and family, I am so so sorry about your loss, just know that i am thinking about you and sending great big hugs.
Love Liza
Debra Varese
October 9, 2008
I am deeply saddened, yet I know that Suzie was waiting at the pearly gates for her deeply loved son.
May the peace that surpasses all understanding be with you and Kimberly and family at this time.
Norman Breed
October 9, 2008
Woody, I miss you very much!! At least we know that you are now bringing smiles to all the people up there!! Say hello to your mom for me.
Phyllis Meola
October 9, 2008
Woody,
My prays are with you and your family. You will be missed.
Love Phyllis
Broc and Kristen Vanderveen
October 9, 2008
We are shocked and deeply saddened by the news of Don's passing. He was a wonderful source of laughter for all that were blessed to know him. Please know that your family will be in our thoughts and prayers.
Dan Evans
October 9, 2008
Woody, take care my friend. May God bless you on your journey to his kingdom. You will always be in our hearts and we will all miss your way of making everyone smile. Ill miss you bro. God bless you and im sure your Mom is waiting for you at the gates.
Jennifer Apes (Rader)
October 9, 2008
Donny was the coolest - I am still in shock!! He was one of the "stud muffins" in my wedding party. He was a friend of Shawn's who made me feel like I'd known him all my life. Our worlds will NEVER be the same without Donny. And I know our little pup, Teka, who was "HIS GIRL" will miss him terribly, too!!!
Patricia Miller
October 9, 2008
Don and family, May it help you to know that prayers and thoughts are with you at this time and always. Love, Patty Miller
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