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Jacob Taft Obituary

Manhattan, N.Y. - Jacob Brian Taft died unexpectedly Sept. 22, 2009, at home in Manhattan.

Throughout his 37 years that included growing up in Noank, and later years in Newport, R.I., Miami Beach and New York City, Jacob rarely left a room without creating lifelong friendships.

Whether it was contributing musical talent to his high school rock band, organizing white water rafting trips to upstate New York, backpacking through Central America, or vacationing with family in Jamaica, Jacob's "Great Ideas" never fell short of a few good laughs and more than a few good memories.

Jacob was a 1990 graduate of Fitch High School in Groton and continued his studies at the University of Connecticut. He was enrolled currently at Monroe College in New York City, where he was an honors student in Hospitality Management.

He worked with Atlantic Stars, LLC, a hospitality company based in Newport, R.I., for whom he was involved with the restoration of historic hotels in Miami Beach from 1993 to 1998, passenger vessel construction in Newport from 1998 to 2000, and facilities management at the Park South Hotel in New York City from 2001 to the present.

Jacob's laughter and compassion will be held forever in the hearts of his mother, Brenda Ashton Scroggins and her husband, Jamie of Mystic; and his father, John Taft and his wife, Patricia of Newport, R.I. He also leaves grandparents, Ken and Mary Taft of Newport and grandmother, Louise Ashton of Uxbridge, Mass. as well as numerous aunts, uncles, cousins and a wealth of close friends.

He was predeceased by his grandfather, Lawrence Ashton.

A memorial gathering will be held at 4 p.m. on Sunday, Oct. 4, at the Eisenhower House, Fort Adams State Park, Newport, R.I.

In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Groton Scholarship Fund, Jacob Taft Memorial Music Scholarship, C/O Sean McKenna, R.E. Fitch Senior High School, 101 Groton Long Point Rd., Groton, CT 06340.

As time goes on, we are left with only the memories that Jake helped us create. May they always be as strong as his character, and as genuine as his smile.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Sep. 30, 2009.

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Matt

December 22, 2021

I think of you often. I always loved making music with you and there was no other guitarist I enjoyed playing with more.

Mary Ashton

October 7, 2009

My thoughts and prayers are with you in your time of grief. May your memories bring you comfort.

June Marshall(Ashton)

October 7, 2009

Brenda,
Recived a letter from your mom today.
So sorry for you loss. If I would have known I would have been there on Sunday. My deepest symathy.

June

October 4, 2009

Dear Jake,

After years of not speaking we were finally rebuilding a beautiful friendship. Thank you for the love and generosity you showed me when I first moved to NY. I will never forget the time I came to your old apartment during the three day black out. My hair smelled a foul odor after days of not being able to wash it. You said, "Sweetie, I have a running shower if you want to wash up." And I said, "Nah, I'm too tired I'll shower later." And then in a pleading voice you replied, "Sweetie, your hair STINKS!" We laughed so hard. I will miss sharing our thoughts about life and love, our movie dates to Kips Bay, eating junk food at Tonic,our magical luck every time we went to an event, and above all I will desperately miss your beautiful heart. May you rest in peace. I look forward to seeing you again one day.

With a heavy heart, I am,
Love,
Karen Arfi

October 3, 2009

I have many memories of Jacob. Too many to list, but a few special ones stand out in my mind. The performance he gave his Grandfather & I. He stood in front of us doing an impersonation of Elvis with imaginary guitar singing Hound Dog. Thanksgiving was great with him. He would enjoy mounds of mashed potatoes & all the trimmings. Then he would put a plateful of food on top of the refrigerator for a nightly "snack". He will be greatly missed. He was immensely loved by all.

Love, MEM

October 3, 2009

Jake, I will always remember your kind heart and your hearty laugh that made everyone happy to be around you. You are missed deeply by many. may your soul rest in peace.

jennifer dahlgren

Gail Robinson

October 3, 2009

Jacob was the most beautiful baby, fun-loving little boy, who grew to become an intelligent, warm, and caring man.
I will cherish all my memories and keep his love forever close to my heart. I will alway be proud and honored to have been his Godmother.
My heartfelt sympathy to Jacob's parents and families.

All my love, GGG

October 3, 2009

Dear Jake, you were the kind of friend that no matter how long it had been, I thought I would see you again. To this day, I talk of you often, think of you with a smile and will remember you always. Loving thoughts and prayers to your family, your friend Sue McNeil-Beebe

JEN FELIZ

October 1, 2009

MY DEAREST COUSIN JACOB, YOU WILL BE MISSED SO MUCH BY ALL.I REMEMBER THE TIME I WENT TO YOUR HOUSE IN CONN.I WAS SO HAPPY THAT YOU LET ME SLEEP IN YOUR ROOM. I WAS AMAZED BY THE DRAWING YOU HAD HANGING UP OF YOUR DREAM HOUSE. THEN THE NEXT DAY WE WENT ON THE BOAT AND YOU CONVINCED ME TO GO ON THE BANNANA THING AND YOU DROVE THE BOAT AND YOU THOGHT IT WOULD BE FUNNY TO GO REAL FAST AND SEE HOW FAR I WOULD FLY OFF THAT THING LOL I SURE WILL MISS YOU ALOT...... LOVE YOU ALWAYS IN MY THOUGHTS AND PRAYS EVERY DAY LOVE YOUR COUSIN JEN

Laura Stern

October 1, 2009

My Dearest Jacob, You are my best friend. every day we spent together at mem's was an adventure. from tree house we shared to the mud pie we made
to rock music we listen to . now part of my soul is gone. now I want you to here our song i will hum it every night in my head for you/ I will see you on the other side by OZZY. love your best friend and cousin
Laura Louise Stern

October 1, 2009

My Dearest Cousin Jacob,,,, wow i can't belive your gone.....there is a hole in my heart... i sure will miss you alot...:( Auntie Brenda I love you alot and hang in there...

donna ashton

October 1, 2009

hi jacob this is auntie donna,remember when you were young,when i used to see you at mems,i liked to hug you,but you were afraid i was smothering you with my brest,then when you got older,you used to tell me that story,you told me now that im older and taller you cant smother me,then you put your head in my brest and shook your head.laughed and gave me a hug.i miss you.you will always be in my thoughts....auntie donna

Martha Weber

October 1, 2009

I will always remember Jacob's fun loving and kind hearted spirit. You will be so greatly missed. My heart and thoughts are with John and Pat, and Brenda and Jamie.

Martha Weber (Denver, CO)

Paul Tobak

October 1, 2009

Jake, I enjoyed knowing you when you lived at Beakhurst on Coggeshall Ave. in Newport. Your father and mother are very proud of your many accomplishments. I can not fathom their loss. I will see them on Sunday at your memorial service.

kate johnson

October 1, 2009

Jake, I can't even begin to put into words my sadness. You were not only an amazing friend, but the best brother, my brother could have ever brought home. Thank you for all you've been and done.

angela downs

October 1, 2009

hi jacob this is anny your cousin....we had alot of ggod memories at the legion ..while my mom played santa...some of us knew that was my mom...but we wanted that big bag of candy..i was hoping to catch up to you in the future make new memeories..i love you...you will be missed by everyone..see you when its my time ..luv anny

Graham Thompson

October 1, 2009

Gone too soon, my friend. You will be missed.

Irene McDonough

September 30, 2009

Dear Brenda & Jamie: We were so saddened to read of Jake's passing. Please accept our sincere sympathies during this very difficult time. May your memories sustain you.

Russ & Irene McDonough

Aunt Sandie

September 30, 2009

Our family chain is broken, and nothing seems the same;but as God calls us one by one , the Chain will link again. Will miss your infectious smile and bear hugs..XOXO

Claudia Morrison

September 30, 2009

You will be miss by all, but you will remain forever in our hearts. R.I.P

My condolences to your Family.

Gone too soon...

Eric Santoro

September 30, 2009

Jake, you were one of my best friends growing up. I have so many fond memories having you as one of my close childhood friends. I'll never forget when I met you in the first grade and you said "you can call me Jake the Snake." RIP my friend, and I'll see you again one day.

Ken Oliver

September 30, 2009

You will always be remembered as a great friend! My deepest sympathies to your family.

Chris Adams

September 30, 2009

Jake your a loss to this world and will miss you!!
Love Chris Adams!

September 30, 2009

THANKS FOR ALL THE GOOD TIMES & LAUGHTER LOVE & MISS YOU AUNTIE TINA

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