Search by Name

Search by Name

James Michael "Jim" Loomis

1941 - 2022

James Michael "Jim" Loomis obituary, 1941-2022, Mystic, CT

BORN

1941

DIED

2022

James Loomis Obituary

Mystic - James Michael "Jim" Loomis (aka Pop) passed away peacefully Nov. 21, 2022, after battling Lewy body dementia. We believe he finally surrendered after the harsh realization that he had stopped "getting better looking every day." He will be remembered for his clever one-liners and so much more.

Jim was born April 16,1941, in New York, N.Y., to Margaret (Murphy) and Arthur Loomis. His early years were spent with his Irish grandparents in Washington Heights. His grandfather instilled in him a love of baseball which resulted in countless Brooklyn Dodgers and New York Yankees games. His high school years were spent in Rhinebeck, N.Y. At age 19, he enlisted in the U.S. Coast Guard and served in Japan as an electronics technician. He was chosen for Officers Candidate School and then flight school. Thus began his lifelong career in aviation.

During the Vietnam War, Jim volunteered for an exchange program with the U.S. Air Force. He was one of a select group of only eleven USCG pilots that flew combat rescue missions in Vietnam. Jim was humble, but proud of this distinct act of heroism. After his Vietnam service, he was assigned to be a flight instructor. He traveled to many USCG Air Stations instructing young pilots. His home base was Mobile, Ala., but he spent time in Alaska, California, and Puerto Rico.

He married Janice in 1975, and was stationed in Brooklyn, and Cape Cod. He retired after 20 years of service as a decorated lieutenant commander. Once a civilian, Jim landed his dream job as a pilot for Wayfarer Ketch Corporation (pun always intended); and he and Jan settled and raised their family in Bridgewater. During the next 15 years, he flew the world with many interesting passengers including the Sports Illustrated swimsuit models. He regaled his family and friends with "elevator stories" of the people he met on his adventures (often in an elevator). When not traveling, Jim filled their home with music and humor. There was no shortage of big ideas, passionate opinions or happy hours. His fashion choices were questionable, his love was indisputable.

Jim spent his retirement years helping his daughter, Genine, open a restaurant, fighting for recognition of the USCG airmen lost in Vietnam, and coaching his grandson in baseball, all while trying to figure out how to operate his latest iPhone. Although divorced from Janice after 31 years of marriage, his quiet affection for her remained, demonstrated in thoughtful gestures, such as the gift of an air fryer for Christmas in 2020. It can be argued that nothing tops an air fryer, but his keen intellect and sharp wit are the gifts we'll cherish most.

We imagine Jim is flying the friendly skies with his loved ones who predeceased him: his parents; his brothers, William and Arthur; his stepdaughter and apple of his eye, Genine Zavala; and his dogs, Harley and Jake. He is survived by his favorite daughter (by default) Sarah Loomis Crawford (Christopher) of Marblehead, Mass.; his favorite stepson (also by default) Justin Primeaux of Noank; his grandchildren, Phoebe and Charlotte Crawford and Ramiro Loomis Zavala; numerous nieces and nephews; his dog Calvin; and an epic vinyl collection. Jim was most recently cared for by the staff of Academy Point and his private aide, Fatao, who devoted himself as if Jim were his own father.

In lieu of flowers, consider treating others with similar empathy and compassion shown to Jim in his final weeks. We also ask that you find time this celebratory season to raise a glass to the one & only, Pop. Graveside services will be held at noon, Tuesday, Dec. 6, at State Veterans Cemetery, 317 Bow Lane, Middletown.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Nov. 28, 2022.

Memories and Condolences
for James Loomis

Not sure what to say?





ROBERT H. DIGBY, MD

August 19, 2023

Deep heartfelt condolences to family and all involved. I just found out now in August, worrying before that I could not contact him. I knew him from my Coast Guard time early 1970s in Mobile , later in the service in Calif and Oregon, and stayed in touch ever since. When my son and I would travel to New England we would stop in at times to see him and Janice, and at the restaurant, etc.
He will be missed, and agree with all the reasons why, as chronicled in the memories and messages above. Well done, Jim.

Bob Berry

December 4, 2022

I was sorry to hear the passing of Jim. I first met Jim when he came to work at Wayfarer Ketch around 1980. We became friends over the years and the 2 words that come to mind when I think of Jim are wit and sarcasm! He always seemed to have both in great supply! My condolences go out to Jan, Justin and Sarah, I am sorry for your loss.

Ken Kelly

December 3, 2022

Sarah, we were saddened to hear of the Commander's passing, our thoughts & prayers are with you and family. What a beautiful send-off and narration of Jim's amazing life, your Father would be very proud of you. The Commander loved his Coast Guard and was very involved until the end, he regularly attended events at the USCG Academy. I met Jim when he owned Zavalah's Mexican restaurant, where he graciously hosted many State Police Emerald Society meetings. Baseball was Jim's passion and he was an avid Yankees fan, often busting my chops about my Red Flops! The last time I saw him was over the Summer at a High School baseball playoff game with my son. None of us had a dog in the fight, we were just watching the boys play on a sunny day. I remember he had his slight Irish grin on, simply enjoying the Game. Jim was a great guy and loyal friend, he will be missed. Rest easy Sir...Semper Paratus!

Ken Kelly

December 3, 2022

Ken Kelly

December 3, 2022

Ken Kelly

December 3, 2022

Sarah, we were saddened to hear of the Commander's passing, our thoughts and prayers to you and your family. What a beautiful send-off and narration of Jim's amazing life, your Father would be very proud of you. The Commander loved his Coast Guard and was very involved until the end, attending many events at the USCG Academy. I met Jim when he was owner of Zavalah's Mexican restaurant, where he graciously hosted many State Police Emerald Society meetings. Baseball was Jim's passion & he was an avid Yankees fan, often busting my chops about the Red Flops! I last saw Jim this Summer at a high school playoff baseball game with
my son. None of us had a dog in the fight, we were just watching the boys play on a sunny day. I remember he had his slight Irish grin on, simply enjoying the Game. Jim was a great guy and a loyal freind, rest easy Sir...Semper Paratus!

Tom Kiley

December 2, 2022

My condolences to Jan and the family. Jim & I flew together for many years and for many of Wayfarer Aviation clients, including Chase Manhattan Bank. We received our type rating together in the Challenger at Flight Safety in Montreal, CA
Jim & I traveled to many destinations and had many laughs and good golf games. He was what I call one of the good guys. RIP Jim

Aaron "Muddy" Waters

December 2, 2022

My condolences to all of Jim's family. I moved to CT in 2015 and met Jim soon after that. He immediately became a friend and mentor. Thank you Jim for your friendship and your advocacy of CG aviation. - Muddy

Ed Hourihan

November 29, 2022

Jim could say more in five words than most men could say in a book!

Daniel Kuhns

November 28, 2022

Good afternoon, I was made aware of Jim's passing by Hugh O'Doherty, a long time friend. I was stationed with Jim at USCG Brooklyn air station. I was also a part of the team that he led on the Coast Guard cutter Gallatin. I have great memories of Jim, his wit and personality made him easy to like.
I am very saddened and will pray for his family.

Tom Sullivan

November 28, 2022

I met Jim because we both had grandsons who played baseball from Little League through high school. A conversation with him was especially delightful because his jokes were better than those of Jack Benny. I shall miss him.

Pete Prindle, USCG (Retired)

November 28, 2022

Jim was our best man 56 years ago and a lifelong friend. I was pleased to help him edit his book on Jacki Ritticher.

Ben Stoppe

November 27, 2022

Jim was my primary H3 instructor at my first CG AIRSTA, Brooklyn, NY. Three local syllabi later - through CP & FP - and I was an acft. cmdr. in the helo I most loved to fly, thanks to Jim´s caring & expert instruction. He even taught me how to perform a one-G (nearly) "rotorover" in the H3 that he said was very helpful to him flying the rivers of Nam, when things became hot. Later, after my stint as PTreasurer & XDIR of CGAA, I worked with Jim in his endless quest to recognize the only CG Aviator to have been killed in the attempt to do a combat rescue of a U.S. aviator, who was shot down. He was a good stick. May he rest in peace. We have the watch, now, Jim.

Rick Taylor

November 27, 2022

I flew with Jim in the Coast Guard. He was a great pilot and mentor. It was a pleasure serving with him.

John Johnson

November 27, 2022

Became good friends with Jim during his time in Bridgewater. We had some great games of Trivial Pursuit. He was always lively, kind, and caring. My heart goes out to his family.

Chris Dewhirst

November 27, 2022

Jim was a thoughtful pilot and a mentor to many younger CG pilots. Enjoyed flying with him and learned a bunch; some of it was about flying as well.

Showing 1 - 16 of 16 results

Make a Donation
in James Loomis's name

Memorial Events
for James Loomis

Dec

6

Graveside service

12:00 p.m.

State Veterans Cemetery

317 Bow Ln, Middletown, CT

How to support James's loved ones
Honor a beloved veteran with a special tribute of ‘Taps’ at the National WWI Memorial in Washington, D.C.

The nightly ceremony in Washington, D.C. will be dedicated in honor of your loved one on the day of your choosing.

Read more
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
The Five Stages of Grief

They're not a map to follow, but simply a description of what people commonly feel.

Read more
Ways to honor James Loomis's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more