Search by Name

Search by Name

John Carey Obituary

Pawcatuck - John A. Carey, 84, of Pawcatuck, passed away peacefully at Westerly Hospital surrounded by his family Wednesday, Jan. 11, 2023. He was born in New Haven, to the late Conrad and Shirley (Stiles) Carey. He attended local schools in Meriden, and was a graduate of Meriden High School.

Following his high school education, John attended UConn earning his bachelor's degree in business management. He was employed in various management positions at Electric Boat in Groton, AVCO-Lycoming Division in Stratford, UNC Aerospace Division, Norwich, and UNC Naval Products in Uncasville. His nineteen years with UNC was the most rewarding work experience throughout his long career.

John is survived by his two daughters, Anna Carey of New London, and Amy Arruda and her husband, Raymond, of Pawcatuck; his granddaughters, Kalie, Brooke and Miranda Arruda; and a great-granddaughter. He is also survived by his two sisters, Pamela Carey of Holderness, N.H. and Lynn Gildersleeve of Westbrook. He was predeceased by his brother Walter Carey. John also leaves nephews, a niece, a great-nephew, and great-niece.

John loved traveling, visiting 31 of the 50 states, plus many foreign destinations such as Canada, Bermuda, Ireland, Northern Ireland, England, Wales, Scotland, France, Belgium, the Netherlands, Germany, the Czech Republic, Austria, Hungary, Italy, Switzerland, Luxembourg, Liechtenstein, Greece, and Egypt.

His family will receive relatives and friends from 10 a.m. to noon Saturday, Jan. 28, with a time of sharing words of remembrance beginning 11:15 a.m. at the Mystic Funeral Home located on Route 1 in Mystic. John's burial will be held privately in Westbrook, later. In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation in his memory to Alzheimer's Association, Donate to Fight Alzheimer's Disease www.act.alz.org. Please visit www.mysticfuneralhome.com to leave a note of condolence.

To plant trees in memory, please visit the Sympathy Store.

Published by The Day on Jan. 22, 2023.

Memories and Condolences
for John Carey

Sponsored by Mystic Funeral Home.

Not sure what to say?





3 Entries

Barbara Thompson

January 26, 2023

I worked with John at UNC in HR, and remember him for his brilliant mind in investments, and his quirky sense of humor. He was a great guy, always took time to advise and talk with the employees.

Single Memorial Tree

Roberta Ritchie

Planted Trees

RICH MOREASH

January 22, 2023

John, Rich Norman and I use to work out together when we worked at UNC together, he was a super guy in a very quiet way and was a good friend.

Showing 1 - 3 of 3 results

Make a Donation
in John Carey's name

Please consider a donation as requested by the family.

Memorial Events
for John Carey

Jan

28

Visitation

10:00 a.m. - 12:00 p.m.

Mystic Funeral Home

51 Williams Ave. Route 1, Mystic, CT 06355

Jan

28

Service

11:15 a.m.

Mystic Funeral Home

51 Williams Ave. Route 1, Mystic, CT 06355

Funeral services provided by:

Mystic Funeral Home

51 Williams Ave. Route 1, Mystic, CT 06355

How to support John's loved ones
Attending a Funeral: What to Know

You have funeral questions, we have answers.

Read more
Should I Send Sympathy Flowers?

What kind of arrangement is appropriate, where should you send it, and when should you send an alternative?

Read more
What Should I Write in a Sympathy Card?

We'll help you find the right words to comfort your family member or loved one during this difficult time.

Read more
Poems of Mourning and Comfort

The best poems for funerals, memorial services., and cards.

Read more
Resources to help you cope with loss
How to Cope With Grief

Information and advice to help you cope with the death of someone important to you.

Read more
Estate Settlement Guide

If you’re in charge of handling the affairs for a recently deceased loved one, this guide offers a helpful checklist.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituaries, grief & privacy: Legacy’s news editor on NPR podcast

Legacy's Linnea Crowther discusses how families talk about causes of death in the obituaries they write.

Read more
Ways to honor John Carey's life and legacy
Obituary Examples

You may find these well-written obituary examples helpful as you write about your own family.

Read more
How to Write an Obituary

Need help writing an obituary? Here's a step-by-step guide...

Read more
Obituary Templates – Customizable Examples and Samples

These free blank templates make writing an obituary faster and easier.

Read more
How Do I Write a Eulogy?

Some basic help and starters when you have to write a tribute to someone you love.

Read more