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Hiram Percy Maxim II

Hiram Maxim Obituary

Lyme - Hiram Percy Maxim II, 72, of Lyme, formerly of Farmington, died at home on Jan. 12, 2008, after a lengthy battle with prostate cancer.

He was born Sept. 28, 1935, in Hartford, to the late Hiram Hamilton and Alison (Heminway) Maxim. He was a grandson of Hiram Percy Maxim, Hartford-based inventor and founder of the American Radio Relay League, and a great-grandson of Sir Hiram Stevens Maxim, inventor of the Maxim machine gun. He attended the Kingswood School in West Hartford and graduated from the Hotchkiss School in Lakeville. He graduated from Yale University in 1957, where he was a member of the Yale varsity soccer team. After graduating from college, Hiram was a commissioned officer in the U.S. Navy, and, following his discharge from active duty in 1959, served in the Naval Reserve until 1963.

First employed by the Capewell Company in Hartford, he joined the Wiremold Company in Elmwood in 1966 as manufacturing manager. He was elected vice-president for manufacturing and material control in 1977, was promoted to group vice-president in 1980, and to vice-president for strategic planning in 1986. In 1987, he retired from Wiremold and purchased the John L. Prentis Company in New London, a small reprographic company, and served as owner/manager of the re-named Prentis-Maxim Company until its sale in 1993. He later worked as the part-time production manager for Ashlawn Farm Coffee in Lyme from 2002-2007.

An active volunteer in community organizations throughout his adult life, he developed a strong interest in environmental issues, beginning his involvement in this field in the 1960s before the environmental movement was well established. He served as president of the Farmington River Watershed Association from 1969-1974 and again from 1976-1978, and was elected honorary director of that organization in 1980. He was also president of the Farmington Land Trust from 1974-1978, of the CT chapter of the Connecticut River Watershed Council from 1983-1987, and of the Lyme Land Trust from 1988-1991. He served on the Governor's Environmental Policy Committee in 1970. He was elected to the Farmington Town Council in 1979, serving two terms until 1984, and was the council chairman from 1982-1984. Also in Farmington, he served as chairman of the Barney House Advisory Council for the University of Connecticut Foundation from 1973-1978, and was a trustee of the Farmington Village Library from 1975-1979.

In 1995, Hiram began serving as the Lyme Town Historian, a position which he held until his death. His interest in history and historic preservation was spurred by his move to live full time in Lyme and his restoration of his house there, an 18th century farmhouse purchased by his Maxim grandparents in 1924. As town historian, he worked to restore several of the town's colonial-era cemeteries and researched more than 70 of its historic houses. He recently published a book compilation of his newsletters on Lyme town history.

Hiram was a talented athlete and particularly enjoyed skiing and golf. He was a long-standing member of the Old Lyme Country Club, and wrote a history of the club that was published for members in 2003. He was also a devoted sailor for many years, with a deep appreciation for wooden boats and the old days of the sailing ship.

He is survived by his children, Sarah Maxim (Nobertus Nuranto) of Kensington, Calif., Hiram Hamilton Maxim II (Caroline Rumley) of Atlanta, Ga., and Merritt Maxim (Lefki Michael) of Carlisle, Mass.; and by five grandchildren, Lucy and Josephine Nuranto, Audrey Maxim, and Demetri and Cassandra Maxim. He was previously married to Marjorie Patterson Mead of Farmington, and after their divorce, to Martha Lynch, now of Wilmington, N.C.

His children would like to express their great thanks for the care given to their father by the Hospice and Palliative Care nurses of Middlesex Hospital and by Lisa, Rush, and Daishara, his caregivers at home.

A memorial service will be held at 11 a.m. on Monday, Jan. 21, 2008, at the Lyme Public Hall. Burial will be private.

Fulton-Theroux Funeral Service in Old Lyme is handling arrangements.

Memorial contributions may be made to the Lyme Public Hall Association, 249 Hamburg Road, Lyme CT 06371.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Jan. 15, 2008.

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Michael Gordon

June 26, 2020

Only some good memories of a soccer, sailing

Owl for peace and rest

mary vogel

March 19, 2008

a beautifull Owl from my back yard

mary vogel

March 19, 2008

Hi. My name is mary Vogel I am from Randolph Maine. I have been doing some geneolgy on my mom side of the family, the Wings from wayne Maine. Sir Hiram Maxim is my 4th. great grandfather, and your father would be my 3rd. cousin . Im very sorry for your great loss in doing my rescearch Idiscovered your dad past on in jan. 12 2008. I would love to hear from one more or all of my cousins thank you mary vogel

Sally Allen

January 31, 2008

I will be forever grateful that I was able to reconnect with my friend Hiram after many years. I will miss his gentle kindness and the sparkle in his eye. Hiram was an inspirational, kind soul who taught me the true value of friendship. Our special "Tea Party" date at the Florence Griswold Museum just before Christmas will remain a cherished memory. Love and healing thoughts to the family and friends of a very special man who will be greatly missed. With love to you Hiram, Sally

Anne Haviland

January 17, 2008

To the family of Hiram, I only knew your dad one short month as he came to lunch each day at Savory , for a cup of homemead soup and conversation. Such a wonderful spirit with loving eyes and smile, a brillant man. I shall miss his 1:30 visits. Bless all of you who had the pleasure of knowing him longer.

Marti Maxim

January 16, 2008

Hiram, thank you for many years of joy and happiness. I learned so much from you. I'll miss your wonderful laugh, our awesome hours of sailing and your showing me how much love our little Shelties would bring into our lives. I truly hope you find peace and I know you'll enjoy being back with your Dad. With Love and forgiveness, Marti

Ben Lynch

January 16, 2008

A sad day. I've so enjoyed our communications these past many months. As always, you taught me many things and I am happy that we both enjoyed this sharing. The buried bottle will be our eternal connection. Love, Ben

Gene Lynch

January 16, 2008

I'll remember your straighforwardness and the support you always gave me. I enjoyed working with you so much at Wiremold. You always seemed to be able to make time for me, and others. My condolenances to your family. You are greatly missed.

Randy Spencer

January 16, 2008

I had the pleasure of Hiram's company several times at Ashlawn Farm. I found that his friendship, caring, and graciousness did not have to be earned, but were given freely and genuinely. For all his life experiences and for all the wisdom he had gained, he was yet a man who listened more than he spoke. Always with a smile. I feel his passing far more keenly than one usually does after so brief an acquaintance.

Kate Lennard

January 15, 2008

On behalf of the Lennard family, our regrets on the loss of such a great human being.

Allison Southworth

January 15, 2008

Hiram was a very sweet man with a tender heart. It has been an honor to call him, 'friend'. I will miss him dearly. My thoughts & prayers continue to go out to you and your family.

Pam Evankow

January 15, 2008

Hiram,
You will truly be missed. You were such a loving person with a great laugh. I already miss you!

J. Gayle Cole

January 15, 2008

My Dear Friend:

I will miss our friendship and our constant written correspondence but most of all I will miss knowing you were in my world. I thank you for your leadership, your guidance, and your mentorship during our time at Wiremold. You were a very special man and the world was a better place with you in it. Love and God speed, Gayle Cole (Seattle, WA)

Lawrence (Larry) Laflamme

January 15, 2008

He is agreat loss to this world..
We need more persons like him.
My condolances to his family and friends.
73
Lawrence Laflamme, N1FEH

Edwin Hebb

January 15, 2008

Goodby to a fine sailor,great conversationalist,and an old friend.

Mal & Patty Arenburg

January 15, 2008

We are sorry to hear of your Father's passing. We had many
wonderful times with him in Lyme and Farmington. You are in our
thoughts and prayers.

Lois Adams

January 15, 2008

You will be missed , you touched our hearts in so many ways ways ... such a kind gental soul , Love to you ... your Lunch Buddies , Lois , Joyce , And Erika

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