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Gordon Tuthill Obituary

Santa Moncia, Calif. - Gordon B. Tuthill, a former executive of IBM, an exceptional husband, father, and grandfather, died on Wednesday, Feb. 26, 2014, at St. John's Hospital in Santa Monica, Calif.

Gordon was born in Gotham Hospital and lived in New York City until he was 8 years old. His family moved to Connecticut where his father owned a spring water company and also several real estate offices. Gordon attended St. Joseph School and New London High School. He began his college years at Worcester Poly Tech and finished at the University of Connecticut, where he was the Cadet Colonel of the ROTC. He joined the Army after college and served as a general's aide in peace time Korea. He returned to the University of Connecticut to earn his MBA.

He is survived by his wife, Mary Lu; his son, Brad and daugher-in-law, Lynn; his daughter, Kathleen; three grandchildren; his brother, Bruce and Sandy Tuthill; his sister, Madge Stephen DeSalles; along with 23 nieces and nephews; and 19 grand nieces and nephews.

The family requests that donations be sent to New Direction for Veterans, 11404 Whilshire Blvd., VA Building #116, Los Angeles, CA 90073 or Loyola High School, 1901 Venice Blvd., Los Angeles, CA 90006.

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Published by The Day on Mar. 5, 2014.

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Amy Joyce Barclay

March 6, 2014

Gordon helped our family through the passing of our father, Thomas Joyce. I was so young but I was glad he was there and I know that my family appreciated all he did for us. I know that he and my father are up there cracking jokes and looking down us. Mary Lu, Bradley and Kathleen I am sorry for your loss, he will be missed.

March 5, 2014

so sad to hear of gordon's passing...we had wonderful years at st. joe's! toni philopena macArthur

Gil Shasha

March 5, 2014

Carol and I are so sorry to learn of the death of a great classmate. He was always fun to be with and our hearts go out to his family.

DIANE BRADY BLISS

March 4, 2014

MAY COMFORT AND PEASE BE WITH YOU AT THIS DIFFICULT TIME.

Judy Anthe Lindert

March 4, 2014

My thoughts and prayers are with the Tuthill family. God bless and watch over you. Judy Anthe Lindert

March 4, 2014

Mary Lu, be assured of my prayers for you and your family. I had the privilege of meeting Gordon twice; he was truly a wonderful and inspiring man. May God's blessings continue to be a strength to you and your family. Sister Charlotte Rohrbach, ASC

Jim and Jeane McKenna

March 3, 2014

Mary Lu, Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family at this time. Gordon was a great guy with a crazy sense of humor. Know that he is in a peaceful and beautiful place now. With love

Shannon Joyce-Peitzman

March 3, 2014

So many fond memories of Mr. Tuthill! The one I cherish the most is the way he helped my family through the loss of my father, so many years ago. Mr. Tuthill and Tom Joyce are having a wonderful reunion party in Heaven right now! Sending prayers of love to Mrs. Tuthill, Brad and Kathleen at this time.
Love, Shannon Joyce

pauline rimp

March 2, 2014

You always put a smile on my face Gordie......I'm smiling right now thinking of you and your sweet ways. I love you Mary lu and send you peace and light.

Jack McCabe

March 2, 2014

Sincere condolences to all the extended
Tuthill family. May your memories of happier times help hasten the healing.
Jack McCabe

Tammy Stehly

March 2, 2014

I feel blessed to have known Gordon. My thoughts and prayers are with you Mary Lu, Kathleen and Bradley.

March 2, 2014

Mary Lu, Kathleen and Brad-- Gordon was a gift to us, always so lighthearted and humorous, how I miss him already. So
Grateful for our time together.
Betty Graham

One of my many cherished lunches with Gordon.

Mike Indgin

March 1, 2014

Gordon often said, "I choose to make this day a wonderful day." I will try to live by his wise words. Today can be of our choosing and truly wonderful if we make it so.

March 1, 2014

We thought the World of Gordon, always a gentleman and so supportive and caring of everyone else even when his own health was jeopardized,,,he was a positive , ethical and kind BIG soul He loved his Family so much, I am so sorry for us all not have Gordon in our lives, Much Love, the Jerde Family

Juan Carlos Terroba Dodero

March 1, 2014

We had the privilege of meeting Mary Lu and Gordon a little over five years ago, when we became their neighbors, fellow parish members and friends. Gordon was always a kind and comforting presence. We are certain that he was a holy man who deservedly is now among the saints and angels admiring and praising the Most Holy Trinity for the ages of ages.
Lorena and Juan Carlos Terroba

Joe Mayer

March 1, 2014

Mary Lu, Kathleen and Bradley,

Gordon was a special gift to all of us. He inspired all of us at St. Martin's to be better for our kids. We all loved him and will miss him. May he rest in peace. joe

Ray Garcia

March 1, 2014

I had the pleasure of working with him at the IBM office next to LAX (1981+). He was a leader as well as a mentor. And he made it "fun" in a challenging business environment. Thank you Gordon.

March 1, 2014

Mary Lu, my heart breaks for you! Gordon was the definition of kindness and his smile and glorious sense of humor could light up a room in a heartbeat. I feel blessed to have known him..so many wonderful memories! My thoughts and prayers, Helen Graham

Kathleen Owens

March 1, 2014

Thank you Gordie for being such a fine, fun and funny man. I will always remember your sweet smile, gentle demeanor and those musical, dancing feet which put your great energy into every party. Keep things "rocking and rolling" in Heaven...exactly where you belong, BIG GUY!

John Osborne

March 1, 2014

Many people more eloquent than I have already "spoken". Don Watson is looking down from above with a wonderful smile on his face!!

Dan Coffey

March 1, 2014

I have been blessed with no shortage of Brothers-In-Law but Gordon was unique. Gordon never met a stranger. He worked the room about as well as anyone I've ever known. We always thought Gordon missed his true calling, stand up comedian. He was one of the funniest individuals I've ever known and his Paul Lynde imitations were the best. Gordon will be missed by all who knew him and loved him especially his immediate family. Our thoughts and prayers go out to the Tuthill family. Gordon now has a whole new audience to entertain. I know he is up to the challenge!

Megan Colarossi

March 1, 2014

You will be missed greatly uncle gordie! Your laugh can be heard all the way from heaven. Love you with all out hearts.

Fred Hess

March 1, 2014

What a great guy. We will miss him.

Petra & Craig Marino

March 1, 2014

Although our time with Gordon and Mary Lu were small, we always enjoyed being with them. Gordon always had a smile on his face! Our thoughts and prayers are with Kathleen and her family.

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