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Gary A. Dobson

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Gary A. Dobson obituary, 1957-2015, Westerly, RI

Gary Dobson Obituary

Westerly - Gary A. Dobson, 57, of Westerly, finished his last bike ride peacefully on Saturday, Feb. 28, 2015, after succumbing to a valiant six-year battle with bile duct cancer. He was at home being held close by his devoted and loving wife and children.

Born on June 16, 1957, he was the beloved husband of Pamela J. Connors and the eldest son of the late Herbert and Janet (Taylor) Dobson Jr. In his early years, Gary was an active member of the Boy Scouts of America and the Washington County 4-H Program; proudly raising a grand champion steer at his parents' Indian Acres Farm in Charlestown, R.I. Graduating in 1975 from Chariho Regional High School, Gary was a varsity, All-State athlete in soccer, basketball, and track and field. Excelling in the sport of basketball, he became the first Chariho Charger to score 1,000 points, in the era prior to three-point baskets. During the 1974-1975 season, Gary scored over 500 points and averaged 23 points per game.

Attending Thames Valley Technical College from 1975 to 1977, he received an associate's degree in electrical engineering. In 1977, he continued his education at the University of Rhode Island, graduating in 1979 with a bachelor of science degree in electrical engineering. Following graduation, he was initially employed by the Harris Corp., Cheseborough-Ponds, and then began a career with Tek Data Systems as a computer systems engineer. In 2013, he embarked on a new venture, opening Gastroenterology and Digestive Wellness for his wife, where he was the managing director. This opportunity gave his family the ability to work side-by-side, together towards a common goal. The business environment was full of laughter, positive energy, and happy memories.

In 1986, Gary married the love of his life and high school sweetheart, Pamela J. Connors. The two moved to Boston, Philadelphia, and back to Boston, finally settling in Westerly. They have five beautiful and successful children, Sarah, Hannah, Timothy Joseph (TJ), Lauren, and Rachel, all of whom he adored. He was forever proud of their motivation and commitment to excellence.

Gary spread his love for basketball through more than 10 years of coaching his children in the town recreational league and at the YMCA. His exceptional coaching talents extended to the local AAU basketball team, the Ocean State Waves, when his daughter Hannah took a serious interest in the sport. Forever taking great pride in her athletic accomplishments, his coaching talents followed Hannah to the Rhode Island Breakers, where he coached a younger team and was able to travel with her.

In addition to his passion for basketball, Gary enjoyed running, cycling, and photography. He racked up thousands of miles and memories on his bicycle, many shared with his dear friend, Dr. Jeffrey Christian. In 2015, Gary was recognized for his athletic accomplishments and inducted into the Chariho Regional High School Athletic Hall of Fame. Gary was a lifetime member of the Westerly Yacht Club, Christ Church, and a charter member of the Watch Hill Yacht Club.

He will be profoundly missed by his wife of 28 years, Pamela J. Connors, and their loving children, Sarah, Hannah, Timothy Joseph (TJ), Lauren, and Rachel. In addition, Gary leaves behind his sisters, Elizabeth Dobson, Wendy Walsh and her husband, Larry, all of Westerly, and Sylvia Overend and her husband, Steven; his brother, John Dobson and his wife, Kerri, of Charlestown, R.I.; as well as nine nieces and nephews. Remembered as a loving father and husband, his soft-spoken nature and amazing sense of humor will be forever missed.

A celebration of Gary Dobson's life will be held at 11 a.m. on Saturday, March 7, 2015, at Christ Church, 7 Elm St., Westerly. The burial will be private, and calling hours are respectfully omitted.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Gary A. Dobson Memorial Scholarship Fund, checks payable to the Chariho Sports Boosters, mailed to 14 Seabury Drive, Westerly, RI 02891.

Buckler-Johnston Funeral Home is handling the arrangements.

For online condolences, please visit www.buckler-johnston.com.

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Published by The Day on Mar. 4, 2015.

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Randy Kick

May 4, 2015

Gary was a good friend and a colleague for many years at Tek Data. I am sorry to hear of his passing. My sympathy goes out to his family.

Linda Holmes

April 2, 2015

Dear Pam and Family,
So sad to hear of the passing of your dear husband. You and your family are in our hearts and prayers. May God give you peace and bless you all. Thinking of you.
Linda and Joe Holmes

Lori Rygielski

March 31, 2015

May God grant you and your beautiful children strength to carry on through Gary's memories. May the warmth of his love shine down on all of you.
Tricia Richard, Kate and Lori Rygielski

Gina Petrone Slafkovsky

March 30, 2015

Dearest Pam and family, I am ever so sorry for your loss.My thoughts and prayers go out to all of you at this most difficult time.

Joann Spurley

March 22, 2015

DrConnors and family so sorry for your loss may you find solace that Gary is at peace thinking of you and your family at this time

Marilyn McShane Levine

March 12, 2015

With Deep Sympathy, My thoughts are with you, Dr. Connors

Maggie Stewart

March 11, 2015

My dear Pam and all the Dobson family, My deepest sympathies for the loss of Gary. I never had the pleasure of meeting him but I knew his mom and dad plus other members of the family. Everyone is in my thoughts and prayers.

March 9, 2015

Dear Dr. Connors and Family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss. May Gary live in your hearts forever. Peggy Russell

March 9, 2015

Dear Pam and Family, So very sorry for your loss. Tale solace in the loving memories and the time you did have. Gary is no longer suffering and is in a better, happier place. Love, Deb Pinkhover

Marie Dickson

March 9, 2015

Dear Dr. Connors, I am so sorry for your loss. May God and your loved ones comfort you at this time.

Tawny & Lloyd

March 9, 2015

Dearest Dr. Connors & Family:
We are so very sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers continue to be with you, your beautiful children and extended Family.

March 9, 2015

Dear Dr. Connors
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your beautiful family in this sad time in your life. May all the good memories stay in your heart and keep you at peace.
Gail Armstrong

Frank Gabrielle

March 8, 2015

Dear Dr. Connors:

We are sorry to hear of the loss of your husband Gary. Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this saddest of times. He accomplished many things during his time on Earth, and I know you are very well loved by all of your patients and colleagues.

Sincerely,

Beverly Morrone

March 8, 2015

Dr. Conners,
I am so sorry to hear about your husband. My condolences to you and your family. You are in my thoughts and prayers..

Lynn Rhodes

March 7, 2015

To Pam and family,
I am sorry for your loss. May the love of family and friends help you through the days and weeks ahead. I'll be praying for you and your family during this difficult time. May God's love and grace be with you always.

March 7, 2015

Pam and family,
So sorry for your loss. You are all in our thoughts.
The Kulsic's
Lora and Tanya

Connie and Gary Dowrey

March 7, 2015

Dear Pam and all of your family: I am so very sorry about Gary's passing. You have been in my thoughts these past few days and you will remain in my prayers. God Bless You.
Connie Dowrey, Rotonda West, FL.

March 7, 2015

To Pam and her family,
Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
The Kulsic Family, Port Charlotte Florida
Aaron,Debbei,Lora and Tanya

ken jennings

March 7, 2015

Pam and the Dobson family, so sorry to hear about Gary's passing. I remember all the great times with Gary and Pam sailing around the sound and going to Block Island late one nite. Plus all the time Gary I spent at the Westerly Yacht club he was a bartender and was I waiter. I regret falling out of contact with Gary he was great guy. Cannot forget all the good times spent at the Dobson family home. Again my sympathies.

March 7, 2015

To the entire Dobson family,
We were very sorry to hear about your recent loss. I am sure you all have many happy memories to help you through this sad time. We will pray for all of you.
Pete and Leola Zegarzewski (Cookie)

Scott Bill Hirst

March 7, 2015

Pam,
Warm regards and condolences to you at this time as well as your family and Gary's family. I trust you can say you have many fine memories. You had been with Gary a long time. This a testimony to your commitment to each other.
Respectfully,
Scott

Deanna Chapman

March 7, 2015

Dr. Connors and Family,
We would like to express our sincere sympathy to you all on the loss of your Husband. I know how difficult it is to move forward after this but just remember all of the good times you had together. Also, your children will help you keep to going. They will remind you of all that you shared. You will be in our Prayers.
Virginia Staubley (your patient) & Deanna Chapman

Marguerite Capone

March 7, 2015

Dr. Connors, My deepest condolences to you and your family on your loss. You are all in my prayers.

Judi Morgan

March 6, 2015

To the entire Dobson family you are all in my thoughts and prayers. With my deepest sympathy.

Heather Skorinko (Cercena)

March 6, 2015

I am so very sorry to hear of the passing of Gary. I have known the Dobson family for many years. My sincerest sympathies.

betty turner

March 6, 2015

Pam and Family
I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your Husband your in my thoghts and prayers. God Bless and my he watch over you all at this time of need.

March 6, 2015

Dear Pam,
You and the entire family are in our thoughts and prayers.

Jila Khorsand

Heidi Waddell (Oliver's mom)

March 6, 2015

May your husband and father's spirit live forever in your hearts and may you feel his love in the warmth of every sunrise.

Marta Parsons

March 6, 2015

Pam and family, there are no words to express my sorrow for you and your family. My heart is heavy. You all are in my heart and prayers. Pam take care of your self. I know you are a strong woman, but take care Marta Parsons

Dear Dobson Family; May your husband and father's spirit live on. May you feel his love in the warmth of every sunrise. -Heidi Waddell(Oliver's mom)

March 6, 2015

Tom, Amy and Ariel Etheridge

March 6, 2015

Dear Pam and Family,

We are so very saddened to hear of Gary's passing. Gary's calming and always positive approach to coaching the girls during AAU and his great sense of humor always made him a pleasure to be around. Our deepest sympathies and prayers go out to your entire family.

Dora Vasquez-Hellner

March 6, 2015

Dr Connor and family, my sincere sympathy,

Tammy Heller

March 6, 2015

My heart is heavy, very sorry for Gary leaving this earth so soon. Pam you and he created an amazing family. He will be missed by many. What wonderful words written in his honor. I love you all. ♡♡♡♡♡♡

March 6, 2015

Dear Pam and children, am so saddened by this; please know I'm sending you much love and prayers,Gary was a kind , wonderful man. God bless you all,love Deborah Reynolds Browne.

March 5, 2015

Pam and family, we were devastated to her of the loss of Gary. May wonderful memories fill your hearts and minds and keep you strong. Please know we love and care. If we can do anything.... Call. With love from, Katelyn, Kathy and Kevin Colosi

Arthur and Ann Marie Messenger

March 5, 2015

Dear Dr. Connors and family; Our sincere sympathy on the loss of your husband We had the pleasure of meeting him in your office and admired his kindness and personality. May he rest in peace and may your memories sustain you

March 5, 2015

Pam thinking of you and your family at this sad time.Laurie Handley Trombino.

March 5, 2015

Dear Pam and family,
We were so so saddened to read of Gary's passing. We send our love, sympathy and prayers to all. Victor and Mary Jo Orsinger, Delray Beach, FL

Todd Collings

March 5, 2015

Pam and Family, I will always remember Our great Chariho times. RIP Gary

Al & Patti Morrone

March 5, 2015

To the Dobson Family,

We were saddened to hear of Gary's passing. Having seen him at Lauren's soccer games last season showed what a loving father he was. Your tribute to him showed what a wonderful husband, father and friend he was.
Our heartfelt sympathy to your whole family.

Janet & Spike

March 5, 2015

Pam and Family~
We are so sorry to hear about the passing of Gary. My heart is so heavy thinking of you and the family during this sad time. Keep all memories close to your heart and he will be with you all where ever you go. Thinking of you all.

March 5, 2015

Dear Dr Connors and Family
I am sincerely sorry for your loss of your wonderful husband and children's father. You and your family are in my prayers. May God send healing blessings to all of you.
Charlene Miller

Elizabeth Lumnah

March 5, 2015

Sorry to hear of the passing of your husband.. We are curently on vacation in Florida. Our thoughts and prayers are with you at this time of sorrow.

Kristine (Taylor) deMello

March 5, 2015

To the entire Dobson-Connors family my deepest sympathies for your loss. I hope you can find comfort in knowing he is at peace and your memories bring a smile.

Tinamarie Plenninger (Turano )

March 5, 2015

My dear friend Pam, I am so sorry for your loss, my husband and I send you and your family our thoughts and prayers! Xo

March 5, 2015

Dear Dr. Connors & family: Sorry to hear of the loss of Mr. Dobson, MY sincere sympathy. Monday am courier. MeredithPappadia

March 5, 2015

Dear Pam and family,
Our deepest sympathy to you, your children and family.
Asa & Ellen

March 5, 2015

So sorry to hear of Gary's passing. He certainly gave it a good fight. My sympathy to all of the family.
Chris Sayles
Sweet Briar Studio

Pearl and Byron Brown

March 5, 2015

Dr. Connors and Family,

So sorry to learn of the passing of your husband and father. Creator who watches over us saw the glowing spirit that Gary possessed and called him home. Gary left a trail for others to follow and learn from during his short time among us. He will live on in his children for many years to come.
Where we are now Gary was. Where Gary is now we shall be.

March 5, 2015

Dr.Connors, my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.

Steven Chester

March 5, 2015

Pam and Liz, sorry to here of Gary's passing.My thoughts are with you.

Bob Cabral

March 5, 2015

To the Dobson Family: I knew Gary from my days working for Harris in Westerly. Gary was a wonderful guy; always nice to be around. You have my deepest sympathy on the loss of a truly fine person and I'm sure great husband and dad. Bob Cabral

Maria & Jose Trujillo

March 5, 2015

Dear Pam, We've learned about your great lose, and wish to extend our deepest felt sympathy to you and your family.

Karen Cioffi

March 5, 2015

My Dear Dr. Connors, I'm so very sorry to hear of Gary's passing. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

Richard Bennett

March 5, 2015

Pam and family-Chariho has lost one of its best and brightest. I am proud to have shared a small part of his life. God bless you

Amanda (Brown) Walsh

March 5, 2015

Dear Pam and family ... I have known Gary and the Dobson family most of my life .. Gary was truly a gentleman and kind person.. This is truly a great loss for everyone . My heart is heavy..

Lynda Van Patten

March 5, 2015

Liz and all the Dobson and Connors families, I!m so sorry to hear of Gary's passing. May all your memories of such a wonderful person bring you comfort at this time . Deepest Sympathy Lynda (Paull) Van Patten (Naples, FL)

March 5, 2015

Pam, Liz, Wendy, your siblings and families. We were sorry to hear of Gary's passing. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.
Lorna and Brian Caulfield

March 5, 2015

My Dear Dr. Pam,
My deepest condolences goes out to you and your family.
Words are short lived,but your memories last forever.
GOD BLESS YOU AND YOUR FAMILY.

Ken Burton Sr.

Patti, Micaela & Ryan ODonnell

March 4, 2015

Dr. Connors and family, So sorry for your loss. Our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Elizabeth and Steve Dauphinais

March 4, 2015

Pam,
I am so sorry for your loss! My regret is that I am not in RI to give yous great big hug, Steve and I send our condolences.
Elizabeth Dauphinais

Mohamad & Zubeda Homsi

March 4, 2015

Our dear Pam and family,
Our deepest sympathy on your lost, Gary was ideal husband, father, tennis player, basketball player, good neighbor, not enough wards to describe his kindness and his love to people around him,
He will be sadly missed by all of us,
Love always,
Mohamad & Zubeda

March 4, 2015

Dear Pam and family,
Joe and I are so sorry to hear of Gary's passing. Joe has known you both since your Chariho days. Gary's leadership qualities in all areas were apparent at a young age. He was an outstanding young man in sports and academics, and later in life as a husband and parent. He will be very missed by all those who knew him.
Joe & Grace Quaratella- Orlando, FL

jan Mclaughlin

March 4, 2015

Dear Pam and family We are overwhelmed with sadness at the lost of Gary. He truly was a devoted dad and husband. We will always remember the aau memories, trips and the enjoyment of watching our children play. His recent attendance at our daughter's basketball milestone will be forever in our hearts. You have a beautiful family who will keep each other strong during such a difficult time. God bless

Joe and Sally Serra

March 4, 2015

Dearest Pam and all family members, he is now your Guardian Angel up above. God bless you all. xo

Russ McDonough

March 4, 2015

Dr. Connors and family, Irene and I want to send you our condolences on your loss of Gary.
Be assured that Gary and you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers.
God Bless you in this very difficult time.

Sue Daniels

March 4, 2015

Liz sorry to hear of your brothers passing..even though we never met I know anyone related to you is very special!

Donna Turco

March 4, 2015

Dr. Connors, I want to send my prayers and express my sorrow of your loss of your lovely husband. God Bless you and your children.

Melissa Stoehr

March 4, 2015

Dr. Connors,
I'm so sorry for your loss. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

madlin algiere

March 4, 2015

Pam and family & Liz and family- my condolences for your loss

March 4, 2015

Keep him in your hearts, and he will truly never be gone Love and Prayers Pam Schmeelk

Sylvia Gulla

March 4, 2015

Pam- Our prayer is that the Lord will grant you and your family the grace and strength to help you through this very sad time. Sylvia & Dick

Brian and Lyd Neugent

March 4, 2015

Pam, please accept our sincerest sympathies on the passing of Gary. We wish your family peace and comfort in rejoicing in his life well lived and loved.

Pat Cimalore

March 4, 2015

Dr. Connors my sympathy and prayers to to you and your children.May God comfort you in this time of grief.

Joanne Johnson

March 4, 2015

Dear Dr Connors, beautiful children, and wonderful extended family,

I am so saddened to hear of the passing of Gary. I worked with him on occasion at Westerly Jewelry and Dr Connors was my mother's (Jean Watson) wonderful Doctor. My prayers go out to you all and all who knew Gary. The Chariho Family has also lost a member who will NOT be forgotten.
Heartfelt Sympathy,
Joanne L. Johnson

Larry & Peggy Gwaltney

March 4, 2015

Pam, Please accept our condolences for your recent loss. You are in our prayers at this time.

Ernestine Clark

March 4, 2015

Dear Dr. Connors - Jack and I send our deepest sympathy to you and your family. We will keep all of you in our thoughts and prayers. Ernestine and Jack Clark

Lisa Raiche

March 4, 2015

Dear Pam and Family....Words cannot express my deepest, deepest sympathy for your loss....I am so saddened by this and my heart goes out for you and the kids....Gary was the kindest person I knew. Always love coming from our family...

Trish

March 4, 2015

Pam:
My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family.
There are no words to express the feeling I have for your loss. Stay strong my friend and I am here if you need anything.

Judy Hall Gray

March 4, 2015

Dear Dobson family, we are so very sorry to hear of your loss. Jay & I graduated with Gary and you are in our thoughts and prayers for God's peace and comfort.

March 4, 2015

.Med and I would like to offer our prayers to you and your family for the loss of your husband . Med and Paula Page

March 4, 2015

Dear Dr. Connors and Family

I am so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with all of you.

Deb Najim Beaulieu

Emilee Sisco

March 4, 2015

Lauren- Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. We are so sorry for your loss.
Emmy Sisco and Family

March 4, 2015

Dr. Connors and family,
Please accept our heartfelt condolences for your recent loss. You are all in our hearts and thoughts at this time and always.
The Ulricksen Family

Brad Johnson

March 4, 2015

Gary was an admirable man and neighbor. I always enjoyed our impromptu chats about family, sports and life. One of us was usually going or coming from a bike ride or run.

Corinna Toscano

March 4, 2015

Dr. Pam and family-I am so very sorry to hear of Gary's passing. My heart felt condolences to you and your family.

Charles and Diane Kinney

March 4, 2015

Pam
Our deepest sympathy to you and your family. God bless you al. You will be in our prayers.
Charlie and Diane

Pat Hewes

March 4, 2015

Dr. Connors, I am so sorry for the loss of your beloved husband. Prayers to you and your family...God Bless, Pat Hewes

Jim Abbiati Jr

March 4, 2015

Pam and family,

My deepest sympathies. I was so sorry to hear about Gary's passing. You are all in my thoughts...

Margaret (Peg) Itteilag

March 4, 2015

Dr. Connors, My thoughts and prayers are with you and your children. So sorry.

March 4, 2015

Dear Dr. Connors, I am very sorry to hear about your loss. Please know that you and your children are in my thoughts and prayers at this sad time. Warmly, Lori Christensen

Debby Quaratella

March 4, 2015

There are just no words for such a loss. Gary certainly made every minute of his life special. Touching lives of his children, family, and friends in so many ways. Your family are in our daily thoughts and prayers.

Cynthia & Thomas Traendly

March 4, 2015

To Pam and your wonderful family and the whole Dobson family, I'm so sorry to hear of your loss. Gary was a fabulous person. All our thoughts and prayers are with you all. Pls call if there is anything we can do for you..God Bless you all.

Donna Sieczkiewicz

March 4, 2015

Thinking of all of you during this difficult time. Remember you have many friends who are here for you.

Bob McLaughlin

March 4, 2015

Dr. Connors Words cannot express how sorry I am for your loss. My prayers and thoughts are with you and your family

Catherine Naylor-Price Presley

March 4, 2015

To Pam, Wendy, Liz and the extended Dobson Family, I am so sorry to hear of your loss of Gary. He was a great guy and we were all proud to cheer him on at sports events at Chariho. I know there is a huge hole in your lives right now, but remembering the good times and holding his love for you in your hearts will help heal the loss after a time. I will always remember his great smile and his great sense of humor. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Cathee Naylor

March 4, 2015

Dr. Connors,
I was so sad to read of Gary's passing. My thoughts and prayers go with you.
Josephine Ballato

Geri Wiitala

March 4, 2015

Dear Pam and family, so sorry to read of Gary's passing. He was a remarkable man and your family relationship was an inspiration to all! My thoughts and prayers are with you! God bless, Geri Wiitala

March 4, 2015

Pam,
I've heard throughout the years of the wonderful life/family you and Gary had together. Please accept my heartfelt sympathy for this tragic loss to you and your family.

Donna

Denise Arruda

March 4, 2015

Our heart goes out to all of you
RIP Gary
Sincerely
Russell & Denise Arruda

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