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1940
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2020
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James Weitlauf Obituary
He is survived by his wife, Diane Weitlauf; daughter, Sheri (Jay) Cottingham and granddaughter Emma Cottingham; son Jay (Fidelina) Weitlauf and grandson James C. Weitlauf III; son-in-law William (Melissa) Betters IV and grandson William Betters V; and Patrick (Tammy) Betters and granddaughter Bailey Marie Betters.
"Jim", as his friends called him, was born April 8, 1940, to James Roy Weitlauf and Mary Leona Kaufman Weitlauf in Paducah, Ky. He had six siblings, Jerry Weitlauf, Patrica Sue (Kenny) Trabucco, Jack Weitlauf, and Anthony (Roberta) Weitlauf. He was predeceased by brothers, David Weitlauf and Thomas Weitlauf.
Jim joined the U.S. Navy in 1957 and served on surface craft for a few years before qualifying as a submariner. He served on the USS Patrick Henry (SSBN-599), rose to the rank of Senior Chief Quartermaster, and became Chief of the Boat for the USS Benjamin Franklin (SSBN-640). During his last years in the Navy, he served as Dockmaster of Port Canaveral in Florida and retired there in 1978 from the deck of the USS Patrick Henry after having taken her on her 599th dive. He was inducted into the SUBVETS Holland Club in 2012 in commemoration of 50 years as a qualified submariner.
Jim was an avid carpenter who spent his later years building and remodeling homes. He was an enthusiastic model railroader and also enjoyed spending time at the SUBVETS Club in Groton.
Most importantly, Jim was a devoted family man. He was happiest when he could spend time with his children and grandchildren who will cherish the memories they have of his love for them.
In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the charity of the donor's choice.
Calling hours will be held from 2 to 4 p.m. Sunday, July 5, at the Mystic Funeral Home located on Route 1 in Mystic. For those attending calling hours, social distancing guidelines will be in place and occupancy may be limited when entering the funeral home.
Due to the current restrictions, we regret that the funeral service and burial will be private.
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barron farrier
August 19, 2020
Sailed with Jim remember him fondly. My condolences to family and friends. God bless all.
Harry Bjorkland
July 8, 2020
I am very sorry to hear of Jim's passing. Another one of Jim's hobby's was his love of vintage tractors, especially Allis Chalmers model G's. He had several at one time and I was glad to help him bring a couple home for him and help him work on them when I could. He will be greatly missed by the other antique tractor club members and of course, myself. Rest in piece my friend.
Fran Sylvia
July 5, 2020
A truly wonderful man! Knowing him for many years and there are not many others as kind, true and faithful as he. He will be surely missed. Rest In Peace dear friend. Fran Sylvia
Kim Locklear Hodges
July 5, 2020
We were so sorry to read about Jims passing. He was a wonderful friend to our dad, who thought the world of him. We will always remember Jims friendliness, kindness and how he and my dad would tease each other. We wish you peace and wonderful memories of Jim.
Kim Locklear Hodges (Jim Locklears daughter), Chris Locklear and the rest of our family.
Carsten e stigers
July 4, 2020
On behalf of the Officers, men and women of the United States Submarine Veterans I would like to offer the prayers and condolences on the passing of James. May you find great strength in this difficult time.
QMCS (SS) James Weitlauf We who remain behind continue the watch. Sailor Rest your Oar
Carsten Stigers
National Chaplain
United States Submarine Veterans
Linda Costanza
July 2, 2020
Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this sad time, Sheri, Jay, and Emma....
Thomas Snyder - MPRR President
July 2, 2020
The Members of the Mohegan-Pequot Model Railroad Club family wish to offer their thoughts and condolences to the Weitlauf family. Jim was our club President from 1985-1989, was well respected and will be greatly missed. We are here and available if you need anything.
Charlee Liaromatis
July 2, 2020
Jay and family, I am so sorry for your loss. I know your dad will be greatly missed. My family is keeping all of you in our thoughts and prayers. ❤
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