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BORN
4/27/1956
DIED
7/12/2025
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Joseph Apicelli Obituary
He is survived by his sister, Rita Apicelli of Groton; his niece and nephew, Shannon Windisch Pociu of Cheshire, and Michael Windisch of San Francisco, Calif., and their families.
A funeral Mass will be held at 10:30 a.m. Friday, July 25, at Sacred Heart Church, 56 Sacred Heart Drive, Groton. In lieu of flowers, donations in Joe's honor may be made to the American Red Cross or the American Heart Association. The full obituary is published at www.byles.com.
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Melody Jackson
July 24, 2025
Worked next to Joe for a short time many years ago at Foxwoods. Always had a contagious smile. Rest in Peace. Melody
Tracey St. Louis (Clarke)
July 24, 2025
Rita and Shannon, I am shocked to read this. "Uncle" Joe was an amazing man! He will be sorely missed in this world. i would pass him by often on the streets of Groton and he would put a smile on my face (even though he didn't know it) thinking of the times we all had together, on the cape and in groton. My thoughts and prayers are with you today and always , Tracey
Pamela Britagna
July 23, 2025
Joe you were always so kind. May you rest with the Angels.
Maria Cerino
July 23, 2025
Dear Rita,
We are all so very sorry for your loss of your brother and best friend. May you find strength in your many happy memories to keep you going. Thinking of you!!
Maria Cerino
Linda Hunter
July 22, 2025
Rita I am so so sorry to hear this sad news! I have so many fond memories of Joey from Sacred Heart, California, hanging out on Morse Ave...It was always so great to bump into him when I was in town. He was such a happy-go-lucky person and will be missed by so many. Sending you and your family love, hugs, and my deepest condolences.
Deb McDuffee
July 22, 2025
Rita and Family, I am so very sorry to hear of Joe's passing. I worked with him at Foxwoods. Rita, you and I spoke several times and I stopped by the house a few times after Joe's accident. My deepest sympathy to you and your family. Deb McDuffee
Marie Marcheterre
July 22, 2025
I had the pleasure of working with Jo back in the early days of Foxwoods. We worked together for many years and shared many conversations about life. He was always bursting with energy and always made those around him smile. He was a gem and made an incredible impact on the world. May he rest in peace
Linda Martin
July 21, 2025
“Joey” as I knew him in elementary school at Sacred Heart School and “Joe” at St. Bernard’s High School; was always smiling and kind to everyone. I’m so sad he’s no longer with us. He will be missed.❤
Andrew Parrella
July 21, 2025
Rita-
Sorry to hear of Joe’s passing. He was like a ray of light during those dark days sending positive vibes to everyone. May he rest in peace.
Tammi Perry Stanley
July 21, 2025
I fondly remember Joe from my days/nights at Sneekers Cafe. What a joy. What a kind man. You will be missed, my friend.
Ashley Chalifour
July 21, 2025
Only recently did my husband and I start to get to know Joe through seeing him out in his yard while on our dog walks. It was always lovely and enlightening conversation. Truly sorry to hear of his passing and sad that we won't get the chance to have more of those interactions. Sending our deepest sympathies to Joe's family.
Lauren Phillips
July 21, 2025
Rita, I am so very sorry for the loss of Joe. He was such a delight. He always had a smile on his face. He was always ready to lend a helping hand. I am devastated by his loss. May God comfort you during this difficult time.
Bill Satti
July 21, 2025
Rita, Joe was a great man and funny as ever. Loved our time together in high school and it was great to reconnect at work.
May he rest in peace.
Carol Case
July 21, 2025
Rita, I was so sad to read that your brother and best friend Joe passed away. My deepest sympathy to you.
ALFRED PARKER MAYO
July 21, 2025
Joe has a love for helping people no matter where they live. In school and around neighborhood he was well liked for many reasoning. No matter where he went for the Red Cross he was doing the will of GOD. The hope he gave to others with pray and needs doing his job . May GOD bless him as we bless him for given his all.
Jon morton
July 20, 2025
Sorry for your loss Rita. Prays for you. JON MORTON
Terry McEntee
July 20, 2025
Rita & Family, There are no words other than Joe was taken from us much too soon and the SF 49er's lost their greatest fan. Rest in Peace to my brother Joe, Terry
Bernie Nasser
July 20, 2025
Rita and Family:
I was deeply shocked by the loss of Joe! We just had a great conversation at EPB, recalling the days of yore!! As he lived a life dedicated to helping others, Joe will always be remembered for his never ending love and care for those around him. Rita, as you well know, I will always be here for you! Joe, my friend, may your soul rest in peace. Godspeed, my brother!
Nancy `Parizo´ Blair
July 20, 2025
So sorry to hear this. Hands down, the Best Bartender and Red Cross advocate. Joe was such a funny guy.
Sending Rita heartfelt sympathy at this devastating time.
Rest in peace Joe.
Robert Longo
July 19, 2025
Rita, Debbie and I are so very sorry to hear about Joseph’s passing. He was such a great person and a fun cousin to grow up with. I have many fond memories of Joseph, he will be missed greatly. Rest in peace cousin.
Debbie Lau
July 18, 2025
Rita – we are just devastated to learn of Joe’s passing and are deeply sorry for your loss. He was such a kind and gentle man. He was always so welcoming when we entered Sacred Heart Church. And his cooking was amazing! We always enjoyed whatever he prepared. We are keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers. Debbie, Scott and Meaghan
LEE ANN OLEXY
July 17, 2025
Rita I am so sorry to hear about your brother's passing ,what a wonderful soul, love and prayers to you and your family.. sincerely Lee Ann Olexy
Bruce Vesloski
July 17, 2025
Can't believe it just spoke to you on July 10 RIP my fellow Red Crosser
lucy angliker
July 17, 2025
He was quite a guy. Rita, I am so sorry for your loss of Joe. May your memories help you through this difficult time.
Michele Grasser
July 17, 2025
Rita, I am so so sorry to hear of Joe's passing! You know how much I loved his aftershave . I will miss that. Please take care and know I am thinking of you. So many great memories.
Nancy Franceschi
July 16, 2025
You will truly be missed! Thank you for your services. It was always great working with you and seeing you smile while helping those in need.
Dianne Kexel(Morton)
July 16, 2025
Joe was always a good kid ,he had a wonderful family at his side. God Bless to him and his family.Prayers are with you all.
Cherrie Buscher
July 16, 2025
To Rita and family,
So sorry to hear of the passing of Joe. Prayers for you and his family and friends.
Todd Chrisman
July 16, 2025
I worked with Joe in California fires. Great person to know and work with RSP My friend
Brooke Thompson
July 16, 2025
I got to work with Joe when we both volunteered to feed on a disaster operation. Great man and I am honored I got to meet him. Prayers of comfort to all his family.
Steve Price
July 16, 2025
Such a blessing to call Joe a friend for the past 16 years. Amazing man who left a legacy of helping others that will be impossible to forget. I always enjoyed his warm demeanor, genuine care for others and great conversation. If "paying it forward" had a spokesman, Joe was the chosen one. May he rest in eternal glory.
We will always carry you spirit with us, You are loved by so many and missed Dearly. Fly high my warrior. <br />
Nikki Wright
July 16, 2025
Dee Binder
July 16, 2025
Joe was such a blessing to those he served and to those of us who called him “friend”! He knew no strangers and greeted everyone with his warm smile and humor! We would all look forward to seeing him on deployments because no matter what was going on, he made things better! He truly was part of our family and will be greatly missed!
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