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Jeff "Homey" Holmes

1965 - 2021

BORN

1965

DIED

2021

Jeff Holmes Obituary

Groton - Jeff "Homey" Holmes , 56, of Groton, passed away unexpectedly Aug. 18, 2021. He was born Jan. 24,1965, to the late William and Lynn Holmes.

He is survived by his wife, Kellee; daughter Cherokee; son Tim McAlpine; stepdaughter Brittany Bonang; brothers, Michael, Dennis and Paul; a cousin, Steve Coffel who was more like a brother to him; brother and sister-in-law Matt and Lisa McCauley; and several nieces and nephews.

Jeff will always be remembered for being sharp-witted and going out of his way to make people smile and laugh throughout his day. He enjoyed people laughing at him as he always would say, "if someone is making fun of me, then they are leaving someone else alone."

Jeff never denied anyone a favor and would give his last dollar and/or his shirt off his back.

A Celebration of Life will be celebrated from 4 to 8 p.m. Sunday, Aug. 29, 2021, at Washington Park (Pavilion 1) in Groton.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Aug. 25, 2021.

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Jackie Gill.

August 19, 2024

You will always be missed Homey. I miss your sense of humor and your kind heart. We all were blessed to have you in our lives. God bless you. Until we meet again, Love you. Aunt Jackie.

Dawn Paige

August 29, 2021

My thoughts to Jeff´s family. He was truly a good guy who made everyone feel good. You will be very missed Jeff.

Jackie GILL

August 25, 2021

Homey, I will always remember you with fondness. I will always remember your sense of humor and your big kind heart. You will be missed. Love you. Aunt Jackie.

kathleen l wiech

August 25, 2021

My heart breaks for you, Cher, Britt and the family. I will always remember his sense of humor, and how much he loved ya'll. Praying God is with you during this difficult time. Sending love and hugs. RIP Homey.

Sean M. Griffin

August 25, 2021

Very sorry for your loss. He will always be remembered from our Long Hill days.

STEVE Coffel

August 25, 2021

To my most loved and favorite cousin...RIP Jeff !!! You will truly be missed !!!

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